If Today Was Your Last Day?

[CharmingButch25]

So I hope I put this in the right section, I didnt know if it belonged here or the red zone.

Anyhow I've been doing a lot of thinking lately,than I was listening to music and Nicklebacks "If Today Was Your Last Day" Started playing...

Which leaves me to think If today was your last day What would you do?
We all have some idea of what we would want our last day to entail.

This is mainly just to get us to thinking, I think a lot of people(not just here) take life in general for granted. So here it goes You have 24 hours what would you do with it?






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[Teddybear]

Since the late 80s when I lost my first gf I have tried to make sure that those I love know it. I just hot out of the hospital a little over 2 weeks ago where I was extremely sick and from what I hear could have met my maker.

I want to spend every moment I can with the woman I love creating memories that she will cherish and know that no matter how difficult life is that I love her and will till the end of time not just my time.


I would make sure that I eat anything and everything I haven't been able to enjoy the last cpl of yrs cuz of diabetes. I would love to just hold my baby girl and laugh and cry with her for she would make the last day the one heaven would have to measure up tooo .

[Ginger]

If this were my last day, I would sort of be relieved. I would just sit quietly and look out the window and think.

[princessbelle]

If this were my last day, I would sort of be relieved. I would just sit quietly and look out the window and think.

That's beautiful...truly.

What an amazing spirit you are darlin.

*And...I'm glad it is not your last day.

If it were mine...

I would do as many of my patients have done...be surrounded by family and friends that truly love me. Not the ones that pretend to. The ones that really, deeply do.

That's how i want my ship to go out of sight from the shoreline on this side and to transition to the other side where others who love me will greet me on the other shoreline.

I'm not scared at all. I believe, with all of my heart, there is a wonderful, amazing place to travel to, some day.

[MsTinkerbelly]

That's beautiful...truly.

What an amazing spirit you are darlin.

*And...I'm glad it is not your last day.

If it were mine...

I would do as many of my patients have done...be surrounded by family and friends that truly love me. Not the ones that pretend to. The ones that really, deeply do.

That's how i want my ship to go out of sight from the shoreline on this side and to transition to the other side where others who love me will greet me on the other shoreline.

I'm not scared at all. I believe, with all of my heart, there is a wonderful, amazing place to travel to, some day.


This is beautiful, just beautiful. (f)

[willow]

I would go for a long walk by myself. I'd think about all the people I love and who love me back and smile. I'd find a quiet place to sit, pull my scarf up around my ears and drink tea from a flask while soaking in the vibrant colours and autumn scents.

I would just be.

[jac]

If today were my last day...

Hmmmm, maybe it's because I am so tired right now but I had a big ol' paragraph written out and began tearing up. Interestingly enough I don't have issue with death, never have, but right now the thought of leaving those I love dearly (especially my Spritz) just didn't set well for me.

Maybe another time I'll play along but for now I'd like to think that we have today. And really, if every day was thought of as "the first day," then every day could be celebrated and appreciated as new beginnings instead of anticipating and worrying about the end...

[StrongButch]

I would wanna spend it with my Mom. I love her so much she is such a wonderful person. I would thank her for being a great parent and accepting me and loving me no matter what. I love you Mom.

[CharmingButch25]

This is an amazing response, a teary eye one! I will be back in a bit with my response If today were my last day...

Hmmmm, maybe it's because I am so tired right now but I had a big ol' paragraph written out and began tearing up. Interestingly enough I don't have issue with death, never have, but right now the thought of leaving those I love dearly (especially my Spritz) just didn't set well for me.

Maybe another time I'll play along but for now I'd like to think that we have today. And really, if every day was thought of as "the first day," then every day could be celebrated and appreciated as new beginnings instead of anticipating and worrying about the end...

[WolfyOne]

I wouldn't change a thing. I have been living day to day for what seems like a long time now that if it was my last day, I'd be ok with it. Yes, there are things I wanted to do and see before that last day, but I think you get to a certain age and make peace with whatever it is you have or haven't done, can or can't do. I'd say good bye to loved ones and ask for them to find homes for my rescues. Lastly, when I'm gone, just cremate me and take my ashes to a happy place.

[Nomad]

i'd go home

[spritzerJ]

If today was my last day...

I'd want to hug Stoney for the longest time. Because forever home is how it feels in hys arms. And that is all I can bring myself to say about that.

I'd want to talk. I'd want to say the inane stuff I've learned from life. To remember the joys and stupid stuff that tripped me up. And Share a meal with friends.

I'd want to hear a strangers wish or dream. To take something new with me. Maybe it would help them.

[Heavenleahangel]

If today was my last day;
I would use every minute of it as wisely as I possibly could. I would get out my camcorder and make a video for my son reminding him how much I love him and that I hope he goes far in life with the love and teachings I have him in his 5 short years.
I would talk to family and make sure my final wishes are known and respected. Also let the organ donation team know it's almost time.
I would also have a final celebration meal with my closest family and friends to reminisce the good times, ask forgiveness for things I may need to ask for and pray my final moments are peaceful and sweet.

[Corkey]

Having been in the position to say good bye to both my parents one (me) didn't say much, go into the light and I will take care of him, I love you. My father passed without a word as he went peacefully in his sleep.

I've gone through 2 major surgeries and all I could say to her was I love you, and that is all one can really say, and mean it. The rest is in the Universes' hands.

[macele]

great discussion, CharmingButch25.

they say it's the journey. not the first or the last. so lets see, ...

i would lip synch for my life! LOL i don't want to go! the only time i would beg lol.

seriously, i don't want to know it's my last day. i want to give and love and live. whatever i'm doing when it's time to go, ... i want to be grateful and smile.

[always2late]

If today were my last day...
I would gather everyone I love, including my fuzz-family, and embrace them all, telling them how much I loved them. I'd probably hug my son the longest. And then spend the rest of the day in each others' company, telling every funny story we could think of...laughing and enjoying ourselves. That is how I would want to go out...surrounded by laughter and love.

[*Anya*]

If today was my last, I would forgive myself all of my mistakes, missteps and human frailties; that the one I love knew how much and would spend my last hours with my daughters and grandchildren.

I would then be at peace to go.

[Gráinne]

I would just spend a normal day with my children, as many friends as could come, and loved ones.

Anyone else wondering why we don't do all these things now?

[Gemme]

First, I would call out at work. Finally, I could actually call in dead. Well, almost.

Then, I'd spend a bit o' time making official plans and tying up those financial loose ends.

Then, the fam and I would head to something memorable, so Baby Luv would have a lasting memory. Something fun that radiated happiness and would make her think of me every time she came across it again.

I'd see some friends if I could. If I couldn't, then I'd watch over them later and totally haunt one or two of them.

I'd indulge in the stuff that I try to consume in moderation. It would almost certainly involve ice cream.

I think I'd wind down the night with Luvs and Baby Luv in bed, talking about what we like best about the other and how proud we are of one another and how much we are loved and that we are so lucky to be part of that fraction that is loved and knows it.

In the morning, I'm making WAFFLES.

[Duchess]

I would invite my friends over for prayer, Jack and Cokes, martinis, jacuzzi and endless DVDs of True Blood, Supernatural and Sons of Anarchy and of course my pot roast!!!!:kissy:



Duchess

[Tcountry]

...This reminds me of a quote I had in my locker throughout Jr & Sr High School.
"IF you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make...Who would you call and What would you say? AND WHY are you waiting?!?"
Back then it was a daily reminder to be a good person and always tell people positive things.
I have had my faults through the years in making the best decisions. But as my dad says, as long as I am being the best ME I can be, it is worth all the trials that make us stronger.
The point is hardly anyone is ever told when that last day or moment is going to be. So I live life knowing it could be today. It doesn't change who I am or what I do. It is a part of life. That one thing that you can be sure Everyone goes through...
So I don't ask what if...I would ask all of you why not now. Especially when a lot of people are talking about family. Call them! I get that you may not be able to see them because of jobs or distance, but I Know (cause she tells me) that my mom loves to hear my voice. We txt almost every day, but sometimes it's just nice to Hear the other person.
Live today with the promise of a new beginning and the knowledge of a life well done. No worries, no fears, just the good stuff.
Do what you can every day...not just what if days...

*tip hat*

[JustJo]

[SIZE="2So I don't ask what if...I would ask all of you why not now. Especially when a lot of people are talking about family. Call them! I get that you may not be able to see them because of jobs or distance, but I Know (cause she tells me) that my mom loves to hear my voice. We txt almost every day, but sometimes it's just nice to Hear the other person.
*tip hat*[/SIZE]

Amen.

There comes a time when you can't pick up the phone any longer....and it sucks.

I spoke to my mom several times a week for my entire adult life and, troubled as our relationship was, I miss being able to do that now. I can't tell you how many times I've picked up the phone to tell her about something funny, or something Rooster has accomplished, or just to chat.

Call them.

Seriously.

[Nomad]

...This reminds me of a quote I had in my locker throughout Jr & Sr High School.
"IF you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make...Who would you call and What would you say? AND WHY are you waiting?!?"
Back then it was a daily reminder to be a good person and always tell people positive things.
I have had my faults through the years in making the best decisions. But as my dad says, as long as I am being the best ME I can be, it is worth all the trials that make us stronger.
The point is hardly anyone is ever told when that last day or moment is going to be. So I live life knowing it could be today. It doesn't change who I am or what I do. It is a part of life. That one thing that you can be sure Everyone goes through...
So I don't ask what if...I would ask all of you why not now. Especially when a lot of people are talking about family. Call them! I get that you may not be able to see them because of jobs or distance, but I Know (cause she tells me) that my mom loves to hear my voice. We txt almost every day, but sometimes it's just nice to Hear the other person.
Live today with the promise of a new beginning and the knowledge of a life well done. No worries, no fears, just the good stuff.
Do what you can every day...not just what if days...

*tip hat*

very sound advice. but sometimes what one wants doesnt matter.

[laruss]

I would write letters to all the important people in my life and then gather them together so I could give them their letter in person.

[FemmeBibliophile]

24 hours. When you think about it, that seems so short. It really is though, because life is passing us by. I mean, just yesterday, I was a senior in high school... the day before that? Making painted bread in kindergarten.

If I knew I had 24 hours left to live, I'd make sure I said goodbye to those who mean the most. Those who actually would give a damn, and want that final closure. I'd make sure my pets were taken care of, my bills settled, and things written out. I'd forgive those people who need to be forgiven.

Then? I'd head out to a place I find the most peace at. I'd take a good book, a nice bottle of wine, and loose myself in the peace and tranquility of the final moments. I'd make peace with myself and simply be done.

[Stud_puppy1991]

The title reminds me of a song by Nickelback. But, anyway, if it were my last day I would have all my friends and I spend the whole day with me and do all the things we always do and hang out at our usual spots, that way saying goodbye wouldn't be so hard to do. And I would take care of all the things that needed to be done, and just enjoy every moment until my last moment comes and it's time for me to leave here.

[juliebrave]

I would love on my babies all day long...and maybe have some crab legs.

[CharmingButch25]

If I had just one day left, I would take way too many pictures so my child would never forget me
I would say my goodbyes, id write letters,id make videos
I would make sure the woman I care so deeply for knows that I care
I would spend my last day surounded by what makes me happy , no tears just laughter.
The main thing I would focus on is not letting the child forget me, i would write her my lessons on life,and what I feel is important,and make sure that she knows money isnt everything and it definatly cant buy your health or happiness.Id make sure she knows she is worth something,and not to dare let anyone bully
Id explain to her in my letter about falling in love and how amazing it feels when you connect with someone in that way
Id explain to her that sometimes in life you have to go thru a lot of bad stuff for the good to come of it.
Id write a letter to my mom explaining to her exactly what she means to me, and how I am the person I am today because she was the best mom anyone could ever want, even if she fought her own demons
Most importantly I would just share love and laughter and enjoy my last hours with the most important people in my life.

[Soft*Silver]

I would want to be alone. I have been loved well and I love well, those in my life. I would not want to let them pine for me before I was gone, but nor could I bear to witness them in grief. I would want to remember them in everyday life, not with eyes of deep sadness. Yes, I would lay in bed and smile, and remember the wonderful memories we had together. I would not write another thing. Everything I had to say was enough and said already. There would not need to write another thing. Not from me.

And when I passed, they can know I left like every other...without pause

[Electrocell]

Would try to let everyone that I ever loved know they still had a place in my heart. Thank them for the lessons they taught me. Make sure my furbabies were going to my ex in the PNW.

[RockOn]

Ensure both my dogs would get a great place to live together with a person who adores them and is young enough to outlive them. Tell everyone I love that I love them. Make a cup of coffee, fire up the grill, play Led Zepplin CDs sitting on the back patio watching Kelly and Kevin play while grilling three enormous ribeyes for us. And do the fun thing ... which is ... after the steak is done enough, cut us small pieces while it is still on the grill - eat until it is all gone. This next part is pretty embarrassing to share but what the hell, I will phase out by the end of the day, right? So the embarrassment won't last long. I would sing their favorite songs to them. Both dogs love hearing their name in a song. :) Lovely day!

Heck, I think I will do all the "out on the patio stuff" this weekend. It's pretty normal.

I am a simple person. I like to keep it that way.

Peace.
Brock

[RockOn]

Gemme cracked me the hell up with her comment about work and "calling in dead."

Priceless, I tell you! :)
Thanks, Gemme.