Asking the Femme's for help!?!

[Blaze]

Okay this is my dilema...
Doll asked me to buy her 2 night wears <~ I know, so old fashioned is my termanology, give me a break lol.
First of all, I have no clue on how to buy a warm pajama, let alone a lingerie.
She told me to feel her body and then go out and buy what I feel is right as we were dancing.
I don't want to be seen in the shops trying to fondle a night gown.
I don't want to get a size to big, or she will feel insulted.
I don't want to get a size to small, then she may think that I think she needs to go on a diet, which she doesn't so there we have it.
How do I purchase these items without insult and more so for me injury??
And she said she will not go to the store with me, that I have to surprise her. Will the surprise be on me?
So I am asking for advice from my sisters out there PLEASE...

[Diva]

Okay this is my dilema...
Doll asked me to buy her 2 night wears <~ I know, so old fashioned is my termanology, give me a break lol.
First of all, I have no clue on how to buy a warm pajama, let alone a lingerie.
She told me to feel her body and then go out and buy what I feel is right as we were dancing.
I don't want to be seen in the shops trying to fondle a night gown.
I don't want to get a size to big, or she will feel insulted.
I don't want to get a size to small, then she may think that I think she needs to go on a diet, which she doesn't so there we have it.
How do I purchase these items without insult and more so for me injury??
And she said she will not go to the store with me, that I have to surprise her. Will the surprise be on me?
So I am asking for advice from my sisters out there PLEASE...


Ok......first.....go look at some of the things she has already....on the label at the neckline (sometimes the label is on the side seam) it will say what size it is.

My guess is she's a Medium. Sometimes, sizes are by S~M~Lg, etc. Sometimes, they are by numbers: 6~8~10~12, etc.

Again...I didn't check her out when You guys were here, thinking: "I think she's a size 10." hee hee

But from what I remember...maybe a 10 and a size medium.....but go check her clothing and/or other pieces of lingerie.

What's her favorite color? Buy it.

I would say Victoria's Secret, but Macy's also has some lovely lingerie. Good luck!

Oh....don't buy flannel or fleece....

[Blaze]

Thank you Diva,
Hmm, check the size label.. But she seems to buy really tight clothing, at least to me there tight. Hope she doesn't read this :kungfu:
I will take all of your information and :deepthoughts: into this...
:bigcry: but I like flannel!!! I think I will shop for myself

[Bit]

I don't want to be seen in the shops trying to fondle a night gown.


:superfunny:That is too funny!!

Okay... here's what you do. If you cannot ask her what size she wears--really, that's the best option, but sometimes you can't--check her closet and drawers, and see what size most of her clothes are. Then, pay attention to what she wears that you like the best, and check the sizes on those items--write the size down so you don't make any mistakes, k?

Now think about WHY you like it the best. Does it fit her loosely? Does it hug her curves? Next time she wears it, DO fondle her... see if you can tell what she's wearing under it. If she's wearing a corset or shaper of any kind, DO NOT buy that size in lingerie, k? Buy the size of most of her clothes, in that case. But if she's only wearing a bra--or nothing--under it, then you're good on the size.

Remember there is a difference between sexy slinky lingerie for going to bed in and warm pj's for actually sleeping in. She might prefer pj's to be a little looser.

Go back to thinking about your fav outfit for her, not just the way it fits, but the color and the style of it. It is plain? Does it have ruffles or lace? Is it a print, or a solid color? Is it a true clear jewel tone? A pastel? A warm autumn color? Look at all the clothes she looks best in, so you can get some sense of the colors that go best with her skintones. If in doubt, avoid buying red, orange, lime green or lemon yellow--only buy one of those colors if you're certain you can tell the right shades, k?

NOW go shopping.... go to her favorite store, and have fun. Bring a color pic of her with you, and ask a salesclerk for help with colors and styles if you need to.

Good luck!! Let us know how it goes!

[Bit]

Oh....don't buy flannel or fleece....

LOL! Diva, I completely forgot to say that!!

Blaze--silk or satin, possibly velvet if it gets cool enough there.

[fever]

My friend, you can look at our catalogue, print the page you like, and take it with you to a store nearby. OR, you can pick out something you like, and I will mail it to you. Also, I think Doll is a medium, but I didn't check out how big her bust was.

We are coming out with a new catalogue soon, as well.

Just a suggestion, glad to help. Maybe I should be helping all the butches who want to surprise their gal. :hangloose:

[Diva]

Thank you Diva,
Hmm, check the size label.. But she seems to buy really tight clothing, at least to me there tight. Hope she doesn't read this :kungfu:
I will take all of your information and :deepthoughts: into this...
:bigcry: but I like flannel!!! I think I will shop for myself


If she likes flannel, that's one thing.....

But for CHRISTMAS?

I'm just sayin' right now, that, if You buy that girl flannel for Christmas, I will personally kick Your butt to China. ;) You're gonna put FLANNEL on that gorgeous girl??????

Sweet Baby Jeebus. :D

[Blaze]

LOL! Diva, I completely forgot to say that!!

Blaze--silk or satin, possibly velvet if it gets cool enough there.

Thank you so very much Bit. Wow, between You and Diva's information, I am starting to feel alot more confident in my shopping demur. And to think. I would go into fishing stores and tool stores with not a doubt...
Doll usually want's perfume, and this I can handle because she leaves so many hints with open magazines circled with red ink for me to catch onto.
I am thinking that I can soon open my own manual on how to buy lingurie so we can help my butch brothers out there. This is awesome. Now, I will have to print all this valuable information and take it with me so that I can shop with out fear. Again, I thank you Ladies' for helping me...

[Blaze]

If she likes flannel, that's one thing.....

But for CHRISTMAS?

I'm just sayin' right now, that, if You buy that girl flannel for Christmas, I will personally kick Your butt to China. ;) You're gonna put FLANNEL on that gorgeous girl??????

Sweet Baby Jeebus. :D

I may have some Chinese in me, so I can deal with the free kick to China, lmao...
Qoute: I said I like flannel, I should shop for me. Geeeez Diva, I look good in flannel lmao, She would look like a woodchuck. I promise not to buy flannel,
~grinz~ 100% cotton!!! That's the ticket ~runzzzzzzzzzzzzzz~

[Gemme]

I dunno, ladies.....I saw a REALLY cute fleece sleeping corset a while back. Now, if only I could remember WHERE I saw it....:deepthoughts:

[Bit]

Cotton, my Aunt Fanny! :giggle:

Okay Blaze, let us know how it goes. :nixon:

[Blaze]

My friend, you can look at our catalogue, print the page you like, and take it with you to a store nearby. OR, you can pick out something you like, and I will mail it to you. Also, I think Doll is a medium, but I didn't check out how big her bust was.

We are coming out with a new catalogue soon, as well.

Just a suggestion, glad to help. Maybe I should be helping all the butches who want to surprise their gal. :hangloose:

Owww catalogue... Do you have fishing and camping ones too????:hangloose:
Than you Fever for giving yet another option to my shopping spree

[Blaze]

I dunno, ladies.....I saw a REALLY cute fleece sleeping corset a while back. Now, if only I could remember WHERE I saw it....:deepthoughts:

:thud: They have fleece corsets too?
Do please remembere where you saw it.

[blush]

I may be alone in this, but I don't like Vickie's Secret.

You might try figleaves.com. They have a huge range of stuff.

[Blaze]

I may be alone in this, but I don't like Vickie's Secret.

You might try figleaves.com. They have a huge range of stuff.

Come to think of it I don't think Doll likes Secrets either, I think it was Freddrick of Hollywood that she like, but I don't remember seeing any around here. Ok, I will check out figleaves,com. Many thanks Blush...

[FeminineAllure]

I would get her a really cute and comfortable, sexy pair of fleece or flannel PJs with matching slippers. Like >>>http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSSLPSETZZZ&cgnbr=OSSLPSETZZZ&rfnbr=5241

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Use these coupon codes when ordering and save...
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Good luck Blaze!

[Gemme]

Come to think of it I don't think Doll likes Secrets either, I think it was Freddrick of Hollywood that she like, but I don't remember seeing any around here. Ok, I will check out figleaves,com. Many thanks Blush...

I'm more of a Freddy's girl than a Vicky's girl, too. I'm sure you'll come up with something great!

[Blaze]

I would get her a really cute and comfortable, sexy pair of fleece or flannel PJs with matching slippers. Like >>>http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSSLPSETZZZ&cgnbr=OSSLPSETZZZ&rfnbr=5241

I own these slippers in black and love them!>>>http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=EG-246592

Now for sexy>>>http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSSLPLGEZZZ&cgnbr=OSSLPLGEZZZ&rfnbr=5366

Use these coupon codes when ordering and save...
20% off a single item if you order before this wednesday code is ITEM20

Link to Fredricks of Hollywood>>>http://www.fredericks.com/Alt_Homepage_SX_FR95_Home/Alt_Homepage_SX_FR95_Home,default,pg.html?gclid=CJ idr-XTn54CFZho5QodpVcFsA&008=&004=1453163388&005=19537900&006=4338117798&007=Search&002=2116353&

Good luck Blaze!

Wow, so many choices, I am really getting the hang of this shopping now. Thank you very much FeminineAlure, seeing is much easier than trusting my instincts on what is out there, I deeply appreciate you taking the time to post the links for me! Your awesome.

[Vlasta]

hi .... I see you got a plenty suggestions already I just would like to add I shop both places VS and FOH ..... VS has much better quality of everything .

FOH stuff look nice on the website , but in reality it's cheap . I even purchased clothing from them and there it's no way I would go in public looking like that . I give it away all what I ordered . I have some nighties , but that's it .

There it's a website www.fatwallet.com .... it has it's own thread for VS updated with promo codes all the time such as free shipping , etc .

good luck and happy shopping :)

[Legendryder]

hi .... I see you got a plenty suggestions already I just would like to add I shop both places VS and FOH ..... VS has much better quality of everything .

FOH stuff look nice on the website , but in reality it's cheap . I even purchased clothing from them and there it's no way I would go in public looking like that . I give it away all what I ordered . I have some nighties , but that's it .

There it's a website www.fatwallet.com .... it has it's own thread for VS updated with promo codes all the time such as free shipping , etc .

good luck and happy shopping :)

No, I am not thread stalking you V. roflmao

[Mister Bent]

I'm totally inspired now to get e some night wears for her upcoming birthday!

[evolveme]

I'm totally inspired now to get e some night wears for her upcoming birthday!

Oh, yes! Please!

http://menspajamabottoms.com/images/RedFleeceAdultFootedDropSeat2.jpg

[Andrew, Jr.]

A certain gal :drool::deepthoughts::tease::daddy::tongue: just thinking outloud

[Vlasta]

No, I am not thread stalking you V. roflmao

no not you ;).... I stalk you too when I worry if you are feeling good and as far I remember you used to like my nighties , but then again you were snoring too much :tongue:

sorry for derail y"all , ya know these ex's .... but at least we are good friends :) and not spiting fire here .

[Legendryder]

no not you ;).... I stalk you too when I worry if you are feeling good and as far I remember you used to like my nighties , but then again you were snoring too much :tongue:

sorry for derail y"all , ya know these ex's .... but at least we are good friends :) and not spiting fire here .

I did, very much so. And sorry about the snoring thing. rofl I wake myself up sometimes.

[Vlasta]

I did, very much so. And sorry about the snoring thing. rofl I wake myself up sometimes.

lmao ... I know , but I used to that so I was fine with it ... and stop stalking me before moderator comes in this thread and tell us off ...... you are derailer ;) not me I am a good girl ...lol

[Mister Bent]

Oh, yes! Please!

http://menspajamabottoms.com/images/RedFleeceAdultFootedDropSeat2.jpg

Really?

Cuz I was kind of thinking...

http://img.diytrade.com/cdimg/695069/7688215/0/1229691922/Snuggie_Fleece_Throw_China_as_seen_on_TV.jpg

[Legendryder]

lmao ... I know , but I used to that so I was fine with it ... and stop stalking me before moderator comes in this thread and tell us off ...... you are derailer ;) not me I am a good girl ...lol

Suuuurrrrreeeee you are. :superfunny:

[Blaze]

Hmmm, I think I like it in Blue, would go good with my tent, and perhaps some serenity prayers... Yes definately the Blue, wonder if it comes in Camo?

[NotAnAverageGuy]

For the ladies, I could use some ideas, advice, etc....

When a certain femme comes to visit me from out of town, what is the best way for my house to be cleaned, I do it myself or hire someone to clean it from top to bottom?

Should I buy certain candles she likes? Certain foods?

[Diva]

For the ladies, I could use some ideas, advice, etc....

When a certain femme comes to visit me from out of town, what is the best way for my house to be cleaned, I do it myself or hire someone to clean it from top to bottom?

Should I buy certain candles she likes? Certain foods?


If You're a clean freak, do it Yourself. If not, hire out. Make sure the bathroom is clean ~ no hair in the sink, plenty of TP, a clean handtowel, maybe even a little basket (if there's room on the counter) with special soap, lotion, travel sized shampoo, etc. It's a nice touch.

Clean linens on the bed, of course.

It would be a very nice gesture to find out her likes and dislikes as far as her preferences ~ drink (alcholic and non- ) of choice, snack preferences, food likes and dislikes, allergy issues. Does she like Peppermint Patties? Favorite candy? Favorite cheese and crackers? Does she like apples as opposed to pears?

It might seem like some work at first, but to her, You will be thoughtful.

[NotAnAverageGuy]

If You're a clean freak, do it Yourself. If not, hire out. Make sure the bathroom is clean ~ no hair in the sink, plenty of TP, a clean handtowel, maybe even a little basket (if there's room on the counter) with special soap, lotion, travel sized shampoo, etc. It's a nice touch.

Clean linens on the bed, of course.

It would be a very nice gesture to find out her likes and dislikes as far as her preferences ~ drink (alcholic and non- ) of choice, snack preferences, food likes and dislikes, allergy issues. Does she like Peppermint Patties? Favorite candy? Favorite cheese and crackers? Does she like apples as opposed to pears?

It might seem like some work at first, but to her, You will be thoughtful.


Ohhhhh awesome Miss Diva thank you for answering with honesty:rrose:

LOL@ clean bed linens, that is a must for sure :nerd:

[Hudson]

I like the 'night wears' (and day wears) from
Agent Provocateur (http://www.agentprovocateur.com/), LaPerla (http://www.laperla.com/en-us/) and La Senza (http://www.lasenza.co.uk/)

[Laidbackgrly]

make her buy it!