Songs That Got You Through Break Ups :) [Archive]

miss entycing

02-05-2011, 10:01 PM

Sorry, have no idea how to post a video-

You Oughta Know- Alanis Morrisette

I want you to know, that I'm happy for you
I wish nothing but the best for you both
An older version of me
Is she perverted like me
Would she go down on you in a theatre
Does she speak eloquently
And would she have your baby
I'm sure she'd make a really excellent mother

Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able
To make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, till you died
But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

You seem very well, things look peaceful
I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know
Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity
I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner
It was a slap in the face how quickly I was replaced
Are you thinking of me when you fuck her

Cause the love that you gave that we made wasn't able
To make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, til you died
But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

Cause the joke that you laid on the bed that was me
And I'm not gonna fade
As soon as you close your eyes and you know it
And every time I scratch my nails down someone else's back
I hope you feel it...well can you feel it

And I'm here to remind you
Of the mess you left when you went away
It's not fair to deny me
Of the cross I bear that you gave to me
You, you, you oughta know

rlin

02-05-2011, 10:04 PM

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The_Lady_Snow

02-05-2011, 10:04 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-05-2011, 10:04 PM

Good Songs you guys and gals :) Keep em coming... Romance has left my house for the night...

The_Lady_Snow

02-05-2011, 10:07 PM

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miss entycing

02-05-2011, 10:20 PM

Cry Me A River- Justin Timberlake

You were my sun, you were my earth
But you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no
So you took a chance and made other plans
But I bet you didn't think that they would come crashing down, no

All of these things people told me
Keep messin' with my head
You should've picked honesty
Then you may not have blown it, yeah

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be
Don't it make you sad about it?

You told me you loved me
Why did you leave me all alone?
Now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone

But girl I refuse you must have me confused
With some other guy, the bridges were burned
And now it's your turn to cry
Cry me a river

I know that they say
That some things are better left unsaid
But it wasn't like you only talked to him and you know it
Don't act like you don't know it

All of these things people told me
Keep messin' with my head
You should've picked honesty
Then you may not have blown it, yeah

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be
Don't it make you sad about it?

You told me you loved me
Why did you leave me all alone?
Now you tell me you need me
When you call me on the phone

Girl I refuse you must have me confused
With some other guy, the bridges were burned
Now it's your turn to cry
So cry me a river

Go on and just
(Cry me a river, girl)
Go on and just
(Cry me a river)
Baby, go on and just
(Cry me a river, girl)
Yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'
Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'

Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'
Oh, oh
The damage is done
So I guess I be leavin'

You don't have to say what you did
I already know, I found out from him
Now there's just no chance
For you and me, there'll never be

Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)
Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)
Don't it make you sad about it
(Cry me a river)

Cry me a river, oh

miss entycing

02-05-2011, 10:32 PM

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JustJ

02-05-2011, 10:43 PM

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Ms. Meander

02-05-2011, 11:18 PM

I often revert to Ani when my heart hurts...

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...takes me back to my angsty youth.

Jesse

02-05-2011, 11:54 PM

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betenoire

02-06-2011, 12:00 AM

Not so much a break-up-coping song - but it's an anthem to me. This song gets me through all sorts of stuff.

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miss entycing

02-06-2011, 12:01 AM

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Jesse

02-06-2011, 12:24 AM

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bigbutchmistie

02-06-2011, 03:46 AM

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iamkeri1

02-06-2011, 04:06 AM

These are the two saddest break-up songs I have ever heard. The incredible angst of loving someone who no longer loves you ...

Sad and lonely Smooches,
Keri

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iamkeri1

02-06-2011, 04:24 AM

When my much beloved husband died seven years ago, this was the song that most espressed my loss. Seven years later it still tears me up when I hear it. Truly the worst "break up" of my life.
Smooches,
Keri

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iamkeri1

02-06-2011, 04:38 AM

A year or so later, when my sons had decided to grieve the loss of their Dad by running away and constantly getting in to trouble with the law, I realized I WAS still alive and I had lots of stuff I needed to take care of, so I adopted this as my personal "motto" song. It still motivates me - and it is also a great "recovering from a break-up" song. Good for this particular moment too - I've been sad all night - time to kick myself in the butt and get on up out of the dumps.
Smooches, y'all,
Keri

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Oiler41

02-06-2011, 05:44 AM

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Over the years, various stages. All great songs in their own right!

Glynn

femmedyke

02-06-2011, 07:06 AM

Meh! How do I post videos? I'm feeling slow :|

Miss Scarlett

02-06-2011, 09:57 AM

After the end of my last relationship some beloved drag queen friends said enough was enough, kidnapped me, dressed me up and took me out. Here are some of the songs from that wild night:

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Medusa

02-06-2011, 10:08 AM

An old one!

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girl_dee

02-06-2011, 10:12 AM

Meh! How do I post videos? I'm feeling slow :|

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/forum/showthread.php?p=271827&highlight=posting+youtube#post271827

How to post a youtube!
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Venus007

02-06-2011, 10:14 AM

This song has gotten me through all sorts of things, break ups included. . .

Paul Brady "The World is What You Make it"

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Here are the lyrics ...

I knew this African called Hannibal

Rock it roll it send it down the avenue

Went out to see the Roman Empire fall

Uh huh? uh huh?

Two thousand elephants in gold chain-mail

Take it, shake it, make it what you wanna be

Them Roman legionnaires they hit the trail

Uh huh?

The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it

When Cleopatra ruled in Egypt's land

Jump down, turn around, look at what the monkey did

She went to find herself a mighty man

Uh huh? uh huh?

In come Antonio from Italy

Haul it, ball it, drag it up the pyramid,

He never knew how hot a girl could be

Uh huh?

The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it

Don't start to hit me with your "no can do"

Bluesin', losin', workin' up an attitude

Clean up them windows let the sun shine through

Uh huh? uh huh?

There ain't no happy time without no pain

heartbreak, new date, move on up the alleyway

Pick up them pieces hit the road again

Uh huh?

The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it

WolfyOne

02-06-2011, 10:37 AM

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Tommi

02-06-2011, 11:00 AM

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Anything Chris Williamson

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Just sayin' Chris's music has Helped to Heal me, make me whole to love again songs that have been with me since my young dashing bachelor, lover days. She has been through the fire of love and loss and her Ashes album still does it for me.

and for those in need of a fuck off or love me big boy song...qnG9k_e5xog

Duchess

02-06-2011, 01:22 PM

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tonaderspeisung

02-06-2011, 01:56 PM

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JustJ

02-06-2011, 04:19 PM

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princessbelle

02-06-2011, 04:28 PM

This got me through one or two.....freaking fun to dance to as well.

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moxie

02-06-2011, 04:38 PM

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princessbelle

02-06-2011, 04:48 PM

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moxie

02-06-2011, 04:51 PM

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Sparkle

02-06-2011, 05:51 PM

Everything but the Girl, Walking Wounded

(the whole album, on repeat, until well enough to apply lipstick again)

JustJ

02-06-2011, 05:54 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-06-2011, 05:55 PM

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I listened to this on a break up too :) Great Song...

UofMfan

02-06-2011, 05:56 PM

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JustJ

02-06-2011, 06:01 PM

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proximitywithoutintimacy

02-06-2011, 06:26 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-06-2011, 06:35 PM

I cant find a good video for Garth... But the song THE DANCE :)

bright_arrow

02-06-2011, 06:39 PM

Eve - You Had Me, You Lost Me (obscenities)
YouTube - eve you had me you lost me

Sia - The Girl You Lost To Cocaine
YouTube - Sia "The Girl You Lost To Cocaine"

The Butchies - Send Me You (love this song, period)
YouTube - The Butchies "Send Me You"

For those times they leave you for their ex.. This could work! Love them!
God-dess & She - I Hate Your Ex-Girlfriend (slight obscenities)
YouTube - God-des & She - I Hate your ex-girlfriend

Kasey Chamber - Not Pretty Enough
YouTube - Not pretty Enough sung by Kasey Chamber + Lyrics =D xx

Charlotte Sometimes - I'm Not Enough For Me
YouTube - I'm not enough for me(headache)

Melissa Etheridge - I Want To Be In Love
YouTube - Melissa Etheridge - I Want To Be In Love

Nina Simone - Love Me or Leave Me
YouTube - Love me or leave me Nina Simone

JustJ

02-06-2011, 08:34 PM

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tonaderspeisung

02-06-2011, 10:27 PM

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tonaderspeisung

02-06-2011, 10:44 PM

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Starbuck

02-06-2011, 10:54 PM

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No, you're never gonna get it (Ow!)
Never ever gonna get it (No, not this time)
No, you're never gonna get it (My love)
Never ever gonna get it
(repeat)

I remember how it used to be
You never was this nice, you can't fool me
Now you talkin' like you made a change
The more you talk, the more things sound the same
What makes you think you can just walk back into her life
Without a good fight? Oh...
I just sit back and watch you make a fool of yourself
Cuz you're just wasting your time, oh...

CHORUS
No, you're never gonna get it (Not this time)
Never ever gonna get it (My lovin')
No, you're never gonna get it (Had your chance to make a change)
Never ever gonna get it
(repeat)

Now you promise me the moon and stars
Save your breath, you won't get very far
Gave you many chances to make change
The only thing you changed was love to hate
It doesn't matter what you do or what you say
She doesn't love you, no way
Maybe next time you'll give your woman a little respect
So you won't be hearing her say, "No way"

CHORUS

Doesn't matter what you do or what you say
She don't love you, no way
Maybe next time you'll give your woman a little respect
So you won't be hearing her say, "No way"

[And now it's time for a breakdown...]

Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it (whoa-whoa-whoa-whoa)
Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it, never gonna get it
Never gonna get it, never get it

No, you're never gonna get it (Sweet lovin')
Never ever gonna get it (Sweet lovin')
No, you're never gonna get it (My lovin')
Never ever gonna get it (My lovin')
No, you're never gonna get it (Sweet lovin')
Never ever gonna get it (My lovin')
No, you're never gonna get it (Sweet lovin')
Never ever gonna get it (My lovin')...

bigbutchmistie

02-07-2011, 07:58 PM

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chefhottie25

02-07-2011, 08:09 PM

i found the all american reject's hope it gives you hell worked well. i would turn up the volume and scream
the lyrics while cleaning my room. very theraputic.

NJFemmie

02-07-2011, 08:18 PM

These go back many moons.... I would listen to them over and over until I couldn't feel anything anymore.

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girl_dee

02-07-2011, 08:24 PM

old stuff....

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citybutch

02-07-2011, 08:27 PM

I broke it off ... because she was crazy and was playing games with her sons head...

and my brother was dying...

and there is so much more to the story but am leaving it to bygones...

It was a really hard time for me...

So anyhoo.... I would lie in bed and imagine curling up in the wings of an angel... and the wings would close around me and let me rest....

and this song saved my sanity....

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As I drifted off... I could literally hear the angels wings fluttering closed...

Starbuck

02-07-2011, 11:31 PM

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The world was on fire
No one could save me but you.
Strange what desire will make foolish people do
I never dreamed that I'd meet somebody like you
And I never dreamed that I'd lose somebody like you

No, I don't want to fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart]
No, I don't want to fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart]
With you
With you

What a wicked game you play
To make me feel this way
What a wicked thing to do
To let me dream of you
What a wicked thing to say
You never felt this way
What a wicked thing to do
To make me dream of you
v And I don't wanna fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart]
And I don't want to fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart]

{World was on fire
No one could save me but you
Strange what desire will make foolish people do
I never dreamed that I'd love somebody like you
I never dreamed that I'd lose somebody like you

No I don't wanna fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart
No I don't wanna fall in love
[This love is only gonna break your heart]
With you
With you

Nobody loves no one

betenoire

02-08-2011, 12:45 AM

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I know you've heard it all before
But I'm sorry for this three year war
For the setting up of camps
and wire and trenches

I'm sorry for the other night
I know sorry it don't make it right
I'm sorry for things I can't even mention

I'm sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry
I'm sitting feeling sorry in the Thirsty Dog
I'm sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry
I'm feeling very sorry in the Thirsty Dog

You keep nailing me back into my box
I'm sorry I keep popping back up
With my crazy mouth
and jangling jester's cap

I'm sorry I ever wrote that book
I'm sorry for the way I look
But there ain't a lot that
I can do about that

I'm sorry about the hospital
Some things are unforgivable
That things simply cannot be forgiven

I was not equipped to know how to care
And on the occassions I came up for air
I saw my life and wondered
what the hell I had been living

I'm sorry about all your friends
I hope they'll speak to me again
I said before I'd pay for all the damages

I'm sorry it's just rotten luck
I'm sorry I've forgotten how to fuck
It's just that I think my heart
and soul are kind of famished

Forgive me, baby but don't worry
Love is always having to
say you're sorry
And I am, from my head
down to my shoes

I'm sorry that I'm always pissed
I'm sorry that I exist
And when I look into your eyes
I can see you're sorry too

I'm sorry, sorry, sorry
I'm sitting feeling sorry in the Thirsty Dog
I'm sorry, sorry, sorry
I'm feeling very sorry in the Thirsty Dog

iamkeri1

02-10-2011, 12:15 AM

There's still a lot of love left on both sides. I miss hym, though I'm the one who broke it off. Still this song says a lot of what I am feeling.

I used to sleep in hys t-shirt every night we were apart.
Smooches,
Keri

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bigbutchmistie

02-13-2011, 02:04 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-13-2011, 10:03 PM

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Semantics

02-13-2011, 10:33 PM

Can't have a good, angsty break up without The Cranberries.

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Passionaria

02-13-2011, 11:41 PM

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Passionaria

02-14-2011, 12:08 AM

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No more touchy touchy, only looky looky.......

Passionaria

02-14-2011, 12:26 AM

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Passionaria

02-14-2011, 12:33 AM

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Passionaria

02-14-2011, 12:50 AM

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Starbuck

02-14-2011, 12:53 AM

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Do you believe in love?
Do you believe in shame?
And if love can conquer all then why do we only feel the pain?

I heard you speak my name, heard you singing The Stones,
Maybe heard you laughing in a line of static on my telephone

So why your eyelids are closed, inside a case of rust,
And did you have to change all your poets fire into frozen dust?

I've tried to justify it, to learn from your mistake,
But where's the stupid lie that has to make it's point -
With such a pointless waste.

Come out...

Do you believe in shame?
Do you believe in love?
And if they taste the same would you love again or abandon both?

I don't think I ever can, belive my friend has gone,
Keep saying it's alright,
I'm going to bring you back but I know I'm wrong.
There's nothing I can say, there's nothing left to do
It's just that lately I feel so damn lonely when I think of you

And it may seem selfish now, but I'll hold on to the memory
Until all this fear is washed away

Do you believe in love?
Do you believe in life?
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..

'Cos I Believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never... die.

Passionaria

02-14-2011, 04:30 AM

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Hit the road Jack..........

Passionaria

02-14-2011, 04:35 AM

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bigbutchmistie

02-14-2011, 08:41 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-14-2011, 08:43 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-14-2011, 08:48 PM

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Mister Bent

02-14-2011, 08:49 PM

What's with all the emo shit? None of these songs are going to help you get over someone like Cee Lo!

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I pity the fool that falls in love with you
(oh shit she's a gold digger)

It's worked brilliantly for me.

Strappie

02-14-2011, 09:11 PM

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I'm beginning to worry Misty... how many girls did you break up with?? *smirk* Just joking buddy!!

bigbutchmistie

02-14-2011, 09:18 PM

I'm beginning to worry Misty... how many girls did you break up with?? *smirk* Just joking buddy!!

LOL cute strappie :)

dixie

02-14-2011, 09:40 PM

This actually got me thru a rough breakup once...lol

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Tommi

02-14-2011, 09:40 PM

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waxnrope

02-14-2011, 11:08 PM

remembered this one ...

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waxnrope

02-14-2011, 11:39 PM

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and when you finally get over it, slap yourself for your stupidity and sing
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waxnrope

02-16-2011, 04:48 PM

when feeling like a fool ... you're in good company :)

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could drop some stuff and listen to this:|
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Passionaria

02-16-2011, 05:36 PM

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One thing you should know is I have a friend who lives there, and you know he wont refuse to put some music to my troubles and call them, the Harlem Blues...

waxnrope

02-20-2011, 06:46 AM

kind of a gracious surrender ...
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bigbutchmistie

02-20-2011, 05:27 PM

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hpychick

02-20-2011, 06:47 PM

YouTube - Terri Clark - Better Things To Do

LeftWriteFemme

02-20-2011, 06:59 PM

I still cry when when I listen to this song
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bigbutchmistie

02-21-2011, 09:12 PM

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Queerasfck

02-21-2011, 09:17 PM

10+ years! KISS OFF got me through it!

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bigbutchmistie

02-21-2011, 09:40 PM

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bigbutchmistie

02-21-2011, 09:50 PM

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Nat

02-21-2011, 09:53 PM

the song that got me through my first real breakup:

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a song that got me through the divorce:

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a song that got me through my last breakup:

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all from the same album even

Guy

02-21-2011, 10:16 PM

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theoddz

02-21-2011, 10:26 PM

I remember this one, particularly, after this one breakup I had, way back in the 80's, when I had a young and tender heart. :winky:

Disenchanted -- Michael Martin Murphy

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You'll have to click on it to play it on youtube, because the embedding has been disabled and it's the only available video for the song on youtube. :(

Just to date myself, you can tell it's an old song because you can tell this recording was originally done on vinyl. :winky:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

theoddz

02-21-2011, 10:33 PM

Oh ya, and this is another one from that same breakup!!! LOL

Music seems to define my life, in many respects, I guess. :winky:

I Guess That's Why They Call It The Blues -- Elton John

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Oh, and incidentally, the woman I split with during this time ended up marrying a guy from Russia, having a kid, and she's now a patent attorney with the U.S. Patent Office in Washington, DC. :|

Heh, funny where life takes us and how much we change when we look back on the way we were "back then". :)

~Theo~ :bouquet:

waxnrope

02-21-2011, 10:50 PM

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undone

03-27-2011, 02:46 AM

I am aware that I got a little happy about it but it depends on my current mood and what i need to help my day along so....

YouTube - Simply Red - If You Don't Know Me By Now

YouTube - Clark Anderson - Give Me Something Real

YouTube - More Then a Memory

YouTube - k.d. lang - Luck In My Eyes (live 1990)

YouTube - Michelle Wright - Take It Like A Man

undone

04-21-2011, 02:16 AM

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Stud_puppy1991

05-22-2011, 09:48 PM

Missing You-John Waite
I Will Always Love You-Whitney Houston
If I Could Turn Back Time-Cher
She Hates Me- Puddle of Mudd
I'm Sorry- John Denver
This Is Me Your Talking To- Trisha Yearwood

just to name a few...

pajama

05-22-2011, 10:34 PM

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StrongButch

09-30-2012, 06:03 AM

Been there,Done that-Luke Bryan and Beacause of you-Kelly Clarkson

Venus007

09-30-2012, 07:15 AM

Love this song...

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The_Lady_Snow

09-30-2012, 08:38 AM

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Good friends, a bottle of vodka, some new shoes, a manicure and pedicure, a visit to the hood hurr Vixen and a drag show!

Mike

09-30-2012, 09:13 AM

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*Anya*

09-30-2012, 09:14 AM

Gee, if a song only worked.

How simple that would be.

-Red-Flag-

09-30-2012, 09:18 AM

this is a scream at the top your lungs .. get it out song ..

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and by the way .. your shits over there.. to left ..

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Stud_puppy1991

09-30-2012, 09:22 AM

You'll Think Of Me-Keith Urban
Bye Bye- Jo Dee Messina
Missing You- John Waite
Better Things To Do-Terri Clark
Famous Last Words-My Chemical Romance
My Curse-Killswitch Engage

-Red-Flag-

09-30-2012, 09:38 AM

ugh, I might just cry now ..listening to this..

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RiverRunner

09-30-2012, 10:15 AM

Going nowhere fast
We've reached the climax
We're together, now we're undone
Won't commit so we choose to
Run away
Do we separate?
Don't wanna give in so we both gave up
Can't take it back, it's too late, we've reached the climax
Climax

I've fallen somehow
Feet off the ground
Love is the cloud
That keeps raining down
Where are you now?
When I need you around
I'm on my knees, but it seems we're

I gave my best, it wasn't enough
You get upset, we argue too much
We made a mess of what used to be love
So why do I care, I care at all
At all
At all
At all

You say it's better if we
Love each other separately
I just need you one more time
I can't get what we had out my mind
Where are you now
When I need you around
I'm on my knees
But it seems we're going

cinnamongrrl

09-30-2012, 11:22 PM

Somewhere with You by Kenny Chesney

Love Gone Wrong by Billy Currington

and of course.....

Need you now by Lady Antebellum....I actually told my ex that was our break up song BEFORE we broke up!!

-Red-Flag-

10-01-2012, 03:44 PM

well the first song in this duo... the second one.. well its a twofer..

so baby... just stay ..

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StrongButch

01-26-2013, 06:46 AM

Emotional Rollercoaster-Vivian Green Gotta remind yourself why you walked away.

~ocean

01-26-2013, 07:54 AM

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anotherbutch

01-26-2013, 08:22 AM

Time for me to Fly... REO Speedwagon

~ocean

01-28-2013, 08:18 AM

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Prudence

02-02-2013, 07:16 AM

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Prudence

02-02-2013, 07:27 AM

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KCBUTCH

02-02-2013, 11:38 AM

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THIS SONG IS HELPING BUT I'M NOT EXACTLY THROUGH IT YET THAT WILL TAKE A LONG TIME I THINK

Northern_Lad

02-02-2013, 11:59 AM

Beth Hart- Love Is The Hardest - YouTube This is the one that I can't seem to stop listening to right now

oksoftbutch

02-02-2013, 12:18 PM

After the breakup of the 10 year relationship.....I didn't want to hear anything....all I wanted to do for months on end is get past the horrendous pain I felt.
Then I enjoyed songs like 'You'll Never Find Another Love Like Mine' - Lou Rawls

:byebye:

Boots13

02-04-2013, 06:09 PM

I dont think any song ever got me through a break up. God, if it was just that easy !

But if I hear a song that played during a relationship break-up it sometimes reminds me of the struggle, or relief, or pain, or sheer and utter frustration, or whatever emotion was marking the moment of the day (or the hour or the minute)...

And there was always a delicate balance between songs that would push me out of that "pit of despair" and songs that would drag me back into it...

Treat yourself gently, honor the pain and play whatever the hell you feel like playing to get through it!

Death Metal is always good ;)

Niece28

02-04-2013, 06:34 PM

1. Hope it gives you hell- All American Rejects
2. Scrubs- TLC
3. Someone like you- Adele
4. Chasing Pavements- Adele

femmeInterrupted

02-04-2013, 08:43 PM

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3M-bH3YGsTo/YOUTUBE]

heheh. "Skillet on the stove...it's such a temptation" ;)

Another on the 'mixed tape of break up music'..
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXR9D6Q9gwU/YOUTUBE]

femmeInterrupted

02-10-2013, 12:09 PM

Mostly wanted a opportunity to post a B.B link! BUT, it's a great 'break up' song!!

http://youtu.be/fVpc2H415j0

KCBUTCH

02-10-2013, 12:15 PM

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THIS FITS I PICTURE SOLDIERS STOMPING HER AWAY

LeftWriteFemme

02-10-2013, 01:30 PM

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SuddenlyWestFemme

02-10-2013, 11:42 PM

1. Hope it gives you hell- All American Rejects

Yep... that one was GREAT for me.
Also... Take Another Little Piece of My Heart

Singing loudly and crying when brokenhearted is healing for me.

MarquisdeShey

02-11-2013, 12:05 AM

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bright_arrow

02-11-2013, 12:09 AM

When I was angry, it was The Veronica's "Revenge Is Sweeter (Than You Ever Were)"

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When I needed to cry my eyes out, it was Sarah McLachlan "Fallen"

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When I wanted to sink into a hole and be a hermit for the rest of my life, it was Dido "Life For Rent"

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When I needed a pick me up, normally with some alcohol included, it was Nina Simone "Love Me or Leave Me"

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When I needed a feel good song, Santana always does it right.. In this case, "Love of My Life" and one of my all-time favorite songs from the first time I heard it 10 years ago

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espressolover83

02-11-2013, 12:55 AM

Definitely Adele's Someone Like You, and Rihanna's Take a Bow

mustangjeano

02-11-2013, 12:59 AM

Well it didn't get me thru the breakup but it always reminds me of the predominant feeling at the time.... "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Rait

VintageFemme

02-11-2013, 01:04 AM

I'm so musically inclined that I relate most events, good and/or bad to some song somewhere. Breakups are certainly no different but I think each breakup has it's own sound, for lack of a better word, and so each breakup gets it's own song for the most part. Some that come to mind are:

REO's Speedwagon, Time For Me To Fly
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Whitesnake's, Here I Go Again
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Melissa Etheridge's, Like The Way I Do
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The Indigo Girls, Least Complicated
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Beth Hart's, LA Song
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The thing about music though [and I just proved this to myself yet once more by listening to each of these songs complete] is with only one or two notes, you are instantly right back there where you were when you were going through whatever it was you were going through and listening or healing to, those songs. And while the feelings are no longer intense or even really emotional perse, they do tug at your heartrstrings and take you to a place that's a little uncomfortable. This is a really interesting thread to read though. We are so fragile yet so resilient aren't we?

~ocean

02-11-2013, 07:01 AM

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falloutmk

02-11-2013, 07:41 AM

I want to break free by Queen really did get me through a recent breakup... I really love that song. :)

ScandalAndy

02-11-2013, 09:19 AM

Depends on the day, but these two are a good start:

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Girl_On_Fire

02-16-2013, 11:04 PM

"Beautiful Disaster" - Kelly Clarkson
"Impossible" - Shontelle
"Rolling in the Deep" - Adele
"Tear in Your Hand" - Tori Amos
"Blow Me...One Last Kiss" - Pink

There are so many more but these are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.

TheMerryFairy

02-17-2013, 02:31 AM

While it hasn't been my OWN situation Carrie underwood's "before he cheats" comes to mind.

Also, while this is quite offbeat, I like "Goodbye earl" by the dixie chicks. I don't know if you would consider it a breakup song given the content but for some reason it felt fitting.

DaddiBear

02-25-2013, 10:10 AM

This time was Alicia Keys:

'When it's all over"
and
"Brand new me"

NickE TimeLord

02-25-2013, 11:29 AM

:jester:
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:jester:
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:jester:
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:jester:
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:jester:
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these are some of the songs that have saved my life..and carried me through heartbreak..even now..if it wasn't for music i would be lost

always2late

02-25-2013, 11:48 AM

When my domestic partnership broke up, the song I most listened to was "What Hurts the Most" by Rascal Flatts. Listening to songs like that is my version of a controlled burn....find the most depressing, mopey, "I've broken up and my life is over" song I can find, listen to it for a few days, have a good cry....and then I'm done.

wahya

03-28-2013, 07:25 PM

Don't look back ....Boston

kittygrrl

03-28-2013, 08:48 PM

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kittygrrl

03-29-2013, 06:13 PM

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CXanderRun

04-11-2013, 04:14 PM

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LeftWriteFemme

04-11-2013, 04:19 PM

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Kätzchen

05-20-2017, 01:18 PM

I usually re-work lyrics to certain songs, to fit the occasion, because 'love' is sometimes not everything it's cracked up to be. For example, the disco hit by John Paul Young? Instead of singing "love is in the air, everywhere you look around"? I'll switch it up and sing it another way: "love wasn't found, anywhere around" because that's how it goes sometimes, yanno?

Sometimes, it's the best thing that could happen to me (invoking Gladys Knight, now, lol :| ) because who wants to stay in a relationship that isn't working well? (not me, ain't got time for that sh*t).

CherryWine

05-20-2017, 01:30 PM

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Kätzchen

05-20-2017, 05:47 PM

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Rockferry | Duffy

This song is my all time favorite :stillheart:
I can listen to it and not feel sad... best song ever, to me.

Chained Daisy

06-09-2017, 02:20 PM

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gotoseagrl

06-09-2017, 03:57 PM

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gotoseagrl

06-09-2017, 04:03 PM

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gotoseagrl

06-09-2017, 04:04 PM

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FireSignFemme

06-09-2017, 06:05 PM

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theoddz

06-09-2017, 06:26 PM

It's been quite a while since I nursed a broken heart, so the songs I might post about those times are a bit dated. Anyway, here goes:

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~Theo~ :bouquet:

kittygrrl

06-09-2017, 06:39 PM

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BullDog

06-09-2017, 07:50 PM

Free Bird - Lynyrd Skynyrd

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Followed By

Back In Black - AC/DC

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kittygrrl

06-09-2017, 11:01 PM

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FireSignFemme

06-13-2017, 06:06 AM

[CENTER][FONT="Book Antiqua"][SIZE="4"][COLOR="Black"]It's been quite a while since I nursed a broken heart

It's been a long time since I've broken up with/been dumped by someone too, but that dosen't mean I can't appreciate a good breakup song when I hear one. Some of the newer ones are pretty good too.

Bèsame*

03-03-2018, 09:41 AM

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Bèsame*

03-03-2018, 09:46 AM

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kittygrrl

03-03-2018, 02:50 PM

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homoe

04-07-2019, 11:49 PM

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homoe

04-07-2019, 11:55 PM

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cathexis

04-08-2019, 03:32 AM

Pretty much anything on Steve Winwood's album "Higher Life" especially the title song, "Back in the High Life Again."

"Want Ads" by Honey Cone

"Father Figure" George Michaels. Reminds me of how Daddy used to solve or smooth anything.

Many "Velvet Underground" songs

theoddz

04-08-2019, 10:59 AM

After The Love Is Gone -- Earth Wind & Fire

For a while, to love was all we could do
We were young and we knew, and our eyes were alive
Deep inside we knew our love was true
For a while we paid no mind to the past
We knew love would last
Every night somethin' right
Would invite us to begin the dance
Somethin' happened along the way
What used to be happy was sad
Somethin' happened along the way
And yesterday was all we had

And oh, after the love has gone
How could you lead me on
And not let me stay around?
Oh, after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found?

For a while to love each other
With all we would ever need
Love was strong for so long
Never knew that what was wrong
Baby, wasn't right
We tried to find what we had
'Til sadness was all we shared
We were scared this affair
Would lead our love into
Somethin' happened along the way
Yesterday was all we had
Somethin' happened along the way
What used to be happy is sad
Somethin' happened along the way
And yesterday was all we had

And oh, after the love has gone
How could you lead me on
And not let me stay around?
Oh, oh, oh after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found?

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
After the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found
Oh, oh, oh, after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found
Oh oh, oh after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found
Oh, oh, oh

Oh, oh, oh after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found
Oh, oh, oh, after the love has gone
What used to be right is wrong
Can love that's lost be found

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~Theo~ :bouquet:

theoddz

04-08-2019, 11:06 AM

Disenchanted -- Michael Martin Murphey

She used to hang on every word
That rolled off my silver tongue
And she believed every single line
In every song I sung.

She thought that I hung the moon
That I could do no wrong
But I cheated and mistreated her
Then I found out I needed her
Now look who's hangin' on.

She's disenchanted, disenchanted with me
I took her for granted
Now she's disenchanted with me.

I didn't call when I said I would
When I stayed out late at night
And I was always the last one to apologize
Anytime we had a fight.

Forgotten dates unopened champagne
Things I should have said
I used to really turn her on
Now I can't even turn her head.

She's disenchanted, disenchanted with me
I took her for granted
Now she's disenchanted with me.

She's disenchanted, disenchanted with me
Why did I take her for granted
Now she's disenchanted with me,
Disenchanted with me.

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~Theo~ :bouquet:

RebelDyke

04-08-2019, 04:19 PM

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RebelDyke

04-08-2019, 05:41 PM

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~ocean

04-09-2019, 07:12 PM

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~ocean

04-09-2019, 07:23 PM

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kittygrrl

04-10-2019, 08:13 AM

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Vincent

04-10-2019, 04:05 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9BRqGpppJw

GeorgiaMa'am

04-10-2019, 05:37 PM

. . . and Don't Forget to give me back my black t-shirt!

https://youtu.be/XVk_e31dnlE

GeorgiaMa'am

04-10-2019, 06:04 PM

F*** YOU!

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GeorgiaMa'am

04-10-2019, 06:16 PM

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hagster

04-11-2019, 09:38 AM

I'm thankful I was steady when Adele's "21" came out so I could simply enjoy the album.

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Vincent

04-13-2019, 04:10 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aehwEu8SBSo

Bèsame*

04-13-2019, 04:46 PM

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clay

04-13-2019, 06:04 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aehwEu8SBSo

Positively 4TH Street...Bob Dylan has helped me heal on more than one occasion. Esp 1987!!!!

Thanks for bringing this link up, Vincent!

kittygrrl

04-14-2019, 11:34 AM

of late...............zoPEeQQ8mbY

RebelDyke

04-14-2019, 04:57 PM

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kittygrrl

04-16-2019, 04:01 PM

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GeorgiaMa'am

04-16-2019, 05:14 PM

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GeorgiaMa'am

04-16-2019, 05:21 PM

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Vincent

04-23-2019, 06:33 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xzq34YD3T8E
this song still bites
what you want,but its impossible

lyrics
What I want from you is empty your head
Well they say be true, don't stain your bed
Well we do what we need to be free
And it leans on me just like a rootless tree
What I want from us is empty our minds
Well we fake a fuss and fracture the times
We go blind when we've needed to see
And this leans on me just like a rootless
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
Then hate me so good that you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
What I want from this is learn to let go
No not of you, of all that's been told
But killers reinvent and believe
And this leans on me just like a rootless
So fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
Then hate me so good that you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
And fuck you, fuck you, I love you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing to you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me
Then hate me so good that you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
It's hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, just let me out
Hell when you're around

kittygrrl

04-24-2019, 03:30 PM

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GeorgiaMa'am

04-24-2019, 06:33 PM

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kittygrrl

04-25-2019, 03:09 PM

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love this one..it gave me solace in a tough jam

Venus007

04-25-2019, 03:31 PM

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpUYjpKg9KY

Glenn

04-26-2019, 01:57 AM

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Vincent

04-26-2019, 05:09 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hApQJ_n447A&list=RD04Jc4jes9vw&index=19

cricket26

04-27-2019, 12:21 PM

my fav heart break songs

the script- break even

switchfoot - dare you to move

lifehouse - broken

hope these help anyone going thru heart break

Amulette

06-09-2019, 01:09 AM

NULn-kAMAos

Thank goodness this heartache is not mine to feel right now but I saw this thread on my last little adventure here, and THIS kept coming to mind....

Amulette

06-09-2019, 01:21 AM

I know Etta James is supposed to be the Queen of this song, but I love the vulnerability of Beyoncé on this one...

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homoe

06-09-2019, 08:31 AM

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cricket26

06-10-2019, 06:31 AM

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~ocean

06-17-2019, 04:38 PM

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Kätzchen

08-10-2019, 12:52 PM

Perfect recovery song, if you ask me (I love it).

Go Disco!!! :cheerleader:

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kittygrrl

08-10-2019, 04:50 PM

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Orema

08-10-2019, 07:49 PM

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You can always count on the Isley Brothers.

homoe

12-05-2019, 10:35 AM

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THIS will definitely be my go to song should I ever have another break-up!

Chad

12-05-2019, 05:52 PM

I don't have any breakup songs but I remember all the relationship songs. I think that you can probably tell how it will end up by the theme song.

Wait, a femme did send me the end song once "I had the time of my life. "

True.

luv2bfemme

12-05-2019, 06:33 PM

I have really cling to Selena Gomez’s new song, Lose you to love me.

Breakups are sure not easy, just trying to stay on the positive side.

https://youtu.be/zlJDTxahav0

Ps... I still don’t hate her

Kätzchen

03-30-2022, 10:43 AM

The day Rico and I broke up, I heard this song on the radio and I tell you, It has helped me so much. I like great dance songs and this song has helped me to let go of all the dreams we both had for our life together. If you need a good song to help ya get over your love interest, I say this one is real good.

We had a clean breakup, but still, this song has helped me to process our breakup.

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