OFOS Butch......wants to find an OFOS Femme

[clay]

Being an "older, matured" OFOS butch...I am realizing that these qualities/attributes are going by the wayside. It is a shame...as I want these to be always a part of ME..who I am. These are a part of my everyday life. Manners, courtesy, respect, and chivalry are the main ingredients of me.
I am a 1950's model of OFOS Butch...I prefer feminine pronouns BUT am NOT offended by hy, hym, boi, daddi...words are just words...those do NOT in any way define me nor make me who I am....as my inner soul is who/what I am.
I have many, many miles on me..my "odometer of life" has rolled over a time or two...BUT I am guaranteed to make it past one million miles..and then some. I am blessed with stamina, endurance, patience, and a sense of humor that gets me through. I live life to its fullest each day. I am always positive and upbeat, and see the glass as half full. I am kind, gentle, fiercely loyal, protective..being a Leo! My disposition is always sunny, I am very very protective of my den. My body has its fair share of knicks, dings, and "repair marks" BUT is a healthy body...my heart is in excellent shape and is ready to fall in love again..when the right one comes along.
Being a minimalist and not about material things of the world, I am quite comfortable, live within my means, and have a heart the size of Texas. I am generous to a fault, I love hard, I love deeply, and I love monogamously!
Some of my greatest joy comes from writing to my special lady...may it be poetry, erotica, or silly love notes....maybe a scrawled in lipstick note on the mirror..or a note hidden in her purse to find later on...or maybe a special meal..just for us two..by the fireplace..or on the beach..and maybe a moonlight picnic in my SUV..by the water..I enjoy giving massages..and can rub muscles for quite a long time...kisses....ahhh...long, slow, deep kisses...flirting outrageously...holding hands...
I am one of those rare breed of butches that I have no "preconceived" ideal in mind...all I am looking for is she be sincere, genuine, honest, and one whose heart will join mine..and we will beat as one...someone who is available and able to commit, who wants the chaos, the trials & tribulations life has, and who is able to simply join my hand with hers and let our hearts be as one...
It doesn't matter where you came from..what you did...what matters is that NOW you will be here with me..a clean slate..the past is gone....we will make our own lives rich and full...you will have an inner beauty and incredible soul...it is the heart & soul that matter most to me..if that is beautiful then YOU will be the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth to me!! You will have my undying love and rapt attention...you will walk along with me..equal in all respects..I will love you to eternity and back...you will always be treated and respected for the lady you are!!!
The intimate part of US will be between us and decided privately between us...it is sacred to me...and as well to you, I hope!!
Thanks for stopping by...reading what I have written. I am enjoying the Planet and I know she will offer you up to me..when the time is right...I am in no hurry...I am enjoying life..one day at a time...waiting for YOU...to come home...meanwhile I am enjoying flirting with the ladies here!!!
Have an awesome day...from this OFOS butch...who owns it..who wears it..who KNOWS it is within my soul...a deeply rooted part of me....who "walks the talk and talks the walk"...xoxoxoxo...Clay

[clay]

I also had wanted to add that I am a hopeless romantic. I am always, always thinking of ways to let my woman know how much she means to me..I literally ooze it from my pores..and have a very vivid imagination...BUT with me..it is always about romance..whether we are newly dating..or been partnered for months or years...we will always have dates....in many places and ways...it is all about staying in love...and keeping that love vibrant, alive, and fired up!!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

My beautiful friend, I sincerely hope you meet that equally beautiful Femme you desire. I know you will both be very happy together when you do eventually meet each other. (f)

Oh! And make sure you send out my Wedding Invitation in good time so we can create myschief before your big day! ….The Carolinas won’t know what’s hit them! LOL! :blink:

[Sachita]

awwww big hugs! You will find her. I just know it.

But in the mean time perhaps you can mosey on up to southern virginia and give us a hand on the farm weekends? There's a few of us ready to do great things. You'll work hard, get in great shape and who knows, might be a few cute fillies stroll in now and then. lol

[Gráinne]

At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?

At any rate, I know you will find someone right for you :)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?

At any rate, I know you will find someone right for you :)

There's nothing stupid about asking a question, no matter how silly it seems. :)

OFOS = Old Fashion, Old School.

[LaneyDoll]

Whoever snags you will be one lucky lady! And she will not be after you just for what you can buy her.

(I am still less than amused by that in case you cannot tell.)

Thank God you had a good, decent person helping you after your surgeries, one who was there out of pure kindness.

:sparklyheart:

[clay]

Whoever snags you will be one lucky lady! And she will not be after you just for what you can buy her.

(I am still less than amused by that in case you cannot tell.)

Thank God you had a good, decent person helping you after your surgeries, one who was there out of pure kindness.

:sparklyheart:


Thanks, Laney! I appreciate your kind words and support of me. Yes, I CAN tell...we have to let that go..and move on...k? smiles...
Yes, I was very blessed with having her here for that surgery and aftewards to move me into my new apt. SHE IS an angel and a decent, kind, compassioante person! Love ya honey...Clay

[clay]

awwww big hugs! You will find her. I just know it.

But in the mean time perhaps you can mosey on up to southern virginia and give us a hand on the farm weekends? There's a few of us ready to do great things. You'll work hard, get in great shape and who knows, might be a few cute fillies stroll in now and then. lol


hi Sachita! Thank YOU also for your kind words. I appreciate that!
Oh trust me, I wish I COULD be a part of that Dream Farm Team! I wouldn't be of much help at this time..lol...I have to sit to do most anything....having been all busted up in a debilitating motorcycle wreck in May 2006. I can walk, but with limits...short distances!
I CAN cook and do some things though!
Sounds like quite an adventure you will be having up there...yes, I would be in great shape and chase some of those young fillies around.
I am so glad you have a carpenter coming. I Know she will be a huge help to you!!!
Good luck....make it happen girl!! Clay

[clay]

My beautiful friend, I sincerely hope you meet that equally beautiful Femme you desire. I know you will both be very happy together when you do eventually meet each other. (f)

Oh! And make sure you send out my Wedding Invitation in good time so we can create myschief before your big day! ….The Carolinas won’t know what’s hit them! LOL! :blink:



ah the Mystress of Myschief! Thank you, for such glowing words about me...I thank you deeply! smiles...
I will be sure to send YOU, Mystress Myschief a Wedding Invite..and you are right...the Carolinas won't EVER be the same afterwards!! This IS the Baptist Bible Belt of the South...lawd lawd...a quirky Kiwi on the loose....oh my stars...lmao..we WILL most defs get into Myschief!!
Have an awesome day my friend...and CONGRATS to you also!!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

ah the Mystress of Myschief! Thank you, for such glowing words about me...I thank you deeply! smiles...
I will be sure to send YOU, Mystress Myschief a Wedding Invite..and you are right...the Carolinas won't EVER be the same afterwards!! This IS the Baptist Bible Belt of the South...lawd lawd...a quirky Kiwi on the loose....oh my stars...lmao..we WILL most defs get into Myschief!!
Have an awesome day my friend...and CONGRATS to you also!!

Thank you and you are most welcome Myster Myschief! (f)

I reckon the deep south probably still hasn't recovered from the last time I was there! :blink: LOL! That could have been why they offered me a job there, again, recently! :confused: LOL!

Next Wednesday is the meeting/interview. I need to sit and meditate on this and the Uni places....it would be great to do both, if there were more houes in the day! LOL!

[clay]

Thank you and you are most welcome Myster Myschief! (f)

I reckon the deep south probably still hasn't recovered from the last time I was there! :blink: LOL! That could have been why they offered me a job there, again, recently! :confused: LOL!

Next Wednesday is the meeting/interview. I need to sit and meditate on this and the Uni places....it would be great to do both, if there were more houes in the day! LOL!



houes rotflmao....DID u say "houes"...NO you did NOT.....and off we go....lmao

[1QuirkyKiwi]

houes rotflmao....DID u say "houes"...NO you did NOT.....and off we go....lmao

LOL! Oops! ....I meant to type hours. Silly fingers on keyboard! LOL!

[girl_dee]

awwww Clay when you aren't lookin she will appear right there !

I appreciate OFOS butches, and there are plenty of femmes that feel the same way!

[Ciaran]

I CAN cook and do some things though!


Clay ... somehow I don't think that I'm your type but, that said, I am looking desperately for a good cook in my life :praying:

If I wore a dress would it help my chances? :worried:

[clay]

Clay ... somehow I don't think that I'm your type but, that said, I am looking desperately for a good cook in my life :praying:

If I wore a dress would it help my chances? :worried:
Oh absolutely, Ciaran...and if you PROMISE to shave your legs on Tues/Thur/Sat..we may have a win win deal......smiles! Plus if I may have a girl on the side...wink

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Oh absolutely, Ciaran...and if you PROMISE to shave your legs on Tues/Thur/Sat..we may have a win win deal......smiles!

And on Sundays, Clay will let you shave her legs! :blink: LOL!

[Sachita]

Clay ... somehow I don't think that I'm your type but, that said, I am looking desperately for a good cook in my life :praying:

If I wore a dress would it help my chances? :worried:

I'll cook for you if you wear a dress and clean my house. lol The list may grow

[LaneyDoll]

Clay ... somehow I don't think that I'm your type but, that said, I am looking desperately for a good cook in my life :praying:

If I wore a dress would it help my chances? :worried:

I am a fairly good cook; my forte is baking. I will gladly let you wear a dress to improve your chances with me.

Wait a minute... I don't date femme girls. You won't need to wear a dress. But, since you are from London, you CAN speak to me in that yummy accent.

:sparklyheart:

[1QuirkyKiwi]

[COLOR="Indigo"]I am a fairly good cook; my forte is baking.

I've never mastered the art of baking, simply because I'm not a lover of cakes and biscuits, yet, it's a skill I've always wanted. Other than that, I'm very good at cooking. :)

*Disclaimer: I don't date Femmes....just hoping the Butch I'm dating can cook, too! ;) Hym wearing a dress is optional, but, [B]not preferred! :blink: LOL!

[Sachita]

Laney can bake, I can cook- where a dress and be our bitch! lol

[Ciaran]

Laney can bake, I can cook- where a dress and be our bitch! lol

This sounds tempting ...... but I saw a reference to needing to clean and, as it's a domestic chore, it rules me out I'm afraid :|

[clay]

getting back on track...lol......
I write......often...and it always comes from my heart....I never know what will come out...it is my hope to share some of those writings in here..along the way..I want this to be my writings...for her to discover when the Universe crosses her path with mine..
I go through many legal pads...as I sometimes will write a "piece" that may be a multiple of pages...sometimes it is a line or two..and a paragraph may come out..
Everything I write here is personal and may be about me..and my own opinion.
Gentleness is deeply rooted within me...and is also part of my Cherokee lineage...a gentle people! I want to be a sweet, gentle, kind, compassionate, loving soul. Life is far too precious to be anything else.
I had quite a health scare in November 2011. I was found to have a cancerous mass in my colon, found on a routine diagnostic test pre op for a hysterectomy. Long & short of it...I had major abdominal surgery the 9th of December. I was in ICU for a week then a surgical floor a week. I will, of course have to have blood work at intervals to be sure it hasn't returned, BUT my prognosis is excellent. With that said, I already knew the world turned on a dime...having that diagnosis be given to me...made that even more clearer. I am living life...as fully as I can. I am loving those who cross my path..and I am one who believes love can be of many levels..on many different planes. While I want to fall in love with THE one, I will also love others along the way.....in differing ways. As I have said I am in no hurry...as I want to do things the old fashioned way. I want to "pitch and woo" her...as in the days of old. By that same token, I want to have a love of my own. I enjoy being with someone..I enjoy all the "chaos" and all the busy ness of a love that comes with the territory......
I will write more later....sleepy now..g'night!

[Silverseastar]

As I read this thread with amusement at the delightful responses, OFOS seems to have flown the coop!

Or maybe it has a more mutable meaning?

[Sassy]

At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?

(So glad someone else asked this so I didn't have to. ;) Thanks.)

Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile :)

It's just so educational around here ;)

[Parker]

As I read this thread with amusement at the delightful responses, OFOS seems to have flown the coop!

Or maybe it has a more mutable meaning?

I believe it stands for Old Fashioned Old School.

[farmgirl]

Awwww, Clay you will find someone very special to fill your life and have that adventure with you! You are an amazing person, with a great heart. Hugss...Farm

[clay]

(So glad someone else asked this so I didn't have to. ;) Thanks.)

Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile :)

It's just so educational around here ;)
Sassy.......I am a true southerner..and that is what I always heard growing up...and it is what I call courting and woo'ing a lady! One woos by flowers, dates, special little gifts, etc...in my world anyway! Glad to have passed something down to you....smiles...thanks for stopping by! Clay

[clay]

Awwww, Clay you will find someone very special to fill your life and have that adventure with you! You are an amazing person, with a great heart. Hugss...Farm


Thanks, Farm...appreciate your kind words....you are pretty awesome yourself!! Jess, too! I heart you both...Clay

[Sassy]

Sassy.......I am a true southerner..and that is what I always heard growing up...and it is what I call courting and woo'ing a lady! One woos by flowers, dates, special little gifts, etc...in my world anyway! Glad to have passed something down to you....smiles...thanks for stopping by! Clay

*laughs* I'd heard of woo. I'd just never heard "pitch woo" ;) ... To be completely honest, I had to Google it 'cause I wondered if adding "pitch" to it gave it some kind of connotation other than romance .... *ahem* ... blame that on my mind... goes straight to the gutter. Occupational hazard really... *laughs* Honest! :)

[Canela]

I came across this quote tonight and thought of you Mr OFOS--apparently you and 'ole blue eyes' share a similar philosophy when it comes to women. This makes you 'mega' cool IMHO.
Stay true to you Clay, there are plenty of OFOS femmes out there and you will find 'the one'. Hang in there. Take your time as you wade thru the applications--lol. (Jk)

***
'I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback. They're habits I could never break, nor would I want to. I realize today a lot more women are taking care of themselves than in the past, but no woman is offended by politeness.'
~Frank Sinatra

[clay]

I came across this quote tonight and thought of you Mr OFOS--apparently you and 'ole blue eyes' share a similar philosophy when it comes to women. This makes you 'mega' cool IMHO.
Stay true to you Clay, there are plenty of OFOS femmes out there and you will find 'the one'. Hang in there. Take your time as you wade thru the applications--lol. (Jk)

***
'I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback. They're habits I could never break, nor would I want to. I realize today a lot more women are taking care of themselves than in the past, but no woman is offended by politeness.'
~Frank Sinatra


Thanks, my friend!!! This made me smile....and it is who I am...and I never want my politeness, respect, and courtesy for a woman to escape me. I actually DO stand when she enters a room!!!!
This quote is a gentle reminder to remain true to "my roots"...and yes, I know "The ONE" is out there..maybe I have already talked to her, or our paths have crossed...destiny & fate will....or maybe has....crossed our paths already......I know I am open to that possibility!!!!
Have an awesome day my friend!!
PLEASE pardon my delay in thanking you for this..I thought I had....<blushes> where DID MY manners go? smiles.

[smouldering]

Just stopping by to say hello *smiles* Clay do you have that oh so sexy Southern Accent too? :sunglass:

[clay]

Just stopping by to say hello *smiles* Clay do you have that oh so sexy Southern Accent too? :sunglass:

ahhh reckin' I do, ma'am! <smiles>

[smouldering]

ahhh reckin' I do, ma'am! <smiles>

That will definitely win ya some points there ;) I hope you've had a good day!

[clay]

That will definitely win ya some points there ;) I hope you've had a good day!


aww thanks my friend!!
I am told it is deep and nice...a sloowwww drrrraaawwwlllll....lol...

[smouldering]

aww thanks my friend!!
I am told it is deep and nice...a sloowwww drrrraaawwwlllll....lol...

Oooh I think now you're just trying to tease us! *giggles* sounds nice!

[jac]

Clay buddy... you're day is going to shine and that special soul is going to meet up with yours and BLAM... love eternal. You're an amazing person and I totally enjoy trailing your posts... yeh stalkerish style. Hey, what can I say... I love to read the good stuff...lol. Your genuine dude, and I look forward to the day you post that you found her, got her and have her for life.. :)

[clay]

Clay buddy... you're day is going to shine and that special soul is going to meet up with yours and BLAM... love eternal. You're an amazing person and I totally enjoy trailing your posts... yeh stalkerish style. Hey, what can I say... I love to read the good stuff...lol. Your genuine dude, and I look forward to the day you post that you found her, got her and have her for life.. :)



hey Stoney:
Thanks buddy! Appreciate your post!! And kind words...likewise for you buddy....<grin >...is that jet engines I hear in the background...hmmm...<weg>....
BTW..."stalk away"....I am flattered!
I look forward to that also!!! Have a great weekend,Stoney!!!

[clay]

and I am sittting on my patio...a bright, sunny afternoon/evening...and 75 degrees.
Wearing a huge smile...imagining MY Femme has entered my life...and I am planning a "date" for us tonight.....
I have made plans for us....picked up a bouquet of fresh spring mix flowers....gaily colorful..to present her when I pick her up...a blanket in the back, along with a picnic basket...filled with various cheeses, strawberries...big, plump juicy ones....dark chocolate to dip them in..as dark chocolate goes well on EVERYTHING.....baked bie, smoked oysters, smoked herring, cocktail crackers, and a nice Merlot........a book of sensual poems....stories...massage oil....and extra jackets...for that slight chill that will surely come as the sun sets...and I have her head in my lap...feeding her...letting her suck the goodness off my fingertips...so tantalizingly slow....and I will feed her...gather her close, and whisper sweet nothings into her ear...offer her sips of wine along...to be finished off with fat strawberries...the kind that just "drips off your lips" juicy...dipped in the dark chocolate....as I bend to taste the remnants of the chocolate and juice off her lips...slowly...teasingly...playfully...as our eyes burn into one another...I use the massage oils...to massage her hands...slowly...looking deeply into her eyes...and ever so slowly...up and down..one long finger...at...a...time...smiles..
we are hidden from public in between the dunes and the beach is fairly empty...the fine salt mist....the roaring in the background of the waves...crashing on the shore...she lies back against my chest, between my legs...her hair just under my chin..as I silently inhale the scent of her hair...my chin on her head...and I read...in a deep, low, sensual tone...the poetry...her arms lying one on each of ny thighs...the softness of her....against me...the hardness of my thighs..as she plays along them...absently.....a sliver of moon peeks over the horizon...we are lost in time...here...she & I...and I am reminded of how wonderful it is to have someone...to court her...to date her.....to spend quality time with...and the intimacy of her skin through my jeans...and my shirt...just the scent of her hair...how wonderful to be able to inhale that..and suspend her essence there...in time...knowing that I am adored..and that love is starting to grow here.....and that she is real...and she is so powerful...she holds the very essence of me...inside of her....and that we will...in time...consummate this love that is blossoming...growing...seeding inside our hearts...
Yes, this is a part of the things I will do for her..when she enters my life...for I don't want a relationship that starts with "instant chemistry" or instant love..I want that seed to start deep inside us...to be tended with care..to sprout slowly....as that is from whence "being in love" comes for me...
I await you, my darling...I know you are out here...maybe already in my life in some way...and we are just waiting..to go on this date..so the seed can be watered...tended..and start......
I am going to "keep on keeping it real"...for this is who I am...I already like you...are you ready to go to the beach?

[Parker]

for I don't want a relationship that starts with "instant chemistry" or instant love..I want that seed to start deep inside us...to be tended with care..to sprout slowly....as that is from whence "being in love" comes for me...

Nice post. :)

[gaea]

Clay my friend you will find her, *smiles* it seems that this thread has gathered around you and that is amazing..

I for one would like to show my hand as an ofos femme and see nothing wrong with being such. I love an ofos butch, seems to me that has also gone to the wayside.

If i may, id like to say I like having my doors opened, chairs pulled out etc even though i can take care of myself and i do, this shows respect to both parties involved or just in general.

There must be more OFOS butches as well as femmes here yes?

[smouldering]

Clay my friend you will find her, *smiles* it seems that this thread has gathered around you and that is amazing..

I for one would like to show my hand as an ofos femme and see nothing wrong with being such. I love an ofos butch, seems to me that has also gone to the wayside.

If i may, id like to say I like having my doors opened, chairs pulled out etc even though i can take care of myself and i do, this shows respect to both parties involved or just in general.

There must be more OFOS butches as well as femmes here yes?

Definitely agreed, It is sad but true, definitely gone to the wayside.. So it is nice to be reminded that it is still alive some where out there :)

[clay]

As far as I am able to "feel" you.. I am able to feel so freely to share...it is a beautiful thing....making love...self gratification..and a woman's body...she is like a sacred temple to me...I notice the minutest of things about her....perhaps her stance...the shape of her ears...how she breathes when I have made love to her...the feel of her hand on my thigh...her hair...how it splays across her forehead...the way she holds her coffeecup..the shape of her feet...and her eyes... eyes get me most of all...they turn to a liquid pool of heat and want.... when she has been satisfied...they are so smoldering prior to this..I LOVE to look down into her soul when she is spread before me...like a delectable picnic...mine for the taking...ravishing her earlobes...the sides of her neck..while my hand trails softly down the underside of her arm laying above her head..to her armpit...and down...our eyes locked....mine as soft blue sky that turn deeper blue with my rapture...and the heat exudes...we lie close...burning one another's searing flesh...as my butch hands (soft yet strong) "map" her..every little fold...every corner..every deep, dark secret place....hmmmmmm...I am....getting carried away here...swept by the sea of want...and desires... carried like a roiling sea to ecstacy...she is silent beauty...she is ever still yet her flesh tears me up inside...as only a woman will...and I long to be in her "there"...where it is like a home...only no home I have ever known....it is there...and only there I am complete...one within her.......where souls combine and hearts beat as one...she is beauty....she is rapture..she is woman... she is mine

[clay]

Nice post. :)


Thanks Celtic!! Appreciate the input...it is just who I am...I want that love..when she & I connect..to grow...slowly...deeply...I will love her..BUT I want that "IN LOVE" to grow in time..and be solid and secure...not the "instant attraction" kind...I want that long, slow burn of passion to keep me alive with desire, want, and committment" to her...and likewise...being best friends who slowly grow into an "US"...and in no rush...like the kind where you are friends....and enjoy one another without all those "strings" and "promises"....the kind where all of a sudden you wake one day and say...hey...wow...and you REALLY see her...like for the first time...and your heart knew long before you did...smile...

[clay]

ahhh the warm sand...the sea air...salty and invigorating! I LOVE this place! An abundance of flora & fauna..and dolphins...YES< I REALLY DO see them...and NO, they are NOT "figgies"...smiles.....and I am always renewed with their majestic size, playfulness, and beauty! Makes me feel small in the grand scheme of things. Dolphins keep me centered....grounded...while I wait for my special HER....they renew my spirit...calm me..and give me a great sense of serenity and an inner peace like no human can....and I always, always "mesmerized" by their poise, gracefulness, and spirited freedom to pursue aquatic life...and dine on schools of fish..yet are so awesome...
Another great attraction of living in a coastal place is the sea turtles. I had the pleasure of seeing them a few years ago, as I camped on the ocean's sea wall in my motorhome..and they came ashore to nest. That is an incredibly moving, peacefulness unlike any other...a huge sea turtle...lumbering to the dunes..and backing her rear in and digging a deep hole..where she lays her eggs...covers them..and heads back to sea. When the hatchlings appear, they usually, instinctively head to the water....but sometimes are distracted by the lights of places on the shoreline..so along the East Coast, most places have a Lights Out program that is heavily enforced to allow for the hatchlings to scurry to the ocean...and of course, many don't make it for a various asundry of reasons.....fall prey to bigger predators...raccoons, birds, and disorientation to their surroundings...anyway, it is an awesome sight.
This past summer, when I was on the beach early one am to catch the sunrise, I was privvy to actually have an "up close & personal" encounter with a big old mama...as she headed back out to sea....I have a pic...she is amazing....huge....and I have seen them in years past when out on my pontoon....and they swam by..they are very skittish..so one has to be on alert and see them rather quickly....smile...incredible memories!!!
I await the arrival of my special HER so I may share these wonderful sightings with her......smiles....I feel our hearts have already touched..and am just patiently waiting...for that one special day..she will say...hey you, here I am!....come and get me!! I heart you, my future soulmate!! But you already "feel" this in this big old awesome universe...where destiny & fate abound.......wherever you may be..miles away...smile...

[clay]

While I have many thoughts on what I want to share...my mind gets ahead of me..and I get "sidetracked" easily...so as things pop in my mind..I will come and share them...
MY whole life...I was always about being a person of character....in my hometown...a person's word is their honor...to be taken seriously and as honest truth. When I make a promise, it is one I can keep...when I give another my word..you can take it to the bank! I live inside my conscience..my soul..and I want to know I was a person of my word. So for me to give you my word, it is sacred...something of me to be protected..
I want someone of the same fabric as my soul is..a person with honor, integrity..one who can give her word, and I can trust in it. I want solidity in promises...just as mine will.
Moral turpitude and good moral compass are equally important! None of us are without "flaws"...and I wouldn't want someone who is without them...just as I have mine. It is through those "flaws" and "differences" we work together...being flexible, compromising, and reaching a happy medium together!!
I was raised to be gentle, loving, and able to be forgiving. I abhor arguments...good discussions..with some heat are good..but never ones that lead to yelling, cursing, verbally abusing and/or fighting.... ever come to any thing of any good. I am NOT used to that NOR do I want to start. I have way too much respect for my femme to ever yell at her, verbal abuse her, and certainly to never physically abuse her. My heart is filled with love...tons of love...and every day with her would be a gift for me...a gift to be treasured, cherished, and treated with respect, courtesy, and love only.
The OFOS Femme I would like to partner with will be treated like a princess...always...cherished, respected, and with utmost courtesy!
If this is something that appeals to a lady..then great! That is one I would seek...she will be protected by me, be held lovingly, and made to feel safe..my eyes would be ONLY for her alone!! I have never in my life cheated on anyone I was with. It is not in my fabric of being...I keep love fresh and in a spirit of "new" and "refreshing"....always..and always she would know..I am for her alone...in every way. Our lives would be joined...pure and sacred...it doesn't take a ring or a binding ceremony for me to be committed....it is our heart strings that tie one to the other...that keep me grounded..and committed to her..alone!!
I will close for now..just some rainy evening writings...to let that one femme out there for ME know some more of me..
oh how incredible it would be to go lie down in my big old bed, snuggle under the comforter with a special one right now..thunder in the distance...rain pelting down...making lulling, relaxing noises......I wish she were here...come on sweetheart...my arms are for you alone..my eyes are on you alone...and will stay that way..take all the time you need to decide..and to find me...I am patient..always going to belong to you...Clayboi

[gaea]

While I have many thoughts on what I want to share...my mind gets ahead of me..and I get "sidetracked" easily...so as things pop in my mind..I will come and share them...
MY whole life...I was always about being a person of character....in my hometown...a person's word is their honor...to be taken seriously and as honest truth. When I make a promise, it is one I can keep...when I give another my word..you can take it to the bank! I live inside my conscience..my soul..and I want to know I was a person of my word. So for me to give you my word, it is sacred...something of me to be protected..
I want someone of the same fabric as my soul is..a person with honor, integrity..one who can give her word, and I can trust in it. I want solidity in promises...just as mine will.
Moral turpitude and good moral compass are equally important! None of us are without "flaws"...and I wouldn't want someone who is without them...just as I have mine. It is through those "flaws" and "differences" we work together...being flexible, compromising, and reaching a happy medium together!!
I was raised to be gentle, loving, and able to be forgiving. I abhor arguments...good discussions..with some heat are good..but never ones that lead to yelling, cursing, verbally abusing and/or fighting.... ever come to any thing of any good. I am NOT used to that NOR do I want to start. I have way too much respect for my femme to ever yell at her, verbal abuse her, and certainly to never physically abuse her. My heart is filled with love...tons of love...and every day with her would be a gift for me...a gift to be treasured, cherished, and treated with respect, courtesy, and love only.
The OFOS Femme I would like to partner with will be treated like a princess...always...cherished, respected, and with utmost courtesy!
If this is something that appeals to a lady..then great! That is one I would seek...she will be protected by me, be held lovingly, and made to feel safe..my eyes would be ONLY for her alone!! I have never in my life cheated on anyone I was with. It is not in my fabric of being...I keep love fresh and in a spirit of "new" and "refreshing"....always..and always she would know..I am for her alone...in every way. Our lives would be joined...pure and sacred...it doesn't take a ring or a binding ceremony for me to be committed....it is our heart strings that tie one to the other...that keep me grounded..and committed to her..alone!!
I will close for now..just some rainy evening writings...to let that one femme out there for ME know some more of me..
oh how incredible it would be to go lie down in my big old bed, snuggle under the comforter with a special one right now..thunder in the distance...rain pelting down...making lulling, relaxing noises......I wish she were here...come on sweetheart...my arms are for you alone..my eyes are on you alone...and will stay that way..take all the time you need to decide..and to find me...I am patient..always going to belong to you...Clayboi

I believe that because you are so willing to put this out there in the universe that this will happen for you.

She may walk into your life or fall in your lap or be just around the corner from you, however it will happen for you.

I will send warm wishes for you to the universe my friend.

[clay]

I believe that because you are so willing to put this out there in the universe that this will happen for you.

She may walk into your life or fall in your lap or be just around the corner from you, however it will happen for you.

I will send warm wishes for you to the universe my friend.



Thanks my friend...I so appreciate your kindness & best wishes....you are so right...when one least expects it...it will happen....have an awesome day!

[Leigh]

I still love this thread, its a beautiful thing to see all of the wonderful butches and femmes here :)

[clay]

today has dawned a gorgeous, sunny warm day here in tropical land.....and if you were here...we would pack a lunch picnic, grab a blanket, wine, and my iPod..and off we would go down to the shore...and have a delicious, slowly, sensual "lunch"....enjoying the fresh salt air, the warm sand, and we would walk out to the edge..dip our toes in the sea foam..and feel the warm waters rush over our toes...as the wind swept the tendrils of hair across your forehead...as I gently tipped my head down for a kiss...tasting the wine on your sweet lips...and losing myself into your amazing beauty...knowing that all that matters in that moment...is that we are immersed into one another..eyes searching, resonating, and validating..and knowing we belong..for eternity..one to the other...your beauty always, always sweeps me away...you make me go weak in the knees with those eyes....soulful, willful, wanting, sensual, and seeing down into my own soul...how incredibly deep my love and admiration and devotion is to you...always about YOU...my world is blah, colorless, and so empty without you..so I await you...by the sea..to come and fill my heart, my soul, my world with your beauty..your soul..your love...your eyes...the very essence of your scent.....for you ARE the "scent of love" in my sea!!!!

[clay]

in my desire for a wonderful OFOS Femme to be with me...I want her to be one who will be an open communicator with me.
I want for us to be bound only by lovestrings that join our hearts...a bond that will stand the test of time..and needs only our nurturing it, tending it, and protecting it... my heart will skip a beat or two...just in seeing her...whether it was ten minutes ago OR 8 hrs. ago....as will hers.
I want music to be an integral part...as we share one another's passions for whatever genre..and we would love plays, opera, and movies...date nights once a month..just us..like two randy teens each and every time we meet up...that passion for one another to never die, but to consume us more every day! To share hobbies, interests, and passions for whatever life may offer...equally!
I will give her reason to smile randomly during her day...thinking of her handsome prince...just as I will thinking of my beautiful princess! While walking, our steps will be ones of skipping or dancing..to that soulful beat of rhythm inside our hearts...that sing one to the other.
Our lovemaking will ignite small fires inside us...that increase to raging infernos to be quelled with love's waters...
She will be treated like a human being...never be yelled at, ridiculed, or abused...only love lives in my heart & veins....only love, respect, kindness, and courtesy will she ever know..gentleness, softness, and passion.
She will be spoiled with many, many little and big things I am able to give to her...picnics in bed...or beach...or by a fire on the beach...lovenotes..left inconspicuous places, meals made with love, massages, baths with candles and soft music, love letters written with the most ardent of passions from me...erotically colorful, tender, raw, hungry, and always always with genuineness....my treasure chest for her will always have magical, mystical, and wonderfully passionate things to give to her...it isn't about the $ BUT about heart gifts!
I want a woman who wants to have a quiet, loving, simple life...built for the two uf us...filled with much love, civility, respect, and courtesy...loyalty, devotion, and eyes for only me...as I will only for her...
Our love will hve trust in one another, trust that doesn't require binding someone...with that trust comes security, believing in one another, and being able to have friends, their own identity, and not have to live under a "proverbial" microscope...that is how MY love & I live
I want a woman who has passions of her own, who lives life on her own terms, who will be MY true North, just as I will hers.
I want to have her walk her walk...and be her own woman....yet need what I can give her...to complement her..and her, me.
I want a woman who is able to be independent yet we mutually have needs of one another. I want her to walk her path....but walk the path of love with me. I want her to have her own identity...it is not about owning someone, or making her be a puppet...it is about being equals..in every way.
I want a woman who wants to get mushy love letters, flowers..just because..and who wants an OFOS, matured butch! I am open, genuine, and am like this 24/7. I won't ever change...and I want to be who I am now..what you read and see is just what you will get.
I want a woman who will dance close to me in bed at night as we kiss the day's sunlight goodbye and welcome the moonbeams...and make love so sweetly..so tenderly...so passionately...sometimes greeting the sun...as we were so lost in time and space that we made love..all night long...I can make love to you..without making love to you...when our hearts synch with one another, you will understand this...
I want someone who will share a cup of coffee with me..naked and in bed..or with just a robe and sit in my lap..as we rock gently.
I want a woman who is willing to step into our world..free and without any one else involved..I know there are women who will want this...I am waiting for just that woman.....so...step into my heart..I await you by the seashore...with a picnic..hope you will enjoy this journey...I intend to walk it to eternity when she comes into my heart...

[clay]

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[Cid]

You're such a 'romantic' aren't you Clay? I really hope you find that illusive femme and you both live happily ever after, just like in the fairy tales. And when you find her, she'll be the luckiest woman around!

[genghisfawn]

Clay *is* terribly romantic, and hy knows what the OFOS femmes are looking for. Someday she'll be there - that's for sure!

*smiles*

Keep being you, Clay.

[clay]

You're such a 'romantic' aren't you Clay? I really hope you find that illusive femme and you both live happily ever after, just like in the fairy tales. And when you find her, she'll be the luckiest woman around!



aww Cid..thanks...so very much...for your sweet words. Appreciate your input!!!
Yes, I am afraid I am...a hopeless, eternal romanticist...I have always loved love...sharing it...receiving it...giving it...I always, always give, give, give of it....in every conceivable way...it is such a mysterious, mystical, wonderful, warm, and unique language...all unto its own. Women captivate me, mesmerize me, and hold me in the very essence of their being...and I wouldn't have it any other way.
I hope to have that elusive femme to join me when the heavens and stars are aligned just right for that to occur...I have had that fairy tale kind of love once before..and I believe in fairy tales...and yes they DO come true...and will again. I have put it out into the universe...and that will come to me...when I least expect it..grin...stop back by, anytime, my friend...Clay

[clay]

Clay *is* terribly romantic, and hy knows what the OFOS femmes are looking for. Someday she'll be there - that's for sure!

*smiles*

Keep being you, Clay.

hi genghis...THANK YOU, sweet lady!
I am always being me...like I told someone else last night...I live life on my own terms NOT on anyone else's. I walk the walk and talk the talk..every single day...
Life is a precious gift..and when those winds of fate & destiny are just right...she will appear, seemingly out of nowhere...and all will be right in my world again...we will live in our own happily ever after world!!
In the meantime, I anxiously await each and every sunrise and sunset..knowing I am one more day closer to HER! My heart is just brimming with love and awe and want of HER! My heart beats to beat with HERS....and I am enjoying life...as I want to..with no regrets, no worries, and no expectations..for my heart knows what will be..and is ready, willing, and able...I am excited to greet each new day..seeing all the glorious beauty in people, life, and nature..and as the sun sets..I am reminded of the greatness of the universe..and that she is moving closer along the stars pathway to my heart...I KNOW she IS close...I am waiting my beautiful, precious heart ...one more heartbeat....... awaits......I will stay true to my OWN course.....Clay

[clay]

my heart is singing happily today....a beautiful day here...gorgeous sunrise....and another day I awoke to enjoy it!!! Hello to all the beautiful femmes out there!!!

[smouldering]

my heart is singing happily today....a beautiful day here...gorgeous sunrise....and another day I awoke to enjoy it!!! Hello to all the beautiful femmes out there!!!

This is awesome :) You have a wonderful day Claybaby, well deserved!!

[Leigh]

Your an amazing soul clay, never forget that :)

[clay]

For me, there is only one heart, one love....when we connect....she will be that one heart, one love I want! This heart is destined for that....it will be pure rapture...discovering all the things about that one heart, one love...walking so slowly into love...being friends....liking....connecting..enjoying that getting to know one another....and the greatest part of all...will be when it is actually One Heart,One Love!

[clay]

She has entered my life....and I am now with my ONE Heart, One Love!!!
The boi has hys girl.....smiles....

[Cid]

Congratulations Clay! I'm so happy for you!! It's about time that something good happens to a good person. Good for you! I hope this happiness lasts forever :)

(gotta admit though, I'm a bit envious...I'm hoping one day I'll have that too)

[MysticOceansFL]

Congratulations Clay! I'm so happy for you!! It's about time that something good happens to a good person. Good for you! I hope this happiness lasts forever :)

(gotta admit though, I'm a bit envious...I'm hoping one day I'll have that too)




((((( Cid )))))) you nevah evah know that day might be around the corner!!!! LOL

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

Congratulations Clay! I'm so happy for you!! It's about time that something good happens to a good person. Good for you! I hope this happiness lasts forever :)

(gotta admit though, I'm a bit envious...I'm hoping one day I'll have that too)

Seconding what MysticOcean says... you never ever know what~~ or WHO~~ is right around the corner!

And congrats to Clay as well. So very happy for my friend!

APG

[clay]

Thank you all...I am just ecstatic! I wasn't "looking" and our stars crossed one another...turns out, it was as I had been saying...she was here all along.....we had been "friends" for quite a while.....and then we discovered what fate and destiny knew before we did! Soooooo....be open, be positive, and when you least expect it...she is in your life....we have been secretly adoring each other for a while now...
THIS boi is just over the moon ecstatic...big cheesy grin....
(((((((((((((((Cid))))))))))))))))) just when you aren't thinking about it.....BAM..it will be there! I think you are an incredibly beautiful woman. You are a darling and someone will come along especially for you!!! Don't "settle"..wait for THAT one!!!
Genghis: same goes for you...you are an extremely gorgeous woman with so much to offer the RIGHT boi..hy will come..when you least expect it. Hugs, my friend.."keep still""' grin
APG..you KNOW what I think of YOU!! Wishing you all the love and happiness anyone can have..YOU deserve it.
All the truly beautiful femmes who are here..I heart you all...and send bighugs to each one of you! Keep your eyes and hearys open..hy WILL come along....BELIEVE!!! all my love...Clay

[Rockinonahigh]

Congrats on the new lady in your life,I know u r over the moon.

[fever]

It will be fun to watch your romance progress. I look forward to meeting both of you at the Reunion.

Candice

[smouldering]

Clay- That is so great, I am so happy for you :) You deserve to be happy and I am glad to see that you've found it and you've found her!! :rrose:

[gaea]

Thank you all...I am just ecstatic! I wasn't "looking" and our stars crossed one another...turns out, it was as I had been saying...she was here all along.....we had been "friends" for quite a while.....and then we discovered what fate and destiny knew before we did! Soooooo....be open, be positive, and when you least expect it...she is in your life....we have been secretly adoring each other for a while now...
THIS boi is just over the moon ecstatic...big cheesy grin....
(((((((((((((((Cid))))))))))))))))) just when you aren't thinking about it.....BAM..it will be there! I think you are an incredibly beautiful woman. You are a darling and someone will come along especially for you!!! Don't "settle"..wait for THAT one!!!
Genghis: same goes for you...you are an extremely gorgeous woman with so much to offer the RIGHT boi..hy will come..when you least expect it. Hugs, my friend.."keep still""' grin
APG..you KNOW what I think of YOU!! Wishing you all the love and happiness anyone can have..YOU deserve it.
All the truly beautiful femmes who are here..I heart you all...and send bighugs to each one of you! Keep your eyes and hearys open..hy WILL come along....BELIEVE!!! all my love...Clay

Rock on my friend what great news for me to wake up to :). I couldnt be more happy for you.

[clay]

big goofy grin.....
ROCK: YES! WE are both over the moon!!!!! Thank you, buddy! YOU will be next my friend...I have my eye on someone very special for you, too! A reall classy lady!!
FEVER: Thanks sweetheart...yes it is just incredible...as is she!!! It is such a sweet journey to be on..one I have waited so long for...
SMOULDERING: Thanks sweetie and I appreciate your kind words!! I feel incredibly blessed!!!
Never give up hope..always BELIEVE! When you least expect it, LOVE finds you....grin

[Parker]

She has entered my life....and I am now with my ONE Heart, One Love!!!
The boi has hys girl.....smiles....

Such good news - congrats. :)

[clay]

Rock on my friend what great news for me to wake up to :). I couldnt be more happy for you.


Thanks, G to A to the E to the A!!!!
She is a sweetheart...and I am ga-ga over the moon...can ya tell...gush---gush---gush....big ole cheesy grin...YOU will find someone very special one day as well..will have to be super super wonderful to deserve YOU, my dearest friend!!!

[Bard]

Hey there Hoss we told ya so no get to having that happy life you deserve my friend with much love from Desd and I

[clay]

Hey there Hoss we told ya so no get to having that happy life you deserve my friend with much love from Desd and I


hey there lil Joe...lol..YES you did..and your blessings from both of you mean the world to me...I love you guys..and appreciate your kindnesses and words of support and encouragement to me during my "journey" and now...grin..hugs to you both..from my girl & I both!!

[gaea]

Thanks, G to A to the E to the A!!!!
She is a sweetheart...and I am ga-ga over the moon...can ya tell...gush---gush---gush....big ole cheesy grin...YOU will find someone very special one day as well..will have to be super super wonderful to deserve YOU, my dearest friend!!!

that is so sweet of you to say my friend. Your happiness just makes me smile today one of those deep soul smiles just for you today the sun radiates love and goodness and all that shines is just for you.

[Countyfem]

So happy for you Clay!! I knew it would happen for you! Your fem is one lucky woman :flowers:

[clay]

So happy for you Clay!! I knew it would happen for you! Your fem is one lucky woman :flowers:


aww thank you, County!!! Your turn next...after you get settled...grin! That will be one lucky boi!!!!:wine:

[Wryly]

aww - congrats Clay!
All the best to both of you.

[Rockinonahigh]

big goofy grin.....
ROCK: YES! WE are both over the moon!!!!! Thank you, buddy! YOU will be next my friend...I have my eye on someone very special for you, too! A reall classy lady!!
FEVER: Thanks sweetheart...yes it is just incredible...as is she!!! It is such a sweet journey to be on..one I have waited so long for...
SMOULDERING: Thanks sweetie and I appreciate your kind words!! I feel incredibly blessed!!!
Never give up hope..always BELIEVE! When you least expect it, LOVE finds you....grin


Buddy you keep that big goofy grin on your face,it looks good on ya.

So now you are gonna play match maker are ya??Love dose crazy things to a person...but aint it grand.

[SweetJane]

Congrats, Clay! Your lady is one lucky femme. I wish you both loads of happiness and bliss!

[foxyshaman]

Congrats Clay!!! You are such a sweetheart. I am very happy for you!!

[clay]

Thanks, Foxy!!! Appreciate your kind words!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

WOOOOHOOOO! Congratulations, again! You're both very lucky! So glad you've found her my friend! (f)

[CherylNYC]

Wonderful!

[WolfyOne]

So, my friend, as I sit and read the last few posts, I wonder if you'll ever tell us who the lucky lady is to have such a wonderful boi. I wish you all the best Clay, for whatever the universe holds for you, it'll be arm in arm for you and her.

Someday I hope to be as lucky, but unlike you, don't want to put up a thread to get the lady. Those that know me, know the kind of person I am and those that want to know me, need to ask questions and I'll answer.

[clay]

B]hello everyone....wanting to get back to my thread and "blog" in it...:). My thread isn't about getting a lady BUT one of sharing my heart and me..opening to the possibility of fate and destiny crossing our paths!
While life sometimes tends to get sidetracked...it is up to us how we handle the curve/detour. Soul searching is what I do. I see that aspect as a learning curve. I look inside, examine the lesson in said curve, and grow from it.
My heart and nature is such that I want to be able to live each day to its fullest potential, forgive any trespasses, and go forward.
My heart's open, loving, and forgiving...for I want that space to be able to receive what comes my way.... While I can't possibly know what may drive or motivate another's heart, I can become a better person, see this as a positive, and go forth...so I forgive!!
My heart is open, willing to receive all the goodness and love it may...and you are invited in....to chat..post...visit..or just be in the space...and when that one femme enters my heart and world, I will share...joyously!!
Enjoying my day...warm ,gorgeous, and sunny weather....perhaps I will go and enjoy some rapture in my sea...always with a loving heart...Clay[/B]

[clay]

It is Valentine's Day.....my thoughts are on my girl...and what I will do for her for this day of Lovers! I will plan a very special date for us...and will drive to her place.
Since it will be rather chilly and a cause for wearing warm winter clothing...I will dress in tight black jeans, nice dressy black boots...shined to a high sheen....and my black leather jacket....zipped halfway.....as I drive to her place....a sly grin on my face... I imagine the look on her face when she opens the door...a huge bouquet of fresh red roses and baby's breath, a box of her favorite Belgian Dark Chocolate Truffles, and me...knowing when I step inside....she will then get her own special gift....from me...she squeals in delight at my remembering her affliction for dark chocolates and the roses...she says no one has EVER given me fresh red roses before....and she takes them to find a vase to put them into.
When she returns, I have a very special picnic basket I had hidden outside her door, all laid out on the carpet by the fireplace, while she was fussing with the flowers...baked brie, raw nuts, fresh fruits, smoked oysters, and wine! The fireplace has a cozy fire going, and soft string music plays in the background. She comes back into the room...and it is THEN she sees me...for the first time...in full view...how I am dressed...esp. for her...she comes up to me...a glint in those smoky eyes....and leans in for my kiss...as she wraps her hands into my hair, and I place mine along the sides of her face...we kiss..that slow, tantalizing, delicious kiss...electricity surges through us both...lips sear one another's...when we are able to break apart..she runs her hands down inside my jacket...to feel I have nothing on under it but ME..her hands find, and caress my chest...feeling the softness of my bare skin...her fingers playfully tease my nipples...her soft lips trails warm, moist kisses across my chest, along side of my neck..and she encases me with both arms...as she murmurs...oh my darling...how strong and muscular you feel...and so taut....the scent of your Diesel cologne incites me, baby....she then pulls her hands out...to hold my ass....massaging each cheek...sending little shivers of that fiery electricity through me....as she pushes herself against me...feeling what is growing inside my jeans...again she closes her eyes and murmurs softly...knowing this "package" is all hers....as time stands still..and the fires inside my body ignite to full burn...and my mind is raptured...she looks up at me..and says...Baby, YOU are the finest Valentine's Day Eye Candy ever..and YOU are all mine....so the lights go dimmer...we lose ourselves into one another...the fires of passion...and enjoy the picnic, the music, and one another..as we open that "eye candy"...one for the other....and the rest is between us. Happy valentine's day, sweetheart! I love you!__________________
Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say

[clay]

Happy Valentine's Day, to all the lovely femmes out here on the Planet...I heart you all!!!:bunchflowers: Clay

[clay]

My Valentine's Day was spectacular!! Thanks to my BFF :bunchflowers:for the awesome package!!! Loved it...grin.
To that incredible lady...what can I say....WOW! I did NOT see that coming!!! I am glad it did!!! I heart you!!:bunchflowers:

[gaea]

Because you are my friend and i think so highly of you i wanted to share this video with you.
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[clay]

Because you are my friend and i think so highly of you i wanted to share this video with you.
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I am so impressed with this Ms. G!! THANK YOU! You are such a dollbaby! Make sme heart you more...aww ty..so much. I AM owning the night..and I AM a firwork. I did open that door and found a rainbow after the storm!!! SHE makes my heart do just like the video....grin...ty honey! I so adore you...Clay

[clay]

a very dear friend of mine asked the question "what
does being in love feel like"...and I have made different posts describing how it feels for me...and now I want to share this ...
being in love is an eclectic plethora of emotions, thoughts, and

sensations...with varying degrees of depth at any given time...and they ebb

and flow. with depth.....yet always present. It is that awakening

moment...as

eyes flutter open..and a warmth engulfs me...that feeling of her...wearing

her scent on my body as a memory of last night's lovemaking... that

silly grin I wear.....the sense of belonging and being loved...the fireworks

in my head and chest as I picture her in my mind....it is someone asking me..

what is love?" and I say it is her...a delicate, fragrant purple rose..that

makes my world so beautiful...fills me with wonderment and awe and

excitement...so much so that I fairly sizzle with zeal and love in her

presence..and that love consumes me....fills me completely..and I lay my

head down on her shoulder, and say...this..this is what love is....

love is such that when we lie down close to one another at night, as I inhale..

she exhales for me.....as I yawn, she closes her eyelids for me.....

her love fills my heart and soul..so much so..that my written words will

ignite the flames inside her.... making stimulating love to her mind ....fanning

those hot desires....as we become like molten lava...

it is a million tiny thoughts of her throughout the day...it is that smile that

renders me weak in the knees...it is that moment when...all sense of thought

stops...and my breath is briefly taken away...as I inhale....the memories of

her kiss.....and I feel the "heat" on my skin..at the slightest thought of her..

being in love is that yearning, passionate desire to be in her presence....of

missing her already even though she just left ten minutes ago.,..being in love

is the comfort in knowing she is a very deep part of me...making me a whole..

being in love is that feeling of lying in a warm, snuggly bed, under the covers,

listening to the rain...stealing the tenderest of kisses....being in love is akin

to lazing in that big porch swing.....your head in her lap....her gentle caresses

on your temple...drifting in the lostness of that single moment....aware of her

essence....being in love is coming in from the cold to a hot shower, a bowl of

soup that warms you and fills your belly...comforting.. consuming

being in love does this.....when the weight or the worries of the world seem

to be upon me and I seek shelter in her essence..while her hand...gentle

and loving..can ease all of that..with just a touch...being in love is being so

excited to get home to her with a single rose in hand..that her smile lights up

the world and me.....it is that "she makes me go weak in the knees" with just

a look feeling....it is I can't stand to be apart from her long...got to get back

close to her feeling.....it is the butterflies in the tummy feeling anticipating

holding her close..as she looks up..with that innocence that just melts me

as she wraps those loving arms around my neck

and says "I love you, Daddy"....it is just that moment when I want to lay my

head on her shoulder, and say...THIS...THIS is what being in love

means....she captures me with her touch...with her kiss..and she is...my

single purple rose...and I am IN LOVE with her...:rrose:

[gaea]

How incredibly beautiful.

[clay]

I want to say I have indeed found my OFOS Femme. I am very happy to say...Miss Scarlett...come on out and take a bow!!! This is MY OFOS Femme..isn't she beautiful!
We have had something between us since last fall..and for whatever reasons, the universe had other ideas. But not to be denied, the universe once again has joined our hearts.and we are very happy...as we walk this journey..hand in hand...heart to heart..and discover the truest meaning of "falling in love". I am so enjoying courting her, pitching woo to her....and she, I!
So....now I appreciate all of you who have stood by me...with all the giddyups and hitches that came my way..I remain...with a full heart..a happy heart, and I think I am falling for her...I heart you, my sweet Miss Scarlett!!! always yours...your big silver butch....as I sing softly to you...Oh What A Thrill! to walk this walk with you....Clay

[Leigh]

Clay and Scarlett? Two of my absolute favorite people on this site have found love together, and how wonderful it is!

I heart you both and wish you both all the love that you both deserve, times a billion!

[Licious]

I want to say I have indeed found my OFOS Femme. I am very happy to say...Miss Scarlett...come on out and take a bow!!! This is MY OFOS Femme..isn't she beautiful!
We have had something between us since last fall..and for whatever reasons, the universe had other ideas. But not to be denied, the universe once again has joined our hearts.and we are very happy...as we walk this journey..hand in hand...heart to heart..and discover the truest meaning of "falling in love". I am so enjoying courting her, pitching woo to her....and she, I!
So....now I appreciate all of you who have stood by me...with all the giddyups and hitches that came my way..I remain...with a full heart..a happy heart, and I think I am falling for her...I heart you, my sweet Miss Scarlett!!! always yours...your big silver butch....as I sing softly to you...Oh What A Thrill! to walk this walk with you....Clay


Hooray! Good for you, you both deserve love! :)

[smouldering]

I am so very happy for the both of you :) I wish you all the love and happiness in the world!!

[Miss Scarlett]

I want to say I have indeed found my OFOS Femme. I am very happy to say...Miss Scarlett...come on out and take a bow!!! This is MY OFOS Femme..isn't she beautiful!
We have had something between us since last fall..and for whatever reasons, the universe had other ideas. But not to be denied, the universe once again has joined our hearts.and we are very happy...as we walk this journey..hand in hand...heart to heart..and discover the truest meaning of "falling in love". I am so enjoying courting her, pitching woo to her....and she, I!
So....now I appreciate all of you who have stood by me...with all the giddyups and hitches that came my way..I remain...with a full heart..a happy heart, and I think I am falling for her...I heart you, my sweet Miss Scarlett!!! always yours...your big silver butch....as I sing softly to you...Oh What A Thrill! to walk this walk with you....Clay

Thank you Baby...this is so sweet. i'm one happy lucky femme to walk this journey with such a caring, loving, strong Silver Butch.

[Jet]

Being an "older, matured" OFOS butch...I am realizing that these qualities/attributes are going by the wayside. It is a shame...as I want these to be always a part of ME..who I am. These are a part of my everyday life. Manners, courtesy, respect, and chivalry are the main ingredients of me.
I am a 1950's model of OFOS Butch...I prefer feminine pronouns BUT am NOT offended by hy, hym, boi, daddi...words are just words...those do NOT in any way define me nor make me who I am....as my inner soul is who/what I am.
I have many, many miles on me..my "odometer of life" has rolled over a time or two...BUT I am guaranteed to make it past one million miles..and then some. I am blessed with stamina, endurance, patience, and a sense of humor that gets me through. I live life to its fullest each day. I am always positive and upbeat, and see the glass as half full. I am kind, gentle, fiercely loyal, protective..being a Leo! My disposition is always sunny, I am very very protective of my den. My body has its fair share of knicks, dings, and "repair marks" BUT is a healthy body...my heart is in excellent shape and is ready to fall in love again..when the right one comes along.
Being a minimalist and not about material things of the world, I am quite comfortable, live within my means, and have a heart the size of Texas. I am generous to a fault, I love hard, I love deeply, and I love monogamously!
Some of my greatest joy comes from writing to my special lady...may it be poetry, erotica, or silly love notes....maybe a scrawled in lipstick note on the mirror..or a note hidden in her purse to find later on...or maybe a special meal..just for us two..by the fireplace..or on the beach..and maybe a moonlight picnic in my SUV..by the water..I enjoy giving massages..and can rub muscles for quite a long time...kisses....ahhh...long, slow, deep kisses...flirting outrageously...holding hands...
I am one of those rare breed of butches that I have no "preconceived" ideal in mind...all I am looking for is she be sincere, genuine, honest, and one whose heart will join mine..and we will beat as one...someone who is available and able to commit, who wants the chaos, the trials & tribulations life has, and who is able to simply join my hand with hers and let our hearts be as one...
It doesn't matter where you came from..what you did...what matters is that NOW you will be here with me..a clean slate..the past is gone....we will make our own lives rich and full...you will have an inner beauty and incredible soul...it is the heart & soul that matter most to me..if that is beautiful then YOU will be the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth to me!! You will have my undying love and rapt attention...you will walk along with me..equal in all respects..I will love you to eternity and back...you will always be treated and respected for the lady you are!!!
The intimate part of US will be between us and decided privately between us...it is sacred to me...and as well to you, I hope!!
Thanks for stopping by...reading what I have written. I am enjoying the Planet and I know she will offer you up to me..when the time is right...I am in no hurry...I am enjoying life..one day at a time...waiting for YOU...to come home...meanwhile I am enjoying flirting with the ladies here!!!
Have an awesome day...from this OFOS butch...who owns it..who wears it..who KNOWS it is within my soul...a deeply rooted part of me....who "walks the talk and talks the walk"...xoxoxoxo...Clay

We have never met nor exchanged, but I happened to run across this thread today and I hope you have found what you're looking for since posting this. I was gone for almost three years and just now read your thoughts. Nice. I like your post and I'm bumping this for the benefit of those who may have forgotten this thread or who may not be aware...good luck to all who are OFOS in search of OSOF.

[clay]

Thanks, Jet!!! Your kind words are most appreciated!
I am indeed quite happy!!!
Thank you for your interest in my thread....maybe we will cross paths on the Boards sometime....have a wonderful week, Jet!!

[fatallyblonde]

hopefully I can get so lucky one day! Congrats. :)

[Jet]

You know, Clay, I had exchanged with Miss Scarlett on rare occasion in the distant past about posts here and there and she was always very gracious and pleasant. Happiness to both of you.

[DaddyNik12]

congrates to you both clay , may you both be happy and rich with life and love


one day I hope to land that lucky lady myself , until then .. I keep my eyes and heart open

best of luck too you both