Is it better?

[Bella~Vita]

Just wondering if you had one choice which one it would be .

Feel better or look better?

For me it's both but I have to pick one so I will ..it's feel better for me because when I feel better I look better

[Soft*Silver]

omg...feel better....

[Corkey]

Hands down ...feel better.

[Bella~Vita]

Now that I'm looking at this question it's dumb ..lol... butttttttttt it was just on the news ..so I place the blame on them :blink:

[Corkey]

Now that I'm looking at this question it's dumb ..lol... butttttttttt it was just on the news ..so I place the blame on them :blink:

the only dumb question is the one unasked.

[The_Lady_Snow]

Feel better!!!!

[Gayla]

Ditto what Corkey said and I would choose feel better. Always. :)

[Liam]

Without a doubt, feel better.

[Daktari]

Ok so let's turn it into a game.



Is it better...

...to drink tea or coffee?

[Spork]

I agree with the opinion that if you feel better you are more positive about your looks.

I pick feel better, as well. I don't think looking better would make me feel better.

Interesting question!

[TickledPink]

Good health....Definitely "feel better."

[Bella~Vita]

Ok so let's turn it into a game.



Is it better...

...to drink tea or coffee?

Good idea

tea ..I would drink/think ..lol

[Daktari]

Good idea

tea ..I would drink/think ..lol

Thanks Kat. It seemed like a plan as you posted in the word games and quizzes zone :cheesy: Maybe if you gave the next choice it would keep the thread rolling.

[wolfbittenpoet]

feel better
drink coffee
is it better to smile or laugh?

[Bella~Vita]

I love to laugh

better to have loved? or not at all?:sunglass:

[adorable]

See it depends on how bad I'd feel.
Right now I don't feel bad at all. So I would go for look better....
If I felt bad right now (being one who likes everything 15 minutes ago) I'd go with feel better.

And....to have loved is always better. Sometimes it reminds you of your best self and other times, it proves you still know how to stab tires.

[Corkey]

Love is the highest form of all human endeavors.

[pajama]

"'tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"

Better to drive a truck or a car?

[Corkey]

depends if one lives in snow country or not......

[Jesse]

For me, truck...always.

[Corkey]

For me, truck...always.

You've never seen your rear end passing you going the opposite direction on ice I take it?

[amiyesiam]

You've never seen your rear end passing you going the opposite direction on ice I take it?

naw they just gotta have space for the gators and room for their stuff when hurricanes visit

[wolfbittenpoet]

Yes I've seen rear end passing on ice going down a kentucky mountainside. Also have hydroplaned during hurricanes.

Better to watch tv or read a book?

[violaine]

easy!

book.

better to make straight A's but get bullied, or barely pass, but be popular?

[wolfbittenpoet]

Now I am proponent of a C average and friends.

Better to play sports or watch sports.

[ONLY]

Now I am proponent of a C average and friends.

Better to play sports or watch sports.

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[COLOR="Red"]Better to walk along the beach at sunset OR at sunrise?

[Nat]

I'm alright with the way I look and the way I feel. I guess if I could have a bounty of happiness, energy, laughter, good humor, absence of pain, vitality, generosity of spirit and a life of profound meaning vs plastic surgery to tighten up my lost-weight-skin-wobblies, I would PROBABLY choose the first. maybe. :)

[ONLY]

Better to walk along the beach at sunset OR at sunrise?

[*Anya*]

Better to walk along the beach at sunrise. I love the start of the day when it is full of promise and I am full of energy. I am a morning person.

Is it better to be loved or desired sexually, if you could not have both?

[kix4funchick]

It's better to be loved.

Is it better to be cold or hot?

[Starbuck]

It's better to be loved.

Is it better to be cold or hot?

I can take the heat way better than I can the cold, so I'd say better to be hot.

Is it better to cook all your meals or eat out for most all meals?

[wolfbittenpoet]

cook all your meals

is it better to watch your favorite show or read your favorite book

[Amber2010]

Yes! Yes! Feel better hands down!
Not only physical but emotional as well.
So many times things happen that just change
your whole day just by actions of other people.

[*Anya*]

As much as I love to read, I have many favorite books which would make it difficult to chose.

On the other hand, I do have two favorite shows: Breaking Bad and Sons of Anarchy. Both of which I have watched multiple times as they are so complex. Probably would chose Sons.

Would you rather swim in a pool or swim in the ocean?

[LaneyDoll]

Would you rather swim in a pool or swim in the ocean?

Pool!!!

To paraphrase a fave quote:

Better to be hated for who you are or loved for who you are not?:sparklyheart:

[1ladyface]

I'd definitely rather swim in the ocean, you're more likely to see dolphins. :)

And...would you rather slow dance or dirty dance?

[pajama]

I'd definitely rather swim in the ocean, you're more likely to see dolphins. :)

And...would you rather slow dance or dirty dance?

If the slow dance is ballroom...then that.

Would you rather use 80/20 or 90/10 ground beef for a burger? (watching DDD)

[Talon]

90/10.

Would you rather be lost in a desert, or lost in snow-covered mountains?

[puddin']

answerin' miz laney's dat got skipped: hated fo' who i am.


Would you rather be lost in a desert, or lost in snow-covered mountains?

desert

is it betta to pamper or be pampered?

[Quintease]

Feel better. I've got so lazy and I can feel it in my body, I feel like such a mushy potato. I'm almost at the point where I'm considering working out ;)

And I'd much prefer a dessert than snow. Or was that a desert.. ?

[puddin']

it was desert, but i'll take a dessert if you're offerin' one!

is it bettta to stay home and sulk or go out and do sumpin'...

[Orema]

'Tis better to go out and do something.

Is it better to mention an error you made, that may otherwise go unnoticed, or to remain silent in hopes that no one sees it?

[Daisy Chain]

'Tis better to go out and do something.

Is it better to mention an error you made, that may otherwise go unnoticed, or to remain silent in hopes that no one sees it?

Better to mention it, it will only eat you up and people will remember your honesty over the matter long after they have forgotten what the error was.

Is it better to live close to family or further away ?

Daisy :bouquet:

[Ascot]

Better to mention it, it will only eat you up and people will remember your honesty over the matter long after they have forgotten what the error was.

Is it better to live close to family or further away ?

Daisy :bouquet:

I was fortunate to be able to live, for seveal years, in the same town as my mom when we were both adults. (for many years we had at least one continent between us) So, in that regard, I'll say close. With my brother, we probably wouldn't speak or see each other any more often even if we weren't separated by several states. No animosity, just neutrality.

When giving the option, is it better to be wise or brave?

[Orema]

I was fortunate to be able to live, for seveal years, in the same town as my mom when we were both adults. (for many years we had at least one continent between us) So, in that regard, I'll say close. With my brother, we probably wouldn't speak or see each other any more often even if we weren't separated by several states. No animosity, just neutrality.

When giving the option, is it better to be wise or brave?

Brave. What good is wisdom if you don't have the courage to use it?

Is it better to be an intuitive or analytical thinker?

[Gemme]

Brave. What good is wisdom if you don't have the courage to use it?

Is it better to be an intuitive or analytical thinker?

Intuitive. Our intuition is built into us for survival and overthinking something rarely helps me.

Is it better to win the lottery but not be able to collect due to a technicality or to lose your last $20 bill in a parking lot?

[RockOn]

lose my last $20.00 in the parking lot

Is it better to have many, many fair weather friends and be the life of the party or have only a handful of sincere friends who will really be there for you?

[C0LLETTE]

lose my last $20.00 in the parking lot

Is it better to have many, many fair weather friends and be the life of the party or have only a handful of sincere friends who will really be there for you?

I'll take a few good friends who like to party.

If you can shower only once per day, is it better to shower at night or in the morning?

[JDeere]

I'll take a few good friends who like to party.

If you can shower only once per day, is it better to shower at night or in the morning?

Shower in the morning

Is it better to make a mistaken and correct it or don't correct it at all?

[C0LLETTE]

Shower in the morning

Is it better to make a mistaken and correct it or don't correct it at all?

correct, if possible

better to drink milk or eat a yoghurt?

[JDeere]

Drink milk

is it better to put in resumes for a job you might not want or to not have a job at all?

[Daisy Chain]

Drink milk

is it better to put in resumes for a job you might not want or to not have a job at all?

put in the resumes, its money, experience, references for the future and you never know what opportunities may come form the unwanted post and you can still keep looking for your ideal job in the mean time.

Is it better to share all of yourself and life and with co workers or keep your working life and private life completely separate ?

Daisy :bouquet:

[JDeere]

put in the resumes, its money, experience, references for the future and you never know what opportunities may come form the unwanted post and you can still keep looking for your ideal job in the mean time.

Is it better to share all of yourself and life and with co workers or keep your working life and private life completely separate ?

Daisy :bouquet:

Keep working and private life completely separate.

Is it better to sleep in late or get up and get the day started.

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to sleep in late or get up and get the day started.

Depends on the person's work schedule, responsibilities, etc. For me, it's better to get the day started.

Is it better to have risky investments that my have high returns or more conservative investments that will provide guaranteed, but less monies in the long run?

[Daisy Chain]

Depends on the person's work schedule, responsibilities, etc. For me, it's better to get the day started.

Is it better to have risky investments that my have high returns or more conservative investments that will provide guaranteed, but less monies in the long run?

Conservative investments for the most part, only put in to risky investments what you can afford to loose.

Is it better to be self employed and have a shot at building your own empire or play safe and work for a company ?

[C0LLETTE]

I'm a lousy "employee" and I learned that long ago so I've been self-employed for decades. I don't have a boss, a manager and never get emails from my non-existent HR department telling me they've decided we all need to attend sales seminars for the next 6 weekends and improve our productivity or be replaced by robots.

Is it better to sit happily doing nothing or sit doing nothing feeling guilty about it and go do something?

[Ascot]

I'm a lousy "employee" and I learned that long ago so I've been self-employed for decades. I don't have a boss, a manager and never get emails from my non-existent HR department telling me they've decided we all need to attend sales seminars for the next 6 weekends and improve our productivity or be replaced by robots.

Is it better to sit happily doing nothing or sit doing nothing feeling guilty about it and go do something?

It's definitely better for me to sometimes sit doing nothing, quite contentedly. Extrovert though I am, I need periods of stillness. Besides, guilt is so 16th century.

It is better to know a tad about many things, or be very well versed in one?

[C0LLETTE]

It's definitely better for me to sometimes sit doing nothing, quite contentedly. Extrovert though I am, I need periods of stillness. Besides, guilt is so 16th century.

It is better to know a tad about many things, or be very well versed in one?

a tad about many things except maybe if you want to perform brain surgery...

Is it better to feed the cat when you want to feed it or when it wants to be fed?

[Daisy Chain]

a tad about many things except maybe if you want to perform brain surgery...

Is it better to feed the cat when you want to feed it or when it wants to be fed?

As they indulge my constant need for cuddles I indulge their constant need for food...so when the cat wants to be fed.

Is it better to run the gas tank on your car down to nearly empty and fill it right up or keep topping it up to keep about half full all the time ?

[Gemme]

As they indulge my constant need for cuddles I indulge their constant need for food...so when the cat wants to be fed.

Is it better to run the gas tank on your car down to nearly empty and fill it right up or keep topping it up to keep about half full all the time ?

Top it off. If you run the gas down too low, particulates and crap can get into your tank and screw things up royally.

Is it better to be out of your favorite ice cream or out of your favorite soda?

[C0LLETTE]

Top it off. If you run the gas down too low, particulates and crap can get into your tank and screw things up royally.

Is it better to be out of your favorite ice cream or out of your favorite soda?

ice cream

is it better to foster animals or adopt them

[Daisy Chain]

ice cream

is it better to foster animals or adopt them

Both if you can !!! OK adopt is marginally better.

Is it better to enjoy a wonderful book from the library and give it back knowing someone else will love it like you did or own the book and keep it to revisit always ?

[JDeere]

Library and give it back.

Is it better to trim your pets nails yourself and save money or pay the groomer to do it?

[Daisy Chain]

Library and give it back.

Is it better to trim your pets nails yourself and save money or pay the groomer to do it?

I wouldnt trust myself so groomer I think

Is it better to pursue a friendship with someone you admire and have respect for even though they seem to have little interest in you or accept they will not a constant in your life and leave it at that ?

[JDeere]

Not be a constant

Is it better to wash small loads or big loads in the washing machine to save time?

[Daisy Chain]

Not be a constant

Is it better to wash small loads or big loads in the washing machine to save time?

Ah ha ! That is a question I ask myself often ! I dont know ! Both...sometimes I`m in my economy save it up and do it one mood other times I want it all done and put away.

Is it better to be honest about all of your past relationships when pushed by a new lover or edit the details to save on the fall out ?

[Gemme]

Ah ha ! That is a question I ask myself often ! I dont know ! Both...sometimes I`m in my economy save it up and do it one mood other times I want it all done and put away.

Is it better to be honest about all of your past relationships when pushed by a new lover or edit the details to save on the fall out ?

Both and neither. You can be honest without being overly detailed. We broke up due to ____. No blame, no drama.

Is it better to have a dessert/treat during the day or at the end of the day?

[JDeere]

At the end of the day, as a reward

is it better to have a tantrum at home or out in public?

[C0LLETTE]

At the end of the day, as a reward

is it better to have a tantrum at home or out in public?

public...why waste all that spectacle?

is it better to embarrass yourself or others?

[Orema]

public...why waste all that spectacle?

is it better to embarrass yourself or others?

Neither

Is it better to clean up after someone else's mess or leave it for the next person who comes along?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to clean up after someone else's mess or leave it for the next person who comes along?


Clean it up


Is it better to turn the other cheek or show the person the error of their ways?

[TheHinduPose]

Clean it up


Is it better to turn the other cheek or show the person the error of their ways?

Try and show them the error
If they do it/say it again is it better to give them a poke in the eye or a quick little kick in the shin?

[Orema]

Try and show them the error
If they do it/say it again is it better to give them a poke in the eye or a quick little kick in the shin?

A little kick in the shin (surely, that's better than a poke in the eye :))

Is it better for powerful nations like America to offer financial assistance to poorer nations or let them figure it out on their own (without financial assistance)?

[TheHinduPose]

A little kick in the shin (surely, that's better than a poke in the eye :))

Is it better for powerful nations like America to offer financial assistance to poorer nations or let them figure it out on their own (without financial assistance)?

Give financial aid along with practical support in training ppl etc hopefully leading to a more self sufficient and stable solution.

Is it better to just steal an abused domestic animal from the abusers or report them to the RSCPA?

[C0LLETTE]

Give financial aid along with practical support in training ppl etc hopefully leading to a more self sufficient and stable solution.

Is it better to just steal an abused domestic animal from the abusers or report them to the RSCPA?

Steal it if you have the resources to care for it or know someone who does. (What a delicate question this is.)

Is it better to go Trick or Treating for candy in your neighbourhood on Halloween, or just buy yourself a big box, lock the door and eat it?

[homoe]

Steal it if you have the resources to care for it or know someone who does. (What a delicate question this is.)

Is it better to go Trick or Treating for candy in your neighbourhood on Halloween, or just buy yourself a big box, lock the door and eat it?

Buy it yourself..that way you get EXACTLY what you like!

Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all:sunglass:

[C0LLETTE]

Buy it yourself..that way you get EXACTLY what you like!

Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all:sunglass:

loved and lost.....to have never loved is tragic; unless, of course, you are a sociopath, then it's not a problem.

Is it better to be an ant or a grasshopper?

[Gemme]

loved and lost.....to have never loved is tragic; unless, of course, you are a sociopath, then it's not a problem.

Is it better to be an ant or a grasshopper?

Having seen the movies Antz, I would be an ant. They win!

Is it better to go to work without brushing your teeth or wearing dirty undies?

[homoe]

Having seen the movies Antz, I would be an ant. They win!

Is it better to go to work without brushing your teeth or wearing dirty undies?

I guess I'd have to say wearing dirty undies...

Is it better to have spinage stuck in yer teeth or have a piece of toilet paper stuck to your shoe?

[C0LLETTE]

I guess I'd have to say wearing dirty undies...

Is it better to have spinage stuck in yer teeth or have a piece of toilet paper stuck to your shoe?

Depends if you're a vegetarian or a meat-eater

Is it better to drink decaf coffee or diet cola?

[homoe]

Depends if you're a vegetarian or a meat-eater

Is it better to drink decaf coffee or diet cola?

Diet Cola.......

Is it better to eat chocolate with nuts or without nuts

[C0LLETTE]

Diet Cola.......

Is it better to eat chocolate with nuts or without nuts

def with nuts

Is it better to shower at night or in the morning?

[homoe]

def with nuts

Is it better to shower at night or in the morning?

At Night.....

Is it better to bite your tongue or speak your mind?

[C0LLETTE]

At Night.....

Is it better to bite your tongue or speak your mind?

When you're young, bite your tongue; when you're old, who gives a sh_t.

Is it better to skinny dip or eat some fried chicken and potato salad?

[JDeere]

When you're young, bite your tongue; when you're old, who gives a sh_t.

Is it better to skinny dip or eat some fried chicken and potato salad?

Eat fried chicken and tater salad.

Is it better to sleep 8 hours or not sleep at all?

[Orema]

Eat fried chicken and tater salad.

Is it better to sleep 8 hours or not sleep at all?

It's better to sleep.

Is it better to live poor and work at a job you love, or be rich and work at a job you hate?

[TheHinduPose]

It's better to sleep.

Is it better to live poor and work at a job you love, or be rich and work at a job you hate?

Work at a job you love (and join a union).

Is it better to take a leap in the dark or carry on a dimly lit path hoping you'll stumble across a light switch somewhere en route?

[C0LLETTE]

Work at a job you love (and join a union).

Is it better to take a leap in the dark or carry on a dimly lit path hoping you'll stumble across a light switch somewhere en route?

Stumblin' In....

IIBT: turn the other cheek or plow your tormentor in the face?

[JDeere]

Stumblin' In....

IIBT: turn the other cheek or plow your tormentor in the face?

Turn the other cheek.

Is it better to be unhappy with one person or happy with the wrong person?

[Smiling]

Turn the other cheek.

Is it better to be unhappy with one person or happy with the wrong person?

Happy. Always happy first.

Then, if they are really wrong they will fall to the wayside eventually, but you will still be happy. If you are not happy with someone, then they may not be as right as you think. And in that case, if you stay with them you are not only denying yourself potential opportunities, but them too.

Is it better to be a terrible person or a liar?

[Orema]

Happy. Always happy first.

Then, if they are really wrong they will fall to the wayside eventually, but you will still be happy. If you are not happy with someone, then they may not be as right as you think. And in that case, if you stay with them you are not only denying yourself potential opportunities, but them too.

Is it better to be a terrible person or a liar?

A liar.

I'd rather be a liar who's a good person than a terrible person who tells the truth.

Is it better to follow your instinct and possibly err or is it better to follow the rules and have the odds in your favor?

[Smiling]

A liar.

I'd rather be a liar who's a good person than a terrible person who tells the truth.

Is it better to follow your instinct and possibly err or is it better to follow the rules and have the odds in your favor?

Instinct. Too much rule following dampens and eventually snuffs out the spirit. I say boldly blaze a trail.

:pirate-steer:

Is it better to be content or healthy?

[Orema]

Instinct. Too much rule following dampens and eventually snuffs out the spirit. I say boldly blaze a trail.

:pirate-steer:

Is it better to be content or healthy?

Healthy, particularly when it comes to mental health. And, contentment isn't all it's wrapped up to be, if you ask me.

(Smiling, in reference to your previous question ... My response below is based on the POV that a terrible person is a terrible person whether they're honest or not and I have no time for terrible people. But, you may have been asking if it's better to be a terrible person [I]for telling the truth. If that's what you meant, and I'm almost certain that is what you meant after reading it a second time, then it's much better to be the terrible person. Love your questions:))

Back to the game ...

Is it better to wage war or turn the other cheek?

[Smiling]

Healthy, particularly when it comes to mental health. And, contentment isn't all it's wrapped up to be, if you ask me.

(Smiling, in reference to your previous question ... My response below is based on the POV that a terrible person is a terrible person whether they're honest or not and I have no time for terrible people. But, you may have been asking if it's better to be a terrible person [I]for telling the truth. If that's what you meant, and I'm almost certain that is what you meant after reading it a second time, then it's much better to be the terrible person. Love your questions:))

Back to the game ...

Is it better to wage war or turn the other cheek?

For me, it is always better to turn the other cheek. But it's easy for me to say that because I've been very very lucky in my life.

Regarding your question, you've caught me. :). I like to be deliberately ambiguous when I phrase questions sometimes because the way someone reads and subsequently answers the question also gives additional insight into where they are coming from if that makes sense. Kind of like a bunch of questions in one. Thank you for your thoughtfulness in response.

Is it better to be last or first?

[homoe]

In school whenever I had to give presentations I always went first so that way I could sit back and enjoy all the rest~!


Is it better to be early or late to a function

[JDeere]

In school whenever I had to give presentations I always went first so that way I could sit back and enjoy all the rest~!


Is it better to be early or late to a function

early in my opinion

is it better to not sleep at all and then nap later on OR try to get some sleep and hope for the best during the day?

[Orema]

early in my opinion

is it better to not sleep at all and then nap later on OR try to get some sleep and hope for the best during the day?

It's better to get some sleep.

Is it better to donate your time or money to help a cause?

[JDeere]

It's better to get some sleep.

Is it better to donate your time or money to help a cause?

Time!

Is it better to spend more time with your partner or have your own alone time more often?

[MissItalianDiva]

Both are equally important and I don't believe one should exist without the other.

Is it better to be genuinely happy or to just work for a generous amount


Time!

Is it better to spend more time with your partner or have your own alone time more often?

[JDeere]

Both are equally important and I don't believe one should exist without the other.

Is it better to be genuinely happy or to just work for a generous amount

Better to be genuinely happy

Is it better to buy in bulk or buy what you need?

[candy_coated_bitch]

Better to be genuinely happy

Is it better to buy in bulk or buy what you need?

For me, right now it's better to buy what I need.

Wyr getting a speeding ticket or three parking tickets.

[JDeere]

For me, right now it's better to buy what I need.

Wyr getting a speeding ticket or three parking tickets.

Parking tickets

Wyr get a no seat belt ticket or no tag ticket?

[homoe]

Hey ya nuts, this here is the "is it better" thread...hehehehehe

[JDeere]

Hey ya nuts, this here is the "is it better" thread...hehehehehe

HAHAHAHAAH we both had a brain fart I guess



Is it better to love someone you know that isn't right for you or not love at all?

[Orema]

HAHAHAHAAH we both had a brain fart I guess



Is it better to love someone you know that isn't right for you or not love at all?

Not love at all.

Is it better to put your money in a savings account or invest it?

[homoe]

Not love at all.

Is it better to put your money in a savings account or invest it?

Invest it .......

Is it better to always pay cash or use a credit cards

[DapperButch]

Invest it .......

Is it better to always pay cash or use a credit cards

Use the credit card in order to improve your credit score, but pay off the card in full each month.

Is it better to have a job that you like with little stress, or have a job that you love but it comes with long hours and a lot of stress?

[JDeere]

Use the credit card in order to improve your credit score, but pay off the card in full each month.

Is it better to have a job that you like with little stress, or have a job that you love but it comes with long hours and a lot of stress?

A job that you like with little stress

Is it better to have all bills paid or pay them a little bit every month?

[DapperButch]

A job that you like with little stress

Is it better to have all bills paid or pay them a little bit every month?

Typically if bills are not paid on time or not paid in full, interest gets added to them. How could that ever be a good thing? So, yes, it is better to pay your bills in full every month.

Is it better to enjoy your money now, or to not "play" as much now (invest your money), so that you don't risk having not enough money when you retire/are no longer able to work?

[Orema]

Typically if bills are not paid on time or not paid in full, interest gets added to them. How could that ever be a good thing? So, yes, it is better to pay your bills in full every month.

You are so right. I started doing this year's ago and it forced me to live within my means.

Is it better to enjoy your money now, or to not "play" as much now (invest your money), so that you don't risk having not enough money when you retire/are no longer able to work?

Invest or save your money for retirement or a rainy day. My advice is to go with something conventional and conservative (401k, IRAs, property, stocks).

Is it better to master one thing or to be a jack of all trades?

[Blade]

You are so right. I started doing this year's ago and it forced me to live within my means.



Invest or save your money for retirement or a rainy day. My advice is to go with something conventional and conservative (401k, IRAs, property, stocks).

Is it better to master one thing or to be a jack of all trades?

Jack of all trades
Is it better to eat what you want in small portions or diet

[JDeere]

Jack of all trades
Is it better to eat what you want in small portions or diet

eat what you want in small portions

is it better to drink regular sodas in moderation or drink diet all the time?

[Gemme]

eat what you want in small portions

is it better to drink regular sodas in moderation or drink diet all the time?

Diet soda has formaldehyde in it so regular soda is the way to go if you are going to drink soda.

Is it better to see into the future but not be able to change anything or to have the power to change the future without knowing what's coming or the consequence?

[Orema]

Diet soda has formaldehyde in it so regular soda is the way to go if you are going to drink soda.

Is it better to see into the future but not be able to change anything or to have the power to change the future without knowing what's coming or the consequence?

One the one hand, I would love to be able to see the future even if I couldn't change anything. But on the other hand, I couldn't live with myself if I knew I had a chance to make some changes and didn't do it, regardless of the outcome.

So, I'd go with making changes.

Is it better to have book smarts or street smarts?

[homoe]

One the one hand, I would love to be able to see the future even if I couldn't change anything. But on the other hand, I couldn't live with myself if I knew I had a chance to make some changes and didn't do it, regardless of the outcome.

So, I'd go with making changes.

Is it better to have book smarts or street smarts?

Street smarts...........

Is it better to have firm plans or fly by the seat of your pants

[Orema]

Street smarts...........

Is it better to have firm plans or fly by the seat of your pants

Firm plans. Spontaneity can produce great results, but you can also end up with a dud. I'd rather make plans.

Is it better to have the respect of your children or your parents?

[homoe]

Firm plans. Spontaneity can produce great results, but you can also end up with a dud. I'd rather make plans.

Is it better to have the respect of your children or your parents?

Boy tough one.......I guess parents (the one thing I DO KNOW is that you never realize how smart your parents REALLY were until you're older)


Is it better to clear the air RIGHT AWAY or wait and collect your thoughts?

[JDeere]

Boy tough one.......I guess parents (the one thing I DO KNOW is that you never realize how smart your parents REALLY were until you're older)


Is it better to clear the air RIGHT AWAY or wait and collect your thoughts?

That's a tough one it depends on the situation.

Is it better to be blind about misgivings or have grace towardsa person?

[Orema]

Boy tough one.......I guess parents (the one thing I DO KNOW is that you never realize how smart your parents REALLY were until you're older)

Is it better to clear the air RIGHT AWAY or wait and collect your thoughts?

Wait and collect your thoughts. I like to clear the air right away, but I that's not always the best way. I think it's better to wait, sit on it, become clear on what you think. Then have the discussion.

That's a tough one it depends on the situation.

But we can say that about all "Is it better" questions, can't we?

Is it better to be blind about misgivings or have grace towardsa person?

I think having grace toward another's misgivings is the best way to go.

Is it better to quit a job you've had for 10 years and start all over in an entry-level position in hopes of doing what you've always wanted to do, or is it better to continue working at a job where you have seniority but it gives you no satisfaction?

[Gayandgray]

Wait and collect your thoughts. I like to clear the air right away, but I that's not always the best way. I think it's better to wait, sit on it, become clear on what you think. Then have the discussion.



But we can say that about all "Is it better" questions, can't we?



I think having grace toward another's misgivings is the best way to go.

Is it better to quit a job you've had for 10 years and start all over in an entry-level position in hopes of doing what you've always wanted to do, or is it better to continue working at a job where you have seniority but it gives you no satisfaction?

OMG I'm currently in this exact situation!! LOL! Well due to financial obligations ; we just bought the house less than a year ago) and my seniority and FMLA for my disabled spouse, I stay at my job with not much satisfaction. :seeingstars: But I tell myself I make good money and I have health insurance, etc. However, if I ever hit that lottery I will quit. IS IT BETTER to try alternative medicine (herbs, homeopathy, reiki, accupressure,etc) or stick with traditional medicine the family doctor prescribes?

[meridiantoo]

IS IT BETTER to try alternative medicine (herbs, homeopathy, reiki, accupressure,etc) or stick with traditional medicine the family doctor prescribes?

I would blend them both, if possible.


Is it better to know the date of your death (if that were possible) or live without knowing?

[afemmenatalie]

I would blend them both, if possible.


Is it better to know the date of your death (if that were possible) or live without knowing?

I think it depends on the person. To me, there's no right answer.

Is it better to wake up without a migraine or without pain in your body?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to wake up without a migraine or without pain in your body?

Without a migraine, probably. I can't do anything with a migraine.


Is it better to teach children mostly how to survive (in an extreme sense) and take care of themselves or how to be a societal norm (thereby ensuring they have friends and family their whole life who will likely help them to survive)?

[afemmenatalie]

Without a migraine, probably. I can't do anything with a migraine.


Is it better to teach children mostly how to survive (in an extreme sense) and take care of themselves or how to be a societal norm (thereby ensuring they have friends and family their whole life who will likely help them to survive)?

Teaching children how to survive and how to take care of themselves provides a greater reward than teaching them how to depend on others who may or may not be there for them. I have always been a firm believer in depending on myself before relying on others.

Is it better to save cash in case of impending doom or to purchase food supplies which last for years in the event of a catastrophe.

[homoe]

Teaching children how to survive and how to take care of themselves provides a greater reward than teaching them how to depend on others who may or may not be there for them. I have always been a firm believer in depending on myself before relying on others.

Is it better to save cash in case of impending doom or to purchase food supplies which last for years in the event of a catastrophe.

save cash........

Is it better to come right out and speak your mind or beat around the bush?

[afemmenatalie]

save cash........

Is it better to come right out and speak your mind or beat around the bush?

Almost always better to speak ones' mind.

Is it better to indulge in overeating fruit or vegetables?

[homoe]

Almost always better to speak ones' mind.

Is it better to indulge in overeating fruit or vegetables?

Fruits for sure........not as gassy


Is it better to fly by the seat of one's pants or always have a firm plan

[afemmenatalie]

Fruits for sure........not as gassy


Is it better to fly by the seat of one's pants or always have a firm plan

Can one earn frequent flyer miles that way?😊
I think it depends on the situation.

Is it better to correct a person if they mispronounced a word while speaking with you, or let it pass?

[homoe]

Can one earn frequent flyer miles that way?😊
I think it depends on the situation.

Is it better to correct a person if they mispronounced a word while speaking with you, or let it pass?

Let it pass..........


Is it better to pay cash or charge it

[afemmenatalie]

Let it pass..........


Is it better to pay cash or charge it

Pay cash (keeps you/one from buying things you don't have the money to pay for).

Is it better to read by candlelight or flashlight in the event of a power failure?

[homoe]

Pay cash (keeps you/one from buying things you don't have the money to pay for).

Is it better to read by candlelight or flashlight in the event of a power failure?

Well it's just so happens I was without power for over 24 hours SO..candlelight

Is it better to grocery shop when you're full or hungry?

[afemmenatalie]

Well it's just so happens I was without power for over 24 hours SO..candlelight

Is it better to grocery shop when you're full or hungry?

For me, full. I spend less, buy better food which means I make better choices.

Is it better to use SPF 30 or 50 if you play in the sun, or wait until evening to swim outdoors and play ball?

[homoe]

For me, full. I spend less, buy better food which means I make better choices.

Is it better to use SPF 30 or 50 if you play in the sun, or wait until evening to swim outdoors and play ball?

Use 30 or 50 SPF's...........


Is it better to go to a store when it's just opening or about to close?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to go to a store when it's just opening or about to close?

Depends on the store and what day it is....Christmas time? Before they close, definitely. Any other time, when it's just opening.


Is it better to give gift cards for Christmas gifts or something you are not sure will be appreciated?

[homoe]

Depends on the store and what day it is....Christmas time? Before they close, definitely. Any other time, when it's just opening.


Is it better to give gift cards for Christmas gifts or something you are not sure will be appreciated?

Give something I'm not really sure will be appreciated BUT let them know I have the gift receipt just in case they wish to return it

Is it better to tell someone they have bad breathe or simply offer them a gum or mint?

[C0LLETTE]

Give something I'm not really sure will be appreciated BUT let them know I have the gift receipt just in case they wish to return it

Is it better to tell someone they have bad breathe or simply offer them a gum or mint?

give them a mint ... if you really must.

Is it better to have a tv or a computer in the bedroom?

[homoe]

give them a mint ... if you really must.

Is it better to have a tv or a computer in the bedroom?

TV................that way one doesn't miss a beat of these political debacles


Is it better to lie when someone asks for your honest opinion or give it and let the chips fall where they may?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to lie when someone asks for your honest opinion or give it and let the chips fall where they may?

Give an honest opinion

Is it better to leave a menial tip for a waitress/waiter or not tip at all?

[FireSignFemme]

Give an honest opinion

Is it better to leave a menial tip for a waitress/waiter or not tip at all?

I don’t dine out unless I can afford to tip and I only tip average for average service, excellent for excellent service. If the service is poor I speak with the server and give them a chance to improve, correct it because that is how they learn. If after speaking with them the service still continues to be poor then I don’t leave just a few pennies, it’s definitely better to leave nothing and speak with management if service has really been all that appallingly bad.

Is it better, in general, to bide your time or hurry things along?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to buy in bulk or buy what you need?

Buy in bulk on non-perishable items, buy what you need otherwise.

Is it better to be the bell of the ball or the unrecognized wallflower?

[FireSignFemme]

Buy in bulk on non-perishable items, buy what you need otherwise.

Is it better to be the bell of the ball or the unrecognized wallflower?

belle of the ball

Is it better to finger paint all over or color inside the lines?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to finger paint all over or color inside the lines?

Depends on the canvas

Is it better to go out without a bra or commando?

[FireSignFemme]

Depends on the canvas

Is it better to go out without a bra or commando?

Commando, unlike Britney Spears I feel confident about my ability to pull it off, do it stealth, braless with this much up top – not so much.

Is it better to attempt it without the lube or whip them for forgetting it?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to attempt it without the lube or whip them for forgetting it?

hmmm I don't put that responsibility on my partner, so better to attempt without it

Is it better to live as you may pass tomorrow (carpe diem) or live as if you will live to be a 100, even financially?

[homoe]

hmmm I don't put that responsibility on my partner, so better to attempt without it

Is it better to live as you may pass tomorrow (carpe diem) or live as if you will live to be a 100, even financially?

Carpe Diem................


Is it better to hint around or spit it out loud and clear

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to hint around or spit it out loud and clear

Be clear but not necessarily loud. Hinting around leads to confusion.

Is it better to end a very good long-term relationship suddenly, with a clean break, or remain friends?

[Angeltoes]

Be clear but not necessarily loud. Hinting around leads to confusion.

Is it better to end a very good long-term relationship suddenly, with a clean break, or remain friends?

Clean break, then maybe friends after some time passes.
Is it better to follow traditional fashion rules (no black & brown, no gold & silver, no white after labor day) or just do what you want?

[homoe]

Clean break, then maybe friends after some time passes.
Is it better to follow traditional fashion rules (no black & brown, no gold & silver, no white after labor day) or just do what you want?

Just do what you want....................


Is it better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?

Yes

Is it better to try to walk a mile in someone else's shoes who has hurt you, or just forgive them without understanding?

[FireSignFemme]

Yes

Is it better to try to walk a mile in someone else's shoes who has hurt you, or just forgive them without understanding?

Try to walk a mile in someone's shoes. The other is easier but this way you might learn something useful about yourself and/or others.

Is it better to underwelm or fail to make a good impression?

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to underwelm or fail to make a good impression?

I would have to say it's better to fail to make a good impression. If your effort is there, and you make some type of noticed impact, that seems better than underwhelming and falling off the grid.

Is it better to be late for work by 10 mins or 1 hour, if you have an excuse for both?

[TheHinduPose]

Is it better to be late for work by 10 mins or 1 hour, if you have an excuse for both?

I'd go for the 1 hour (if you have a decent boss and you're still paid in full)

Is it better to drink milk from cows that have been out grazing in green,grassy fields and exposed to natural sunlight etc or to have milk supplied by intensive dairy farming (this practice the cows are kept indoors fed on a diet of man made feed etc)

[meridiantoo]

Is it better to drink milk from cows that have been out grazing in green,grassy fields and exposed to natural sunlight etc or to have milk supplied by intensive dairy farming (this practice the cows are kept indoors fed on a diet of man made feed etc)

I think it's better for the cow for natural environments, and that, in turn, is better for us and dairy products we consume.

Is it better to have zoos and enclosed artificial animal exhibits for the sake of teaching and propagating species, or is it always better that an animal exists in its natural environment, free from any man-created impediment?

[Orema]

I think it's better for the cow for natural environments, and that, in turn, is better for us and dairy products we consume.

Is it better to have zoos and enclosed artificial animal exhibits for the sake of teaching and propagating species, or is it always better that an animal exists in its natural environment, free from any man-created impediment?

In its natural environment and free from man-made restrictions.

Is it better to leave the computer on when you're not using it or to turn it off?

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Is it better to leave the computer on when you're not using it or to turn it off?

Leave it on, because my computer monitor has a wonky power button with a severely limited remaining lifespan, so if I turn it off, I might never get it to turn back on again.

Is it better to eat delicious, natural, full-fat and full of natural organisms, non-BGH and non-antibiotic-laden yogurt, or to eat mass-produced, brand name, fat-free, low calorie, low organisms, milk-of-questionable-parentage, thickened-with-gelatin yogurt?

[Orema]

Leave it on, because my computer monitor has a wonky power button with a severely limited remaining lifespan, so if I turn it off, I might never get it to turn back on again.

Is it better to eat delicious, natural, full-fat and full of natural organisms, non-BGH and non-antibiotic-laden yogurt, or to eat mass-produced, brand name, fat-free, low calorie, low organisms, milk-of-questionable-parentage, thickened-with-gelatin yogurt?

Of your two choices, I think it's better the eat the full-fat and natural organisms than the mass produced low-cal and fat-free foods.

Is it better to give someone the answer to a puzzle or to let them work it out on their own?

[afemmenatalie]

Of your two choices, I think it's better the eat the full-fat and natural organisms than the mass produced low-cal and fat-free foods.

Is it better to give someone the answer to a puzzle or to let them work it out on their own?

Let them work it out on their own.

Is it better to lie in the sun to tan or to wear makeup with all kinds of chemicals in it and which makes you appear to be tanned?

[pumpndude]

Let them work it out on their own.

Is it better to lie in the sun to tan or to wear makeup with all kinds of chemicals in it and which makes you appear to be tanned?

Definitely for me, I would rather lie in the sun, I don't wear makeup nor do I need more chemicals in my body...



If lost in the woods would you rather eat bugs for protein or starve and just drink clean water?

[Orema]

Definitely for me, I would rather lie in the sun, I don't wear makeup nor do I need more chemicals in my body...


If lost in the woods would you rather eat bugs for protein or starve and just drink clean water?

It would be better to eat bugs (I'd start with ants the way I'm feeling about those critters these days).

When giving bad news, is it better to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothin' but the truth or is it better to sugarcoat the truth (without lying) to help ease the impact?

[afemmenatalie]

It would be better to eat bugs (I'd start with ants the way I'm feeling about those critters these days).

When giving bad news, is it better to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothin' but the truth or is it better to sugarcoat the truth (without lying) to help ease the impact?

I like to tell it like it is, but I also am gentle in the delivery of the news so as to ease its' impact.

Is it better to save your money throughout your lifetime so as to always have a nest egg to fall back on should you need the funds, or to spend your money on whatever suits you, whenever, as you never know how long you'll live?

[homoe]

I like to tell it like it is, but I also am gentle in the delivery of the news so as to ease its' impact.

Is it better to save your money throughout your lifetime so as to always have a nest egg to fall back on should you need the funds, or to spend your money on whatever suits you, whenever, as you never know how long you'll live?

I'd have to say spend it on whatever suits you! Tomorrow is guaranteed to no one!

Is it better to feel good or look good......(think billy crystal's "you look marvelous skits on SNL)

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'd have to say spend it on whatever suits you! Tomorrow is guaranteed to no one!

Is it better to feel good or look good......(think billy crystal's "you look marvelous skits on SNL)

When I was younger I would have said "look good", but now that I'm older and don't feel good, I would say "feel good".

Is it better to clean your home a little bit every day, or wait and do it all on one day a week?

[Glenn]

When I was younger I would have said "look good", but now that I'm older and don't feel good, I would say "feel good".

Is it better to clean your home a little bit every day, or wait and do it all on one day a week?

Betta to clean a little bitta e-v-e-r-d-a-y.

Is it better to vote for Hilary aka "Blind Justice" or Bernie aka "Con Man"?

[Sweet Bliss]

Betta to clean a little bitta e-v-e-r-d-a-y.

Is it better to vote for Hilary aka "Blind Justice" or Bernie aka "Con Man"?


It's better to vote for My Man Bernie. Do I hear a label/derisive tone?

Is it better to seek the answers for yourself or believe the media wholesale?

[afemmenatalie]

It's better to vote for My Man Bernie. Do I hear a label/derisive tone?

Is it better to seek the answers for yourself or believe the media wholesale?

It's always better to seek answers for yourself. Always.

Assuming you had to make a choice, is it better to be kind or smart?

[FireSignFemme]

It's always better to seek answers for yourself. Always.

Assuming you had to make a choice, is it better to be kind or smart?

Kind

Is it better to always leave at least a little bit for someone else or to take all that you can get while the getting is good?

[afemmenatalie]

Kind

Is it better to always leave at least a little bit for someone else or to take all that you can get while the getting is good?

It is better to leave at least a little bit for someone else.

Is it better to prepare food for an intimate party you are hosting, or hire a caterer?

[Sweet Bliss]

It is better to leave at least a little bit for someone else.

Is it better to prepare food for an intimate party you are hosting, or hire a caterer?

Depends, are you a practiced foodie? Or a microwave expert?

I'm going with hire a caterer.

Is it better to live alone or with pets?

[afemmenatalie]

Depends, are you a practiced foodie? Or a microwave expert?

I'm going with hire a caterer.

Is it better to live alone or with pets?

With pets any day, no comparison!!!!
(Studies show it is advantageous to one's mental and physical health to have a pet.)

Is it better to save articles/recipes by cutting them out and saving them in a folder, or scanning them and saving them on a thumb drive?

[Gráinne]

With pets any day, no comparison!!!!
(Studies show it is advantageous to one's mental and physical health to have a pet.)

Is it better to save articles/recipes by cutting them out and saving them in a folder, or scanning them and saving them on a thumb drive?

Since I have no idea what a "thumb drive" is, I'll say a folder. Better yet, an old shoebox with random recipes tossed in. My cookbook!

When you're faced with a list of tasks you don't really want to do, is it better to get the toughest, least liked one done first, or one of the easier tasks, to build up momentum?

[Orema]

Since I have no idea what a "thumb drive" is, I'll say a folder. Better yet, an old shoebox with random recipes tossed in. My cookbook!

When you're faced with a list of tasks you don't really want to do, is it better to get the toughest, least liked one done first, or one of the easier tasks, to build up momentum?

Start with the toughest is better for me, but I see the advantage to building momentum.

Is it better to have a bum knee or a bum shoulder?

[FireSignFemme]

Start with the toughest is better for me, but I see the advantage to building momentum.

Is it better to have a bum knee or a bum shoulder?

bum knee

Is it better to forgive or forget?

[afemmenatalie]

bum knee

Is it better to forgive or forget?

Forgive

Is it better to watch tv at night with a light on in the room, or in the dark?

[Orema]

Forgive

Is it better to watch tv at night with a light on in the room, or in the dark?

With a light on (soft light, please)

Is it better to vote for someone representing your party whose policies (past or present) you don't like or is it better to not vote at all?

[starryeyes]

With a light on (soft light, please)

Is it better to vote for someone representing your party whose policies (past or present) you don't like or is it better to not vote at all?

It better to vote for your party (especially now than ever!) because so much is at stake!!

Is it better to go on vacation to the mountains or the beach??

[afemmenatalie]

It better to vote for your party (especially now than ever!) because so much is at stake!!

Is it better to go on vacation to the mountains or the beach??

The beach, as long as you can go in to the water.

Is it better to eat raw or cooked vegetables?

[FireSignFemme]

Is it better to eat raw or cooked vegetables?

Raw

Is it better to be clumsy or plodding?

[afemmenatalie]

Raw

Is it better to be clumsy or plodding?

plodding. (you can possibly fix plodding, but you can't fix clumsy!)

Is it better to be an empath or be sympathetic?

[homoe]

plodding. (you can possibly fix plodding, but you can't fix clumsy!)

Is it better to be an empath or be sympathetic?

Empathetic......

Is it better to plan & plan or fly by the seat of your pants?

[Orema]

Empathetic......

Is it better to plan & plan or fly by the seat of your pants?

Plan

Is it better to be the coach or the referee?

[afemmenatalie]

Plan

Is it better to be the coach or the referee?

Coach: I feel it is more rewarding to coach others.

Is it better to smoke (cigarettes, pipes, cigars) or to chew tobacco?

[Orema]

Coach: I feel it is more rewarding to coach others.

Is it better to smoke (cigarettes, pipes, cigars) or to chew tobacco?

Chew tobacco; no one else will suffer from second-hand smoke.

Is it better to use an electronic or paper calendar?

[afemmenatalie]

Chew tobacco; no one else will suffer from second-hand smoke.

Is it better to use an electronic or paper calendar?

Paper calendar....for my needs.

Is it better to eat your heaviest meal mid-day or at the end of the day?

[Gayandgray]

Paper calendar....for my needs.

Is it better to eat your heaviest meal mid-day or at the end of the day?

Well I have heard that it's best to eat your heavy meal mid-day, but I eat it when it's convenient for me. Is it better to go to work with a horrible cold, or stay home so not to pass it on to your coworkers and make them sick?

[afemmenatalie]

Well I have heard that it's best to eat your heavy meal mid-day, but I eat it when it's convenient for me. Is it better to go to work with a horrible cold, or stay home so not to pass it on to your coworkers and make them sick?

Absolutely stay home if you are sick! Why risk getting others sick, and worse yet, having whatever you have go round and round.

Is it better to have albums filled with photographs of days and years past, or have only memories and pics stored in your brain?

[FireSignFemme]

Is it better to have albums filled with photographs of days and years past, or have only memories and pics stored in your brain?

Only memories and pics stored in your brain.

Is it better to dust first, then vacuum or vacuum first and then dust?

[homoe]

Only memories and pics stored in your brain.

Is it better to dust first, then vacuum or vacuum first and then dust?

What is this vacuuming and dusting you speak of, not familiar!

[Breathless]

What is this vacuuming and dusting you speak of, not familiar!

Homeo didn't answer the question or post a new one.. tsk tsk.. lmao

Better to dust and allow to fall to the floor then vacuum it up, or sweep, I prefer vacuum.

Is it better to salt food while cooking to seasoned taste or allow to still need a touch? and add themselves?

[Stone-Butch]

Its better to salt while cooking then let others salt to their taste.

ITB to flip a burger and add cheese or wait till the burger is almost cooked then add cheese.

[easygoingfemme]

Its better to salt while cooking then let others salt to their taste.

ITB to flip a burger and add cheese or wait till the burger is almost cooked then add cheese.

Wait until it's almost cooked.

Is it better to fall asleep listening to music or in silence?

[Bèsame*]

Wait until it's almost cooked.

Is it better to fall asleep listening to music or in silence?

Silence..my mind is quiet

Is it better to look at a tv listing guide or just flip thru the channels?

[Breathless]

Tv guides have interesting stories..

Water... is it better with lemon or without?Silence..my mind is quiet

Is it better to look at a tv listing guide or just flip thru the channels?

[candy_coated_bitch]

Tv guides have interesting stories..

Water... is it better with lemon or without?

Better with lemon.

When you're angry, better to yell and get it out or walk away and be silent?

[Orema]

Better with lemon.

When you're angry, better to yell and get it out or walk away and be silent?

Yell and get it out.

Is it better to get an extended warranty when making expensive purchases or to only go with the warranty that comes with the purchasing price?

[Gayandgray]

Yell and get it out.

Is it better to get an extended warranty when making expensive purchases or to only go with the warranty that comes with the purchasing price?

I think the extended warranty is good for major appliances like the washer, stove, etc. Is it better to cut off all ties with toxic friends or just treat them as an acquaintance, and not spend much time with them?

[Orema]

I think the extended warranty is good for major appliances like the washer, stove, etc. Is it better to cut off all ties with toxic friends or just treat them as an acquaintance, and not spend much time with them?

An argument can be made that it's beneficiall and healthy to keep them as an acquaintance, but I think it's healthier and better to cut all ties.

Is it better to float like a butterfly or sting like a bee?

:pursebee:

[TL1]

An argument can be made that it's beneficiall and healthy to keep them as an acquaintance, but I think it's healthier and better to cut all ties.

Is it better to float like a butterfly or sting like a bee?

:pursebee:

Sting like a bee! Lol


Is it better to do keep trying to do something on your own or ask for help?

[Gayandgray]

Sting like a bee! Lol


Is it better to do keep trying to do something on your own or ask for help?

I will try my best to do something on my own first, but will ask for help if necessary. Is it better to always think about the future and plan ahead, or just go through life taking each day as it comes?

[Orema]

I will try my best to do something on my own first, but will ask for help if necessary.

But which is better?

Is it better to always think about the future and plan ahead, or just go through life taking each day as it comes?

It's more interesting to take each day as it comes, but it's better to plan ahead. I like goals and deadlines. I don't always obtain the goal and may not always meet the deadline, but setting goals keeps me on track and keeps me headed in the direction I want to travel.

Is it better to live in the mountains or one of the valleys?

[afemmenatalie]

But which is better?



It's more interesting to take each day as it comes, but it's better to plan ahead. I like goals and deadlines. I don't always obtain the goal and may not always meet the deadline, but setting goals keeps me on track and keeps me headed in the direction I want to travel.

Is it better to live in the mountains or one of the valleys?

It all depends on whether it floods in this area! I think I would choose the valley, and I would vacation in the mountains when I missed that topography.

Is it better to correct someone when they mispronounce your name, or make no mention of it?

[Gayandgray]

It all depends on whether it floods in this area! I think I would choose the valley, and I would vacation in the mountains when I missed that topography.

Is it better to correct someone when they mispronounce your name, or make no mention of it?

I feel it is definately better to correct them, and I actually have to do it all the time. Is it better to confront someone when they talk about you behind your back, or just ignore it?

[homoe]

I feel it is definately better to correct them, and I actually have to do it all the time. Is it better to confront someone when they talk about you behind your back, or just ignore it?

I just ignore it, people will always believe/think want they want to


Is it better to dine Al fresco (eat outside) or inside during summer pleasant weather

[Gayandgray]

I just ignore it, people will always believe/think want they want to


Is it better to dine Al fresco (eat outside) or inside during summer pleasant weather

Well for me living right next to the woods, I say eat inside since there are a lot of bugs outside. But once we get the front porch screened in, I will say out there!:koolaid: Is it better to come right out and ask your boss for a raise, or wait until they notice the hard work you do?

[Orema]

Well for me living right next to the woods, I say eat inside since there are a lot of bugs outside. But once we get the front porch screened in, I will say out there!:koolaid: Is it better to come right out and ask your boss for a raise, or wait until they notice the hard work you do?

Come out and ask. It helps if you have a list of accomplishments/extra duties/recognition, etc. that justify the raise.

Is it better to cook with gas or charcoal?

[Gayandgray]

Come out and ask. It helps if you have a list of accomplishments/extra duties/recognition, etc. that justify the raise.

Is it better to cook with gas or charcoal?

I like the taste of the food better with charcoal. My stepson uses both and I definately prefer charcoal. Is it better to skimp on sleep or food when you are super busy?

[Orema]

I like the taste of the food better with charcoal. My stepson uses both and I definately prefer charcoal. Is it better to skimp on sleep or food when you are super busy?

It's better for me to skimp on sleep. No sleep causes me to move slower. No food brings out the bitch. I make more mistakes when I'm bitchy (in part because I don't give a damn) and I make less mistakes when I move slowly. In fact, this is how my week has been. Haven't been sleeping well, but have been eating well.

Is it better to eat before or after exercising?

[Gayandgray]

It's better for me to skimp on sleep. No sleep causes me to move slower. No food brings out the bitch. I make more mistakes when I'm bitchy (in part because I don't give a damn) and I make less mistakes when I move slowly. In fact, this is how my week has been. Haven't been sleeping well, but have been eating well.

Is it better to eat before or after exercising?

I feel it's better after exercising. Especially if I'm doing ab work or yoga, I get a sick stomach if I eat before. Is it better to be honest and tell people you don't feel like having company over or just let them invite themselves when you really aren't in the mood for entertaining?

[flapdoodle]

i eat after, i workout on empty stomach typically

is it better to dress for the occasion or dress for the place?

I dress for the occasion

[homoe]

i eat after, i workout on empty stomach typically

is it better to dress for the occasion or dress for the place?

I dress for the occasion

Occasion as well...........


IIBT Tell a small white lie as to not hurt someone's feelings, or come right out and answer them truthfully?

[Sweet Bliss]

It's possible to tell the truth without hurting someone's feelings. The truth allows the other person to trust you under any circumstances.


IIBT

use linen napkins or paper in terms of the environment?

[afemmenatalie]

It's possible to tell the truth without hurting someone's feelings. The truth allows the other person to trust you under any circumstances.


IIBT

use linen napkins or paper in terms of the environment?

In terms of a footprint on the environment, it is better to use linen napkins. The less waste we create, the more longevity we allow. After all, our planet can use all the help it can get.

Is it better to drink tea or take a medication when you have an upset stomach?

[homoe]

In terms of a footprint on the environment, it is better to use linen napkins. The less waste we create, the more longevity we allow. After all, our planet can use all the help it can get.

Is it better to drink tea or take a medication when you have an upset stomach?

I'm not a tea drinker but if it's a home remedy for an upset stomach, by all means I'd prefer that over any medications!

Is it better to try home remedies first before seeking out doctors and prescription medications?

[homoe]

I'm not a tea drinker but if it's a home remedy for an upset stomach, by all means I'd prefer that over any medications!

Is it better to try home remedies first before seeking out doctors and prescription medications?

YES, and much cheaper in the long run if they work


Is it better to make a list before shopping or just enjoy walking up and down all the isles in the store?

[C0LLETTE]

YES, and much cheaper in the long run if they work


Is it better to make a list before shopping or just enjoy walking up and down all the isles in the store?

No point making a list if shopping at Costco; they never have the same stuff as the last time you were there.

Is it better to live in Alaska or in Florida

[femmeandstrong]

If you want to have your $$$ last...make a list lol


Is it better to live in many places for a while or to become solidly part of a certain region?

[homoe]

If you want to have your $$$ last...make a list lol


Is it better to live in many places for a while or to become solidly part of a certain region?

Well IF one is running from the law OR is in witness protection, I'd say live in many places for a short while.............LOL

Is it better to shower last thing at night or first thing in the morning?

[femmeandstrong]

Well IF one is running from the law OR is in witness protection, I'd say live in many places for a while.............LOL

Is it better to shower last thing at night or first thing in the morning?




first of all LMAO @ witness protection...

then ...I'd shower both twice a day lol...




Is it better to stick ur head in the sand or ur nose in the air ? lol

[homoe]

first of all LMAO @ witness protection...

then ...I'd shower both twice a day lol...




Is it better to stick ur head in the sand or ur nose in the air ? lol

Head in the sand..................nobody wants the label 'stuck up'

Is it better to early than late?

[easygoingfemme]

Head in the sand..................nobody wants the label 'stuck up'

Is it better to early than late?

Early. Omg, early.

Is it better to cook it at home or order out?

[homoe]

Early. Omg, early.

Is it better to cook it at home or order out?

order out...........reservations are the best thing I make btw


is it better to host a holiday meal/event or be a guest?

[homoe]

order out...........reservations are the best thing I make btw


is it better to host a holiday meal/event or be a guest?

Be a guest.............

Is it better to spring ahead or fall back.....(think daylights saving time)

[TL1]

Be a guest.............

Is it better to spring ahead or fall back.....(think daylights saving time)

Fall back! Cuz that's an extra hour. (If we are actually talking about daylight savings. Cuz in other ways def spring forward. )



Is it better to go to the zoo or the aquarium?

[~ocean]

Fall back! Cuz that's an extra hour. (If we are actually talking about daylight savings. Cuz in other ways def spring forward. )



Is it better to go to the zoo or the aquarium?

Aquarium, although I love animals the aquarium smells a lot better ~


Is It Better ~ to sing alone or to someone ?

[homoe]

Aquarium, although I love animals the aquarium smells a lot better ~


Is It Better ~ to sing alone or to someone ?

In my case, without a doubt sing alone:canadian:


Is it better to get chummy with a neighbor or keep a safe distance

[Slow breath]

In my case, without a doubt sing alone:canadian:


Is it better to get chummy with a neighbor or keep a safe distance

Chummy.
Would you rather hang around a campfire or on a porch on a hot evening?

[homoe]

Chummy.
Would you rather hang around a campfire or on a porch on a hot evening?

porch........I'm just not an campfire type...lol


Would ya rather sip lemonade in the shade or drink a beer in the sun

[Gayandgray]

Beer in the sun! Is it better to have a 401k or an IRA?

[Orema]

Beer in the sun! Is it better to have a 401k or an IRA?

401k

Is it better to speak and possibly make a fool of yourself or keep it to yourself and not be heard?

[~ocean]

401k

Is it better to speak and possibly make a fool of yourself or keep it to yourself and not be heard?

depends if u like the sound of your own voice lol

Is it better to buy full price or go to a 2nd hand store ?

[JDeere]

depends if u like the sound of your own voice lol

Is it better to buy full price or go to a 2nd hand store ?

Go to a second hand store.

Is it better to say something and risk losing someone or just keep your mouth shut?

[candy_coated_bitch]

Go to a second hand store.

Is it better to say something and risk losing someone or just keep your mouth shut?

Say something.

Is it better to give love a second chance or to never look back?

[JDeere]

Say something.

Is it better to give love a second chance or to never look back?

Never look back.

Is it better to not explain because it's your right to not explain or explain and receive backlash?

[homoe]

Never look back.

Is it better to not explain because it's your right to not explain or explain and receive backlash?

Not explain because I got a right to my own thoughts'/opinions


Is it better to take off a Friday or a Monday when you want an extra long weekend?

[~ocean]

Not explain because I got a right to my own thoughts'/opinions


Is it better to take off a Friday or a Monday when you want an extra long weekend?

take off Thursday & Friday


is it better to win an argument or let them have their own way

[JDeere]

take off Thursday & Friday


is it better to win an argument or let them have their own way

Let them have their own way, saves alot of drama

Is it better to sing let it go or to sing we are the champions?

[homoe]

take off Thursday & Friday


is it better to win an argument or let them have their own way

Ya know, sometimes ya just have to pick yer battles so let them have their own way UNLESS it's very important to me!

Is it better to be predicable or free spirited

[Slow breath]

Predictably Free Spirited! lol, time and place for each (being predictable at work makes for a great day).

Carribbean vacation or European?

[homoe]

Predictably Free Spirited! lol, time and place for each (being predictable at work makes for a great day).

Carribbean vacation or European?

European...........

Traveling alone or with someone?

[Slow breath]

European...........

Traveling alone or with someone?

With someone!

First stop?

[homoe]

With someone!

First stop?

WITHOUT a doubt Paris France...................

Lug a lot of stuff you think you'll need or pack light and wash and go as you travel?

[Slow breath]

WITHOUT a doubt Paris France...................

Lug a lot of stuff you think you'll need or pack light and wash and go as you travel?

Lug too much (I'm working on that-goals!)

bed and breakfasts or 5 star hotels?

[homoe]

Lug too much (I'm working on that-goals!)

bed and breakfasts or 5 star hotels?

5 star hotels................

Individual tours or group tours?

[homoe]

5 star hotels................

Individual tours or group tours?

Individual tours.........you can see exactly what you want to see and when!


ISB to ask for help or struggle and figure it out for yourself?

[homoe]

Individual tours.........you can see exactly what you want to see and when!


ISB to ask for help or struggle and figure it out for yourself?

Ask for help don't be an idiot!

ISB to bitter and hateful or forgive and forget

[*Anya*]

ISB to bitter and hateful or forgive and forget

It is so much better to forgive.

ISB

To feel the heat or to feel the cold?

[C0LLETTE]

WITHOUT a doubt Paris France...................

Lug a lot of stuff you think you'll need or pack light and wash and go as you travel?

Lug a lot of stuff,: hire a pool girl and be unapologetic...Greta Garbo and Marlene Dietrich knew what they were doing. You can lose 3 days of your precious holiday trying to find menstrual pain tablets in Beijing when you could have been jogging the 3000 km length of the Great Wall.

Any place that requires you to bring your own lock isn't worth staying in so forget those hostels "only a 6 hour bus ride from the beach".

ISB to to apologise for something you didn't do than go to jail for life in Thailand for saying you think poppies are nice flowers?

[homoe]

I think it's BETTER to always apologize regardless of the situation!

Happy wife/partner happy life:hangloose:

P.S. And I don't think those jails in Thailand have comfy beds!

[homoe]

It is so much better to forgive.

ISB

To feel the heat or to feel the cold?

Feel the heat.........


ISB to take the Friday off before a three day weekend or the Tuesday after?

[Slow breath]

Feel the heat.........


ISB to take the Friday off before a three day weekend or the Tuesday after?

Friday, get started early!

ISB to take all of your vacation time at once, or have lots of extra long weekends.

[homoe]

IFriday, get started early!

ISB to take all of your vacation time at once, or have lots of extra long weekends.

Extra long weekends...............:hangloose:


IIB to take a vacation and go somewhere fun or stay home and get organzined around the house