Do you cuddle?

[Leigh]

So Tommi said somewhere that someone should start a "Do you cuddle?" thread soooooooooo here it is :D

Do you cuddle? I know I do AND I hug too :blush:

So come on all of you cuddlers, huggers and squishers out there ~ come on in and join the cuddle fest !!!!!!!

:gimmehug:

[SleepyButch]

So Tommi said somewhere that someone should start a "Do you cuddle?" thread soooooooooo here it is :D

Do you cuddle? I know I do AND I hug too :blush:

So come on all of you cuddlers, huggers and squishers out there ~ come on in and join the cuddle fest !!!!!!!

:gimmehug:


I'm a cuddler, hugger, snuggler and all of the above. Wouldn't have it any other way.. been without and never want to do that again.

Next..

[Leigh]

I wouldn't have it any other way either!

Let the cuddles commence :D

[-Red-Flag-]

snuggles, cuddles, lean ins ... all of the above.. even the drool lean cause she fell asleep on you.

[Leigh]

omg I've done the drool thing too, kind of embarassing but cute none the less *grin*

[Electrocell]

Yep like to cuddle ,snuggle and hug :D.

[Angeltoes]

I want that so much. Most of all. :stillheart:

[SleepyButch]

omg I've done the drool thing too, kind of embarassing but cute none the less *grin*

Nothing wrong with being drooled on when the person you are holding is sleeping. Nothing to be embarassed about. Just means you are that your are comfortable enough to fall deeply asleep.

[-Red-Flag-]

Its cute and funny .. lol ..

[Leigh]

Oh your absolutely right Sleepy, something about falling that deeply asleep in someone's arms that's just so comforting and amazing *le sigh*

[chefboiardee72]

I am definitely a cuddler and a hugger

[SleepyButch]

It's cold here tonight and I'm alone in my bed. I haven't had to sleep in the cold by myself in a long time. Will take some getting used to.. only my heat.. and if I'm cold, not much heat coming off of me. Oh well.. it's only temporary..

[Tommi]

It's cold here tonight and I'm alone in my bed. I haven't had to sleep in the cold by myself in a long time. Will take some getting used to.. only my heat.. and if I'm cold, not much heat coming off of me. Oh well.. it's only temporary..

Temporary as in Electric blanket plugged in and on??? Hot water bottle? big Dog? :tea:

[Angeltoes]

Well, whatever butch I love won't have much of a choice, because I'll love hys back. Hey, I'll be the big spoon if I have to --- all 5'2" of me.

[Electrocell]

It's cold here tonight and I'm alone in my bed. I haven't had to sleep in the cold by myself in a long time. Will take some getting used to.. only my heat.. and if I'm cold, not much heat coming off of me. Oh well.. it's only temporary..

Will loan you my 6 cats they are great for warmth lol. Only a temp loan untill you get you own pussies lol.

[SleepyButch]

Will loan you my 6 cats they are great for warmth lol. Only a temp loan untill you get you own pussies lol.

Lol Ty.. but I'd be very happy with just one.. pussy that is... and everything else that goes along with that.

[Leigh]

I am definitely a cuddler and a hugger

That's a bonus in my books :)

It's cold here tonight and I'm alone in my bed. I haven't had to sleep in the cold by myself in a long time. Will take some getting used to.. only my heat.. and if I'm cold, not much heat coming off of me. Oh well.. it's only temporary..

Aww well you can always cuddle with one of us :)

Well, whatever butch I love won't have much of a choice, because I'll love hys back. Hey, I'll be the big spoon if I have to --- all 5'2" of me.

Sounds like a good idea to me :)

[chefboiardee72]

It's cold here tonight too. Could use a warm body pushing back against me so i can wrap my arms around her.

[Leigh]

We should just start a big cuddle-fest so that no one is chilly or feels left out :D

I'm up for it, anyone else? hehe

[chefboiardee72]

I'm definitely up for it ;)

[Leigh]

*winks @ chef*

Right now I'm wrapped up in my blanket, would be nice to have a warm body snuggled up next to mine :)

[Softhearted]

More of a hugger than a cuddler. Cuddling in bed yes but when i am about to fall asleep... move over (yeah i know not very romantic but i kind of love my "vital" space when it comes to sleep!) :canadian:

[Leigh]

Nothing wrong with that Soft, welcome to the thread everyone is welcome here :D

[MissItalianDiva]

Hmm to a point....then I need my space.

[Leigh]

I think alot of people need their space, and its understandable for sure

[Tcountry]

Hug, cuddle, snuggle, canoodle...touch
yes all of it!
Sitting on the couch for a movie, falling asleep in bed, waking up with her in my arms, waking up in the middle of the night and realizing we rolled apart only to scoot over and snuggle up again...etc etc etc
I actually had an ex tell me yrs ago when we were together to stop touching her :shocking: craziness

[Leigh]

Hug, cuddle, snuggle, canoodle...touch
yes all of it!
Sitting on the couch for a movie, falling asleep in bed, waking up with her in my arms, waking up in the middle of the night and realizing we rolled apart only to scoot over and snuggle up again...etc etc etc
I actually had an ex tell me yrs ago when we were together to stop touching her :shocking: craziness


What, she told you to stop touching her? That is true craziness right there :|

I'm the exact same way I *love* cuddling and hugging and touching and and and ............. just ALL of it *le sigh*

I love all kinds of touching, and I love cuddling every chance I get :)

[lusciouskiwi]

... cuddling. I'm in cuddle deficit :blink: :missing:

My Malaysian ex hardly ever cuddled me and I really missed that physical contact. Hand holding, snuggling or touching in some way on the sofa, the stroke on the arm when you're looking at something together or talking. Even when it's too hot to cuddle - touching feel :) just that little something that says "I'm here, I love you, we'll wake up together." Damn, now I'm going to make myself cry.

I remember in my first year psych class that researchers found (in the good ol' days before research had strict regulations), that babies and toddlers in orphanages who only got the bare necessary touching got sick more frequently and more severely than babies who had a lot of loving touch. So, we need to be touched, to be cuddled, to be hugged. We need it like the we need the air we breath.

[Leigh]

Yes it is kiwi; its in us to need to be loved and cuddled and feel like we are wanted and needed :)

[Tommi]

... cuddling. I'm in cuddle deficit :blink: :missing:

My Malaysian ex hardly ever cuddled me and I really missed that physical contact. Hand holding, snuggling or touching in some way on the sofa, the stroke on the arm when you're looking at something together or talking. Even when it's too hot to cuddle - touching feel :) just that little something that says "I'm here, I love you, we'll wake up together." Damn, now I'm going to make myself cry.

I remember in my first year psych class that researchers found (in the good ol' days before research had strict regulations), that babies and toddlers in orphanages who only got the bare necessary touching got sick more frequently and more severely than babies who had a lot of loving touch. So, we need to be touched, to be cuddled, to be hugged. We need it like the we need the air we breath.

Failure-to-thrive syndrome, or skin hunger..as I recall from those Psych classes.

[Leigh]

Look at Tommi getting all smart on us ~ I love it :D

[girl_dee]

i get what TCountry is saying but i've been with people who were TOO touchy feely for me. i love to cuddle, lay down watch a movie or something but i don't like to be pawed at 24/7.

i like my cuddling like after a hot bath, laying in bed or on the couch, snuggled in together.

i'm not into hot sweaty cuddling.....i'm semi tactile...

[girl_dee]

Hmm to a point....then I need my space.

me too. :rrose:

[Daktari]

Would possibly have been more telling to ask who doesn't like cuddling. I think most folks enjoy, nay need, appropriate cuddles don't you?

[Gemme]

Cuddling, hugging and touching in general, yes. Being so close I'm breathing in your carbon emissions for more than a couple of minutes? No.

[Spirit Dancer]

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[SleepyButch]

I think there is a time and a place for everything. I think touch is very important but I don't want to be sweaty doing it.

A hug in passing, a slight touch of the arm, butt, etc., putting your hand on the small of her back or a kiss are all nice ways to be affectionate without going overboard.

In bed, if your are cuddling and you get hot, nothing wrong with putting space between the two of you. Even just an outreached hand against the back or feet touching or something like that is nice as well.

I just think it's a good thing to show affection, to be close in that way. Does not in any way mean I want to smother anyone nor do I want to be smothered either.

There are times when either one of you don't want to be touched. It's good to pay attention to body language.

[Tommi]

Hmm to a point....then I need my space.

Yes. I need lottsa space, said the Cuddly Teddybear.., after cuddlenoodling hug

.We could have made this a pole leigh...


Some, like a feral cat, don't really like to be hugged or cuddled at will.... only on their terms, only so long, and so tight and when it is theri time, not yours, and ..not too close.

and then the claws...oh wait, that's anotherr thread.

[Bard]

Desd is the best cuddler ever I love cuddling with her on the couch watching a movie.. my kiddo likes to cuddle with us to and the dogs makes a big pile:moonstars:

[Leigh]

*nods* yes I probably could have made this a poll but I'm not very adept to that however I acknowledge that everyone is different when it comes to cuddling. Not everyone likes to cuddle 24/7, some more than others & others more often than the rest. I hope everyone continues to come in & enjoy the thread, no matter how much or how little you enjoy it :)

[Blade]

yup, love to cuddle, snuggle, nuzzle, hug squeeze. I'm very attentive and very much a touch person. I enjoy the sensations I get from cuddling. I'm not talking about sexual sensations. I mean like the sense of nurturing and being nurtured. We see cuddling/snuggling etc in most social animals and especially in primates and animals who have a social hiarchy. I think for most it is emotionally essentual. I know it is for me.

[Leigh]

That's exactly how it is for me too Blade :)

[Cid]

I love to cuddle but it's been so long that I really think that I need that right now. It's like hugging when you're laying down. I'm a hugger too!

[Leigh]

Yay for all of us :)

[Abigail Crabby]

I love cuddling, hugging, snuggling etc.

But then when it's time to sleep - I need my own side of the bed lol

[laruss]

I love to cuddle, to hug, to touch, and to be close to someone I love.

What I don't like is when someone I don't want to touch me seems to think it is perfectly acceptable to invade my space, my body. If you have to constantly tell someone to back off, there is a problem.

There needs to be an understanding between the two people involved and I really think that there needs to be a touch compatibility. If you are a cuddler/toucher and the other person is not it really can't work long term, because someone is not getting their needs met.

[Leigh]

i'm so glad to see everyone here :)

[Electrocell]

Yes cuddle in bed until your about asleep or they are then roll over lol. Unless it's a cold night then you snuggle for warmth :D .

[sara-bera]

Yes, I adore it! I think I actually sort of require cuddling, really!

[The_Lady_Snow]

Only during scenes..... I'm a cuddly mother fucker then....

[Leigh]

I require lots of cuddling, but that's just me :)

[The_Lady_Snow]

I love to cuddle, to hug, to touch, and to be close to someone I love.

What I don't like is when someone I don't want to touch me seems to think it is perfectly acceptable to invade my space, my body. If you have to constantly tell someone to back off, there is a problem.

There needs to be an understanding between the two people involved and I really think that there needs to be a touch compatibility. If you are a cuddler/toucher and the other person is not it really can't work long term, because someone is not getting their needs met.


Agreed on the understanding and negotiation of how much of my space you (general) think you are going to suck up. It is not a good idea to hook up, fuck, have a relationship with someone who doesn't find *cuddling* necessary to feel ok.

Negotiating touch and what's a healthy boundary so that neither party feel suffocated is a good idea when it comes to this kind of thing.

Great points laruss!!

[Beloved]

Cuddling is a little bit on heaven here on Earth.

[princessbelle]

Good point about boundaries.

I am very cuddly and touchy feely and huggy. But, i also respect boundaries. I won't just grab you and pull you in for a bear hug if i don't know you, or if i know you are a type of person that needs space.

Inclination, intuition, respect and ques are important when thinking about personal space of others.

Common courtesy comes to mind.

[SleepyButch]

I had someone give me a hug the other day and when I went to release, she didn't. So I hugged tighter. I realized at that time how good it felt to be embraced. I had not felt that in awhile.

I like to do the holding but I do like to be held as well.

[Zimmeh]

Hehe...I've the drool lean in Ruff a few times :)

Zimmeh

snuggles, cuddles, lean ins ... all of the above.. even the drool lean cause she fell asleep on you.