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Medusa
08-25-2010, 07:33 AM
I've been hesitant to make this post because doing this always feels like putting a period on the event for me but I want to do this while everything is fresh in my mind.
Anyone who went to Reunion knows how amazing it was, how we all found love and recovery from all the shit that life throws at us. I think we all knew we were in a magical place, full of love and healing and that amazing togetherness that can only happen with people you love, kinda love, or want to love.
There was effort, acceptance, and honesty at this event and I am way past finding the right words for all of it.
I cried so many times this weekend. I had to leave the room during the Meet and Greet because I stood on the little entrance steps and looked out over the room and just lost it. Seeing everyone there hugging, kissing, and embracing one another and thinking back to all of the doubt I had about this thing ever really working sent me into such a grateful joy that I couldnt contain it.
I cried again when Diva sang "Somewhere" during the Cabaret. It was one of those really messy hitching, snotty cries where you arent at all in control of your emotions and you just dont give a fuck if its going to run your mascara or make your eyes puffy. Still, I ran for the bathroom because those tears were personal and only meant to be had in the solace of a bathroom with a nice heavy door.
She said "Somewhere....there's a place for us" and I fucking believed her. I believed we had all found that place not only that evening but every time we log in here.
I wrote about this on Facebook but I'll say it here, I suck at accepting compliments and congratulations. I suck so bad at it that I, in fact, almost always shrug it off when someone gives me a personal thanks for starting this community - I almost always tell people that without them showing up, we are nothing but a domain name and a vbulletin license and I still mean that but also accept that gratitude and cradle it in my heart with quiet repose.
I didnt know when I started building the framework for this site if it would be a "fuck and run" thing or not. I didnt know if 6 of my friends would be the only people here to ever really show up. I didnt know if we would all be able to get moved in with Uhaul trucks and set up house without great pain or crushing hope for a new day. I didnt know what the future would bring but apparently it saw fit to make a place for Reunion - and the 80 people who registered. It saw fit to grow this community into a massive love-fest with potential so great that I still, at this point, cant fathom all of the possibilities.
During the Cabaret, I opened my palms and held them up to my face when nobody was looking and whispered a promise to myself. I'll now make that same promise to the community that these doors will remain open as long as there is breath in my body, no matter the cost or consequence.
I am here for the long haul and I know that many of you are too. I accept your grace, your trust, and your hope and will watch over it all in determined strength because that is what you all give to me every time you choose to move forward with love here.
Together, we will do great, great things and I can only hope that the world is ready for us. <3
I wanted to take a few minutes to mention some of my own thanks and memories:
Dixielady - I am so glad you came out and think you are so beautiful. Cant wait to know you better.
WolfyOne- Brother. Your spirit is amazing and your determination to just "be" is inspiring. <3
InfiniteFemme - My heart is better for having met you.
Cara - Babysis, there is such sweetness in your face and I think you are just simply amazing.
Pixieboo - Meeting you has plugged my heart with glitter and Im ready to walk through a long and wonderful friendship with you.
Strappie - I love you so - Your laugh and determination to have fun is so magnetic. Im so so glad we got a chance to connect deeper.
Nick - Mad love for you, always, and such respect for your sturdy presence.
Logan - You have such a warm and kind spirit, we are all better for having known you.
Sassyleo - I knew I would love you and I wasnt wrong. Walk with me. <3
BubblinSugare - My sister. I love you so for your strength and brilliance and think you are not only sexy but magnetic in ways many can only hope for.
Chefhmboyrd - Man, I didnt know you could sing! Totally a highlight of the Cabaret!
Arwen - My baby. Thank you so much for being bossy and taking the reigns even when I couldnt ask for it.
Ittybitty - Spritely and magical - and such a sweet spirit!
Diva - Your gifts to the community are amazing and wonderful and we are all touched by your belief in us.
Tommi and LeftwriteFemme - Amazing in 100 different ways and such beautiful people. I have new heartfriends in you. (whether you like it or not)
Just_G - Its been so many years of friendship and Im not sorry. You are simply amazing.
Prudence_Juris and ABb - Not only an amazing couple but mad respect for your deterimination to make love work no matter what.
Cheech - My "Hot for Teacher" twin!!
Linus and K - Bubba! I could never thank you enough for all you do and think that bringing K was a gift to all of us.
Pinkie and CrazyD!! - Gotta get my boo-love with you two! My sister and her honeylove make me remember to have fun!
CanMarie - So amazing and talented. You are just beautiful
BK - You are such an amazing spirit and an inspiration.
Ashton - Such a long friendship we have walked together! I heart you man!
Littleman - Amazing and talented picture-taking fool! You ROCK!
Irish - What can I say Sis? My shit-sister in crime. I love you.
Gemme and Organic - You are amazing both together and separately. Im glad we connected even on a tiny level and wish you both amazing things.
Sassybren - I think you are just so beautiful and interesting - Cant wait to know more ;)
Maggie - There is something so sweet and magical about you...I see a long friendship for us and think you are so awesome.
Quester and Boiwonder - I am so so so glad you both came out and was so glad to have some "home folks" in the house!!!
Casey35- More home folks!! Such a sweetness in you!
Cowboi - You are just fucking hysterical and made me laugh WAY too hard at the Meet and Greet!
Jules5041 - You looked so fucking amazing in that pink corset, I am SO glad we made a connection.
Nicetgurl - You intrigue me in huge ways and I LOVED clowning with you on the dance floor Saturday night!
MrSunshine - I love you so. Your warmth and spirit was so fucking refreshing. (J)
Rufus and Melissa - You both are such a gorgeous couple! I loved getting to meet you even if it was too brief!!
Vic - NEW CRUSH! Vic, you are such a thoughtful, calming presence (but with mad humor!!)
Pajara2 - OMG, YOU had me laughing way too much with your naught self :)
SpiritDancer - Im SO glad we got some face time! You are pretty special!
Moonie - You are a wonderful mess of laughter and a huge heart - Mad love!
Blaze and StilletoDoll - What an amazing couple. Stilletto is so beautiful and warm and Blaze is the perfect compliment!
ArtDeco and Blugrass! - I cant wait to deepen the friendship with you both - Such wonderful people!!!
Fishinabaggie and Outlaw - The Sunday time we spent together was just perfect and I have nothing but love and respect for you both (and the chest penis!!)
Jay and Itsagrrl - Seeing you both again brought back so many warm memories and I love you both for showing up and bringing the love!
BB and Nycfembbw - New favorite people! You are not only a beautiful couple but probably have the best smiles that I have seen in a long time. I love you both!
TexasCowboi - Throughout allo of our years of friendship, you have made me laugh so hard and this weekend was no exception. Mad love for you!
DJ Debbi T and Kellz - Arkansas will never be the same when we join forces! You both are fucking amazing and such good, honest people. The talent in you both is staggering.
Niceguy - My best friend. There is nothing I could say to you that you dont already know. Thanks for showing up again and again for me and Jack. You are our family and we love you.
Juney and Kat - We miss you both so much :( Having you both in our home was magical and filled my heart in huge ways that I cant fully describe. Having Juney in my kitchen making me some noodles at 1am and seeing Kat flipping the channels felt so natural and comfortable...Im kinda weepy so you both need to move down here. k? k!
Im forgetting some folks and will write more in just a bit but know that I love what we have done as a community and love that we have all come together to choose a new family with each other.
My heart is full thanks to you all.
Medusa
08-25-2010, 10:31 AM
Dear Family,
Please block your calendars for October 13-16, 2011.
Thanks!
Linus
08-25-2010, 10:32 AM
Dear Family,
Please block your calendars for October 13-16, 2011.
Thanks!
Uh.. would that be in LR again?? :cheesy: please?? please??
Pixie
08-25-2010, 10:32 AM
WOOOOhhooo!
ravfem
08-25-2010, 10:34 AM
Dear Family,
Please block your calendars for October 13-16, 2011.
Thanks!
yay!
:hangloose:
Leigh
08-25-2010, 10:51 AM
I can NOT, under any circumstances, miss next year's Reunion ~ ok need to block those days, begin saving cashola and ummmm get a passport :D
betenoire
08-25-2010, 10:54 AM
Dear Family,
Please block your calendars for October 13-16, 2011.
Thanks!
Hells to the yeah!
I'm so glad that it won't be during the summer, since it's near impossible for me to get time off in June/July/August.
Hopefully me and Nick will be able to make it. It depends on what his school schedule looks like, however.
Somewhere warm?
Medusa
08-25-2010, 11:07 AM
Hells to the yeah!
I'm so glad that it won't be during the summer, since it's near impossible for me to get time off in June/July/August.
Hopefully me and Nick will be able to make it. It depends on what his school schedule looks like, however.
Somewhere warm?
It will be about 70 - 75 degrees then :)
Gemme
08-25-2010, 11:23 AM
Once I verified the 13th was NOT a Friday, I was set.
See you all October 2011!!!
MaggieBluIze
08-25-2010, 12:05 PM
LR in October is amazingly gorgeous!!!!
I'm in Texas, we don't get Orange, Yellow and Red trees ... We get dead or green. Perios. It's gorgeous!!!! :)
Leigh
08-25-2010, 12:08 PM
Change/penny jar has already been established :dance2:
Hey, all --
Things went really well this year as far as events, etc. The feedback in the community meeting was unanimous that folks really liked having the cabaret in the Hotel and of course, the Coffee Klatsch.
We already know that there will be a lot more folks in attendance next year, so with that in mind, we will be assigning chairs and committees for the various events/thingy's.
If you are interested in chairing an event, please submit that to me via PM. I will make a list then in a couple of months, we will be gathering chairs and getting volunteers for each event so the load is shared.
Committee Chairs:
REGISTRATION! (How did I forget that?)
Meet & Greet / Welcome Wagon -
Karaoke Wrangler -
Femme Clothing Swap -
Butch/Trans Bonding - (These can be separate or together based on need)
Singles lunch - Diva with a Co-Chair because, well, she needs to share her mad skillz. (I'll tell you why lunch in a minute)
Speed Dating -
Couples Lunch -
Cabaret - Just G (He already spoke to Medusa about this in LR)
Coffee Klatch - Wolfy (But she'll need some folks to boss around)
Table Hosts (This was pretty amazing and we want to do it again)
Raffle - (Tommi & LeftWriteFemme if they say yes)
Accounting Team - Responsible for money counts
Concierge(s) - Responsible for errands or assisting members in getting things they forgot or need. These folks should have a vehicle and be willing to come into town on Wednesday to pick up water/sodas, etc.
Security -
Photographer & Assistants - We think we might need two of these based on how many folks wanted photos this year.
HERF - Linus
Vendor Chair (We had many folks asking about selling their stuffs next year. Will be responsible for scheduling coverage of the vendor space and securing it)
I might have to come back and add, but those are the ones on top of my still fuzzy head. Again, if you are interested in chairing these committees, please do not state it in the thread, or start any threads, send it to me via PM.
The date is out of the bag, but we've got a few other really exciting things to hammer down before we can announce them.
Why lunches? Well, we had a lot of feedback on how hard it was for folks to enjoy their dinners and then rush back to the Hotel to get ready for the events, so we are in the process of negotiating dinners (yes, we will have vegetarian and vegan things too) for both the Cabaret and the Prom. I know Friday was crazy busy for all of us, and it would be nice to be able to have lunch, then just relax for a bit afterwards. This is subject to change based on what they will offer us, but at the community meeting, people seemed to feel that they wouldn't mind paying $10-$15.00 per person for a nice dinner at the event.
AND ALSO! At the community meeting, we discussed how to do a payment plan for folks, and I have volunteered to keep the spreadsheet and am looking for a 2nd set of eyes for that, I will be creating it in google docs so it can be shared, so you'll need to have a gmail account. We will post more details on this soon for those of you who want to start planning early.
Thank you again for your participation this year, some of you stepped up at the last minute to fill in our gaps (Logan, Pixie, Cara, InfiniteFemme) And I would like to publicly apologize AGAIN to NiceGuy for giving him so much flack for the kitchen appliances, we actually used that goddamn blender on Sunday night because the Hotel Bar broke theirs. I have mad love for your anal retentive little ass!
<3
June
Linus
08-25-2010, 12:32 PM
You can also add the HERFs to that. I think a daily HERF on Thurs/Fri/Sat would be good (between 5-7 unless other things are on).
Julie
08-25-2010, 12:45 PM
Pardon the ignorant one present...
What is a HERF?
You can also add the HERFs to that. I think a daily HERF on Thurs/Fri/Sat would be good (between 5-7 unless other things are on).
Linus
08-25-2010, 12:50 PM
Pardon the ignorant one present...
What is a HERF?
From one of the cigar Websites:
The term "Herf" used to describe the smoking of a cigar comes from the 1960's in America when many cigar smokers listened to Herf Alpert and the Tijuana Brass while smoking their favorite stogie. The music was latinesque and thus provided an atmosphere of semi-cuban reminiscence. Soon, cigar smokers began to say things like "I was with the Brass last night and the Herf was so good I thought I was in Havana." Thus, we can all thank Herf Alpert for his influence on 'garbonics.
Basically, it means sharing time with friends while enjoying cigars and/or pipes.
Arwen
08-25-2010, 12:51 PM
Is there a way that I could do a post-Reunion donation? I was saving all my pennies for the event but now that I'm home, I'd like to send in a bit to say thank you for the free bagels/coffee/cokes that were provided by the Planet.
Thanks for a paypal addy or something so I can do this.
Arwen
08-25-2010, 12:52 PM
You can also add the HERFs to that. I think a daily HERF on Thurs/Fri/Sat would be good (between 5-7 unless other things are on).
Can those of us who just love the smell of a good cigar or pipe join you?:tea:
Linus
08-25-2010, 12:54 PM
Can those of us who just love the smell of a good cigar or pipe join you?:tea:
By all means.. we welcome all. And Mallards is a great place to hang! :)
Hey all,
We didn't get to go and will try for next year. Looks like everyone had a swell time.
I noticed June mentioned the community meeting. What all was discussed and were any sort of minutes taken? I know early on in discussing the Reunion several items were mentioned as possible topics, ie: Inclusivity statement and perhaps some problem area solving stuff.
Thanks for any info. Glad everyone had a blast!
Leigh
08-25-2010, 01:37 PM
I'm already WAY excited for next year :D
I'll gladly volunteer somewhere too!
Arwen
08-25-2010, 01:42 PM
Hey all,
We didn't get to go and will try for next year. Looks like everyone had a swell time.
I noticed June mentioned the community meeting. What all was discussed and were any sort of minutes taken? I know early on in discussing the Reunion several items were mentioned as possible topics, ie: Inclusivity statement and perhaps some problem area solving stuff.
Thanks for any info. Glad everyone had a blast!
Diva was taking notes and posted some in her Reunion Report thread. I think we got a bit off topic in that we didn't discuss those things specifically.
We did discuss the fact that the Red Zone is an awesome idea.
We did discuss how to support those who wanted to attend but couldn't do it financially.
We did discuss the financial transparency.
We did discuss what it means to be a community. :)
Diva was taking notes and posted some in her Reunion Report thread. I think we got a bit off topic in that we didn't discuss those things specifically.
We did discuss the fact that the Red Zone is an awesome idea.
We did discuss how to support those who wanted to attend but couldn't do it financially.
We did discuss the financial transparency.
We did discuss what it means to be a community. :)
Thanks Arwen! I'll go back through her thread and see what I missed! Much appreciated.
Gayla
08-25-2010, 01:51 PM
This makes my crappy morning better. Thanks for the dates.
Artdecogoddess
08-25-2010, 02:02 PM
Hello folks -
I would like to volunteer Blu and I for helping with welcoming and/or coffee klatch (how in the world do you spell that?) duties. We talked about it on the way home - and we would LOVE LOVE LOVE to help.
ADG
Linus
08-25-2010, 02:25 PM
:flyingmonkey: Do we have a monkey herder?? :blink:
Waldo
08-25-2010, 02:28 PM
I just wanna say that I think it's great that planning has already started for next year.
I know Juney will not believe this, but I am actually putting this on my calendar.
I'm still sad that it's more than a year away though. I think we need roving quarterly parties. Just sayin'.
:stillheart: you know i will help out wherever. pm to june tonight when i have proper internet access rather than on a cell phone. muah!
Spirit Dancer
08-25-2010, 02:45 PM
:flyingmonkey: Do we have a monkey herder?? :blink:
only you oh guru could find the flyin` monkey.....yay
Linus
08-25-2010, 02:47 PM
only you oh guru could find the flyin` monkey.....yay
Heh.. And I got the evil eye already for it..
I know it seems strange that a group of 40-50 queer folks could get off-topic, but it's true. It really happened.
:seeingstars:
Linus
08-25-2010, 02:51 PM
I know it seems strange that a group of 40-50 queer folks could get off-topic, but it's true. It really happened.
:seeingstars:
We did not get off topic. We talked about how many posts Diva does. :huhlaugh:
We did not get off topic. We talked about how many posts Diva does. :huhlaugh:
HEY! :eyebat:
Yes....who KNEWZ Linus had a <@> TOO! <giggle>
Arwen listed all the notes I had, too.....but maybe we need to have a secretary for things like that....yes? No? I'd volunteer to do that for the CM if You wanted me to do so.
(By the by....I claim The Underground Pub for The Singles' Lunch for Reunion II....just sayin'.... Early bird & chit......)
PS........
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO thrilled we already have a date for Reunion II!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CAN'T STAND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! (In a GOOD way, of course!)
chefhottie25
08-25-2010, 03:50 PM
PS........
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO thrilled we already have a date for Reunion II!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CAN'T STAND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! (In a GOOD way, of course!)
not sure who to direct my question to...but diva it seems like you would know...when do we find out where the next reunion will be held?
not sure who to direct my question to...but diva it seems like you would know...when do we find out where the next reunion will be held?
I don't want to assume, but I believe it will be at The Peabody in Little Rock again because it was just SO PERFECT!!!!!!
PrudenceJuris
08-25-2010, 04:07 PM
Hello folks -
I would like to volunteer Blu and I for helping with welcoming and/or coffee klatch (how in the world do you spell that?) duties. We talked about it on the way home - and we would LOVE LOVE LOVE to help.
ADG
ABb and I would love to organize a bike trip on the River Trail. We had such a great time seeing so much of Little Rock that way we want to share the experience!
Leigh
08-25-2010, 04:51 PM
Got some change in My "Reunion" happy face mug, and will be opening a savings account next week to be used for next year *grin*
Rockinonahigh
08-25-2010, 05:15 PM
I don't want to assume, but I believe it will be at The Peabody in Little Rock again because it was just SO PERFECT!!!!!!
Please,please,..yes,yes,yes on going back to LR.I mean its centraly located,a fuin place to go,maybe there will be a :police: to help the Diva out..of what I have no idea.Then majic :blueheels: and then we can :cheer::cheerleader::clap::hangloose::happyjump:.. .Ahhhh yes,the thought excites me what can I say,I know a good thing when I see it.
Tommi
08-25-2010, 07:28 PM
Yes. I will chair the 2011 Raffle and my :flyingmonkey: will return with me.
Right now we (Spanky :flyingmonkey: and I) ,are lounging in Beautiful Santa Barbara, Calif. in a king size suite. SM and I are heading to the beach for dinner, and to watch the sunset. I will be back and post pictures later. Damn, I need to learn to enjoy these work road trips more.:byebye:
Tommi
08-25-2010, 07:32 PM
Dear Family,
Please block your calendars for October 13-16, 2011.
Thanks!
Yes. Blocked and non-refundable guarantee I will be there with no bells on. :boxers::3butch: and Spanky is coming too:flyingmonkey:
Tommi
08-25-2010, 07:40 PM
:flyingmonkey: Do we have a monkey herder?? :blink:
THANKS LINUS...
Spanky :flyingmonkey: had his own seat on the flight to California. I HAD TO promise the stewardess Spanky would not fly around the plane , and not cry out when she came by again... .:byebye: I even got two bags of pretzels.
He got to pose in front of the :police:Homeland Security Seal at Little Rock Airport too. I'll post the pictures soon as fishinabaggie sends me the link.
Strappie
08-25-2010, 08:10 PM
OMG.......
Reunion 2011 ....
I already took it off work.. ok not really, they wouldn't let me take it this early.....lol
MaggieBluIze
08-25-2010, 08:20 PM
OMG.......
Reunion 2011 ....
I already took it off work.. ok not really, they wouldn't let me take it this early.....lol
I tried too ... They laughed ... I wasn't joking!!!
:|:blink:
WolfyOne
08-25-2010, 09:51 PM
Hello folks -
I would like to volunteer Blu and I for helping with welcoming and/or coffee klatch (how in the world do you spell that?) duties. We talked about it on the way home - and we would LOVE LOVE LOVE to help.
ADG
I would really enjoy having you and Blu help me with coffee
It would mean every now and then I could sit, relax and converse with others, too
June, I'm stealing them now before anyone else does
WolfyOne
08-25-2010, 09:52 PM
:flyingmonkey: Do we have a monkey herder?? :blink:
We have a monkey hoarder
Will the one with the most monkeys please raise your hand?
Arwen
08-25-2010, 09:56 PM
Hey, all --
Things went really well this year as far as events, etc. The feedback in the community meeting was unanimous that folks really liked having the cabaret in the Hotel and of course, the Coffee Klatsch.
We already know that there will be a lot more folks in attendance next year, so with that in mind, we will be assigning chairs and committees for the various events/thingy's.
If you are interested in chairing an event, please submit that to me via PM. I will make a list then in a couple of months, we will be gathering chairs and getting volunteers for each event so the load is shared.
Committee Chairs:
REGISTRATION! (How did I forget that?)
Meet & Greet / Welcome Wagon -
Karaoke Wrangler -
Femme Clothing Swap -
Butch/Trans Bonding - (These can be separate or together based on need)
Singles lunch - Diva with a Co-Chair because, well, she needs to share her mad skillz. (I'll tell you why lunch in a minute)
Speed Dating -
Couples Lunch -
Cabaret - Just G (He already spoke to Medusa about this in LR)
Coffee Klatch - Wolfy (But she'll need some folks to boss around)
Table Hosts (This was pretty amazing and we want to do it again)
Raffle - (Tommi & LeftWriteFemme if they say yes)
Accounting Team - Responsible for money counts
Concierge(s) - Responsible for errands or assisting members in getting things they forgot or need. These folks should have a vehicle and be willing to come into town on Wednesday to pick up water/sodas, etc.
Security -
Photographer & Assistants - We think we might need two of these based on how many folks wanted photos this year.
HERF - Linus
Vendor Chair (We had many folks asking about selling their stuffs next year. Will be responsible for scheduling coverage of the vendor space and securing it)
I might have to come back and add, but those are the ones on top of my still fuzzy head. Again, if you are interested in chairing these committees, please do not state it in the thread, or start any threads, send it to me via PM.
The date is out of the bag, but we've got a few other really exciting things to hammer down before we can announce them.
Why lunches? Well, we had a lot of feedback on how hard it was for folks to enjoy their dinners and then rush back to the Hotel to get ready for the events, so we are in the process of negotiating dinners (yes, we will have vegetarian and vegan things too) for both the Cabaret and the Prom. I know Friday was crazy busy for all of us, and it would be nice to be able to have lunch, then just relax for a bit afterwards. This is subject to change based on what they will offer us, but at the community meeting, people seemed to feel that they wouldn't mind paying $10-$15.00 per person for a nice dinner at the event.
AND ALSO! At the community meeting, we discussed how to do a payment plan for folks, and I have volunteered to keep the spreadsheet and am looking for a 2nd set of eyes for that, I will be creating it in google docs so it can be shared, so you'll need to have a gmail account. We will post more details on this soon for those of you who want to start planning early.
Thank you again for your participation this year, some of you stepped up at the last minute to fill in our gaps (Logan, Pixie, Cara, InfiniteFemme) And I would like to publicly apologize AGAIN to NiceGuy for giving him so much flack for the kitchen appliances, we actually used that goddamn blender on Sunday night because the Hotel Bar broke theirs. I have mad love for your anal retentive little ass!
<3
June
Teh Arwen is being bossy again.
dixielady
08-25-2010, 10:05 PM
I just now saw this thread and teared up because my name was mentioned. I'm sitting at work looking like a blubbering fool. LOL I'm so used to blending into the background and thought I pretty much went unnoticed. I so love you all for being the wonderful folks that you are and for accepting me and making me feel welcome. I can't wait to hug all of you again next year!!!! (f)
Leigh
08-25-2010, 10:23 PM
I apologize for repeating Myself but I'm just SO excited :cheesy:
I took any loose change I had today and plunked it into My big yellow smiley face mug as My way of saying "That's it damnit, I'm going next year!". I've already started looking into My passport and everything needed to get it, so that process will begin ASAP. I'm going to be looking for a nice cross-stitch project that I can create for the Raffle next year (this was something I wanted to do for this year but life got in the way), and I wanna put My name in for volunteering cuz I'm not sure how good of a chair person I'd be for ay of the activities so I'll stick with volunteering :D
Anyways, the planning has begun and the excitement builds :happyjump:
chefhmboyrd
08-25-2010, 10:54 PM
hey folks,
if anyone has any pics of Maggie and i from prom, please post or send them to us.
the only pics of us together from the prom are the ones Lil Man took in the other room......
please and thank you!
@
betenoire
08-25-2010, 10:56 PM
I noticed that June didn't mention needing a chair or committee for standing around on sidewalks smoking and having a bad attitude, but if it turns out that you need a chair for such a group - hit me up.
Gayla
08-25-2010, 11:00 PM
I will volunteer to help Potty with that.
dixielady
08-25-2010, 11:03 PM
I noticed that June didn't mention needing a chair or committee for standing around on sidewalks smoking and having a bad attitude, but if it turns out that you need a chair for such a group - hit me up.
I had it partially covered. My attitude was pretty darn peachy though for some strange reason... :|
I'm eyeing a really big jar of artichoke hearts in my refrigerator.....not because I like artichokes. They're Gemmie's. But I want to steal the jar for my Reunion Change!!!
I'm sure she won't want it. :eyebat:
betenoire
08-25-2010, 11:05 PM
I will volunteer to help Potty with that.
:whoop:
That isn't my emoticon of choice for nuthin', kids.
Gemme
08-26-2010, 12:45 AM
I'm eyeing a really big jar of artichoke hearts in my refrigerator.....not because I like artichokes. They're Gemmie's. But I want to steal the jar for my Reunion Change!!!
I'm sure she won't want it. :eyebat:
You should see the jar of pickles that Organic has. :blink:
It's yours when the artichokes are gone!
waxnrope
08-26-2010, 12:52 AM
Thanks so much for all the work everyone. And I am glad about the date being posted for the next one. I wish that I could have attended, but will get to the next year
pajara2
08-26-2010, 10:45 AM
You forgot two VERY IMPORTANT Chairs:
Door Decorating Committee - Which I recommend Pixie to Chair.
Femme Clothing Security Detail - Which I will graciously volunteer to Chair.
Make note, Thank you, and That is all.
A
You should see the jar of pickles that Organic has. :blink:
It's yours when the artichokes are gone!
YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (So hurry up & eat 'em already! ;) )
Committee Chairs:
REGISTRATION!
Meet & Greet / Welcome Wagon -
Karaoke Wrangler -
Femme Clothing Swap -
Butch/Trans Bonding - (These can be separate or together based on need)
Singles lunch - Diva with a Co-Chair because, well, she needs to share her mad skillz. (I'll tell you why lunch in a minute)
Speed Dating -
Couples Lunch -
Cabaret - Just G (He already spoke to Medusa about this in LR)
Coffee Klatch - Wolfy (But she'll need some folks to boss around)
Table Hosts (This was pretty amazing and we want to do it again)
Raffle - (Tommi & LeftWriteFemme if they say yes)
Accounting Team - Responsible for money counts
Concierge(s) - Responsible for errands or assisting members in getting things they forgot or need. These folks should have a vehicle and be willing to come into town on Wednesday to pick up water/sodas, etc.
Security -
Photographer & Assistants - We think we might need two of these based on how many folks wanted photos this year.
HERF - Linus
Vendor Chair (We had many folks asking about selling their stuffs next year. Will be responsible for scheduling coverage of the vendor space and securing it)
Creative Director - Pixie-Boo
Surly Sidewalk Smokers - Potty & Gayla
Gayla
08-26-2010, 12:58 PM
Wait. Did someone say that y'all didn't have to go outside in LR but could smoke in the bar?
That would make Potty and I the Surly Bar Smokers.
Linus
08-26-2010, 01:22 PM
Wait. Did someone say that y'all didn't have to go outside in LR but could smoke in the bar?
That would make Potty and I the Surly Bar Smokers.
Yup. Mallards in the hotel (opens at 5pm) allows for cigars, pipes and cigarettes. :)
Leigh
08-26-2010, 01:53 PM
This may or may not be a dumb question but ....... what exactly do Committee Chairs do?
betenoire
08-26-2010, 01:58 PM
Wait. Did someone say that y'all didn't have to go outside in LR but could smoke in the bar?
That would make Potty and I the Surly Bar Smokers.
HOLY CATS! Do you know how long it's been since I've been somewhere that you could smoke -and- drink at the same time? I won't know what to do with myself!
Although, that's pretty crappy for the non-smokers. :( I almost hope that they make it illegal to smoke in bars in LR before we get there.
This may or may not be a dumb question but ....... what exactly do Committee Chairs do?
Committee Chairs will gather together teams of reliable volunteers and coordinate them so shit gets done right and on time.
How's that?
Linus
08-26-2010, 02:14 PM
HOLY CATS! Do you know how long it's been since I've been somewhere that you could smoke -and- drink at the same time? I won't know what to do with myself!
Although, that's pretty crappy for the non-smokers. :( I almost hope that they make it illegal to smoke in bars in LR before we get there.
Not all places are smoking. Just certain ones (I think I found 3 out of 20 restaurants/bars). Mallards actually has a great filter as it doesn't keep any smell from what I could tell.
betenoire
08-26-2010, 03:08 PM
Not all places are smoking. Just certain ones (I think I found 3 out of 20 restaurants/bars). Mallards actually has a great filter as it doesn't keep any smell from what I could tell.
I'm not so much concerned about odor as I am concerned about second-hand smoke. I think it's pretty rude to smoke in close proximity to non-smokers and always make a point of sitting/standing down-wind from them and if I'm walking down the sidewalk smoking and people with children are coming toward me I'll walk on the grass and hold my cigarette way up in the air so i don't get smoke on the kids.
Mommy's almost always say "thank you". I love when people say that to me.
Leigh
08-26-2010, 03:45 PM
Committee Chairs will gather together teams of reliable volunteers and coordinate them so shit gets done right and on time.
How's that?
That rawks Junie, just like you do :)
Gayla
08-26-2010, 03:55 PM
I'm not so much concerned about odor as I am concerned about second-hand smoke. I think it's pretty rude to smoke in close proximity to non-smokers and always make a point of sitting/standing down-wind from them and if I'm walking down the sidewalk smoking and people with children are coming toward me I'll walk on the grass and hold my cigarette way up in the air so i don't get smoke on the kids.
Mommy's almost always say "thank you". I love when people say that to me.
I do stuff like that, too.
We are surly, but considerate, smokers.
betenoire
08-26-2010, 04:32 PM
I do stuff like that, too.
We are surly, but considerate, smokers.
We need to get teeshirts or buttons that say "surly but considerate" on them, I think. :)
Arwen
08-27-2010, 12:17 AM
Sitting with OrganicButch and Gemme tonight, we had a discussion about the ducks.
The ducks did not start having duck sex until Friday, right?
Do you think it was us?
Sitting with OrganicButch and Gemme tonight, we had a discussion about the ducks.
The ducks did not start having duck sex until Friday, right?
Do you think it was us?
Hate to burst your bubble, dear Tx Femme Crush, but they were having sex when we visited the Peabody in February. :|
:stillheart:
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