The older I get, the more I realize...

[paposeco]

..the more I realize that, a
Truefriends, like true Love, are like the "needle in the haystack".
That too many people are full of sh!t.
That some people expect'unconditional love', but aren't willing to return the favor.
That Less is More.
That money is good to have but, not the best to aquire.
That people who make Laziness a life style, reeeeeeally annoy me.
That people who say, "I swear..." may infact be lying.
That animals, are smarter than some folks I know.
That God has a weird sense of humor.
That God has Always been my constant.
That 'high maintenance' persons are, 'not all that'. (take away the props, and they're no better than anyonelse)
That Life gives you, for the most part, what you expect of it.

[BornBronson]

What's real and what's,well,BULLSHIT!.

What's worth fighting for and what's worth walking away from,if only to save your own sanity.


Life is sweet.Yeah right.

:beerfunnel:

[Blade]

The older I get the more I realize...tis true...this too shall pass

[Gentle Tiger]

The older I get the more I realize that I, like life must move forward and not backwards. I cannot move forward if I am constantly looking backwards.

[bigbutchmistie]

That I will never sacrifice my old fashioned values and morals to date someone who doesnt have them .

That I will never regret the loves that Ive had. They have taught me what I want and desire from a partner

That life is short. Love the ones who matter forget about the ones who dont care about you.

If someone shows you who they really are believe them.

Watch someone's actions more than their words. Actions speak louder

Children keep me humble

Love deeply as well as intensely

Im a great catch and one day someone will realize it... :)

[Gentle Tiger]

The older I get the more I realize there's nothing new under the sun, no matter how it's wrapped.

[Blade]

the older I get the more I realize that summer seems much longer and much hotter than when I was a child and winter seems much colder and much quicker too.

[AtlantaButch824]

I feel the same way. When I was growing up, you seldom heard of family members killing other family members. 911 was a huge wakeup call for me, that we no longer can take our freedom and security in this country for granted.

[Nina]

The older I get, the more I realize that Good things can happen unexpectedly, as well ! Nice.

[miss entycing]

the older I get, the more I realize........

my bitch switch trips way easier than it used too- I used to be 'the nice one'

that I really deserve far better than I allow myself.

that old school values are few and far between.

that its rare to have a true friendship that is always unconditional, and when trouble comes to a friend, thats NOT when the other jumps at the chance to cross a line! done-game over.

that I really do need to make some heavy changes- to hell with the price.

that it should never amaze me when people talk a good game, up till its time to back it.

blah blah blah
whatever.

[Blaze]

The older I get the more I realize:
Patience isn't a virtue, it's a learned talent.:praying:
Tolerance isn't a given, it's something you have to learn and practice.:blink:
Love isn't just an expression, it comes from deeper sources.:rrose:
Sharing isn't expected, but should be taught that it is.:|
Compassion is harder to find now that socialism is so prevalent. :blink:
And long winded people like me, need to take a deep breath some times. :tea:

[Blaze]

You know your to dang old when your closet has more uniforms than a uniform shop!
And to top it off, you love having a uniform, it beats going shopping in a real mall....
Dang that's old...
Call the fashion police :police:

[JakeTulane]

That everything truly does happen for a reason. Always keep your doors and windows open.

[Apocalipstic]

The more I see that people can say whatever, and other people will believe them.

[Wryly]

that I can't drink like I used to - - - which was never very much. :seeingstars:

[morningstar55]

i know at my age im so set in my ways.......
is it possible to to have hot dates with no strings??
ha a girl has her needs ya know... its just at 55.. we are all set in our ways.. right?
Is it possible to find someone whom will except your habits, quirks, as much as you except theres??
is it possible to date someone steady but live in your own place alone with out wanting to move in with each other??

[Nina]

the older I get, the more I realize that getting older is the best thing that's ever happened to me...what a Liberation...the fact that I crack myself up doesn't hurt, either ;>

[bigbutchmistie]

The older I get the more I realize :

That all the career status, material things do not matter if you have no one to share them with.

[asphaltcowboi]

that history has a tendency to repeat its self.
when you lay down with someone your laying down with thier past. its best to except it as the past an move forward.
that alot of people will tell you what they think you want to hear and not the truth.
that alot of people will tell lies about others to make themselfs feel better and for no ther reason.
that people prey on the drama of a sad situation putting there 2 cents in then fixing the stoy to be more exciting then it really is.
that the longer i let my anger linger the more time im waisting on positive.
that there is always three stoyies to a break up his/butch side, her/femme side.. then theres the truth.
that i cant make myself love someone if it wasnt there.

[Gemme]

TOIGTMIR....other people's ignorance about me is laughable and nothing to get upset about.

[JustBeingMe]

TOIGTMIR: I am not as young and limber as I used to be and getting up off the ground or from a kneeling position wreaks havoc on my back and knees.

[BestButchBoy]

I admit it. It's hard to hold my interest. Even when I was younger [perhaps even more so then?]. It's not that I don't want to be interested, mind you, I do, it's just not that easy to capture my attention. And now that I'm, well, more seasoned [sounds like I'm a piece of meat, and some circles I might just be that. ; )], shall I say; I can't tell you how uninteresting I can find any subject in the hands of a self-absorbed, unconscious person.

I don't need much - just someone, who is paying attention, present, conscious.

Does this make me a misanthrope?

[Ms. Tabitha]

Slipping on a wet floor and falling hurts a lot more.

:blink:

[JustBeingMe]

TOIGTMIR.................
The HEAT here wreaks havoc on me and it's so much easier for me to dehydrate myself .

PS. I am NOT in the kitchen. lol

[ravfem]

....i'm ok being "real"...

[JustBeingMe]

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[JakeTulane]

That being true to yourself works.. and to let nothing nor no one take that away from Me.

[chefhmboyrd]

that i love me some me.......

and there is nothing wrong with that.......

we are taught all our lives that we have to love ourselves before we can truly love others. well i have mastered the first part. i spent a long time hating myself.... (now that i am my true self, i feel much better)

don't get me wrong, just because i love me doesn't make me an arrogant asshole. i know i am not the best looking, smartest, funniest, most charming, most talented person in the world...... but i think i am pretty cool. and i have lots to offer my friends and family as far as love and support and fun times.

i can be a cocky bastard sometimes, but for the most part i am a sweet well adjusted man who loves to make people happy.

**I** believe that if more people loved themselves at least as much as i love me there would not be so much hate and jealousy in the world, because everyone would be secure in themselves.
what more could you want?

@

[Sunny]

Life goes around in circles. Big circles little circles........just circles

[Gentle Tiger]

...it is delusional to think that anyone is 100% independent. And it's not a bad thing or a sign of weakness to need someone.

[skeeter_01]

TOIGTMIR: that having a relationship with myself and my higher power is MUCH more important than having a relationship with another person...
skeet

[dixie]

~I am confident in my abilities and in the choices I make.

~There are things that I require in my life, and of those who wish to be in my life.

~I deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

~I will not tolerate abuse from any source.

~I am a strong confident woman who knows what she wants out of life.


Those are just a few of the many things I've been realizing. :)

[Lillie]

that Karma is REAL...and that I am very happy that I am the woman I am today!..I am proud of ME

[theoddz]

The older I get, the more I realize how precious home is. :winky::thumbsup::stillheart:

I want to hug my house. :|

:twitch:

Okay.....I'll settle for stripping down to my underwear, cranking the a/c and hanging out with my frogs. :winky::heartbeat::frog::frog::heartbeat:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

[scootebaby]

the older i get the more i realize..........


my patience level is MUCH lower than it used to be

my body just cant perform like it used to

i dont need to be liked by everyone

i dont need to make everyone else happy

some things arent even worth the effort

others try to make you look bad to deflect attention from themselves

i AM an asshole,and i dont mind!

[Kenna]

TOIGTMIR...
That I must let go of frustration, disappointment, resentment, and other emotions that make my head want to explode... or else it will consume me and I can't get anything productive done.

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TOIGTMIR...
That some individuals will never "grow up" and take care of responsibilities or proper priorities...and that it's not my job to pick up the pieces or be the caretaker/responsible adult. I must break the cycle of co-dependency. I must STOP trying to rush in and "fix" everything. All my life I've been the caretaker....it's time to take care of me.

[Stacy]

That most people don't like you nearly as much as they say they do and will stop being your friend over the most minor infraction, so hang on to the true friends. Cherish the ones that'll be there through the rough patches, and let the rest go. Life is far too short to waste on pseudo friendship.

[SelfMadeMan]

That most people don't like you nearly as much as they say they do and will stop being your friend over the most minor infraction, so hang on to the true friends. Cherish the ones that'll be there through the rough patches, and let the rest go. Life is far too short to waste on pseudo friendship.

Ohhhhh so true!

I've learned that you are ultimately responsible for what you allow others to do to you. If you allow others, regardless of who they are, to continually disrespect you and treat you poorly, then you are just as much to blame for the hurt it causes.

[Pixie]

I have learned that a good bed, can infact, make a difference in your day!

[Laerkin]

TOIGTMIR...

...that life is short, so do what makes you happy.

...that adventure is good for the soul, so try something new at least once a day.

...how right my parents were about so many things...I sure took those long summers away from school with nothing to do for granted.

...everybody farts, so you might as well laugh about it.

...there is never any excuse for bad manners, rudeness, or treating someone else poorly.

...that there is no such thing as laughing too often or too loudly.

...it's the people that can't let go of the past that suffer the most, so I practice letting go and surrendering to the present as much as possible. Nothing is more empowering than sloughing off the old and starting new each day.

...that there are so many people here with words that inspire me daily. :)

[Jet]

...never buy anything you can't flip burgers for.

[Wryly]

. . . . . that I don't need all the "things" (material possessions) that I thought I did.

. . . . . that getting rid of the clutter in my life is liberating.

. . . . . that it is getting easier to walk away from people who claim to be a friend but act otherwise.

. . . . . that Tootsie Rolls are a good any-time food.

. . . . . that my heart may bruise but it hasn't stopped hoping.

[Jude]

Ohhhhh so true!

I've learned that you are ultimately responsible for what you allow others to do to you. If you allow others, regardless of who they are, to continually disrespect you and treat you poorly, then you are just as much to blame for the hurt it causes.
______________________________________

What you get out of life is what you choose. How you are treated by others (and how you treat others) is a direct reflection of your belief in your own self worth. Truly self-actualized people have no need to treat others with cruelty. If we feel that we need to be better than somebody else, that's an internal flaw within ourselves.

Learning to "GET OVER IT" is a terrific way to conduct ones life.

Not everybody we meet and know is going to like us, and SO WHAT?

So what is also what's so!!!

[Jude]

TOIGTMIR...
That some individuals will never "grow up" and take care of responsibilities or proper priorities...and that it's not my job to pick up the pieces or be the caretaker/responsible adult. I must break the cycle of co-dependency. I must STOP trying to rush in and "fix" everything. All my life I've been the caretaker....it's time to take care of me.[/CENTER][/COLOR][/FONT][/SIZE][/QUOTE]

____________________________________

Nobody saves anybody else. We either do or don't save ourselves.

[JustBeingMe]

TOIGTMIR................
that some people in the world will do whatever it takes to make another human being's life miserable.
It's sad, but true. I wish it weren't this way, but there are folks out there that strive on the drama they cause for others lives.
Just sayin....

[AtLast]

I realize that every "era" ends up thinking that the younger generations have no idea what "we went through."

LOL, it is kind of fun to see your own kid begin to say that about your grand kids!!!

I am glad, however, that I did't turn into a negative older person about younger people. We have a lot to give each other.

[Jude]

I realize that every "era" ends up thinking that the younger generations have no idea what "we went through."

LOL, It is kind of fun to see your own kid begin to say that about your grand kids!!!

I am glad, however, that I did't turn into a negative older person about younger people. We have a lot to give each other.

-------------------------
AtLastHome, what's more fun is to utter the eternal prayer in the presence of your own child: "May your child grow up to put you through all the crap you put me through." And then watch it unfold.

The flip side, however, is coming to realize what we put our own parents through, once we've forgiven them for their imperfection.

Mankind doesn't seem to have the capacity to learn from history (world history or our own limited experiences). We go on repeating the same errors over and over again ad nauseum.

Life is a Merry Go 'Round! Have a good one and keep a sense of humor. Negative old people get these nasty little lines around their lips. Very unattractive.

[Rook]

... Everyone, everything dies...Some sooner than others, faster too...

... Occasional indulgences are worth the hassle of envious pricks.

... Money doesn't buy happiness, but it does pave the road towards it.

[jey_z76]

that kindness is the best response in almost every situation.

[Greyson]

"Change" does not always require emotional upheaval. Change can be a gift to experience life more fully and with ease.

[JustBeingMe]

That I love my mom more and more as each day passes.
That I am ever so grateful for the mom that I have.

[Soft*Silver]

how really important it is to pick the right career path. I did an ok job, but in looking back, I know where I could have really empowered my path and increased my income and twisted it around so I could have done more specifically the kind of therapy work I wanted to do...

[Gentle Tiger]

The older I get the more I realize that my best asset and worst enemy is me.

[Jet]

We pay for everything eventually. There is no free lunch.

[Isadora]

when I need to step away. See you later!

[squeak]

TOIGTMIR:

... life doesn't always imitate TV. You haven't failed in your twenties just because you don't live in a high rise Manhattan apartment by yourself, with a huge closet filled with designer shoes, surrounded by equally successful friends who are always in the mood for a cocktail party where all of you magically have all this free time and no job stress.

... fish or cut bait. Don't sit around waiting for someone else to do something or recognize you.

... homecooking still wins hearts.

xosqueak. Still wants all those shoes, though, don't get her wrong.

[Lillie]

how much losing 2.2 lbs really means to me :hangloose:

[Tcountry]

...that smiles and hugs are always appreciated, sometimes needed, and the best gift...
...There are 2 words I wish not to have in my vocab or my life...
...That everything happens for a reason (even tho sometimes we don't understand that when things happens)...
...No matter how hard life gets...it is better than the alternative...
...some people Have to hit rock bottom and lose it all to learn that they had a good thing going...

[JakeTulane]

That My Mom and My late Grandma have been right alot.

[dixie]

...I just don't do so well in cold weather anymore.

[Lillie]

that there are just some occassions where I just dont give a %*(# anymore..I know!..it suprises me too:vigil:

[StillettoDoll]

The older I get the more I realize just how "experienced" I am.:shocking:
And knowing and distinguishing on what really matters.

[rlin]

that half the battle is owning it.



that honesty hurts less... every time.



that i am only human after all.



that normal is a myth perpetuated by the evil ones.



that there really are evil ones.

and



that i better do it today... never wait or hesitate.

[paposeco]

...that at 17 I thought I had all the right answers..now, I'm more interested in having all the right questions.

[paposeco]

...that my back goes out more than I do.

[JustBeingMe]

The older I get the more I realize, I have EARNED Every damn grey hair on my pretty little head. And I am Never going to color it.

[PinkieLee]

The older I get, the more I realize that I should NOT put the same expectations on my friends that I do on myself.

[Tcountry]

...smile and have fun...life's too short to stress out! :)

[Kobi]

The older I get, the more I realize I should have bought the extended warranty for my body. :blink:

[Gentle Tiger]

....I really am a paradox.

[Julie]

It is not me (lol) It is them
I am just fine!

[Apocalipstic]

That my hair is changing texture???????? :|

[little man]

that the really hard conversations are also the worthwhile conversations.

[paposeco]

that my body is musical:|...in more ways than I care to mention:blink:
that the body I go to bed with, is not always the same body I wake up with.
That I'm allergic to stupid people.
That those that always want to be "right" and in "control", often are NOT.
That settling for less, will cost you more.
There's a great difference between 'needs' and 'wants', but not everyone knows the difference.
That there is no NEED in LOVE.
That in Silence and Quietude, there is much comfort, love and joy and much is learned/known.

[chefhottie25]

the older i get, the more i realize...that i don't heal as quickly as i did when i was younger. i am finally able to return to work with a broken foot. the healing process as been very slow.

[Tcountry]

I can fix almost anything that is broken...but I can Not fix stupid! :)

[StillettoDoll]

Getting older is no problem.You just have to live long enough "
-Groucho Marx

[Venus007]

I don't owe anyone pretty.

[Blade]

It doesn't matter if I sleep on the ground or in the bed my ole body hurts just as bad no matter where it wakes up at

[Gemme]

The mistakes of my youth are revolving; they keep coming back to haunt me.

Bleh.

[Isadora]

that I would rather dance.

[Guy]

I am getting better

[Gentle Tiger]

...my year of birth takes longer to get to in drop down list when filling a form online.

[katsarecool]

the older I get, the more I realize that most of my life is behind me.:blink:

[Tcountry]

...there is no use for regret...just lessons learned
Everything happens for a reason

[Lillie]

how much it truely pisses me off that people do NOT know how to USE the suicide lane...:|:blink:

[FlowerFem]

I spent alot of time focusing on my education, now I need to focus on my love life.

[T D]

That people have gotten more crazy over the years, either that or there's just more of them.... LOL ;)

[Rockinonahigh]

That no mater how far you think you have gone,some things stay the same.

[Corkey]

TOIGTMIR How much I abhor drama.

[Laerkin]

...the more I realize that the single most important part of life is connecting with others, sharing your moments, learning from others wisdom, building bonds and creating laughter.

[Lillie]

How much I still enjoy a great game of professional football!...:byebye:

[socialjustice_fsu]

moving to second floor apartment was much smarter than thinking I could bound up that third flight of stairs to a third floor apartment I came, oh, so close to getting.

[miss entycing]

the older I get, the more I realize....
that missed opportunities can only be re-scheduled so often, before they are abandoned entirely.

[Gemme]

I spent alot of time focusing on my education, now I need to focus on my love life.

Good for you and :welcome: to the site.

[BestButchBoy]

That I need to walk, run and ride a bicycle carefully because at my age: If I fall; break a hip; get pneumonia, two weeks it's ovah.

[bigbutchmistie]

The Older I Get The More I Realize :

Games Are For Kids

I dont have tiime for drama

Im a lot more selective about who I let be my friends

I never get to old for fairy tales

People are people and I cant expect them to be anything less that what they are.

Im talking less and listening more

What my needs are and its ok to have them

[Lillie]

that my dream of becoming wonder woman when I got older was just a pipe dream :blink::|

[asphaltcowboi]

that alot of the times when my mom said "you keep doing that you'll pay when your older" that she was right...." keep doing what you do you'll keep getting what you got"

[JustBeingMe]

the older I get the more I realize, that Stability is my number one priority in my life and so is taking care of me. Cause no one else will do it for me let alone take care of me.

[Blade]

there aint no such thing as forever

[sweetfemme247]

to accept everyone for who they are, try to better myself, and dont let the people who have done me wrong continue to affect me in future relationships.

[katsarecool]

I have learned some battles are just not worth jumping into. I have learned that I should take care of me first. I have truly learned to love the little things in life. I have learned to keep toxic people as far away from me as possible. I have also learned if we take a stand, stand up for our rights change can happen. And a little cuppa :tea: goes down good before bed.

[Wryly]

. . . that some people enjoy being a victim. (Or perhaps they enjoy letting everyone know how badly they think they've been treated?).
While trying not be be less compassionate - I've learned to be more cautious when dealing with this type of person.

. . . that I shouldn't take myself so seriously.

. . . to take everything with a grain of salt.

. . . that cigarette smoke buggers up my sinus a lot more than it used to.

. . . that I really shouldn't buy Hallowe'en candy too early.

. . . that stretchy gloves from the dollar store are a good thing to invest in.

[IrishGrrl]

That getting home at 4 am is something I shouldnt do very often.:|

[suebee]

...that loving and being loved in my fifties is WAY better than it was in my twenties! :awww:

[Tcountry]

...that no matter how much you "think" you are in control of your life...a road block always comes along and reminds you of how wrong you are... :)

[AtLast]

..... that ageism even permeates this community in the very same ways as it does outside of it. Sux!

[little man]

...that the less i care about what others think of me, the higher their opinions of me are. go figure.

[Glenn]

How a sense of humor never ages one.

[justkim]

I am so much more than just a post in a forum...
Won't you take the time to get to know me?
No matter how hard I try I have never been able to *NOT* lead with my heart...

[Guy]

how often my parents actually knew what they were talking about.

[Tcountry]

...that some people spend more time trying to find the one person they can spend the rest of their life with rather than learning/enjoying the friends they have...

[Pixie]

that sleep, good or bad, or lack of....can really effect your day, mood, and approach to thinking.....

that time flies and you crave to cherish every moment and try to fly with it.

[AtLast]

...that loving and being loved in my fifties is WAY better than it was in my twenties! :awww:

Something, isn't it!

I miss the love of my late 40's and early 50's far more than the one in my
20's. Much more balanced and joyous love! Not that my way long ago partner isn't a great woman, but... we were soooooo young and unfinished! Just life!

[Mtn]

That sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is just another oncoming train....

[Leigh]

I realize that I need to live life and not be afraid of it, because before I know it life will have passed Me by & I'll have screwed Myself

[sharonsuburbia]

:fart:

i came out forever when i was 49 - i do not regret much but the future is in my eyes ever since :glasses:

[katsarecool]

how important it is to pick your battles. To make a point there is no need to hammer away at someone because that will most likely not reach them or change their mind either. That when debating once anger sets in the game is lost. That it is okay not to win every disagreement just agree to disagree and get on with life.

[Leigh]

I'm only humam & make mistakes

[Julien]

The older I get, the more I realize that time with my parents is getting shorter. It is important to communicate and tell them how much you love them. I have no regrets.

[Jesse]

The older I get the more I realize how thankful I am for knowledge and the ability to use it...most of the time. ;)

The older I get the more I realize that it really was a good thing to give up Spider Man briefs. :|

The older I get the more I realize that I really should listen when well meaning people try to warn me against doing a thing...starting with that swig out of the Vanilla Extract! :doh:

[1PlayfulFemme]

The older I get the more I realize that my thoughts, ideas, and notions are perfectly fine with or without validation from anyone else.

The older I get the more I realize how very important it is to form real friendships.

The older I get the more I realize that it's okay that my family doesn't understand me or think like me or fully accept me - as long as I understand and accept myself.

The older I get the more I realize I need to enjoy the little things, because sometimes they add up to (or become) the really big things!

[Passionaria]

The older I get the more I realize that peoples behavior reflects what lives in THEIR heart, and ultimately belongs to them. That I can observe, and see them for who they are, and not take it personally. Please, let me get better at this every day. My mantra should be: not my stuff, not my stuff, not my stuff.................

:praying: Pashi

[Nat]

the older I get, the more I realize that observing my bedtime would be helpful.

[JustLovelyJenn]

The older I get the more I realize....

RULES ARE GOOD!!!

The world doesn't revolve around anyone. Everything just is. Learn to work with it, or never make any progress.

Almost everything they told me I would "be glad I learned when I was older" they were right about.

[Kelt]

Moderation in most things actually does work out better

[Wryly]

I really like cooking.

[1PlayfulFemme]

The older I get, the more I realize that everything that we 'need' to experience isn't always for US. Sometimes, it's for someone else. Be it that we have been through what they are going through, or their lesson involves us...and I realize how freeing that realization is.. :)

[Leigh]

I realize that My life is My own

[Gentle Tiger]

....that the saying is true, "youth is wasted on the youth"
and
There is something to be said for eating dessert first.

[Ebon]

3 beers is the equivalent to a six pack and 3 shots for me now

[miss entycing]

the older I get, the more I realize that........
I just cannot seem to compete anymore.
:sigh:
because most companies are hiring ones half my age, for half the salary...
and offering bigger titles to reel them in.
:deepthoughts:

the older I get, the more I realize that.....
it takes WAY LESS effort to flip that bitch switch.
:slapfight:


and the older I get, the more I realize that.....
it takes way more work to age gracefully
:whine:

[Guy]

that "getting lucky" means you find your car in the parking lot.

[katsarecool]

Hello Guy. Now THAT was funny!

[LipstickLola]

the older I get, the more I realize, (and say!) "bite me" :cigar2:

[little man]

...i really should have taken those naps back in kindergarten. perhaps they've been saved up in a naptime account for me somewhere?

[little man]

....that the saying is true, "youth is wasted on the youth"
and
There is something to be said for eating dessert first.


that's what i used to tell my mom...life is uncertain, dessert first!

[JakeTulane]

Sometimes there is just enough hope to make One smile again. (f)

[Scorp]

The Older I Get, The More I Realize....

My parents aren't going to live forever.

Reality sinks in when you see them become frail, in terms of their physical capacity, memory becoming shorter and forgetful, their strong will is no longer, and their outspokenness turns to silence.

It's funny how the children now become the parents.

[miss entycing]

The older I get, the more I realize...
that I settle for so much less than I deserve.

[Gentle Tiger]

...your body will make you stop if you're too stubborn to listen to the more subtle requests.

[Soft*Silver]

the older I get the more I realize that no amount of coaxing will make someone else do what really should happen. Oh I can get them to do what I want them to do sometimes, but getting what should happens takes a real patient person who can step out of the way and just let things be.

I have learned that things that need to happen are so much better than anything I could ever concoct.

I have learned that the things I concocted were always well intentioned but also always off kilter of the true path of things

I have learned that only with age and consequences, have I learned this well.

[Softly]

that these glasses, that I was so upset about having to get, really do help me see better... :glasses:

[Leigh]

I have begun to realize that its a mistake to live for others, because ultimately I need to live for Myself

[Licious]

The older I get the more I realize the world I was so certain about isn't such a certain thing after all. :candle:

[girl_dee]

choosing to run my life is much better than letting life run me

[Apocalipstic]

The older I get, the more I see that my in-laws and extended family will never see me as a grown woman of almost 50 with her own home and life.

[AtLast]

The older I get, the more kids I see!!!



:confused:

[Isadora]

...just because my gun is loaded with golden bullets of information doesn't mean I have to shoot.

[LeftWriteFemme]

That mid week midnight premiers are no longer a possibility for me. I can not go to bed at 3 and leave for work at 6:30 anymore.....

[Blade]

Everybody hates deciding what to have/make for supper.

[JustLovelyJenn]

... Sometimes... ignorance IS bliss...

[AtLast]

The older I get, the more I realize that living with someone else is just not for me!! I am so happy to have my house to myself again!! It deserves the love and care I give it as it is my home. The bank can have it before I will rent out any part of it again!!

[Gentle Tiger]

...that sometimes, just sometimes being grown is sometimes over rated.

[JustLovelyJenn]

Family has NOTHING to do with blood.

[Passionaria]

The older I get, the more I realize I had best do the things I want to do before it's to late!!! :praying: Pashi

[Leigh]

I realize more and more that I am too old for drama and bullshit

[Bella~Vita]

That 'Humility' is a state of being 'Humble' and that it's not a bad thing. To go inside ones self & recognize my faults and transgressions is a freeing experience that I'm so grateful for ......

[Jet]

...I realize nobility, noble thoughts or approaches don't mean shit when you're standing on sand.

[Leigh]

I realize that no matter how old My father gets, he's still senile :blink:

[AtLast]

What my father said was true- La pecora destinata al lupo, non c'è cane che la mangia.

Think I have it correctly...

[lipstixgal]

What my father said was true- La pecora destinata al lupo, non c'è cane che la mangia.

Think I have it correctly...

Is that Italian wow I'm Italian but not proud of it my family is idiots as far as I am concerned!!

[JakeTulane]

What my father said was true- La pecora destinata al lupo, non c'è cane che la mangia.

Think I have it correctly...


The sheep destined to the wolf, there is no dog that eats

Italiano, indeed.

[Blade]

How smart my parents were when I was young.

[Mtn]

The older I get the more I realize I'm getting old and the body does not love the snow shovel anymore....and that when the temperature is 0 it's a good time to find a warmer climate....

[Gentle Tiger]

...that I am now making sounds that made me laugh as a kid when they were made by people I considered old

and that sometimes I need to take my happy self and sit down or as the mothers in the church would pronounce it: satdown somewhere instead of running around 100+ miles an hour. Of course it would be more beneficial if I would remember this wisdom before I crashed.

[Gemme]

...my patience with folks in general, but especially asshats, is nearing paper thin.

[little_ms_sunshyne]

that my dad is right...A shot of tequila before bed can fix just about anything!

[Gentle Tiger]

...I am one cranky tiger when I am hungry!

[katsarecool]

the older I get the more I am convinced it is better to trust in someone because of what they do rather than what they say!

[Gina]

The older I get, the more I realize that wearing heels should be considered "punishment"


The older I get, the more I realize that it's hard to put them on and that the heels should match....;)

[katsarecool]

*The older I get I have realized that making friends becomes a lot easier than in my youth. I was somewhat standoffish back then and am more open now.
*The older I get I have also realized it gets harder to make a relationship than when I was young and found it all too easy. And all too painful.
*And the older I get the more I have learned to love my own company and enjoy it as well.

[Sexy_ON]

...move fast and always keep your eyes on the prize.

like this--->:|

[Daktari]

...how little I knew when I knew it all.


And now I'm old I've forgotten everything I use to know! :jester:

[Jaques]

.....my goodness, do i relate to so many of these realisations.................lol!

the older i get i have realised i need to BE the best person i can, cos tryings not good enough - its full of excuses, ifs and buts and procrastination - and as they say tempus dont half fugit, so im doing it NOW.................cos later could be too late!:glasses:

[Hack]

The older I get, the more I realize I am incredibly selfish with my time. And I am perfectly ok with that.

[bigbutchmistie]

I much to old for drama

I will walk away from in it in a heartbeat

[Blade]

that it is ok to sleep late....ya don't have to get up before the sun every day.

[little_ms_sunshyne]

...I am one tough cookie :girldevil:

[bigbutchmistie]

The older I get the more I realize :

I need more out of a date. I need to feel chemistry on all levels. And for me its there or its not.

If I dont feel on the "same page" with someone I cant be with them.

I need someone who "gets me"

[Sachita]

The value of patience and tolerance.
To cherish each moment.
To nurture all my relationships.

[Isadora]

My sisters rock
Toughy's sisters rock

We are, indeed, lucky to have sisters who are amazing. I hope you do, too.

[JustJo]

That actions don't just speak louder than words...they can completely drown them out.

That real communication takes real effort.

That compromise is important...and so is making a stand...and the hardest thing is knowing when to do each of those.

[Kobi]

If I share something troubling, it dissipates a lot faster.

When play becomes work and causes me to feel strife,
it is no longer play. Strife is not an acceptable option.

You often connect better with the most unlikely person.

[Soft*Silver]

...there's no place like home...




and always buy the right kind of lubricant for the sex play you are going to indulge in...

[Bobbi]

That I'm pretty cool for an old lady and I don't need another person to make my life complete or enjoyable. My life is very special and I really enjoy it.

[Blade]

I love my cooking........ugggg but I sure hate to clean up the kitchen behind myself

[Tcountry]

toigtmir....
...that as much as I want to always be there and not let anyone get hurt...I can't be everywhere...and sometimes hurt is part of the process... :blink:

[Starbuck]

The older I get, the more fond of naps I become.

[Ebon]

The Older I Get The More I Realize I have body parts that I didn't know were there because they never hurt until now.

[socialjustice_fsu]

...I have kind of started liking some country music.

...I used to talk myself in short little sentences, now I have a full
conversation.

...trying to move a 120 lb mirror up 19 steps to the apartment alone is not
using good sense.

...that paying attention to detail is essential.

...respect is truly earned.

...hearing the voices of special people in my life when they answer the
phone ~ It means they are still here and I say a prayer of gratitude.

...developing gratitude changes the way I see the world.

[asphaltcowboi]

that everything happens exactly as it is suposed to.. no sence in stressing or trying to change things that are going to happen anyway. that its easier to accept change and go on about my life then it is to fight to keep things from changing.

[JustLovelyJenn]

The older I get the more I realize...

... That threats really DO work, if your willing to follow through with them...

*evil chuckle*

[JAGG]

The older I get the more I realize, I'm getting older.

[Jaques]

The older I get the more I realize :

I need more out of a date. I need to feel chemistry on all levels. And for me its there or its not.

If I dont feel on the "same page" with someone I cant be with them.

I need someone who "gets me"

......but what about YOU getting THEM?

[Blade]

that my old bones and joints are not meant to be outside working when it is below 20 degrees and the wind is blowing.

[Isadora]

...that confidence strokes your power while arrogance strokes your ego. Really. They are so not the same.

[little_ms_sunshyne]

......I'VE GOT NOTHING TO LOSE!

[SnackTime]

that i DISLIKE winters

[Greyson]

that i DISLIKE winters


My body agrees with you Snack but my heart does not. The older I get the more I Like winter but my body feels the cold with all the accompying aches, limps and slower steps.

[diamondrose]

The older i get the more I realize I am like my mom in alot of ways.

[Scota_Parisi]

that when you have kids, they tend to grow up and quite often will cause you to be a grandparent.

My daughter told me last week that she is due in August. At 43 - I'm still processing this. Of course, my Mom was 40 when I had my son.

:moonstars:

[katsarecool]

Congratulations!!!!! I know you must be over the moon! Just wait till you hold that child for the first time! When it happened to me I was rather surprised at the rush of maternal feelings!!! and joy!

[Kobi]

The older I get the more days i have
when I realize:

I don't know diddley squat and I really don't care
:sunglass:

[Wryly]

...that time is either going too slow or way too fast.

:mohawk:

[Lillie]

how much I enjoy laughing at the silliest things..even if no one else knows why I am laughing!

[little_ms_sunshyne]

....I define who I am and what I like. Labels don't matter.

[socialjustice_fsu]

Time and tide wait for no one.

[Diva]

The older I get, the more I realize........

....I don't have much time left......

Get on with it! :eyebat:

[socialjustice_fsu]

I really want to teach at the graduate level. At 52 it is not to late to start the rest of my life. While my first love is clinical social work...I think teaching social work is where I need to be.

[Julien]

Life throws you a curve ball sometimes. The key is to enjoy the different perspective and not be afraid of change.

[Gemme]

That I get more stubborn and crochety as I age. The people around me in the future should be afraid, very afraid!

[StillettoDoll]

I find myself asking. "What day is this?" Alot!

[Greyson]

TOIG, I look into the mirror and ask "Who is that guy?"

[Fancy]

The older I get the more I realize I'm calling more and more people sweetie.

:blink:

[Blade]

The older I get the more I realize that when my arse is dragging, it takes twice as much effort to get it going as it use to

[JustLovelyJenn]

The older I get the more I realize the rest of the world can just fuck off!!!!

[I'mOneToo]

The older I get, the more I realize ...

... real-ness is more significant to me than anything I ever imagined.


Also, the older I get and the colder it gets, the more weight i lose. wired opposite from most, i lose weight in the winter instead of the summer - i walk a lot no matter what the season, but usually walk even more during winter. it's very hard to cool yourself down when overheated (therefore, staying still in the summer heat is one of the few remedies for me, though it gets pretty boring) but very easy to put on an extra underlayer if it's cold. Walking at night helps me warm up, too. the coldest time of day is just after sunrise, but i'm asleep then and don't care what the temp is and i usually wake up overheated even in rare minus temps.

[Blade]

I'm getting to old to be getting up at 4 am to get ready for work.........fishing yes........work no

[JakeTulane]

I have some pretty serious boundaries. Once someone tries to cross them (when they have already been discussed).. Mr. Prickly Porcupine goes to Mr. Sock With Quarters as fast as a change in a phone booth.

[Gráinne]

That it's a waste of time to worry about 'Oh dear, what are other people going to think?" That really, you just have to be real to yourself and what you want and anyone else who doesn't like it can just jump off a pier.

(assuming you're not hurting yourself or anyone else).

[lipstixgal]

I realize that after all these years of sewing that I make mistakes; I just cut out a pattern wrong and now I need more material for the skirt oh well, its a good thing the fabric store is open tomorrow..:|:blink:

[Kobi]

The older I get, the more I realize my peace of mind is more important than anything else.

[Soft*Silver]

the older I get the harder Christmas cookies are to avoid and then to get off

[Blade]

the older I get the more I realize that New Years Eve isn't nearly as important to me as it use to be. Maybe I'm just getting to be an ole fart, but I'm thinking I'll be in bed before the fireworks start.

[Kenna]

TOIGTMIR....

what, who and which goals are more important to me....and that personal sacrifices aren't necessarily always a part of my "survival/crisis mode", that personal sacrifice(s) can be a good thing - that I shouldn't feel such a negative loss from letting go - and those sacrifices can make the important things even more important and cherished to me.

TOIGTMIR....

how important it is to live in a "proactive mode" instead of constantly in a "survival/crisis mode" or the physical or mental crash that comes after the crisis has been dealt with.

TOIGTMIR.....

how much strength I have within....and how good it feels to be comfortable with "coming into my own" after a very difficult journey.

[JustLovelyJenn]

The older I get the more I realize...

... I just cant party like I used to.

... My body wont let me abuse it anymore... I must pay the consequences.

[storyofmylife]

the older I get, the more I realize......
I need eye glasses
:seeingstars:

[HoneyedChrysanthemum]

the more i realize that patience is a necessity and a virtue. that MY timeline is not necessarily that of the Heavens.

the more i realize that there is only so much of oneself that can be given in self-sacrifice before being consumed by that quiet fire altogether. a time comes when i MUST think of myself first or else i cannot help anyone else.

the more i value the joys of solitude AND those of companionship. they must balance and complement each other in a relationship of whatever kind. both are necessary to my being.

the more i value the little happinesses: the savouring of a good cup of tea. the comfort of a loved ones arms. the journey of a fascinating book...

the more i enjoy the easy companionship this site. rare to find such varied people united by the Dance

thank you for this thread. i have appreciated reading the conclusions of others. they make me reflect upon what is important to me!

pres :moonstars:

[StillettoDoll]

That fast food really taste bad .

[Starbuck]

The older I get, the more I realize that when I was little and my momma sneezed and yelled "shit!", it's not funny now!

[sharonsuburbia]

the older i get the less i give a flying fish - i can be the teenager (with money) i never had the chance to be :hangloose::blueheels:

[Guy]

Less really is more

[sharonsuburbia]

Less really is more it is quality
:moonstars:

[Nightshade]

The older I get the more I realize...

I know NOTHING!!

[CrankyOldGuy]

....I'm listening to people in 140-character-or-less increments.

[Andrew, Jr.]

I am still colorblind. Ask Moonie or ADG. :D:freak::giggle::cheerleader:

[scootebaby]

the older i get the more i realize

...i'm not as agile as i used to be
...if i dont bend over just the right way,i'll be calling for assistance to straighten back up
...the 80's will never come back
...i'm sayng the same thing to my kid that i heard as a child..i.e "i hope you grow up and have 3 JUST like you"
...

[Passionaria]

The older I get the more I realize:

That people who are constantly professing to be Spiritual probably are not.

That honor, kindness, and integrity are more markers of a Spiritual being, then reciting Dogma.

That I should trust my instincts more, so I am bamboozled less.

That my children and parents are the ones I can always turn too. And some truly delicious friends!

That I should no longer engage in one way relationships, unless it involves a child. Sigh, I'm learning.

That the Universe sends some real interesting people my way, MUAGH for that! I am Grateful.

:cat:

[Diva]

The older I get, the more I realize.....

~how tired I am of pussy~footin' around.

~it's the best time of my life!

~just how blessed I am!

[AtLast]

The older I get the more I realize I need at least a 34 inch TV. And that I remain a very good catch!

[Greyson]

The older I get the more I realize time is fleeting. Physical immortality is not an option. Try to live and be the person I have always wanted to be. Forgive others and myself. Be mindful.

[princessbelle]

The older i get the more i realize that

....i am way stronger than i've ever given myself credit for.

....that i am so THANKFUL i found these sites that have opened my eyes and heart and helped me realize what a femme is and that that is who i've always been.

....that friendships are to be cherished, protected and held up high and respected.

....that life is so precious, fast and to hug every second of it and live life to the fullest.

....that loving someone is a wonderful place to be, and being loved back is just freaking amazing.

[Andrew, Jr.]

*I can no longer fast for Lent.

*My salt & pepper hair is here to stay.

*Calling Rosie to find the remote control to the TV is the norm now.

*Loving another human being is a gift. Friendships I have I cherish.

[Jess]

the older i get the more i realize

...i'm not as agile as i used to be
...if i dont bend over just the right way,i'll be calling for assistance to straighten back up
...the 80's will never come back
...i'm sayng the same thing to my kid that i heard as a child..i.e "i hope you grow up and have 3 JUST like you"
...


damned shame about the 80's
:dance2:

[Andrew, Jr.]

*The more Mother Nature wins out over everything else.

*No matter what I say or do, some people are takers/givers. I need to find more givers. My energy level is gone for the takers.

*How concerned I am over my legacy I am going to leave to my nieces and nephews.

*I too love 80's music. But I do enjoy Johnny Mathis, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, and the Rat Pack.

[miss entycing]

the older i get, the more i realize...
that whatever i do, whatever i say, whatever i feel...
or however hard i try...
it always pisses somebody off.
and, being just me is never enough, or good enough, or true enough...
to please anybody anymore.

[diamondrose]

The world is absolutely unpredictable!

[cane]

The older I get the more I realize.