Single Butch-Femme Questionnaire - Getting to know one another intimately...

[wetfromashower]

I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):

Age:

Astrological Sign:

Birth Date: (day only - not year):

Location:

Height:

Eye Color:

Hair Color:

Piercings - how many & where:

Tattoos - how many & where:

Cat person or dog person:

Job:

What do you like about your job?:

What do you loathe about your job?:

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians:

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows:

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:

What is your pet peeve:

Favorite curse word:

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance?

If you could change a law which would it be?

Do you collect anything?


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?

Would you ever have plastic surgery?

Your idea of a good meal:

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Introvert or extrovert:

Dream profession:

What are your Hobbies:

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?

What do you get complemented on most often?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:

Do you generally feel understood?

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school?

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?

Issues that you feel most passionate about:

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):

Current relationship status:

What you look for in a partner:

The "type" of person you tend to attract:

Number of times you've been in love:

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?

Age when you had your first kiss:

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss:

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:

What trait in a woman turns you off?:



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?

Do you have any Fetishes:

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?:

Have you ever had a one-night stand?

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[tazz]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Gayla

Age: 45

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 6

Location: California

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: light brown

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: 2; one on right calf & the other on right wrist

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: personal trainer

What do you like about your job?: working with the public

What do you loathe about your job?: the politics

Favorite books / authors: thomas harris

Favorite bands/musicians: The Beatles

Favorite movies: Do The Right Thing

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: Big Bang Theory, Southland, The Closer

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? none

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:

What is your pet peeve: being dissed

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: The New Yorker

A culture that intrigues you: buddhism

Do you like to dance? yes

If you could change a law which would it be? healthcare

Do you collect anything?


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? in my 30's, missed an opportunity to compete in bodybuilding...

Would you ever have plastic surgery? no

Your idea of a good meal: home cooked

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both

Dream profession: doing it

What are your Hobbies: working out

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: spiders

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? not sure

What do you get complemented on most often? i don't

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? short torso

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: buddhism

Do you generally feel understood? no

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school? insecure; low self-esteem... i was bullied a lot

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? no

Issues that you feel most passionate about: health and fitness

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my own


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): gender fluid

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: patience and understanding

The "type" of person you tend to attract: easy going

Number of times you've been in love: 2 i think

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? i dont remember too long ago

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? not sure

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: 8

Describe your best kiss: it was with a very hot butch, short relationship, but the best sex ever

Describe your last kiss: another hot butch.. short weekend...

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: her aura

What trait in a woman turns you off?: narcism



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: the short weekend butch

What are you self-conscious about naked? i'm not

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? dim

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: being present and in the moment and holding me tenderly yet firmly

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: check their phone, talk too much, quit in the middle of a plateau

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes: not sure

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: no

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? at times

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[wetfromashower]

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[Library_girl]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Amy

Age: 41

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): July 31

Location: Palm Springs, CA

Height: 5'1"

Eye Color: Brown-ish hazel

Hair Color: brown with highlights

Piercings - how many & where: Just my ears, double-pierced

Tattoos - how many & where: I have 4 tattoos, one on each arm and two on my back.

Cat person or dog person: Both, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats

Job: Library Director

What do you like about your job?: A lot! I love working with people, I love serving the public, I love doing a bunch of different things every day, it's never boring.

What do you loathe about your job?: Overworked and underpaid!

Favorite books / authors: Lee Lynch, Alice Walker, Leslie Feinberg, S Bear Bergman, Emily Dickinson

Favorite bands/musicians: Way too many to list--I love all kinds of music except rap/hip-hop

Favorite movies: too many!

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: The Killing, Justified, Sons of Anarchy, Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, Southland

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Somewhere in the middle

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: happy dances when I'm excited about something (although sometimes people see me anyway)

What is your pet peeve: Teenage boys and young men with their asses hanging out of their droopy pants; misspellings on signs; when people say "lie-berry" instead of "library". I can't help that one!

Favorite curse word: Fuck. And all the other ones.

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? Love it

If you could change a law which would it be? DOMA. Same sex marriage should be legal at the federal level.

Do you collect anything? Anything to do with elephants

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't think I would.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No, unless there was some medical necessity.

Your idea of a good meal: Greek food at my favorite Greek restaurant. And any meal that included fried green tomatoes. Really.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I'd like to hear what my boss thinks of me, because I really have no clue.

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert about 85-90% of the time, introvert the rest of the time

Dream profession: Anything to do with helping animals

What are your Hobbies: Cooking, reading, day trips, shopping (of course!)

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Claustrophobia, and Ophidiophobia (fear of snakes) although pet snakes are fine

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Not really

What do you get complemented on most often? My Southern accent, my eyes, and my hands. And sometimes my cooking. :)

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? Sometimes I get annoyed that I'm so short.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End the disparity of global wealth, cure and treat AIDS worldwide, and heal/comfort all the animals who need it

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Debbie Allen or Savion Glover

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Atheist/agnostic

Do you generally feel understood? Yes, by my friends

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Absolutely

Biggest concern about aging: Losing my intellectual abilities

What were you like in high school? Total party girl

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes, very appealing

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Gay marriage, LGBT equality, freedom of speech, freedom to read, suicide prevention

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My father's, and my own. Other people's opinions are important in general. But what I think of myself is more important.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme, but the world knows me as a lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme and girl or baby girl

Current relationship status: single and hopeful

What you look for in a partner: In no particular order: Sense of humor, intelligence, stability, confidence, inner strength, "butch-ness", how she/hy has their life together...someone who is old-fashioned, loving, dominant, respectful, fun, interesting, protective of me, sweet, rough around the edges, mature, affectionate, romantic, and passionate.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Very butch, lots of fun, sometimes a little bit of a "bad boy", sometimes too insecure, but overall good people.

Number of times you've been in love: 4

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How natural and electrifying it felt

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? I haven't met hym/her yet

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes, it was a great relationship, but didn't work out in the end. No regrets though, and it wasn't because of the distance.

Age when you had your first kiss: First real kiss, 14

Describe your best kiss: Two will tie for "best": #1. the first time I kissed a woman. I was 17, and I thought I would melt right there. #2. I'll tell the story to someone who asks!

Describe your last kiss: It was a goodbye kiss, when a brief dating relationship ended.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: In butches, what attracts me most is the combination of masculinity, strength, and tenderness all at the same time--like when they show incredible strength and gentleness with a touch or a kiss.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: A butch trait that turns me off the most is insecurity OR lack of respect for women, it's so crude.


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Someone I was dating

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not much!

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either is fine

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Lots of dirty talk, role playing, and pulling my hair

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Ummmmm, that hasn't happened in a long time.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Not naked, but very close to it :)

Do you have any Fetishes: Yep, I'm keeping that one a secret

Name your fetishes: See above :)

Leather - yes or no?: Little bit

BDSM - yes or no?: Little bit

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

How often do you masturbate? A few times a month

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Trimmed very short, unless someone makes a special request otherwise.

[gaea]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):Heather

Age:41

Astrological Sign:Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 7

Location: Sacramento, Ca

Height: 5'5

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Brown with highlights some natural some colored

Piercings - how many & where: ears only 2 in each

Tattoos - how many & where: 3, one on right ankle one on right arm and a left side chest tat

Cat person or dog person: dog

Job: Inventory management/systems administrator

What do you like about your job?: the numbers factor

What do you loathe about your job?: the people i work for

Favorite books / authors: I have many...one of my favorites Radclyffe Hall

Favorite bands/musicians: I love all kinds of music currently stuck on classic rock

Favorite movies: Somewhere in Time, The shawshank redemption, fried green tomatoes, time travelers wife...anything with time travel

Favorite websites: genealogy sites, fb, bfp

Favorite TV shows: survivor

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? vanilla,strawberry white chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sing and dance while getting ready for work

What is your pet peeve: one of them cupboard doors left open

Favorite curse word: serious? ah i dont usually say this here and have tried really hard to stop cursing however my favorite curse word is FUCK

Favorite magazine: I do not indulge in magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Mediterranean-Greek

Do you like to dance? love it

If you could change a law which would it be? All queers would be allowed to marry

Do you collect anything? bears and native things


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1912 i have some weird connection to the titanic that i have yet to understand

Would you ever have plastic surgery? nope

Your idea of a good meal: a homemade southern fried chicken dinner

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would want to sit in on a few presidential meetings

Introvert or extrovert: both ~ see gemini

Dream profession: to get paid more

What are your Hobbies: i like sewing quilting, dont do it enough

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: yes...shopping..

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes and yes...

What do you get complemented on most often? my smile when i do

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my tmd...

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? zero famine, sustainable farms everywhere, enough water for all peoples, acceptance of all peoples

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The presidents

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: spiritual yes i beleive in God and science i dont however believe in mans interpretations

Do you generally feel understood? nope

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: none

What were you like in high school? a brat

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes with thr right person for me

Issues that you feel most passionate about: marriage equality and womens rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my eldest daughter


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: kindness above anything else

The "type" of person you tend to attract: um the kind that tend to be asses

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? my knees got really weak...i never believed that, go figure

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamy preferred

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? A strong minded, kind butch the kind that would make me want to stay in bed

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? for a minute

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no, however have had long term relationships

Age when you had your first kiss:12

Describe your best kiss: decline to answer

Describe your last kiss: a year ago

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: A butch's arms

What trait in a woman turns you off?: cruelty to animals or humans



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: declining to state

What are you self-conscious about naked? nothing i love being naked

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? on low lights so i can see

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: took control of the "fuck", teasing, mutual pleasing

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: lack of kissing, lack of sexual aggressiveness, the other person gets off once and is done..

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? semi neuds

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes: not here

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? regularly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed and shaved

[ruffryder]

I'm 5'7. tall, dark and handsome and that's all you need to know. lol :sarcasmalert: .. and I can cook! :rofl: ok here is the rest..

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Angel

Age: 36

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 18

Location: Orlando FL

Height: 5'7

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Dark brown

Piercings - not any more.

Tattoos - nope. I go back and forth with wanting tats.

Cat person or dog person: usually dog but cats have somehow grown on me over the years.

Job: security and hospitality.

What do you like about your job?: customer interaction.

What do you loathe about your job?: idiot supervisors.

Favorite books / authors: Edgar Allan Poe

Favorite bands/musicians: Eminem, Drake, some country.

Favorite movies: Titanic, Notebook, Twilight movies, Mr & Mrs Smith, Wanted, Fast & Furious, Good Fellas, Godfather movies, Scarface.

Favorite websites: BFP, FB.

Favorite TV shows: Dancing With The Stars, Bachelor, Jersey Shore, Rookie Blue, Criminal Minds.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all. whatever the craving.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sit around in my boxers.

What is your pet peeve: not wanting to be a parent or babysitter to an adult.

Favorite curse word: FUCK.

Favorite magazine: Maxim.

A culture that intrigues you: Muslim.

Do you like to dance? ehhh. Sometimes. lol

If you could change a law which would it be? gay rights.

Do you collect anything? baseball cards and caps.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I would rather travel to the future to see what new technology there is and maybe be the one to invent something first!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? breast augmentation sounds good.. I would and hope to!

Your idea of a good meal: steak! cooked medium well.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? everything?!

Introvert or extrovert: both at times.

Dream profession: sit on the beach.

What are your Hobbies: dont really have any. guess I need some. :/

Do you have Phobias, what are they? nahh.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yup and I have no clue.

What do you get complemented on most often? my work.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? not being born into the body that I feel like.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? gas prices, peace, no homeless or hungry.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? a musicians.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I believe in God. I have faith and am a spiritual person.

Do you generally feel understood? noo.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yea.

Biggest concern about aging: health.

What were you like in high school? a jock.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? perhaps someday.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: justice, equality.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: daughter.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: trans.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): guy.

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: honesty first.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: hmmm. wish I knew. lol.

Number of times you've been in love: once.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? feeling comfortable.

Monogamy or polyamory: monogamous.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? someone is on my mind but not possible.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yeah.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? guess not if it didn't last.

Age when you had your first kiss: teen.

Describe your best kiss: long lasting make out. . passionate and sloww.

Describe your last kiss: pecks.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, mouth.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: drama.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: it has been sometime. I dk .

What are you self-conscious about naked? not having the body I would like.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? any and all of the above. lol. candlelight.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sucked my dick, jerked me off, told me to fuck them harder.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: tongue in my mouth, said they came when maybe they didn't, relating to hygiene.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? i have.

Do you have any Fetishes: sure.

Name your fetishes: feet, nails.

Leather - yes or no?: ?

BDSM - yes or no?: yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? not often enough. lol

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trim.

[Apocalipstic]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jen

Age: 48

Astrological Sign: Cancer

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 6/29

Location: Nashville

Height: 5'5"

Eye Color: blue

Hair Color: brunette, right now lol

Piercings - how many & where: just ears

Tattoos - how many & where: nope

Cat person or dog person: both! :)

Job: Entertainment

What do you like about your job?: When I get to travel

What do you loathe about your job?: I am blessed to have an unloathesome job!

Favorite books / authors: So many! "To Kill a Mockingbird" is my most favorite.

Favorite bands/musicians: Beatles, Pink Floyd, Vivaldi, Snoop....I love all kinds of music.

Favorite movies: So many! Stalag 17, Sunset Boulevard, Bordello of Blood, Mars Attacks, Dazed and Confused, Jaws, Carrie, The Omen....I love movies.

Favorite websites: BFP, FB, CNN

Favorite TV shows: Househunters International, History stuff, Law and Orders, CSIs, Hot In Cleveland, Project Runway, SUTYCD

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Depends on what we are talking about. lol. Ice cream? Strawberry.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Dance

What is your pet peeve: Rudeness

Favorite curse word: Fuck in all its varieties.

Favorite magazine: Conde Nast Traveler, Discover, Real Simple

A culture that intrigues you: all of them

Do you like to dance? Love it!

If you could change a law which would it be? Major healthcare reform

Do you collect anything? Books, old records

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I saw the Butterfly Effect, better to stay in the here and now!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? if I needed it, sure. But elective surgery? probably not.

Your idea of a good meal: Sushi or steak or cake

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Secret Documents at the Vatican

Introvert or extrovert: In, but its hard to tell, I vascillate.

Dream profession:Travel planner? Author

What are your Hobbies: reading, music, theatre

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: not fond of worms and snakes/reptiles

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Not sure

What do you get complemented on most often? probably my hair or cleavage

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? the pain I feel from all the showing off I did when younger

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Cleaner air and water and fixing the Ozone Layer

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Someone who wears really comfortable shoes. lol.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: We are all ONE

Do you generally feel understood? varies

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
probably

Biggest concern about aging: what the hell makeup to wear lol

What were you like in high school? Adept at finding ways to get out of actualy going to class.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Up until this point, not really. Maybe someday, as long as I don't have to wear anything itchy.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Fairness, equality, racism, feminism

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my own


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Weird

Current relationship status: Single but blessed with wonderful friends!

What you look for in a partner: Great sense of humor, very liberal views and very very very laid back with some laid back thrown in and not too much family stuff. Not quite a hot, comatose orphan, but almost. Must be 4:20 friendly!

The "type" of person you tend to attract: It really varies :)

Number of times you've been in love: Wow. Hmmm. At the time, it seemd like a lot. In retrospect 4ish maybe? Who knows. lol.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How much I enjoyed just hanging out.

Monogamy or polyamory: Open to both

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My Baby

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Long Term? No.

Age when you had your first kiss: 14 from a boy, 21 from a girl

Describe your best kiss: I've had lot's of wonderful kisses! :)

Describe your last kiss: Scary

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Swag

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Fussyness



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: For me to know.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Listened to me

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Not Listening to me, Too Rough and Not Listening to me.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: Kinks I would say.

Name your fetishes: Being the Momi, electrical, sharp pointy things, items of torture :)

Leather - yes or no?: Yes

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

How often do you masturbate? Varies

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Right now, shaved. Always at least trimmed.


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[Electrocell]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Cid

Age: 53

Astrological Sign: aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year): Feb 15th

Location:TN

Height:5' 11"

Eye Color:blue

Hair Color: salt and pepper

Piercings - how many & where: 2 ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 1 right arm

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Was driving a truck

What do you like about your job?: seeing different places

What do you loathe about your job?: being away from my fur babies so long

Favorite books / authors: several

Favorite bands/musicians: several

Favorite movies: several

Favorite websites: here

Favorite TV shows:

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: scratch my a###

What is your pet peeve: someone not doing what they say they will or not being on time

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you: pretty much all of them

Do you like to dance? at times

If you could change a law which would it be? there are a lot of laws I would like to change lol.

Do you collect anything? beer steins


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? probably in the 1860's to meet Lincoln

Would you ever have plastic surgery? only if I was in a bad accident and needed it.

Your idea of a good meal: a home cooked meal

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? would go everywhere and see everything

Introvert or extrovert: a little of both

Dream profession: To be independantly wealthy and have a wildlife reservation

What are your Hobbies: was wood working need to get back into it

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: claustrophobia

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes was probably a man most of them

What do you get complemented on most often? my good heart

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? should of been born a man lol must of needed to learn a lesson this time around

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? clean up the air , earth and mankind's way of thinking when it comes to our planet

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Christ

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Believe in God

Do you generally feel understood? at times

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: not being able to do what I use to do when I was younger

What were you like in high school? athlete

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? with the right femme

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Nafta --US becoming a third world country because all we are is a service country right now not an industrius one.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: the one I am in love with and my family


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: guy in a woman's body

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): guy

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: Kindness , good personality, dependable, loving, definitely has to beable to cook lol, intelligence, femme with long hair, and someone who can manage their own money. Must love animals also.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: all kinds

Number of times you've been in love: hmmmmmm about 4

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How good I felt.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? that's kind of up in the air right now lol

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes then she moved here

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? 5 yrs --we are still good friends

Age when you had your first kiss: 14

Describe your best kiss: sensuous

Describe your last kiss: ok

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes -----windows to the soul

What trait in a woman turns you off?: self -centered , selfishness , not being able to hold an intelligent conversation



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: plead the 5th
What are you self-conscious about naked? not having a male body

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: talk dirty to me and suck my cock , moan or scream when cumming

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: offensive odor, not a good kisser, expect me to do all the work lol

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? my cock

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure what I like is considered a fetish

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: a little
BDSM - yes or no?: a little
Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? often

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
completely natural

[jules5041]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Julie

Age: 39

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 5th

Location: Arkansas

Height:5' 3"

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color: Dark Brown

Piercings - how many & where: 2 are in the ear. I have a right industrial as well as my right nipple pierced.

Tattoos - how many & where: 4; one on my ankle, one on my big toe and one on each shoulder

Cat person or dog person: Cat person

Job: Medical Transcription

What do you like about your job?: prying into people's medical records

What do you loathe about your job?: right now it is not very productive

Favorite books / authors: several

Favorite bands/musicians: Lenny Kravitz, Seal, Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke, Pink, Hall & Oats, Eminem, Cee-Lo, and a million others.

Favorite movies: several

Favorite websites: here

Favorite TV shows: Survivor, The Big Bang Theory, Deadliest Catch, Entourage, True Blood

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance

What is your pet peeve: driving at dusk/dawn without your headlights on

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: Entertainment Weekly

A culture that intrigues you: pretty much all of them

Do you like to dance? at times

If you could change a law which would it be? there are a lot of laws I would like to change lol.

Do you collect anything? post cards, magnets, smashed pennies

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Probably the 70's because I missed it

Would you ever have plastic surgery? only if I was in a bad accident and needed it.

Your idea of a good meal: a home cooked meal

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? would go everywhere and see everything

Introvert or extrovert: a little of both

Dream profession: To be an orca researcher

What are your Hobbies: scrapbooking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: claustrophobia, arachnophobia

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes I believe.

What do you get complemented on most often? my good heart

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? I wish I was taller.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? I would cure AIDS, allow everyone to have food and reverse global warming.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Oprah

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Believe in God

Do you generally feel understood? yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: not being able to do what I use to do when I was younger

What were you like in high school? nerdy

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Pet cruelty.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: the one I am in love with and my family


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: femme lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): female

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: Independent, funny, caring, dependable

The "type" of person you tend to attract: all kinds

Number of times you've been in love: One.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That it could happen to me.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? my ex.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: ?

Describe your best kiss: sensuous

Describe your last kiss: great

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: butchness.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: femme

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Me.

What are you self-conscious about naked? being too fat

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Im not concerned about the lights.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: that little moan that happens when you are kissing and nobody hears but me

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: not a good kisser

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: no

Name your fetishes: n/a

Leather - yes or no?: a little

BDSM - yes or no?: a little

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? often

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[laruss]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Larissa

Age: 44

Astrological Sign: Capricorn

Birth Date: (day only - not year): January 6

Location: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Height: 5' 4"

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color: Dark Brown, with highlights

Piercings - how many & where: ears, but I never wear earrings anymore

Tattoos - how many & where: 4, 1 on my inside right ankle, 1 on my outside right ankle, 1 on my chest and 1 on my ass.

Cat person or dog person: Cat

Job: Artist, writer, educator

What do you like about your job?: the creativity, setting my own hours and working for myself

What do you loathe about your job?: My boss, oh wait don't tell her that she's mean

Favorite books / authors: I love reading, but I have read the Clan of the Cave Bear series and the Outlander series repeatedly

Favorite bands/musicians: Classic Rock, no favorite band ok maybe the Eagles or Steve Miller

Favorite movies: For some weird reason 'Grosse Pointe Blank' is one of my all time favorites, but typically I like action movies.

Favorite websites: FB and BFP

Favorite TV shows: Big Bang Theory

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Boring, I like any unboring flavours. So I guess my answer would be all.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself, oh wait people have been around for that.

What is your pet peeve: Stupid people

Favorite curse word: Fuck or jesus fuck

Favorite magazine: Psychology Today, but I don't read magazines unless I am traveling

Do you like to dance? Absolutely

If you could change a law which would it be? That I could tie my horse up to the lamp post instead of the hitching post; I can park my horse anywhere I damn well please. Oh wait, I don't have a horse. Ok, we have gay marriage in Canada so I can't give the standard answer. Umm, I pass.

Do you collect anything? Art

Your idea of a good meal: I love fine dining, but one of my all time favorite foods is hot dogs, especially from a street vendor

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Ohhh, the trouble I could get into. Too many to note here.

Introvert or extrovert: Depends, I would say extrovert except in some instances. Ok, no... Extrovert!!

Dream profession: Art therapist

What are your Hobbies: Painting, reading, going to live theatre, motorcycle riding and trying new things. I like to have fun.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Guns, but I am going to face that fear tomorrow and go to the shooting range. I am terrified, I didn't even let my kids have water guns when they were little. Ok, I can do it. I will be fine... just breathe. Ok, I'm good now.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes, wow the stories I could tell you... oh wait now you think I'm a freak. Too bad, I strongly believe that you keep coming back until you learn the lessons you need to learn.

What do you get complemented on most often? My creativity, my hair and how sexy I am. Really people tell me that all the time, you would have to see me to understand why I shake my head and think people are crazy. Sexy, pffft, what do they know about sexy? Obviously nothing!

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? My weak hands, if I drop my motorbike one more time I will scream. Oh, actually I have screamed. Damn heavy bikes.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Just Spiritual, I believe in live and let live and Karma. Karma looks after me.

Do you generally feel understood? Nope

Biggest concern about aging: Living pain free and mobility

What were you like in high school? A bitch


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, sense of humour, able to communicate, fun, passionate, likes to live life

Monogamy or polyamory: Both work for me. But polyamory is tricky so it has to be with the right people.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My favorite lady... you know who you are. Thanks for the wonderful weekend, are you sure I can't convince you to move with me??

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes

Age when you had your first kiss: Grade 5, so what is that 9ish?

Describe your last kiss: A birthday kiss for a friend, wait don't tell my favorite girl, I told her nothing happened.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Their brains, sense of humour and life living skills

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Needyness, clinging, not giving me room to breathe



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: My favorite lady that I spent the weekend with in the mountains.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Nothing really, my weight sometimes

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Either, I love candle light or dim light though, it seems more romantic

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: listened, paid attention, shared energy

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Climbed all over me, not let me come up for air (even on the receiving end), wouldn't take no for an answer

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, well I didn't take them, but they have been taken

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes

Name your fetishes: Now we are getting a bit personal

Leather - yes or no?: eh, not really

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes please

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

How often do you masturbate? Does daily make me sound like a sex fiend? Oh good, cause I am

[Little Fish]

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Patricia

Age: just turned 48 last week

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year):May 22

Location: Philadelphia, PA

Height:5'7"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Ashe Blonde, Silver at the temples

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in the L ear, 1 in the R ear

Tattoos - how many & where: yes

Cat person or dog person: both

Job:Physician

What do you like about your job?:
Being a physician is like having Orchestra seats for Life. It's an amazing gift to be invited by a patient to participate in their own healing.

What do you loathe about your job?: motherfucking insurance companies

Favorite books / authors:
"West With The Night", By Beryl Markham (with an unreal forward by her acquaintance Ernest Hemingway !!)

Favorite bands/musicians:
Too broad, how about genres?
Pop 40 Anything that helps me keep my heart rate up at the gym, but also Jazz, Blues, Classical and Opera, some House/Electronica

Favorite movies:
Out of Africa, every film by Peter Weir, and without apology I confess to loving espionage films

Favorite websites:
BFP, FB, CNN, Autostraddle.com, tumblr.com, whereisthecool, thefancy, uncrate

Favorite TV shows:
Six Feet Under, West Wing, Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones, Lip Service, The Good Wife, Grey's Anatomy (I know, can't help that last one...)

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Why do I feel like I missed the Metaphor Memo??
I'll just say this: Domestic-Jamocha Almond Fudge or gelato from our local Capo Giro and International--that ice cream place in Paris on the Ile de St Louis that everyone knows about and has a 30 person line at 8AM. It's good is what I'm sayin'

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
I only do silly things in front of my 8yo son, and I could care less who's watching! OMG how I love to make him laugh...:-)

What is your pet peeve: Rudeness, Poor phone Etiquette (which wraps back around to rudeness)

Favorite curse word: OOOOooohhhhh FUUUUCK!
first alternate:jesusfuckingchrist
second alternate: jesushit

Favorite magazine: Dwell, Afar, Elle Decor, Architectural Digest, National Geographic

A culture that intrigues you: Ancient Greece

Do you like to dance? 'fraid so, and it aint pretty, fair warning....

If you could change a law which would it be? Equal pay for equal work regardless of anything--Equal rights for all LGBTQI and sometimes Y

Do you collect anything? Yes. Small, handmade clay teapots from China, and Art--primarily paintings and photographs.


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
Many dates came to mind immediately, but I would like to have been around to see when the Cave of the Swimmers was painted. It was featured in the film The English Patient---today it is a large cave deep in an arrid, bone-dry, brutal desert. However, the cave paintings clearly depict swimmers in water....I find this so intriguing.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Sure.

Your idea of a good meal:
I know this is going to sound cheesy but it's so true, a meal that is made for me when a woman really cares about me is the best food ever.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I would like to know what all those batshitcrazyfuckers who run North Korea are thinking.

Introvert or extrovert: I'm basically an extrovert but because I'm also an only-child, I really comfortable being alone and quiet too. This surprises people. *shrug/smile*

Dream profession: professional sailor, civilian not military

What are your Hobbies: sailing, drawing, architecture and design, cycling, I'm considering learning to play the cello....hmmm.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Nope, none.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? I'm not sure but I hope so--there's a girl I'll look for first, in my next life!

What do you get complemented on most often? I rarely do...maybe being funny/nice/charming?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
Not having any cartilage left in my knees.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Restore the oceans to optimal health, clean air, fix the Ozone, clean water--I know that's four...

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
Secretary of State Hillary Clinton

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
Well, my spiritual training was conducted at the hands of my Grandmother who was American Indian so my religion is specific to our tribe and best described as a Traditional Indigenous Belief System.

Do you generally feel understood?
Yes, especially when I talk with my hands. Crystal clear communication then.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Honestly? Not while my son is 8yo---when he's 28, probably yes...

Biggest concern about aging:
Outliving my cognitive function.

What were you like in high school?
Both a jock and a geek. Think Varsity Soccer and Softball plus French Club and AP English. In my Senior year, I was out to some friends and started to earn a reputation for different in a cool way. No one was more surprised than I.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Yes! I highly recommend it!

Issues that you feel most passionate about: oh god really? It's after midnight...what everyone else said...

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My own. Hers.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer butch

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: Tits and a pulse. Just kidding folks, I'm kinda tired here...
My most satisfying relationships have been with women who ID as lesbians femmes--I especially appreciate intellect, humor, kindness and generosity

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Fun-loving High Femmes who are smart and curious about the world

Number of times you've been in love: twice :-)

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
How incredibly easy it was to fall in love with her, how perfect it felt for so long.

Monogamy or polyamory: For the long haul, definitely monogamy but for shorter periods of time, I have had more then one steady lover at a time.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
Natalie.....

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yep.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yep, sure did.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy age 13, Girl age 16

Describe your best kiss: I've had a number of noteworthy kisses but one that sticks out in memory--the first kiss with the first woman I fell in love with. It was June in the SF Bay Area, under a full moon in a Redwood Forest. She fit perfectly in my arms and I can still see clearly the way she looked up into my face. Just. So. Amazing.

Describe your last kiss: ummm, a 23yo Barista who works at the cafe around the corner from my house, we went for a walk in the woods....

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Physically, it's the way she looks when she smiles and how she carries herself in the world.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cruelty, selfishness, unkindness.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my last gf

What are you self-conscious about naked?
I have some scars and scar tissue from a head-on collision 25 years ago, not visible while dressed, they certainly are when naked.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
Not a deal-breaker but I prefer some light...the best sex involves all my senses.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
-my last gf was new to sucking butch cock, she climaxed while doing so the first time
-a woman climaxed just from my sucking on her breasts
-love love love that moan from kissing alone

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
-tell me to stop kissing

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Nope.

Do you have any Fetishes:
Not really. I love Femmes in lingerie but I don't think it rises to the level of Fetish.

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: only intermittently with some lovers but not consistently, I'm pretty GGG in general though...

Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Not yet.

How often do you masturbate?
Daily.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
Trimmed.

[imperfect_cupcake]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Barb/Babs

Age: 42

Astrological Sign: Bullocks!

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 28th

Location: On your lap, sailor. No? Oxford, UK.

Height: 5'7"

Eye Color: Scary glowing red with green rings OR pale blue.

Hair Color: fuck knows. It's bleach blonde though.

Tattoos - how many & where: one on leg that looks great in fishnets with heels, back piece half finished.

Cat person or dog person: I eat both.

Job: I talk to wankers on the web and occasionally kick men in the nads. However, I'm studying at masters level for remedial massage (meaning, for injury or illness).

What do you like about your job?: That is has taught me better boundaries than years of therapy. It has really taught me some serious rules about people. It has made me far stronger and independant and I am able to put my foot down very firmly about things much harder and firmer with things than I used to. Thank god.

What do you loathe about your job?: infantile! they need their hand held for everything. Fuck they are needy.

Favorite books / authors: I can't read.

Favorite bands/musicians: Tom waits, disco, funk, soul, some opera, some classical, some 50's - 70's rock, punk roooooock and alternative.

Favorite movies: beautiful boxer... mostly foreign. I love danish crime/thriller (Nordic Noir!), japanese thriller/horror, brit crime film, brit and aussie comedy.

Favorite websites: no. NO NO NO.

Favorite TV shows: QI, Have I got News For You, Nighty Night, Pheonix Club, Green Wing, Nevermind the Buzzcocks, Peep Show... it's all english stuff, ya'll won't get it for 5 years...

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Caramel. mmmm.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: I'm never silly.

What is your pet peeve: what, all of them??

Favorite curse word: holymarymotherofgodfellatingchristonthecross

Favorite magazine: new scientist, red, interior design magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Thai, Balanese because they are so culture proud and able to keep theirs intact while also commodifying it for tourists.

Do you like to dance? yep. I love it. I used to take lots of different kind but love belly dance and 60's style most of all

If you could change a law which would it be? That I could shoot people in the kneecap.

Do you collect anything? exes?


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? - only briefly. the 1700s. For the dresses.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? I have had.

Your idea of a good meal: Sushi, pic nic, somewhere new and interesting and very devoid of people

Introvert or extrovert: and extroverted introvert, for sure.

Dream profession: Radio blather. I love the sound of my own voice.

What are your Hobbies: Professor baiting, student harrying,

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: wasps. heights.

What do you get complemented on most often? My tits. Then my eyes. then my smile. Then told how sweet I am. Then told how difficult I am.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? My ass. My tits. my hair.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Agnostic atheist. I do respect many, and I used to be wicca and later I was being schooled in lukumi. But these days... no. Philosophy? yes. spiritual? No.

Do you generally feel understood? By some. but few and far between.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? No. I couldn't take my own life. Not for any reason. I just couldn't. I think my survival instinct is just too strong.

Biggest concern about aging: My kidneys and my pension (I don't have one)

What were you like in high school? a fucker. I was a punk rock girls with lost of boyfriends and a couple girlfriends

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes. I loved being married.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: medical ethics, personal ethics, feminism.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My (soon to be) ex wife's. My father's.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lezzo lez from lezzytown.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme. lez.

Current relationship status: married but seperated. divorce coming.

What you look for in a partner: jesus really? Humour - someone who can take the piss and is fine with me yelling "Shut the fuck up!" and yelling back "no, you shut up!" and it just deteriorates from there into big grins and shoving and possibly sex.
Kindness. Gentleness. Protective in a *gentle* way. I'll admit I like a slight bit of paternalness. but not in a "I'm the Daddy" overt way. that would make me pee on their shoe.
Spontaneity. Love of travel. Curiosity, experemental and open mind. Direct. very open.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: *eyeball roll* gobby, loud, hilarious, ballsy types, that take the piss till I swat them upside the head. The kind that like to make girls huffy and requires endless patience. Usually with a past addiction problem. Lately it's been mostly Never ID'd as butch before OMG is THAT what that feels like HOLY SHIT ooooooooohhhhhh that's what I am But I'm Still Not Using The Label.

Number of times you've been in love: you know, I don't really like this question. there's Big Love and little in love. I've been little in love lots. Big in Love 4 times: 18, 27, 33 and the biggest, 38.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How all consuming it was.

Monogamy or polyamory: I used to be non-monog. Now I can't be arsed anymore. I'm non-monog until a commitment is made.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? God. too many. I had them for 12 years when I first came out. I don't do it anymore.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes, one.

Age when you had your first kiss: too young to remember.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: humour, arms, hands, the way they move, or act towards me, skill in bed lol

What trait in a woman turns you off?: sexist fuckery. instant turn off.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: you mean sexually?? cause lots of people see me naked I'm not really all that fussed about wandering around with my ass out.

What are you self-conscious about naked? my ass.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
some light is useful. I like to see the dirty stuff going on.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
The way one person used to just very gently take charge, wrap her arm around my back, put all of her weight on me and just go... and keep going till I was a complete mess.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
moving too fast, go at me too hard, said really piggish things to me about my work

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
yep, for work. not for personal stuff. I've had people take it but I've become far too embrassed and made them erase it.

Do you have any Fetishes:
not really.

Leather - yes or no?: Don't care but a leather jacket and chaps are nice.

BDSM - yes or no?: ohhhhh... it's my joooooooooooOOOOOOB! so, not really. I like dirty and kinky with some dirty laughing smacking around a bit, some bondage, wrestling for control in bed a bit. fun relaxed stuff. Nothing formal, nothing contrived.

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yep, a few.

How often do you masturbate? oh, almost daily. sometimes twice a day. depends on how FRUSTRATED I am.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
Brazilian. waxed.

[laruss]

Would love to see more people post in here. I love getting to know more about people. I'm a psychology geek. :blink:

[Ginger]

PART I - GENERAL INFO

Astrological Sign: Libra

Location: NYC area

Height: 5’ 4”

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color: Blond

Piercings - how many & where: Left ear, one; right ear, two.

Tattoos - how many & where: None.

Cat person or dog person: Both. And if I could get on the floor and play with any other animal, it would be a South American capybara; and if I could give a wonderful, no-expense-spared home to an animal who needed one, it would be an octopus.

Job: Web article and speechwriter.

What do you like about your job? Interviewing writers, performers, biologists and others who are doing good work; writing in different voices for different assignments.

What do you loathe about your job? Having to cover events that don’t interest me or that annoy me, ideologically.

Favorite books/authors: I’ve been happy to become acquainted with the work of quite a few wonderful poets in the last couple years; Phil Miller, Elizabeth Haukaas, Gerry LaFemina, Gardner McFall, Mervyn Taylor, Cleopatra Mathis—the list is always growing. And it’s been fun to reconnect with old teachers who’ve influenced me since the eighties, like Quincy Troupe and poets I’ve always admired, like Mary Oliver, Elizabeth Bishop and Adrienne Rich.

Favorite bands/musicians: Pacifika, Buika, Adele, Aimee Mann, Neil Young, The Glands, early Liz Phair, Me'Shell Ndegéocello, Jarabedepalo, Bird York, Van Morrison; pop, and alternative for hanging out; electronica, hip hop and disco for the gym; Zero Seven and Nightmares on Wax (the Smoker’s Delight album) for sex—but I’m not as picky as I sound.

There’s a local cello/clarinet/piano trio I enjoy live once in while. Jazz, I like early Miles Davis, and when I need non-lyricized dreamy background music, John Barry movie soundtracks (Dances with Wolves, Out of Africa).

Favorite movies: I’ve watched Win/Win several times on cable, and loved Bernie, with Jack Black and Shirley MacLaine, last weekend. Going back further and jumping around in time: The Road (which I watched over and over, muting the more violent parts until I could watch it in its entirety without blinking—I’m fascinated by the resiliency of kindness in that post-apocalyptic environment).

Also, To Kill a Mockingbird, On the Waterfront (the soundtrack by Leonard Bernstein is exquisite and I adore the young Eva Marie Saint), Blade Runner (which matters most: who we are, or who we think we are?), The Wizard of Oz (Auntie Em reminds me of my grandmother), Bridget Jones Diary, Alien, lots more.

Favorite websites: I feel appreciative of Wikipedia and respect Open Source websites in general though I don’t seek them out. Sounds really commercial but I also like wandering around YouTube, looking at old Kids in the Hall episodes, and recently, archived stuff like interviews with Janis Joplin on Dick Cavett.

And then I hear about websites from friends, like underwaternewyork.com, which elicits stories and poems about objects found in the waterways around NYC; not just ship wreck-type stuff but the skeleton of a giraffe; there are all kinds of surprises under the surface.

Favorite TV shows: Recent cable series I’m hooked on include Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones and Girls.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Wouldn’t rule any of them out, but depends on my mood.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: I talk to the cat and make up names for her: Pot Roast, Big Head/Little Body, Possum. I tell her if she isn’t nice, she’s going to make a very nice toilet seat cover for me someday.

What is your pet peeve? People who don’t have an indoor voice.

Favorite curse word: God-fucking-dammit

Favorite magazine: National Geographic, The New Yorker, Poetry, The Same, 2 Bridges Review, Hanging Loose (my favorites in literary magazines is always changing).

A culture that intrigues you: I’m curious about little subcultures in New York City, like the jump rope culture (bucket list item: Double Dutch competition in Brooklyn), and I don’t know if “intrigue” is the right word, but I’m fascinated by counter cultures like the (now defunct), Shakers, who didn’t marry, and made huge rocking cribs for sick adults in their community. I’m also interested in the cultures of certain institutions, corporate cultures and cultures of other groups, including those centered on sexuality, like butch/femme culture.

Do you like to dance? I am a wild and happy albeit not particularly talented dancer.

If you could change a law which would it be? Any law that is based in religion, like not being to sell alcohol on Sunday, I would like to see abolished.

Do you collect anything? Books of poetry (I give fiction away). And I guess you could say ankle boots. I don’t feel that comfortable with collecting stuff, and because I've moved so much in the last 13 years, it’s more reassuring to lighten, rather than deepen my footprint.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I’d like to take a little vacation in the 12th century or so, with a non-violent, pre-Columbian, pre-Aztec/Incan, matrilineal group of people like the Arawak or Taino; mild weather, fresh fish and fruit, plenty of resources to go around, habitats that smell sweetly of bundles of grass, art making and story telling both highly respected endeavors—any group like that, in some beautiful place near the equator, before Western Europeans mucked it all up.

I’d also like to go to New Guinea and see the (now extinct) Tasmanian Wolf or to North America when passenger pigeons would pass overhead in flocks so thick they blocked the sun, or the Galapagos, before tourists, when the animals were curious and unafraid.

I’d really like to travel back in time to see early humans, too, like the period of time when Neanderthals and Homosapiens were in Europe at the same time. I’d like to watch them interact, members from the two groups. Were they curious about each other? Wary about each other?

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Sure.

Your idea of a good meal: Healthy and tasty, not labor intensive, but involving some chopping (which I enjoy), and prepared in a familiar and colorful kitchen with someone I love, both of us barefoot, the windows open, a breeze from the garden slipping through, a bottle of wine on the counter. We’re sharing music we just found, switching around on an IPod on the counter, and neither of us has to get up early, and everyone in our lives is okay for at least that one day. That is my idea of a really, really good meal.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and what would you want to see? I’d like to go to a butch-only event, and see what they’re like when we’re not around.

Introvert or extrovert: I’m a high-functioning introvert.

Dream profession: Something that combines reading and writing poetry, dog training, and brainstorming to advise venture capitalists how to humanely spend their money. (You did say “dream.”)

What are your Hobbies: Bike riding, travel, museums, street fairs, online shopping for wrap dresses and skirts.

Do you have Phobias, what are they? No, I don’t have any.

Do you believe in past lives? No.

What do you get complemented on most often? My words. After that, how I look.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as an acceptable answer? My eyes keep getting worse.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would they be? Return the oceans to their healthiest state, redistribute all the world’s resources so no one suffers or starves, force manufacturers to stop destroying lives and the environment.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes would you choose? I’d like to walk in the shoes of a truly happy person for one day, to see how they respond to adversity and emerge triumphant, or at peace.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any. I am a secular humanist. I don’t believe in a god, an afterlife, past lives, or spirits. That said, I believe humans communicate with each other in metaphysical ways we are not capable of measuring, and our relationship with time is more complicated than our physiology allows us to know. Finally, in case I am not sounding like enough of a crackpot I will just add this: I think it’s reasonable to assume alien life forms exist and even hang out a bit, on Earth.

Do you generally feel understood? No.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? What a question! Since I think it’s intended to measure selflessness, I’ll just cut to the chase and say, Yes I’m selfless, but not to the point of self-destructiveness—and I often get something back when I give of myself, whether it’s to see someone I care about, be happy, or to later realize, they’ve got my back because I once had theirs.

I’m also assuming this question is intended to measure empathy and social consciousness, survival of the individual versus survival of the group, so I’ll also say Yes, I’m extremely empathetic. I couldn’t be a writer, if I weren’t. And my conscience leads me to protect the individual, because no group exists without individuals.

Biggest concern about aging: Having no one to talk to, especially in bed at night, before falling asleep.

What were you like in high school? Withdrawn, fearless, unconventional, cynical, curious about everything, wary, affectionate, highly creative.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes. I would be good at it. I’m both a devoted and independent partner, and particularly suited to the cozy, home-building aspects of marriage.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Fairness, in whatever form that takes: economic fairness, academic fairness, social fairness.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My own.


PART II: LOVE/SEXUALITY

Sexual orientation: Lesbian.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme

Current relationship status: I’m not available. (And I apologize if that sounds presumptuous.)

What you look for in a partner: Loyalty. Playfulness. Sparkly, steady braininess (spacing out, in that context, is A-OK with me). Optimism. Sexual adventurousness. Kindness. Someone with a distinctly unusual approach to life’s choices, and an innovative problem solver. A forgiving sort who does good in the world, and is patient with me.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Tops of all types. I also apparently have an unintentional and magical ability to attract a person’s exes back to her.

Number of times you've been in love: Three.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How much braver it made me feel, about everything else in my life.

Monogamy or polyamory: I can date more than one person at a time, but once I start having flashes of love for a person (flashes that eventually occur closer together, till it’s like a solid light in me), I automatically lose interest in anyone else.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in the world? Someone who loves me.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes, with someone in Provincetown. We weren’t suited for the long-term but we had great fun.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone you met online? Yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: 15

Describe your best kiss: Penn Station. Waiting with her for her train, and we’d never kissed before. Standing at the top of the stairs after her train has been announced, everyone rushing around us to catch the train, and I turn to face her, nuzzle against her shirt, stretch up, balancing myself by holding her arm, and kiss her on the mouth. I couldn’t stop myself.

Describe your last kiss: Can’t remember.

What are you most physically attracted to in a woman? Her voice, how she moves through a space crowded with other people, how she looks at me. Also, her shoulders, height, back of the neck a little bristly, an intentional way of touching me.

What trait in a woman turns you off? Talking over me and misunderstanding me (sounds like two traits but they often are interwoven).


PART III: SEX

What are you self-conscious about naked? A few more pounds I have yet to lose, about six or seven. (Yeah, I know, I’m hard on myself.)

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the lights on or off? Low lights. I like to show off a little.

Three things a person has done to you in a making-out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: 1) Started with lots of making out—in my kitchen, leaning against the window sill, on the couch, up against the wall in my bedroom. 2) Responded to my touch, seemed very turned on by the way I touched her. 3) Sensed my trust at some point and took over from there.

Three things a person has done to you in a making-out or sexual
situation that turned you off: 1) Insisted in having a really bright goose-neck lamp trained on the bed; I felt like I was in the OR being poked at by aliens. 2) Said to me, “You taste like honey”—corny and nonsensical metaphor. If you’re going to BS me, at least be inventive. 3) Making girlie noises when she was close to coming; no please don’t do that.

Have you ever taken naked pics/videos of yourself? No.

Do you have any Fetishes: No.

BDSM: yes or no? Open, with someone I trusted.

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes.

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[yotlyolqualli]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Malissa

Age:
42

Astrological Sign:
Aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year):
2/9

Location:
Pa

Height:
5"2" in the morning before gravity takes over :(

Eye Color:
brown

Hair Color:
brown with some silver

Piercings - how many & where:
once on each ear

Tattoos - how many & where:
two, one on my upper left shoulder and one around my right wrist

Cat person or dog person:
cat

Job:
I write (have had a few things published) I bake (sell baked goods in the summer and around Christmas) I've catered a few events and, when asked, have crocheted afghans and infant clothing and have designed and sewn formal wear for little girls, for profit. My career field of choice was home health care, but a really mean ex did some really mean things and my doctor took me out of that field. Sucks.

What do you like about your job?:
Writing, I love the creavtivity, the sometimes spontaneous ideas that pop into my head: inside each character dwells a little piece of me. Baking/Catering: love cooking and love the way I surprise the hell out of people with how good my cooking actually is...*G Crocheting and sewing, I love getting a picture in my head, putting it on paper, then creating the pattern, whether in my head or on paper, then completing each design. I surprise myself with what I come up with sometimes.

What do you loathe about your job?:
Writers block, it sucks. I never cook ir bake without cutting or burning myself :(. Ripping out seams or rows of yarn when I've messed or missed a stitch.

Favorite books / authors:
Bible, the entire Little House series, the Left Behind series and a book called "The Shack".

Favorite bands/musicians:
Melissa Etheridge, Newsboys, Point of Grace, ... I like country, classical, pop, rock, an occassional heavy metal tune and gospel.

Favorite movies:
LOL. This always gets me, I sometimes wonder what people think when they learn my favorite movies. "The Sound of Music" & "Meet Me in St. Louis" I watched them with my Mom.

Favorite websites:
BFP, PoD

Favorite TV shows:
NCIS, Paranormal State, Snapped

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Chocolate & Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Apologizing out loud to God, when I cuss. lol.

What is your pet peeve:
getting myself into my "ultimate" walking pace and mind space, and someone steps out in front of me and walks slower than a turtle on "slow-mo" speed.

Favorite curse word:
Damn... sorry God. :)

Favorite magazine:
Don't have one.

A culture that intrigues you:
Native American culture

Do you like to dance?
No.

If you could change a law which would it be?
Paternity laws. Any perp who rapes/molests a woman and "fathers" a child through that act, should NEVER have the right to know if that child is his and if it is, should have all paternity rights severed.

Do you collect anything?
Precious Moments, anything, daisys, Thomas Kinkade, anything and individual china teacup/saucer sets. I told my aunt ONE time, I preferred tea over coffee, and every christmas/birthday there after, I received a cup and saucer set, sometimes more than one. I even have cups and saucers with daisys, precious moments and thomas kinkade scenes on them... lol

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
Sept.23/1994, 1:30 pm. I hung the phone up, after speaking to my mother in the hospital. I didn't tell her I loved her, because we were getting ready to go visit her. I never got another chance. She died at 7:30 that evening. No one saw it coming, not even her doctors.

Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Maybe...

Your idea of a good meal:
A meal that's shared with someone/s special.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
OK.... thought for like 5 minutes about this. I honestly don't know.

Introvert or extrovert:
Both

Dream profession:
mother

What are your Hobbies:
writing, reading, crocheting/sewing baking, cooking, hiking, singing and gardening

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:
Claustrophobia and arachnophobia

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Nope.

What do you get complemented on most often?
cooking/baking and singing

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
Chronic anemia and insomnia

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?
Clean the air, the water and preserve the land

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
TTs, I'd love to see the world through the eyes of a child, again

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
Born again Christian

Do you generally feel understood?
Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Yes

Biggest concern about aging:
losing cognitive function

What were you like in high school?
band/chorus geekier.. even the geeks thought I was a geek lol

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about:
child abuse, victim advocacy, civil rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
WWJD, seriously


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
low maintenance femme

Current relationship status:
single

What you look for in a partner:
Kindness, strength, willingness to lead, honesty, faithfulness and all wrapped up in a butch woman.

The "type" of person you tend to attract:
Sadly enough, needy clingy narcisists... am working on changing that. lol

Number of times you've been in love:
Once

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
How love, even in it's truest form, can not thrive if it is not given in return.

Monogamy or polyamory:
Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
Xena... lol. Other than her? I don't believe I've had the oppurtunity to meet her face to face yet.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes for long term, no for successful, hence the whole single thing.

Age when you had your first kiss:
5, cousin, male, icky.. was a dare.

Describe your best kiss:
It's a toss up... a kiss from TT.. mouith open wide, all five teeth showing, and a grin when it's done.... (TT is my 11 month old god son)
OR
she took my chin in her hand, tilted my face up, I pulled away, she slid her hand into my hair, pulled my head back and took my mouth. No other way to describe it but.. taking.

Describe your last kiss:
a TT kiss... :)

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Eyes, mouth and hands fascinate me, and I prefer women taller than me, and I love long hair on a woman.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Narcissism


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
ex g/f

What are you self-conscious about naked?
being naked...lol

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
dimmed

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
talk dirty, hold me down and lightly bit my neck.. yeah... love the whole neck biting thing.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
talked on the phone, got a bit too rough, said all kinds of corny phrases... think she made a list from a romance novel...lol

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
no

Do you have any Fetishes:
not really

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:
If we're talking about a tall butch in leather? Hell yeah!

BDSM - yes or no?:
D/s

Have you ever had a one-night stand?
yes

How often do you masturbate?
myob lol

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
depends on what were talking about

[laruss]

Patiently waiting to hear from others in here.

[rockstar lover]

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Kirsten

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Capricorn

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9th

Location: Edmonton, AB

Height: 5'2"

Eye Color: brown/hazel

Hair Color: brown (w/ blond highlights)

Piercings - how many & where: none

Tattoos - how many & where: none

Cat person or dog person: cat

Job: finance

What do you like about your job?: I'm good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: can get boring at times

Favorite bands/musicians: serena ryder, celine dion, ABBA, amy bishop

Favorite movies: Mama Mia, The Notebook, Away We Go

Favorite websites: facebook, butchfemme planet

Favorite TV shows: CSI, Law & Order, Glee, 30 Rock

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Ice-cream right? chocolate fo sho

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: a happy dance

What is your pet peeve: arrogance

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: Psychology Today

Do you like to dance? YES!!

Do you collect anything? tacky souvenirs

Would you ever have plastic surgery? no

Your idea of a good meal: med steak, grilled veggies

Introvert or extrovert: both (depending on the situation)

Dream profession: physiotherapist or psychologist

What are your Hobbies: camping, golfing, bootcamp, hot yoga, movies, singing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: spiders!

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes

What do you get complemented on most often? my sweet nature

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my height

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? mother theresa

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: spiritual, believe in a higher power

Do you generally feel understood? mostly

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: loss of independance

What were you like in high school? class clown

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: domestic abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my mom's


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian/queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): soft-butch

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: sense of humor, passion, compassion, romantic, sweet

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? how easily it was to lose myself in her

Monogamy or polyamory: for a life partner (monogamy)

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? don't want to say

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: full of passion and romance

Describe your last kiss: passion-filled

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, curves, smile, lips, long hair

What trait in a woman turns you off?: arrogance



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: me lol

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either is fine

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: dirty talk, submission,

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: too vocal or too aggressive

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? no

Do you have any Fetishes: no

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: open to it. Ask & ye shall recieve :)

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? every 2-3 days

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[Babyangeleyez]

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Lisa

Age: 41

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9/15

Location: Virginia

Height: 5'2

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Blonde highlights

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear, nose, eyebrow

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 - Left ankle, right calf, upper back, left breast

Cat person or dog person: Both

Job: Certified Medical Assistant and Certified Phlebotomist

What do you like about your job?: Drawing blood

What do you loathe about your job?: Slow doctor. Always at least an hour behind.

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Stevie Nicks, Jason Aldean, Trace Adkins, Adele, Lil' Wayne

Favorite movies: You've Got Mail, Sweet Home Alabama, Dazed & Confused,

Favorite websites: This one

Favorite TV shows: Sister Wives, My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Hmmm, I dunno

What is your pet peeve: People who don't use turn signals

Favorite curse word: F**k (yes I have a potty mouth)

Favorite magazine: People

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance? Yes

If you could change a law which would it be? A bunch

Do you collect anything? Not really


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1969 Woodstock. I think that would have been so awesome to experience that.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Maybe

Your idea of a good meal: Home cooked

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Introvert or extrovert: Both

Dream profession: Own my own business

What are your Hobbies: Flower gardening, scrapbooking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I'm afraid of heights, snakes. Don't what "phobias" they are...LoL

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes. No clue with mine.

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes and hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Preserve land, Clean up the rivers, lakes, etc.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Spiritual

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school? I was considered a "redneck". I was shy and only had a few close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Marriage equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mom


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme

Current relationship status: Single for 14 months

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, patience, kindness

The "type" of person you tend to attract: emotionally "unavailable" butches.

Number of times you've been in love: 2 or 3 times

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How overwhelming the feeling was.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My son. I know its probably an odd answer, but I lost my son 4 years ago and if I could just hold him again it would make me so happy.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Never

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss: Mmmm....slow, sensual, with just a little nibble on the bottom lip

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Their smile and eyes get me every time.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cheaters, liars, drama queens



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Someone I dated briefly

What are you self-conscious about naked? Nothing really.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Doesn't matter

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kiss on my neck

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Being too vocal

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Guilty

Do you have any Fetishes: No

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yeah

How often do you masturbate? Every day...LoL

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Shaved

[Miss_J]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Jackie
Age:
43
Astrological Sign:
Libra
Birth Date: (day only - not year):
10/17
Location:
Detroit MI
Height:
5’6”
Eye Color:
Hazel
Hair Color:
Red
Piercings - how many & where:
ears 2 in one 5 in other. 6 additional
Tattoos - how many & where:
Left arm two, left shoulder to chest 1, center back 1, right back shoulder 1Cat person or dog person:
Animal person, I have 2 dogs and 2 birds
Job:
Casino/Dealer
What do you like about your job?:
The people and hours
What do you loathe about your job?:
The people
Favorite books / authors:
Green eggs and Ham.. Dr Seuss
Favorite bands/musicians:
Lil Wayne, Bruno Mars, Big N Rich, Dolly, M Etheridge, M Ferrick, The butchies, The Clicks
Favorite movies:
A walk to remember, first wives club, last samurai.. to name a few.
Favorite websites:
BFP, Fetlife, goregasm, suicide girls
Favorite TV shows:
How I met your mother, Bones, the Closer, House, SVU
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Chocolate
A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Sing into remote
What is your pet peeve:
put the lid back on it!
Favorite curse word:
Son of a Biscuit eatin bastard!
Favorite magazine:
Bird talk
A culture that intrigues you:
Vulcan
Do you like to dance?
Yes
If you could change a law which would it be?
Helmet law
Do you collect anything?
Yes
If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
1935 to meet my mothers parents. They both passed shortly after
Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Yes
Your idea of a good meal:
Almost anything mama makes lol
If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I wouldnt
Introvert or extrovert:
In the middle
Dream profession:
Pool side margarita sipping nymph
What are your Hobbies:
stamping, beading, learning herbs
Do you have Phobias, what are they?:
deep water…
Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?
I believe in energy
What do you get complemented on most often?
my smile and eyes
What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
my knees want to give out on me
If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?
1. Global warming 2. Pollution 3. Human condition
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
My grandmothers
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:

Do you generally feel understood?
Most of the time
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
I don’t fear death but the pain associated with it. I would choose to save others.
Biggest concern about aging:
Not being able to take care of myself
What were you like in high school?
Quiet lil stoner with a 3.8
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Not so much
Issues that you feel most passionate about:
Elder abuse, child abuse, sexual freedom
The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
My mothers

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
Lesbian
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
Femme
Current relationship status:
Single
What you look for in a partner:
Realistic, honorable, loving, passionate, self assured, dependable, attentive, Dominant w/o being overbearing, fun loving, family loving, sarcastic in a fun way, independent, healthy in mind body and spirit.
The "type" of person you tend to attract:
I don’t know if it’s a type
Number of times you've been in love:
3
What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
That it happened
Monogamy or polyamory:
poly friendly
Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
my father. I’ve missed him so much since he passed.
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes
Age when you had your first kiss:
5
Describe your best kiss:
that was toe curling soft sighs hands roaming yummm
Describe your last kiss:
sad
What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Eyes
What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Insecurity


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
My Roomie
What are you self-conscious about naked?
Not much
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
I don’t have a preference
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
pressed me up against a wall and kissed me hard, hand in my hair pulled slightly, talked.. explicitly
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
Talked TO much, checking in every 5 seconds.. is that good for you?
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
Yes
Do you have any Fetishes:
Corsetry, bondage, shoes

Leather - yes or no?:
Yes
BDSM - yes or no?:
Yes
Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Yes
How often do you masturbate?
Just enough
Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
Little bit of both.

[JistMe]

IslandScout .... Best answer EVER = Your idea of a good meal: Healthy and tasty, not labor intensive, but involving some chopping (which I enjoy), and prepared in a familiar and colorful kitchen with someone I love, both of us barefoot, the windows open, a breeze from the garden slipping through, a bottle of wine on the counter. We’re sharing music we just found, switching around on an IPod on the counter, and neither of us has to get up early, and everyone in our lives is okay for at least that one day. That is my idea of a really, really good meal.



The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Crys
Age:
37
Astrological Sign:
Sagittarius
Birth Date: (day only - not year):
December 18th
Location:
Cottage Grove, Oregon
Height:
5'4"
Eye Color:
Brown
Hair Color:
Dark Brown
Piercings - how many & where:
One ear, had my tongue done in my twenties, but not now
Tattoos - how many & where:
One on my chest (Many more are in my future)

Cat person or dog person:
Dog
Job:
Privately Contracted Research Assistant

What do you like about your job?:
I work mostly from home, make my own hours, and it's different every day. I'm a learning geek anyway, and learning new things every day keeps it interesting. The money isn't bad either.
What do you loathe about your job?:
My biggest client is SOOO hard to work with. I also hate the politics involved. I'm a pretty good writer, but I absolutely haaaaaaaaaaate doing it, so the articles and interviews... radio shows, etc... all get very old.

Favorite books / authors:
As I said, I am a learning nerd... so a lot of what I read is nonfiction. But I do like some literary fiction, and I absolutely love poetry.
Favorite bands/musicians:
Neko Case, Adele, Five for Fighting, Sister 7, Yiruma or any really good piano music, Acoustic anything, Anything country... LOVE the blues... I like it all.
Favorite websites: fmylife.com -- penzu.com -- Literotica.com -- Many Blog Sites... Open Source... PBS.org ...need I go on?

Favorite TV shows:
Documentaries, Science and History, Animal Shows... Also like some comedy, and reality shows.
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
All the flavors
A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Play with the baby's cookie monster piano :blush:
What is your pet peeve:
Toothpaste in the sink. Disgusting.
Favorite curse word:
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

Favorite magazine:
Pastel Journal, Wet Canvas.. I dont read many mags anymore.

A culture that intrigues you:
All cultures are interesting.

Do you like to dance?
Yes... mostly with the music up, and the lights low... with someone special in my arms, us in our socks, and her face in my neck.
Do you collect anything?
Yes, I do. Maps, art, books... and apparently heart shaped rocks. I keep finding them everywhere.

Your idea of a good meal:
(smiling at IslandScout) Perfect answer.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I would go back to watch my kids grow up, and although it would be difficult to see how hard it was for them without me, I would make myself watch so I could better understand them today, and know where they are coming from.

Introvert or extrovert:
A little of both. I can be shy under the right circumstances, but am generally very friendly, bold, and outgoing. I have learned, however, that I like time alone.
Dream profession:
Artist
What are your Hobbies:
Art, Building Models, Fishing, Music, Reading... There's more.

What do you get complemented on most often?
That I look young.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
I'm just generally a small person. When you look like a short and scrawny teenage boy, it's hard to get people to take you seriously -- professionally, and personally.
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
Someone with really cool shoes.
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
No, thank you.
Do you generally feel understood?
No.
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
How would I know? That would be entirely situational. But more than likely, I would.
Biggest concern about aging:
Being alone.

What were you like in high school?
Same as I am today... almost exactly.
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Yes, if I found someone whose world was that much richer with me in it, and mine with her... I wouldn't hesitate. It has to come easy for both of us.
The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
Mine.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
Gay
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
Handsome.... and Awesome.
Current relationship status:
Single
The "type" of person you tend to attract:
Emotionally Unavailable Psychobitches
Monogamy or polyamory:
Monogamy
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes, long term. Successful? I like to think so, although we aren't together anymore. Any growth is success, in my world.
Describe your best kiss:
When I met "her".... we went walking around and window shopping. I bought her a bathing suit for her upcoming vacation, and a tiny ring with stars on it. It was hot out, so we got gelato. She put her legs across my lap, and fed me bites. She had the most beautiful smile, and when she looked at me, everything else just disappeared. I carried her shopping bags to her car, and watched as she put them in the trunk. When she closed it, I put my hand over hers.... and as she turned to look at me, I put my other arm around her, and kissed her there against the car. The whole world swirled away, and we got so lost in each other that we slid off the trunk.... just... FELL OVER... together, in each other's arms. I realized just in time, and caught us both. We both laughed, and she reached up and touched my face, and I was gone.

Describe your last kiss:
Same girl. But instead of laughing, this time we cried.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Her heart.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Pushy, Bossy, Self Centered.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
Uhh... me?

What are you self-conscious about naked?
Nothing
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
Low lights.
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
Intimate moments with other's is not something I'm willing to share in a public forum.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
(see above)
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
Yes.
Do you have any Fetishes: *
Name your fetishes: *
Leather - yes or no?: *
BDSM - yes or no?: *
Have you ever had a one-night stand?
No

* = For details, send a SASE to my inbox lol

[Heavenleahangel]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):Tammy

Age:42 almost 43

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 7th

Location: Upstate, NY

Height: 5' 5"

Eye Color: sparkling blue

Hair Color: blond

Piercings - how many & where: just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 1 on upper left shoulder I *just* got!

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: caretaker of the developmentally delayed

What do you like about your job?: the love I get from the people most of society has thrown away.

What do you loathe about your job?: State and federal budget cuts forcing some people to decide whether to buy meds or eat!!! ARGH!!!

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Country, hip hop, some rap, oldies, classic rock....

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites: BFP of course!

Favorite TV shows: Crime, mystery, medical shows,

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: let myself believe I can dance! Its quite comical!

What is your pet peeve: being late

Favorite curse word: Dayum!

Favorite magazine: Reader's Digest

A culture that intrigues you: the Amish

Do you like to dance? yes-if thats what you wanna call it..lol

If you could change a law which would it be? Allowing gay in every state

Do you collect anything? Monkeys


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Somewhere in the era of Gone with the Wind. I love those dresses!!!!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes if I could

Your idea of a good meal: steak, good salad bar and warm bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both depending on the situation

Dream profession: to be a doctor

What are your Hobbies: writing, singing, cooking/baking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Im not sure. I sometimes believe that I lived before when I have bits and pieces of flashbacks and dreams.

What do you get complemented on most often? My beautiful blue eyes, writing abilities; how cute my son is

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my diabetes being so fickle

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end world hunger, stop the droughts in all countries, end human traficking

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Jesus Christ

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Definitely!

Biggest concern about aging: Being financially under-prepared

What were you like in high school? a little quirky, I didn't fit in as it was such a hige taboo to be "gay"

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about: human rights, equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My son, Jacob. He is 5 so as long as it doesn't hurt him, then he's ok with it...


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme: I never considered myself as a "lesbian" though.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): see above

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: too many things to list here, but the common-sense basicsl the strong/confident type

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Ya really wanna know?? lol

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How liberating it felt to be in love and appreciated

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes I have

Age when you had your first kiss: 14

Describe your best kiss: the first time I kissed my first love passionately

Describe your last kiss: Jacob's "mommy kisses" the best in the world

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: the "strong/confident" stone/butch type mind

What trait in a woman turns you off?: those that do not take care of themselves



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Jacob when I thought he was sleeping

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? both

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sensual massage, showed their confidence;

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: wet/sloppy kissing; being obnoxiously gropy/feely

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?: some

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Honestly, no, I havn't

How often do you masturbate? very rarelly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[lusciouskiwi]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Linda

Age: 47

Astrological Sign: Aries/Snake

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 25th

Location: Malaysia (I'm a New Zealander)

Height: 5'8"

Eye Color: [B]bluish/grayish with a bit of yellow

Hair Color: medium brown with quite a bit of grey, currently blonde

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: one, lower belly, in from my left hip

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Teacher Trainer

What do you like about your job?: being able to use my intellect, my teaching experience, being independent, helping others, teaching kids

What do you loathe about your job?: No ac in Malaysian classrooms

Favorite books / authors: so many! Judith Grahn, Witi Ihimaera, Patricia Highsmith, Janet Frame, Jennifer Levin, so many more!

Favorite bands/musicians: Joan Armatrading, Julia Fordham, Me'Shell NdegeOcello, kd lang, the pixies, Split Enz, The Topp Twins, Crowded House, disco, electronic/house, celtic, ... and more

Favorite movies: Strictly Ballroom, Shall We Dance (original Japanese version), Dirty Dancing, Ghibli anime, more ...B\

Favorite websites: fb, bfp,

Favorite TV shows: [B]Grey's Anatomy, Smash, Glee, Sherlock, So YOu Think You Can Dance...

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? everything

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: riggling my glasses up my nose by twitching my nose

What is your pet peeve: selfishness, dropping rubbish anywhere

Favorite curse word: FUCK!, also BUGGER!

Favorite magazine: Flavours, a Singaporean/Malaysia food magazine

A culture that intrigues you: Bugis, Sulawesi, Indonesia, they have five genders

Do you like to dance? LOVE dancing and a butch to dance on :eyebat:, would love to go to ballroom dancing classes with my butch

If you could change a law which would it be? laws that discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation or ethnicity

Do you collect anything? not at the moment


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? to 1840 when the British Crown signed a Treaty with Maori - I would make it more legally binding in order to protect indigenous rights

Would you ever have plastic surgery? for surgical reasons already, for vanity, why not

Your idea of a good meal: either one I've cooked for my darling for a special occasion (or just to impress the pants of her) or somewhere special I've been taken to

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? John Key, Prime Minister of NZ, so I could then leak it

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert mostly

Dream profession: what I'm doing right now is pretty good

What are your Hobbies: bit of a boring fart these days - reading, watching tv, occasionally going to the movies

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: scared of heights

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? nope

What do you get complemented on most often? n the past, my eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? the size of my feet. Please don't laugh.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? [COLOR="Indigo"]end global warming, clean drinking water for all, reliable and appropriate sanitation for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Oprah Winfrey would be pretty cool

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: be kind to everyone, torturing and abusing animals is not ok, give to others where and when you can

Do you generally feel understood? no, but maybe that's changing as I understand myself more

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: diabetes

What were you like in high school? nothing much - didn't think I was intelligent or pretty or good at anything, didn't know I could question my identity or even that I had choices other than the ones presented to me

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes, would love to

Issues that you feel most passionate about: discrimination, lack of education for girls and poor kids in general, animal cruelty

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: trying to focus on myself


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme/lipsick lesbian/lesbian feminist

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: a butch who's kind to themself, is comfortable in their own skin/body, where they are in their life and knows what they want, is an explorer and an active participant in life, understands and knows their own boundaries, enjoys seeking new experiences (in and out of bed), likes animals, has strong family/friend connections, smells good! Someone who wants to get to know me and is patient and persistent enough to do so, someone who can map every freckle on my body, someone who is proud of me and interested in me, someone who will seduce me to "ingenue"

The "type" of person you tend to attract: kind to others but doesn't look after themselves, passive (not always obviously passive). I'ma changing that!

Number of times you've been in love: three

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? thought she was my friend, I was surprised when a lesbian I knew teased me about it, this was at the beginning of my coming out

Monogamy or polyamory: long term relationship, monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? a couple of months ago I would have said my American ex, but now that I've been on bfp I'm ready for someone else ... if we're talking about fantasy, then kd lang

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? es

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes

Age when you had your first kiss: about 15 with a boy, early 20's with a lesbian

Describe your best kiss: in the shower with my darling, told her that she made me go kneak at the wees

Describe your last kiss: My Malaysian ex kissing me when I was almost asleep after we had broken up, trying to be dominant, too little too late

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: I must admit a tall, well built butch makes my grrly bits go all squishy apart from that lively eyes, nice hands, nice hair, energy, swagger :eyebat:, nicely shaped lips ...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: conceit, laziness, lack of drive/passiveness, unwilling and/or unable to hold a conversation, whiny or unsubstantial voice (I know that's not a trait but still ... there's not going to be any phone sex if your voice doesn't turn me on)



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my Malaysian ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? generally no

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either or

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: stroking me - my arms, my side, my neck, stroking is nice, biting me on my shoulders, really looking into my eyes, groaning

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: asking me how long it was going to take me to cum, noisy wet sloppy kisses (shudder), kneading my breasts like they're loaves of bread

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? photos yes

Do you have any Fetishes: don't think so

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: maybe

BDSM - yes or no?: maybe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? sometimes up to three times a day, but sometimes I find it too emotionally painful to masturbate and so sometimes it can be weeks or months, sometimes it's every day

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? "down there"? natural but I can wax, trim or shave if you really want me too ...

[ferret]

My answers...

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Sue

Age: 40

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 8/8

Location: KY

Height: 5'3

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Dark brown

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: 4; upper arms, upper back

Cat person or dog person: Dog

Job: Verification coordinator

What do you like about your job?: I can dress how I want, the work is interesting, and management leaves you alone to let you do your job.

What do you loathe about your job?: Having to talk on the phone

Favorite books / authors: Lori Lake or pretty much any lesbian fiction

Favorite bands/musicians: Fleetood Mac, Duran Duran, Elvis, Brian Setzer

Favorite movies: Rear Window, Fried Green Tomatoes, Batman Begins

Favorite websites: facebook, websites where I can buy graphic tees, Bella Books

Favorite TV shows: Grimm, Being Human, Walking Dead, Rachel Maddow Show

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing in my car

What is your pet peeve: People who are always late

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Curve

A culture that intrigues you: BDSM, even though it scares me

Do you like to dance? Yes, but I do it badly

If you could change a law which would it be? That gays would be allowed to get married in all 50 states

Do you collect anything? Batman memorabilia, books, movies


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1955. Rock music was just starting to come out, and Elvis was at his prime.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No

Your idea of a good meal: A good steak, salad, potato, and a really good bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would want to go and be with my sister for a day. We have a polite relationship, and I don't think I have a really good idea as to what she's like.

Introvert or extrovert: Extrovert -aka fun-herder

Dream profession: Novelist

What are your Hobbies: Photography

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I don't like spiders, bugs, or bats

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? That I have aches and pains that I never used to.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Endless food supply, stopping deforestation, and hunting animals that are on the verge of extinction.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The president. He has a very difficult, stressful job, and I often wonder what it would be like to be in his position.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: None, besides everything happens for a reason

Do you generally feel understood? No

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I'm not sure. It would depend on the circumstances.

Biggest concern about aging: Slowing down, being forgetful, or maybe having to be put in a nursing home

What were you like in high school? I didn't fit in anywhere, really. I had a few friends, but generally kept to myself.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Not right now.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Equality for all to get married and fair elections where our officials can't buy anything like, say, the presidency.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mother's. Still.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Gay

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): I identify as myself, if that makes sense.

Current relationship status: Single.

What you look for in a partner: Femme, but not helpless. And I mean no offense by that. Someone where there's a physical attraction, but what's on the inside also matters. She has to have a good sense of humor, is intelligent, and can carry on a good conversation.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: People who I'm not physically attracted to, or loons.

Number of times you've been in love: Once.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? I really didn't know it at the time; I just knew that I wanted to be around that person as much as possible.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? A girl that belongs to a social group that I do, although, we haven't been officially introduced yet.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes. And they suck.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No

Age when you had your first kiss: 19

Describe your best kiss: Passionate and it lead to other things

Describe your last kiss: It was more out of lust, I think

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Eyes, smile, intelligent

What trait in a woman turns you off?: If she's extremely overweight.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: My ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? That I'm a little bit "pudgy"

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? I just want to be able to see the other person

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kissing the back of my neck, sucking on my nipples, kissing in general

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: When that other person is in a rush to get me off

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? No. Who in the hell would ever want to see me nekkid?

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes, but I've never been able to try it yet

Name your fetishes: Fisting

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate? Couple times a month, if that.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Completely natural. For now.

[Gráinne]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Ann

Age:49

Astrological Sign:Aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year):January 22

Location: La Petite Roche

Height:5'0

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color:Brown with highlights

Piercings - how many & where:2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where:Not yet

Cat person or dog person: Animal person, but currently owned by two cats.

Job:Educator

What do you like about your job?:When a student realizes they can "get" physics

What do you loathe about your job?:Social problems getting into the classroom

Favorite books / authors:e.e.cummings, Chekhov, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Pushkin, about any Russian novel you can think of.

Favorite bands/musicians:That changes way too much. I love a bit of everything, except heavy metal and rap.

Favorite movies:It's a Mad, Mad, Mad Mad World; The Long, Long Trailer; Gone With The Wind

Favorite websites:Right here, FB, Livejournal, Huffington Post, Etiquette Hell

Favorite TV shows:Amazing Race, Top Shot, American Ninjas, Dance Moms, and Dance Moms, Miami (if it comes back), telenovelas

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Not a huge ice cream eater, but chocolate fudge.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Make like the cat is talking and give it a "voice"

What is your pet peeve:People who complain about something but never take a solution

Favorite curse word:Jiminy crickets (I try very hard not to swear)

Favorite magazine:Astronomy Today

A culture that intrigues you:Hasidic Jew, Russian, Chinese-oh, you name it

Do you like to dance?Slow and close with someone special, yes. I also did jazz dance (like in Dance Moms) when I was in high school. Fast dancing, not really.

If you could change a law which would it be?Equal funding for all school districts regardless of neighborhood

Do you collect anything?Cookbooks, if that counts

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?1862, in Sparta, Ontario to find out what in the world happened to my biological g-great grandparents and why their children lived with their aunt and uncle.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? If I had a disfiguring injury, but not just to take fat out or pump up boobs.

Your idea of a good meal:Really good spaghetti, salad and breadsticks followed by a great dessert

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would play in a hippo pond in Africa, so they wouldn't attack me but they're so cute.

Introvert or extrovert:Very shy until you know me better.

Dream profession:I'm doing that now, but maybe I'd move it to Saint Petersburg or Moscow.

What are your Hobbies:Reading, playing keyboard, genealogy, learning languages, swimming, astronomy

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:Not great at heights, those rickety staircases, escalators, or bugs

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?Not sure about reincarnation but I sometimes have conversations that I know I've had before-I can fill in the "blanks".

What do you get complemented on most often? Eyes, smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?Being shorter than most everyone else

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? 1)clean water for all, 2) universal literacy and 3) safe and effective birth control for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The President. I think we'd all have a better feeling for his job.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I am Jewish but don't follow kosher. It's far more based on doing good than theology.

Do you generally feel understood?Not by most people, unless someone's as weird as I am.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes.

Biggest concern about aging:Becoming a financial or emotional burden to my children.

What were you like in high school?A big nerd and a band geek! Very quiet but liked by people from all groups, though I didn't have a lot of close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? A colossal no.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Education, health, capital punishment (abolish), child abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My own, followed by my mature, common-sense led daughter :)

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:Coming to like "queer"

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):I don't fit any one thing, but femme-ish, I guess.

Current relationship status:Not looking but open to it

What you look for in a partner:Kindness, a sense of humor, intelligence, emotional openness, honesty, responsible

The "type" of person you tend to attract:Until recently, people with significant problems who needed "rescuing"

Number of times you've been in love:Twice

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?How strong that feeling is

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?Platonically, any Russian friend because that would mean I was there (probably)

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? "Successful" in the sense that we're still great friends today, yes, but it didn't work out romantically for reasons other than distance.

Age when you had your first kiss:15 for a boy, 42 for a girl!

Describe your best kiss:In the rain, of course.

Describe your last kiss:The last time I saw LDR woman from above. It was sad, but OK.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:Eyes that smile, a great smile, nice hair, um..it depends

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Emotionally? Drama, "dumbing" themselves down, no confidence.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Romantically? LDR woman above. Sometimes daughter, if I'm in the shower.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not much!

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Dim light. It shouldn't look like a surgical suite

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Um...not forgetting about my back, making noise, really paying attention to all of me.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Not specific to gender: "testing the roast" to see if I'm "ready", asking "Did you come?", being way too rough

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? I was a life model in college, so was painted and sculpted ;).

Do you have any Fetishes:that's personal

Name your fetishes:ditto

Leather - yes or no?:no

BDSM - yes or no?:not much

Have you ever had a one-night stand?no

How often do you masturbate?Enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?gadzooks, that's personal

not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[lusciouskiwi]

Come on folks, the water's fine, no sharks to bite you ... today at last :pirate-steer:

[StoneOne]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Damon

Age: 50

Astrological Sign: Water

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-06

Location: Denver Colorado

Height: 5'4

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Salt and Pepper

Piercings - how many & where: Yes

Tattoos - how many & where: 12 arms, back and chest more to come wont stop until I run out of room

Cat person or dog person: both but none at this time roomate has both

Job: Warehouse

What do you like about your job?: the hours and peeps

What do you loathe about your job?: the liars if you can not tell the truth say nothing and if you are witness to a liar say so if you do not you are no better

Favorite books / authors: I used to love reading I have become to busy and do not have the time but I do need to change that

Favorite bands/musicians: anything with a Soul it needs to talk to me, Manson, Disturbed, Korn you get the Idea

Favorite movies: All the Underworlds, Queen of the Dammed

Favorite websites: Thunder, Fetlife, ITaboo the Planet

Favorite TV shows: Saving Grace

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing to myself and the StoneButch Dance

What is your pet peeve: Liars

Favorite curse word: All LMFAO

Favorite magazine: Gamestop

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? Life is a dance and yes

If you could change a law which would it be? I do not smoke it but MaryJane

Do you collect anything? Knives, gaming stuff and hats


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1974 the year my aunt died I want to talk with her again just be close

Would you ever have plastic surgery? saving for top surgery

Your idea of a good meal: anyting you cook together

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I can not share this

Introvert or extrovert: both

Dream profession: BDSM club owner and gaming store

What are your Hobbies: fishing and camping

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: clean. clean, and did i say clean

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes, I must work harder on why I am here again and what I made a contract to do

What do you get complemented on most often? how I care about others

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? top

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? sharing, caring and loving

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? my aunt

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: we are here until we learn what we set out to Native american

Do you generally feel understood? I understand myself mostly working on the rest this is what matters

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I would sacrifice for 1

Biggest concern about aging: less time to do what I want

What were you like in high school? quite but protecter of those would could not do it for themselves

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: I am passionate about all I do

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: mine but I listen to all others and I care about what they are feeling


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: StoneButch

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty

The "type" of person you tend to attract: You would have to ask them

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? Her

Monogamy or polyamory: poly

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Her

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? tried but I am not ment to

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: everyone of them

Describe your last kiss: full of desire and passion

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: who she is and of course breasts

What trait in a woman turns you off?: no reguard for others



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? not gonna happen

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? On

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: all of it

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: touched where they know not to

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes you name it

Name your fetishes: it would be easier to name the ones I dont like, anal, scat and golden shower

Leather - yes or no?: Yes

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? nope

How often do you masturbate? never I am Stone

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
none ya

[laruss]

Bumping...

[Tcountry]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): T

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-25

Location: SW Nebraska

Height: 5'7"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Mostly brown

Piercings - just ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 now(upper back, mid back, left upper arm & right forearm)...2 planned soon(upper right arm & left forearm)

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Ethanol Expert

What do you like about your job?: I am good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: the circle of love...aka good ole boys club

Favorite books / authors: Anything that actually holds my interest long enough for me to finish the book

Favorite bands/musicians: Brad Paisley, Blake Shelton, Reba, most country stars

Favorite movies: The Ultimate Gift, Loin King, The Last Holiday

Favorite websites: here...facebook, ehow, wikipedia

Favorite TV shows: Criminal Minds, Crossing Jordan, Numbers

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? depends on the day

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance while cooking

What is your pet peeve: there's not a lot that really gets to me...

Favorite curse word: Shit

Favorite magazine: Smithsonian & Handyman

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? for the most part yes

If you could change a law which would it be? speed limit thru Iowa (travel a lot)
Do you collect anything? patriotic stuff

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1990...I have some unanswered questions I would like to solve

Would you ever have plastic surgery? not unless absolutely necessary

Your idea of a good meal: there are so many....I love food...

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? OH the possibilities...

Introvert or extrovert: introvert almost always

Dream profession: Anything where I am actually valued

What are your Hobbies: bowling, studying, spending time in nature

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: not that I know of

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No...not really, altho sometimes I wonder

What do you get complemented on most often? eyes & smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? scars, but they all have stories

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? food crops for all, edible animals for all who eat them, and world peace :)

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The US President

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian mostly...with a lot of nature thrown in

Do you generally feel understood? depends on the topic and by whom

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? most definitely, and it wouldn't take 10,000...

Biggest concern about aging: health getting worse

What were you like in high school? "brown noser"...lol but I learned a lot

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? not really

Issues that you feel most passionate about: equality, work ethic, character

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: person? me...I'm the only one who really gets the whole picture of me...evereyone else gets what I show them

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesban

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Butch

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty, character, connection

The "type" of person you tend to attract: my bff's & I have theories...nothing specific to all

Number of times you've been in love: too many...there are rules now

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? love does not surprise me...

Monogamy or polyamory: 1 please

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? The 1 who fulfills me...body, mind, soul

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? depending on your definition of success...but I believe so

Age when you had your first kiss: 8...soccer field...

Describe your best kiss: so far...making her so weak in the knees I had to catch her so she didn't fall over...:)

Describe your last kiss: sweet tender small kisses

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, smile, hair, the way she carries herself...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: too high maintenace...(yes I have a scale)


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: someone who shouldn't have...damn doors should lock

What are you self-conscious about naked? not much anymore

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? depends on the mood

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: *evil laugh* can't give away all the secrets

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: going beyond the boundaries

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes: skin contact

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: no

Have you ever had a one-night stand? um...yep

How often do you masturbate? enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? depends on the weather, and my mood

[CharmingButch25]

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):T

Age:

Astrological Sign:Cancer

Birth Date: (day only - not year):June 27

Location:Oregon

Height:5'3

Eye Color:ice Blue

Hair Color:Brown

Piercings - how many & where:none

Tattoos - how many & where:none

Cat person or dog person:dog

Job:Cleaning and Painting Apartments, Writing Erotica on the side

What do you like about your job?:lol i like to paint up and down

What do you loathe about your job?:its boring

Favorite books / authors:Lisa Shapiro,Sheila Walsh

Favorite bands/musicians:Too Many to name, Snow patrol,lifehouse, a lot more

Favorite movies:Friend green tomatoes,Steel magnolias,Repo the genetic opera,Hello dolly,To kill a mockingbird SO many others

Favorite websites:This one, and Facebook lol

Favorite TV shows:Bones,New girl,Law and order Svu,Criminal Minds,Greys anatomy
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?Chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sing

What is your pet peeve: fake people

Favorite curse word:i try not to curse

Favorite magazine:None

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance?Nope

If you could change a law which would it be?I would sentence all sex offenders to be castrated

Do you collect anything?m&m collectables


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
1960 or earlier
Would you ever have plastic surgery?no

Your idea of a good meal:steak,carrots,pasta

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Dream profession:To help children that have been sexually or any kind of abused

What are your Hobbies:Writing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:i hate spiders

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?I am unsure on this

What do you get complemented on most often?My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? im too short

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? a homeless person

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I believe in God

Do you generally feel understood?Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Yes
Biggest concern about aging:My memory

What were you like in high school?I didnt go

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?nope i think its just a piece of paper

Issues that you feel most passionate about:child abuse,domestic violence

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My Moms


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:hmmmmmm

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):Butch

Current relationship status:Non existant LOL

What you look for in a partner:trust,understanding,loyalty,non selfish
The "type" of person you tend to attract:selfish types

Number of times you've been in love:once

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?that it actually happened

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?April

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?Yes

Age when you had your first kiss:9

Describe your best kiss:most amazing kiss because I was actually IN love

Describe your last kiss: hmm was awesome

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:thier tummy

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Selfishness



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Hmmm

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Played with my hair,kissed my inner arm,
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Tried touching me,tried taking a pic of me naked,

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?no

Do you have any Fetishes:LOL Yep

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No
BDSM - yes or no?:YES

Have you ever had a one-night stand?Yes

How often do you masturbate?multiple times daily does that count LOL maybe im kidding

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?Hmmmm

[CA_BabyCakes]

About Me.....
I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Ask me and i will tell you

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 13

Location: Southern California

Height:5'5 AND A HALF

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color:Dark Brown

Piercings - how many & where: Just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: One small one on my wrist

Cat person or dog person: CAT!

Job: Management

What do you like about your job?: EVERYTHING!!!

What do you loathe about your job?: Sometimes family dynamics get complicating

Favorite books / authors: Sookie Stackhouse series/ Charlaine Harris

Favorite bands/musicians: The Cure/ Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Goonies, Gone with the Wind, Valley Girl

Favorite websites:This one

Favorite TV shows: Secret Life of the American Teenager, Adventure Time

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL!!!

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing or Dance, everywhere and anywhere

What is your pet peeve: Constant self pity

Favorite curse word:Probably the F word

Favorite magazine: Time

A culture that intrigues you: Mexican American Culture

Do you like to dance? LOVE IT

If you could change a law which would it be? Law against Gay Marriage

Do you collect anything? Disneyland Maps, the covers are always changing, and Kermit stuff


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I dont think i would like to travel back i wouldnt do well with opression.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? YES

Your idea of a good meal: Ceviche!! Made by ME, so it has plenty of avocado and shrimp.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would go see animals in their natural habitat and not fear that they would tear me to shreds!

Introvert or extrovert:Extro, unless its very personal then im intro.

Dream profession:Physical Therapist

What are your Hobbies:Reading, Traveling (Locally), Painting Ceramics, Movies, Listening to Music, Nature walks.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Darkness, Deep Water, Dying

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes, although against my religion, I think i was a peasant of some sort.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? My belly!! Ughh :(

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? NO hate anywhere, no poverty, and end to preventable illnesses.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I like my shoes just fine!

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Im catholic, but not Roman, I do not follow vatican/Pope beliefs.

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes i would as long as one of them swore to love my children as i do and assure their futures.

Biggest concern about aging: WRINKLES!!!

What were you like in high school? Mean, popular for the most part though.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? One day!

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Gay marriage and Healthcare

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My kids


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): All woman, femme

Current relationship status:Single

What you look for in a partner:Sense of humor!, companionship, comfort.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: All types

Number of times you've been in love:1

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That it could actually happen

Monogamy or polyamory: MONOGAMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? There are many!

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? N/A

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss:

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Sense of humor, smile, personality, height.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Low self worth or esteem



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:

What are you self-conscious about naked? MY Tummy

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?

Do you have any Fetishes:

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: Mebbe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[StoneOne]

Bump, Bump, Bump, Bump, love this thread

[easygoingfemme]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): T-----

Age: 38

Astrological Sign: Taurus

Birth Date: (day only - not year): May 7
Location: Albany area, NY

Height: 5'4"

Eye Color: Brown-ish hazel

Hair Color: Brown- (curly and sort of long)

Piercings - how many & where: Ears, I think I have three holes in one and two in the other. I don’t often wear earrings though, they bother me.

Tattoos – One left shoulder, one lower stomach, one long run that runs from between my shoulder blades, down my back, and along my right hip.

Cat person or dog person: Both. One dog and two cats here.

Job: Health coach.

What do you like about your job?: I love the actual work of helping people heal painful relationships with food and make healthier life choices as well.
I also like that I mostly make my own schedule and it allows me time for lots of other good things in my life.

What do you loathe about your job?: That I’m in charge of creating my own income. It can be turbulent out there.

Favorite books / authors: So many… right now I’m delving to an old favorite, Dorothy Alison. Love Sarah Waters, Emma Donoghue, Leslie Fienberg, Maya Angelou, Audre Niffenegger, Wally Lamb, Jewel Gomez- love historic fiction too.

Favorite bands/musicians: Totally depends on the mood. Sometimes it’s all about fun 50s music, sometimes bluegrass and country, Swing bands, sometimes it’s Bach, other times some actual contemporary music- Florence and the Machine, Michael Franti…

Favorite movies: Hmmm depends on the mood of course! For scary I love the Halloween/Friday 13th movies though I may have OD on them… love Iron Jawed Angels, Foxfire, Fried Green Tomatoes, Cold Mountain, The Green Mile, Fingersmith…

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: I actually don’t have a television. Sometimes I watch shows online. Big Bang Theory always makes me happy.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Somewhere in the middle

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Laugh at the jokes in my head, get excited out loud about ideas I like.

What is your pet peeve: People being late and people not saying what they want to say

Favorite curse word: Jesus Fucking Christ, because it avenges my religious upraising. Sometimes it’s more of a "Christ on a cracker" muttering.

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you: Morman/YFZ and Amish/Mennonite

Do you like to dance? Yup. Can’t say I’m so good at it, but I do enjoy it. Not like club dancing stuff though- I love contra dancing, am learning swing dancing.

If you could change a law which would it be? Equal marriage rights, obviously. Black and white harsh laws for sex crimes- none of this plea bargaining stuff and wishwashy consequences.

Do you collect anything? 50s memorabilia and books.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 60s, massive political surging and emerging, good music, and fun clothes.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? I actually did, to repair a severed tendon. I made the guy promise not to touch my face or boobs. So,unless it was a medical necessity, no.

Your idea of a good meal: Local grown, flavorful, and cooked with someone I love while fun music is playing in the kitchen.


If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Jeeze, I have no idea.


Introvert or extrovert: I think I’m 50/50 depending on the situation.

Dream profession: Hmmm, restaurant critic? Bike tour guide?

What are your Hobbies: Cooking, reading, writing, biking, trying to teach my dog tricks…

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Heights. I’m working on it, a little.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes. When I was a kid I thought I was Harriet Tubman. Now I think that was because she was the first woman in history I ever learned about and I latched onto her. I have no idea who I’ve been.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, if we’re talking physical. My cooking if we’re talking talent.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? That I’m not as toned as I used to be.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Everyone would be financial equal, universal health care, complete global intolerance of all “isms”

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? A neighbor of mine who I really admire. She’s in her 70s and her husband is in his 80s. She designed the house they live in to be completely solar powered, with everything on one level with wide doors for if either of them are wheelchair bound, they grow all of their own food and are all kinds of awesome. House includes a greenhouse in the bedroom so they can grow their greens/veggies all year long. She is so wise and calm and centered. I want to be her for a day.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Atheist, but really interested in religion all the same.

Do you generally feel understood? As much as I think I should expect others to understand me.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Not while I have a child in my care, sorry.

Biggest concern about aging: Making sure my daughter is alright.

What were you like in high school? In the beginning- honestly, anorexic rock girl. By the end, still not eating much but more of a hippie intellect. I knuckled down and doubled up on classes to graduate early and get the hell out of there.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? If the right person came along, but it’s never been a big life goal.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: LGBTQ rights, ending domestic violence, ending poverty, balance of power, quality of food being produced and marketed in America.


The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My daughter, my family, my friends.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian, embracing the femme side more as I grow.

How do you identify yourself : Femme, or femmish. Loosely defined. I totally have my femme side- but not one so deep that I wear makeup and fancy shoes. I think there’s a part in me that could but it would take a special someone to draw that out.

Current relationship status: Single. Wasn't that a prerequisite to filling this out?:tease:

What you look for in a partner: Connection, emotional and physical. Humor. My partner needs to make me laugh and they need to get my sometimes wacky sense of humor- or at least pretend to. Someone who will know that even though I’m a mother that they are also valued and loved. One who doesn’t get jealous about my parenting responsibilities. Someone open to trying new things with me and who will encourage me to try new things with them. Someone who can step out of their comfort zone once in a while. Communication is key- I need open honest communication. And if we don’t communicate the same way that we take the time to learn how the other communicates so we still can understand each other. I look for that electricity, passion, connection, and commitment.


The "type" of person you tend to attract: Thankfully, the butch type Also tend to attract more earthy, grounded people.

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That is was so smooth and easy.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? No one springing to mind. Well, maybe an ex who died about 6 years ago- I didn’t get to say goodbye to her.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Nope

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No, but I haven’t tried either.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy, 13. Girl on my 18th birthday.

Describe your best kiss: A woman I’d been flirting it up with for a while. When we first finally got to it we were holding each other and in this awesome kiss and I felt both of our stomachs jump at the same time. Outside of that first, I love just getting lost in it- feeling the knees get weak as it goes on…

Describe your last kiss: Conflicted, someone I was seeing casually but broke up with last month.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: I like someone a bit taller and more stocky than I am. Eyes, I like eyes.They should have eyes.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Crude behavior, smoking, excessive drinking.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: The person from the last kiss mentioned above.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Um, maybe just that I’m not as toned as I have been.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Generally lights off because it feels more intense to me that way but I also love afternoon sex so there’s sunlight then and I’m cool with that.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Telling me how much they want me and how, neck kissing, taking charge.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Being rough when I wanted soft. Not respecting what I want.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Nope

Do you have any Fetishes: Not that I’m aware of

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: Not that I’m aware of

BDSM - yes or no?: Nope

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

My goodness I've answered so many questions I think I'll stop here ;)

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?

[Girl_On_Fire]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jaime

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Saggitarius

Birth Date: 29th

Location: Connecticut

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Blonde

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: None

Cat person or dog person: Cat

Job: Writer

What do you like about your job?: Writing, promoting

What do you loathe about your job?: Editing, taxes

Favorite books / authors: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, James Patterson

Favorite bands/musicians: Tori Amos, Pink, Linkin Park, The Cranberries, Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Labryrinth, Legend, Halloween (1978), The Strangers

Favorite websites: ButchFemmePlanet, CuteOverload, DamnYouAutoCorrect, Facebook

Favorite TV shows: Hot in Cleveland, The Client List

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate please

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself

What is your pet peeve: People chewing noisily

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Don't read magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? LOVE to dance

If you could change a law which would it be? Oh my. Just one?

Do you collect anything? I used to collect rocks but I left them in North Carolina :(

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't know

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Not unless I got mangled in a car wreck

Your idea of a good meal: Anything home cooked and gluten free

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Hmmmm

Introvert or extrovert: Introvert

Dream profession: Writer

What are your Hobbies: Hiking, reading

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Bees and highways

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Oh yes. I'm an old soul.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, my eyes, my boobs lol!

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's very delicate and sensitive and allergic to everything

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End poverty. Universal health care (with no strings attached). No discrimination, everybody lives equally.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I'm not sure

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I'm a spiritualist

Do you generally feel understood? No, not at all

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Without hesitation

Biggest concern about aging: Losing control

What were you like in high school? Geeky, quiet, terrified

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? It used to be...

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Bullying, equal rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My aunt's

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Queer femme

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: A strong, patient, calm person with a good heart and a spiritual side. Somebody with intellect and a sense of humor. Confidence and a take-charge attitude in the bedroom is a must.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: I tend to attract needy, clingy bois but I need to stop

Number of times you've been in love: Madly, completely, and totally committed? Twice.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How intense it is

Monogamy or polyamory: I'm on the fence about that

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Yeah. Lemme skip that.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes. It was trying but yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy: 14 Butch: 22

Describe your best kiss: I've had a few good kisses. The best is always the one where someone completely takes me over.

Describe your last kiss: Painful. Lots of tears.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Arms, Butt

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Being clingy, obsessive

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? My stomach. I'm thin but it's not flat. :(

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Lights off please

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Pulled that clump of hair at the crown of my head, bit me, held me down

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Hesitating, stopping, being uncertain

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, a few

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes

Name your fetishes: I like to suckle ears, I love being held down, I love being bitten

Leather - yes or no?: Yes, in my fantasies (It hasn't quite become a reality yet)

BDSM - yes or no?: I'm open

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes and I regret it

How often do you masturbate? Um...yeah. Skip!

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? That's my secret ;)

[Girl_On_Fire]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire
What you look for in a partner: Great sense of humor, very liberal views and very very very laid back with some laid back thrown in and not too much family stuff. Not quite a hot, comatose orphan, but almost. Must be 4:20 friendly!


LMAO! I cannot stop laughing at this description. A hot, comatose orphan. I need me one of these! LOL! ;)

[AnnRkey]

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): tan

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Birth Date: (day only - not year):21st

Location: land of 10,0000 lakes

Height: 5'10

Eye Color: brown

Hair Color: brown

Piercings - how many & where: none

Tattoos - how many & where:none

Cat person or dog person: dog

Job: Ho Chunk

What do you like about your job?:

What do you loathe about your job?:

Favorite books / authors: Harry potter

Favorite bands/musicians: Sleater Kinney, bikini kill, bratmobile, heavens to Betsy, BT, Above as Beyond, Ian Van Dahl, Morgan Page, Cascada, Bad Boi Bill, Tiesto,

Favorite movies: Harry potter Sherlock Holmes anything with Jet Li

Favorite websites: eh

Favorite TV shows: Merlin, Hell on Wheels, Regular Show

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance

What is your pet peeve: fake wood trim on vehicles

Favorite curse word: F**k

Favorite magazine: eh?

A culture that intrigues you: My own, duh!

Do you like to dance? Yes

If you could change a law which would it be? Hmmm.. Good question

Do you collect anything? Rocks, and some DVDs


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I guess the early 1400 to see what natives in North America did

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No I'm perfect

Your idea of a good meal: wild rice? BBQ chicken! And grilled corn on the cob

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? The 7 wonders of the world

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert

Dream profession: hmm not sure anymore

What are your Hobbies: eh, hanging out

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: snakes,

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? It was a interesting and fun ride

What do you get complemented on most often? I guess my height?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? Nothing really. I'm perfectly happy with what I am

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Stop trying to make other cultures more like your own, that's it really

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? My own because I am awesome

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: eh

Do you generally feel understood? Nope

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Hmm... Would you?

Biggest concern about aging: my skin not feeling As soft

What were you like in high school? Typical teenager

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Eh

Issues that you feel most passionate about: eh

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: family?


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): human

Current relationship status: unattached

What you look for in a partner: humor, understanding

The "type" of person you tend to attract: weirdos and Nutjobs

Number of times you've been in love: 1

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? Being happy?

Monogamy or polyamory:m

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Hmm

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes
Age when you had your first kiss:16

Describe your best kiss: kissing my natural enemy

Describe your last kiss: my nieces cute chubby cheek

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: long dark curly hair, brown eyes

What trait in a woman turns you off?: smoking



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: hahaha stash

What are you self-conscious about naked?
No
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Either way

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: resisting slightly, giggling, tossing hair back

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: awnsered phone, eh that was the most annoying

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Lol

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes:hair

Leather - yes or no?: eh why not

BDSM - yes or no?:yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand?yes

How often do you masturbate?enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?shaved


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun![/QUO


Well that was kind of fun

[dixie]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Crystal

Age: 33

Astrological Sign: Leo *rawr*

Birth Date: (day only - not year): July 26

Location: middle-of-nowhere, NC

Height: 5'4" (and a half...almost)

Eye Color:blue

Hair Color: dark reddish brown (my Irish blood is showing)

Piercings - how many & where: 7 in my ears, 2 in left brow (totally missing my Marilyn that was yanked out *ouch*)

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 on my legs, 3 on my back, one regretful one on my hip

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: photographer

What do you like about your job?: I work for myself

What do you loathe about your job?: I work for myself :seeingstars:

Favorite books / authors: way too many to list

Favorite bands/musicians: too many of those too, but since I own every released track by Rob Zombie, System of a Down, and Marilyn Manson, I would say that those are my most favorite

Favorite movies: mostly comedy or action

Favorite websites: i spend a lot of time on photography, marathon, and cheeseburger kitteh sites

Favorite TV shows: Destination Truth, True Blood, SVU

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? depends on what it is

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: carry on full conversations with my pets

What is your pet peeve: lateness

Favorite curse word: FUCK

Favorite magazine: lately, Fitness and Good Housekeeping lol

A culture that intrigues you: Indian/Hindi

Do you like to dance? yes but I can't...just ask Wolfy who's been trying to teach me for a couple years now

If you could change a law which would it be? oh, don't get me started on that

Do you collect anything? i'm a bit of a pack-rat so I collect everything. Don't worry, I haven't hit hoarder proportions yet.


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? That's a hard one. I have no idea.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? probably...i need new boobs anyway

Your idea of a good meal: lately, there's no such thing for me lol

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? hehehehehehe....well ya see, I'm a bit of a perv so I had better just keep my mouth shut.

Introvert or extrovert: depends on the situation/location

Dream profession: marine biologist living mainly at sea and specializing in the study of my favorite creature, the Carcharodon carcharias...that is one dream that i had the chance to follow and did not, much to my regret

What are your Hobbies: wildlife photography, painting, crafts, reading, treasure hunting/scavenging, travel, writing/journaling/blogging, shelling, gaming

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: extreme fear of heights

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? possibly; I have a few glimpses

What do you get complemented on most often? my eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? that it does not work quite right these days

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? peace of course, positive changes in nature and atmosphere (does that count?), end of poverty

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? that is another hard one...

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: raised strict Southern Baptist yet shook that aside for my own mixture of a more earthen Native American spirituality mixed with witchcraft mixed with Buddhist principles

Do you generally feel understood? ha! not even close

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I would sacrifice my life to save the life of one, let alone ten thousand.

Biggest concern about aging: superficial vanity

What were you like in high school? awkward and bullied in the beginning, champion of underdogs at the end

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? eh, it's not as distasteful as i used to feel that it was

Issues that you feel most passionate about: anything related to the abuse/mistreatment of animals, children, or women

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my father's


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer femme

Current relationship status: single yet perhaps interested

What you look for in a partner: a connection

The "type" of person you tend to attract: breathing lol

Number of times you've been in love: After much internalization and circumspection....if I am brutally honest? 1 (I have loved them all, but only been "in love" with one)

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? how bad it hurts when it ends

Monogamy or polyamory: whatever tickles my fancy at the time

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? they know

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? more than one

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? define *success*

Age when you had your first kiss: don't remember trivial shit like that

Describe your best kiss: intense

Describe your last kiss: mediocre at best

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: everything

What trait in a woman turns you off?: i despise the conceited superficial people of any gender



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my doctor, sad huh

What are you self-conscious about naked? everything

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? don't care

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: it's easier just to figure those out

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: I'll let you know if you make this list

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? of course

Do you have any Fetishes: I do

Name your fetishes: not your business

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: sure why not

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? pfffft, every other day at minimum

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? shaved/waxed completely

[CharmingLee]

he Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Lee

Age: 48

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 18

Location: Ohio

Height: 5’2”

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Black with touches of grey

Piercings - how many & where:

Tattoos - how many & where: Astrological sign in back of my neck, Baby Sylvester on my left shoulder.

Cat person or dog person: DOG

Job: Inventory Specialist

What do you like about your job?: It’s pretty easy.

What do you loathe about your job?: Its boring.

Favorite books / authors: I’m not a big reader.

Favorite bands/musicians: Stained, Three Days Grace, Metallica

Favorite movies: The Borne Series, anything with Mark Walberg in it. All of the Bond movies.

Favorite websites: too many to list.

Favorite TV shows: The Big Bang Theory, CSI, Hoarders.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?: Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: have conversations with my furbaby.

What is your pet peeve: Ignorant people.

Favorite curse word: Fuckmerunning.

Favorite magazine: don’t really have one.

A culture that intrigues you: Humans…lol

Do you like to dance? Oh heavens NO!

If you could change a law which would it be? Paying taxes.

Do you collect anything? Air.


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I would visit one of my past lives just to see if it was a happy one.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes, would love to have top surgery someday.

Your idea of a good meal: Anything Italian

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? This one would get me into way to much trouble.

Introvert or extrovert: Depends on the situation, but more introvert.

Dream profession: Graphic Designer.

What are your Hobbies: Playing video games.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Fear of heights.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes.

What do you get complemented on most often? My smile.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It doesn’t match my brain.



Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Spiritual without specific religion.

Do you generally feel understood? No really.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? probably

Biggest concern about aging: Ending up alone in a nursing home somewhere.

What were you like in high school? A huge DORK.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Maybe someday again.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: Both of my parents.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Butch, is that an orientation?

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Butch leaning towards Trans.

Current relationship status: SINGLE

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, ability to be loving and caring.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: The wrong kind if you go by me past relationships.

Number of times you've been in love: Not sure it was ever true love.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No long term, but successful ones.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: been so long, cant remember.

What are you self-conscious about naked? All of it.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Off

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Pics, once.

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Nope.

How often do you masturbate? Not very often.

[Sweet Bliss]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Laree

Age: 56

Astrological Sign: Scorpio

Birth Date: (day only - not year): Sunday 4th

Location: Fort Walton Beach

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: green/gold flecks

Hair Color: light brown/ white lifetime achievement awards

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: none

Cat person or dog person: Both

Vocation: Artist/Writer

What do you like about your vocation?: learning, expression, sharing, all of it.

What do you loathe about your vocation?: not a darn thing

Favorite books / authors: Michael Brown, Patti Digh, Eckhart Tolle and many others

Favorite bands/musicians: none. I enjoy all kinds of music

Favorite movies: Off the Map, African Queen, Fifth Element, many others

Favorite websites: Mine, BFP others

Favorite TV shows: Touch

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all of em baby!

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: don't know, I don't care if I'm being watched.

What is your pet peeve: cigarette butts on the ground

Favorite curse word: all of them

Favorite magazine: Coastal Living

A culture that intrigues you: all of them

Do you like to dance? do american babies wear diapers? what a silly question to ask me!

If you could change a law which would it be? Rape and molestation of children would be capital crime punishable by death. It is soul murder

Do you collect anything? experiences


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Italian Renaissance, because it was exciting

Would you ever have plastic surgery? of course might need it some day

Your idea of a good meal: a shared one

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? This question is an essay answer

Introvert or extrovert: depends on situation

Dream profession: Butch Whisperer

What are your Hobbies: Life

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: bugs that bite

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes. yes.

What do you get complemented on most often? Me

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's refusal to cooperate

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? [COLOR="Indigo"] detox. restore. expand.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Buddha

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Live simply, do no harm, give joyously

Do you generally feel understood? no, lol

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? no

Biggest concern about aging: aging

What were you like in high school? quiet, the out crowd

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? no

Issues that you feel most passionate about: sharing resources, food for all, clean water

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: mine and the people I communicate with


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Loving

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme/lipsick lesbian/lesbian feministWoman first, Femme second

Current relationship status: solo

What you look for in a partner: Compassion, empathy, humor, passion, wit, spiritual center, kindness, receprocity, etc

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Life lessons

Number of times you've been in love: all the time

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How natural it feels.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamous

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? my Butterscotch Cowboy

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? hell no

Age when you had your first kiss: 16

Describe your best kiss: her eyes rolled back in her head, almost fell on the floor

Describe your last kiss: I hope it wasn't my last one.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: confidence

What trait in a woman turns you off?: cruelty