Instant Turn-Ons

[grenade]

being bitten on the neck from behind.

hands on my collar bone and neck.

having my lower lip gently bitten.

[CherylNYC]

A butch with a sadistic twinkle in her eye.

[Bèsame*]

when you give me butterflies in my stomach

That look
That touch
Those words


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[cinnamongrrl]

knowing hy is all dirty.....and needing a shower......

[candy_coated_bitch]

Being cooked for.

[gotoseagrl]

Finding pleasure in the simple things.

[Martina]

being bitten on the neck from behind.



have to agree with this one

[tiaras-and-books]

faux-hawks
slow smiles
certain voices and accents

[Daktari]

Squeaky clean, just outta the shower/tub femme wrapped in a towel.


Grrrrrowl

[stargazingboi]

The feel of her nails caressing the back of my neck or back

kisses on the neck and ear

[VintageFemme]

Assertiveness. Not just in an intimate sense although that is a must, but in all aspects. A take charge attitude and then actually taking charge.

....and butch hands. Mhmmmmm

[*Anya*]

Squeaky clean, just outta the shower/tub femme wrapped in a towel.


Grrrrrowl

Ditto for the squeaky clean, just out of the shower-no towel- (my) butch!

Yummmm....

[TimilDeeps]

Hi, my name is . . . ;)

[Degotoga]

Intelligence (Yum!)
Compassion
Sense of humor
Mental and emotional maturity and stability

[Bèsame*]

the giddiness that shows when your trying to get my attention ....

[cinnamongrrl]

giving a big hell yeah to butch hands.....yummm

and....if they're a little rough....all the gooder....

:)

[Girl_On_Fire]

Assertiveness. Not just in an intimate sense although that is a must, but in all aspects. A take charge attitude and then actually taking charge.

....and butch hands. Mhmmmmm


What she said. :D

[ahk]

laughter/giggles

[Kobi]

The lingering taste of sea salt on sun drenched skin.

[stargazingboi]

rolling over and draping my arm over her to spoon and having her grab my hand and placing it on her hard nipple

works every time :D

[Joness]

Has to be Heaving Breasts for me! :-)

[grenade]

Dirty talk. The naughtier the better.

Having my hair pulled at the nape of my neck.

[Girl_On_Fire]

Dirty talk. The naughtier the better.

Having my hair pulled at the nape of my neck.

Neck, no. Crown of head...yes. *swoons*

[CherylNYC]

Nape- yes.
Crown- yes.
Anywhere in between- yes.

[Bèsame*]

Using words to find a way to see you blush. Your vulnerability at that moment is so very sexy :)

[Charmingbutch21]

Red hair, pale skin, high heels, face of an angel, and a dirty mind.

-cb

[Sweet Bliss]

Taking out the trash without me asking for help... and putting in clean bag

Soooo sexy. You have no idea! (f)

[Kent]

Sweet smile and eye contact...

[Orema]

Hats

https://www.nord51.com/Content/Images/uploaded/New%20Folder/Hats%20and%20caps.jpg

Hats do it for me :)

[Bèsame*]

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[SirenManda]

Compassion for those less fortunate, nothing shows a bright soul like caring about someone who needs help. Instant turn on.

[CyberStud]

1. Perfume: oooh the scent of a woman
2. Compassionate and Gentle
3: Sense of humor: from witty to wacky/clever to goofy
4: Lingerie and High Heels: a combination guaranteed to turn any evening from PG13 into XXX-Rated!
And finally 5: Thoughtful romantic gestures: designed especially for the one you love.

:daddy:

[Trev]

Kissing pie filling from My upper lip....

[Bèsame*]

that sexy watch on your wrist

And

The way you wear your sunglasses. What's going on in your mind? Pleeease tell me......

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[Cole]

When you nip at my ear and groan...

Folks that have great compassion for ALL creatures (including creatures such as spiders, insects, etc.).

...watching you eat spaghetti. You focus so damn hard on twirling the fork and getting the noodles just right.

[MysticOceansFL]

Girl Friend or Your wife should always be. Turn on !

[Duchess]

~Confidence
~A sexy walk
~Bright smile

[JustLovelyJenn]

That look...
... overwhelming passion

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Killer deep eyes

Confidence

Not necessarily the clothes but the way only you can wear them

Your scent your natural scent not the one from the bottle

Liking to kiss and it doesn't leave my whole face soaked

I could go on and on

[BestButchBoy]

Long, lean legs ending in sexy high heels.

[Happy_Go_Lucky]

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[Licious]

If you are smart and funny, caring and compassionate. I mean wow. My little heart goes Pitti-Pat.

[Orema]

Chubby butches in a hat. Okay, any butch in a hat is cute to me, but especially the chubby ones.

[Orema]

Slow dancing in the dark.

watch?v=wsxcZ8qNCAQ

[Femmadian]

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:thud:

Sorry for the huge-ass images. :-o

[MrSunshine]

Mmmmm bacon!

[Sweet Bliss]

Massaging my feet while watching a movie .. for starters

[JustLovelyJenn]

Appreciating glances in my direction...

[Trev]

.....Confidence is sexy

[alwaysbeannie]

Something about butch confidence is insanely sexy

https://thewrongbathroom.files.wordpress.com/2013/07/summer-wear.jpg

[Jess]

the bashful glance away or soft laugh after direct eye contact... delish!

http://advice.uk.match.com/sites/default/files/styles/large/public/Dating%20advice%20for%20men%20-%20how%20to%20tell%20if%20she%20fancies%20you.jpg? itok=JsdmZNj5

[MysticOceansFL]

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[Candelion]

That growl

[Sweet Bliss]

Holding on to me when I'm trying to get off something high.... like the counter or ladder.

Holding my hand while walking.

[kittygrrl]

red flannel shirts

[JustLovelyJenn]

Fresh from the shower.... yumm

[Aud]

Making a mmmmm sound while delivering a kiss---I am a GONER.
Also gentle bites on the earlobes, or even strange, simple things like a
woman rubbing her own bare neck a certain way, or shoulders.

I have also been known to audibly gasp at first sight of a woman's bare breasts, which is extremely embarrassing, damnit. :blink:

[Bèsame*]

Music like this can put me right there....weak

3SfSQ3lQmJw

[ProfPacker]

She is so fucking hot. That sax makes me weak in the knees. Thanks Besame, I think I need a cold shower.:blush:

[Bèsame*]

She is so fucking hot. That sax makes me weak in the knees. Thanks Besame, I think I need a cold shower.:blush:

oh...your welcome, glad I could be of some assistance. Btw...I'm here for the duration. .....hehehe

[Torchsong3]

The tail end of the harness strap peaking out from under hys dress shirt.

[Sweet Bliss]

Smell of leather saddle while conditioning it. Mmmmm.

[MrSunshine]

Perfectly cooked bacon.....drool

[Kenna]

A "sighting" of a gorgeous, very sexy Butch-presenting Woman yesterday...and getting to spend several hours in the same room, admiring from a short distance...her confidence, her smile and "no fear" when she showed affection to who appeared to be not one but TWO of her partners...her sexy beautiful eyes, and gorgeous tanned, lean rippled muscles... shoulder length dark wavy hair that she obviously enjoyed when her partner(s) would run their fingers through in a brief show of affection. ...how she moved through the room in her hiking boots, cargo shorts, and short sleeved jean shirt opened down the front to reveal her tank top and gorgeous body.... how she laughed and had lots of fun in her day...how much respect she had for others and her dignity mixed with a little cockyness...her damn sexy, tight, cut legs!! OMG!! SWOOOON....
I also noticed how in a room full of just over 100 very southern hetero adults of all ages and backgrounds, she and her partner(s) never once received hateful, disrespectful, rude or negative glances, comments or interactions. She was very confident and she (in my eyes) stood out in the crowd...

Ohhh...and those" butch hands"....another swoooon....

[ONLY]

the soft sleepy voice in the middle of the night (or early morning) saying anything, especially with a smile on her face....will do it for me......

[ONLY]

The song "wicked games" by the Weeknd, the sound of the music, (some of lyrics can do without, some are hot) that is just one song there are more.....
Oh it is a turn on when I am with my girl (f) not alone lol

[Bèsame*]

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[Bèsame*]

KMSo34rIUDg

[MysticOceansFL]

Romantic night picnics on the beach with a bon fire and two people enjoying each other and the stars

[mythy]

light switches...:|

[Femmadian]

Sitting beside a special someone and that moment their leg/thigh leans into yours. The longer it stays, the better it gets.
Those unexpected hugs from behind, one hand snaking around while the other moves your hair back to plant a soft kiss on the neck
A low, breathy voice
Butch hands with veins and/or tendons visible
Butches in leather jackets
Little lips. I think they're cute!
An arched brow coupled with a smirk
If I can hear her (boots/shoes) before I see her (squeaky shoes don't count!)
A bashful butch who blushes easily and has a tendency to look down at their shoes when being flirted with (awww)
That look they get when you intentionally do something arousing to them in public when they can't respond and they're trying to hide their reaction (and/or the "oh, you are so getting it later" look)
Crisp white dress shirts
KD Lang circa 1993
KD Lang's hair circa 1993 (what? It was amazing!)


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[Crow]

-The sound of heels...anywhere. Across the street. Coming down the train platform. Walking down the hall.

-The soft brush of her skin against mine.

-Girl laughter.

-When I'm doing some random guy tinkering thing and I hear...you know-you look really hot with that tool in you hand...

-The smell of fingernail polish...and that oh so slow and purposeful post blowing on them...while looking slyly at me.

-Lipstick on full lips.

-Experience
-

[SnackTime]

Intelligence

[JDeere]

Crooked smile when she is being shy

[kittygrrl]

confident smile

[imperfect_cupcake]

Someone being very open and blunt with what they want, sexually. What makes them hot. And being told they want it from me. That's a huge turn on for me. Assertive, forward, a bit raunchy. I'm always a bit weak kneed for that.

[Clyde]

Bacon.
.
.
.

[imperfect_cupcake]

Cheese and bacon.

[EnchantedNightDweller]

Older, experienced, wise, Mmmmm :cupid: Nothing sexier.

[A. Spectre]

my olfactory senses lead the way for instant gratification. if she is wearing this, i fall weak.

http://4.static.fragrancenet.com/images/photos/250x250/MARC_JACOBS_DAISY_W.JPG

[Jedi]

-hearing her laugh and knowing I made her laugh

[JDeere]

Real quality great smelling perfume

[MysticOceansFL]

Real quality in being friends first before anything else going through the good times and bad knowing they will always be there.

Of course the smile and sparkle in her eyes as she looks up from reading her book and her glasses slide down some on her nose. Can't help but smile back and give her a wink! And what ever else she wants.

[Blaze]

Being that she's extremly witty, caring, funny, beautiful, smart, loving and giving... I'd say My Baby turns me on....

[~ocean]

aggressive , passionate and confident ~ knows what hy wants ~

[chai~]

watch?v=6b3jci5rows

the moment between 1:52- 2:19

le swoon~

[Daktari]

Just hearing this track start up...oh my!


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[bright_arrow]

Flexing hands
Hugging that turns into neck nuzzling
Getting The Look in a public place

[SleepyButch]

Putting my hand on her inner thigh while I'm driving.

Sitting on my lap.

Watching her engage in conversation with others from across the room.

[FlaFem84]

My neck being kissed or rubbed in a certain way is always an instant turn on. Also a passionate kiss where the feelings are there and it feels so right. I can think of a few other things but I'm totally keeping them to myself...

[Orema]

A butch who cooks well and knows what's what in the kitchen.

[~ocean]

~ a rugged , butch ~ with a deepish voice ~

[Femmadian]

Accents. I mean, accents in general, though I have a few regional favourites.

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Also, being read to, especially when employing the above turn-on. Actually, you can read me the zoning notices in the paper for all I care, but something with a bit of poetry to it (whether it formally is or not) is irresistible.
:awww:

[Shystonefem]

Confidence but not rude

Someone who is real, I can spot a fake the first time I meet them

Strong Personality

Intelligent

Attentive

[A. Spectre]

when we first meet, she shakes my hand solidly and looks me in the eye. no shaking hands like we both have cooties. firm, sincere.

http://ak3.picdn.net/shutterstock/videos/2611853/preview/stock-footage-a-man-and-woman-shaking-hands-on-blue-sky-background.jpg

[C0LLETTE]

Being greeted at the door by a woman wearing only an apron and holding a fresh baked cherry pie. ( apple is ok too).

[gotoseagrl]

~ Patience
~ Old-fashioned ways

[Gráinne]

*Being greeted with a kiss to the back of my hand, like in Titanic
*Gorgeous eyes that aren't afraid to smirk, shine, or twinkle at me
*A chain or choker just peeking out from a crisply ironed shirt.
*Very confident, or cocky with a heaping side of kindness underneath
*Messy hair
*Nice scent
*As I get to talking with you, funny as hell.

[JDeere]

A femme who knows/loves football as much or more than I do

[Ginger]

Crisp button-down shirt
Calm, attentive energy; bemused at same things I am

[SleepyButch]

Seeing her wearing stockings and wondering what else she has on under that dress.

[QueenofSmirks]

Tattoos
..........

[JDeere]

Tattoos
..........

Just any tattoos or certain artistic ones?

[Logicaly]

Fingers stroking the back of my neck while I drive.
Someone who is not afraid to take control when the mood strikes, but has no issue also not being in control.

[EnchantedNightDweller]

When he says sweet things. ..:hk2:

[Blaze]

Her eye's and how she looks deeply into my eye's and my soul..
Her walk, the way she talks, her giggle, her style choices, her scent.
The way she likes to surprise me, and listens intently to what I say, she has a cheat sheet to keep tabs on what I like.. grinz that's sexy, She's Sexy

[bright_arrow]

Fingertips stroking my palm
Looks across the room

[Daniela]

an irreverent sense of humor
intelligence
genuine kindness
the tickle of someone whispering in your ear
expressive eyes

[Daktari]

Audio/Visual

[Bèsame*]

Mmmm, feed me with chopsticks :)

[SleepyButch]

Calling me Daddy at just the right moment.

[sharonsuburbia]

OK Daddy :):rrose:

[SleepyButch]

OK Daddy :):rrose:

Uhh.. Sharon.. that's not how it works but I give you an A for effort. lol

[Venus007]

Quick witted good natured verbal sparing
Competence
Abandon
Watching the struggle between surrender and resistance
Being called Ma'am at the right moment

[NitroChrys_Butch]

My wife into the bathroom and sliding herself up onto the counter watching while I shave [Something I do for her]

Her giggle when I surprise her

Her chewing her lip in concentration

The soft exhale when I slip into bed behind her

[Shystonefem]

The is nothing series than confidence.

[Bard]

Nails slightly raking on the back of my neck

The smouldering looks

Soft kisses when I am not paying attention

Her Hair across my chest

[sharonsuburbia]

Uhh.. Sharon.. that's not how it works but I give you an A for effort. lol

so how does it work - a flower is nice? :)

[Daktari]

T & A [...tits & ass]

[kittygrrl]

Strong hands

[JDeere]

A nice butt!

[A. Spectre]

A femme with long red, blonde, or dark hair. Oh! and she wears that perfect fragrance that makes me think of her all day.

[Jess]

Her... wearing one of my shirts on a lazy weekend morning... making coffee and dancing around the kitchen...
Her... wearing something sexy I found and thought of her and had to see her in it...Dressed for work and striking a seductive pose and telling me I did "GOOD"... grinz...

basically, Her...
:sunglass:

:praying:

:bowdown:

:drool:

:thud:

:dance2:


:cigar2:

[Trev]

The way she runs her fingers along My jawline before she leans in for a kiss.

[DapperButch]

Sexy and/or sluty, or tasteful, classy dress shoes, draws me to a woman. Must be quality shoes.

[starryeyes]

Strong, encompassing hugs..... Oh yeah.

[Orema]

Sometimes you'll roll your shoulders forward once or twice to adjust the shirt underneath your jacket. That little, insignificant move does it for me every time.

[EnchantedNightDweller]

How many degrees do you have? :spruceup:

Intelligence = Sexy

[Daniela]

short hair at the nape of the neck

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H9NG7R1pHV8/TjRPoKZkY1I/AAAAAAAAAFY/smv1w9-8SSo/s1600/2904853435_7c8785dc9d_z.jpg

short hair, period.

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[C0LLETTE]

making dinner for me...I'm a simple woman with simple pleasures.

[PatrickIver]

When I catch you peeking at me from across the room while you pretend to read your book.

Swoonage.

[candy_coated_bitch]

A hand on the small of my back.

[FemmeBibliophile]

Glasses. A whisper in my ear. A controlling statement.

[Bèsame*]

the way you wear that hat!

[C0LLETTE]

Sexy and/or sluty, or tasteful, classy dress shoes, draws me to a woman. Must be quality shoes.

When my daughter was getting married she asked me to lend her money to buy a pair of Christian Louboutin "wedding" shoes. When she told me how much they were, I screamed, "Are you crazy?" And she said, "Momma, no woman should ever get married in cheap shoes". I lent her the money.

[Firedance]

Cigar... in hys mouth... and hy knows it too!!!

Hy's smirk is to die for!

[Ascot]

Unabashed intelligence.

[C0LLETTE]

people who take themselves too seriously... I'm always thinking there must be more to them than what I'm seeing and I'm forever left wanting more.

[gotoseagrl]

~ Chivalry
~ Attentiveness
~ Knowing how & when to use aggression & confidence
~ Imperfections

[grenade]

An intense gaze. Slow dancing. Neck bites. Fingers in my hair.

[PatrickIver]

Intelligence
That coy, biting the bottom lip "look"
Shyness
Self-Awareness
Bookworm

[Bèsame*]

those whispers that give me chills

[grenade]

The smell of cologne on freshly showered skin. Rough hands. Massages, any kind, anywhere. Dirty talk. Spankings.

[Bèsame*]

the thought of getting caught

[Daniela]

people who take themselves too seriously... I'm always thinking there must be more to them than what I'm seeing and I'm forever left wanting more.

wait, are you saying this is a turn on? I think it's a turn off...but the last part of your statement ("forever left wanting more") could be interpreted to imply that you want to get to know them better. PLEASE TO CLARIFY...I'm dying of curiosity. :)

[FemmeBibliophile]

Strong hands.
Firm voices.
Freshly shaven heads.
Gentle touches.
Ties.
Daddy figures.
Glasses.
Rope.
Intelligence.
Deep conversation.

[Ginger]

I know a certain physical type turns my head, almost in a reflexive way.

I walked by an eyewear boutique last week and caught a glimpse of a woman who turned my head in that way. Without even thinking, I peeled off and walked into the shop.

I started browsing the frames, watching her from the corner of my eye.

She was talking loudly to the person who worked there, and kept saying "my wife" in her comments. She said it three times.

It's like she was warding me off. I just smiled to myself.

[Bèsame*]

feeling you flinch when I kiss your fingers, which leads to a lick and a suck



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[Trev]

The taste of wine when she kisses Me.

The way she wears My shirts.

[Blaze]

Those beautiful Blue Eyes of yours, that draw me in.
That unique stare that tells me secrets and wants.
The way you carry yourself, I just adore.
Your giggles, and words you whisper that gets my motor running.
Your choice in clothing style that makes me undress you with pleasure...

[cinnamongrrl]

Rough, dirty, justbeen working on a car hands.....

YUM :)

[Ascot]

Holding strong to convictions that fly in the face of narrow minded societal dictates.

[Constantine]

dark hair.....easy smile.....happy eyes........open personality......warm and compassionate...caring and...an immense heart

[CherryWine]

Rough, dirty, justbeen working on a car hands.....

YUM :)

And after they have taken a shower or washed them, putting lotion on those hands with your own hands. You know.... :D

[AnAwkwardAccident]

That look my spouse gives me....makes me melt. Every. Single. Damn. Time.

[Cailin]

neck ties and suspenders.

[Ginger]

Instant turn-ons? Sometimes I don't know until it happens.

[C0LLETTE]

Choosing to sit next to me instead of across from me in a restaurant booth.

[gotoseagrl]

~ Monogamy
~ Intensity

[Venus007]

Blushing
Those little pleasure noises that slip out when I am doing something delicious to them and they are trying to be quiet

[bright_arrow]

Snug black ribbed tank and dangerously loose jeans on hips

:drool:

[cinnamongrrl]

A deep, gravelly morning voice.... :)

[~ocean]

~ holding hys stare in my eyes ~

[randrum]

When a woman smells good.

I was sitting in a theater earlier, and a lady sat down in front of me. Never saw her face. But damn if I wasn't turned on by her scent.

[Evolved]

Nice hands. I'm not sure what it is, but a woman with nice hands is a turn on!

[Canela]

(f) Kisses that are intended to do so...
(f) Big, strong, sexy arms...
(f) A shiny bald head, just shaven...
(f) Beautiful, sexy eyes filled with love (lust) just for me...
(f) Telling me I'm beautiful, then listing all the reasons why that he can think of...

Those are just a few that spring to mind...

[~SweetCheeks~]

A nice smile.
A nice smelling Butch...swoon
A butch with a little ruggedness
Gentle But firm hands around my waist when we dance.
The ability to just be sillly sometimes

[C0LLETTE]

It's in the eyes...and in those crinkly smile creases around the eyes...and you don't just get those overnight.

[JDeere]

Tracing my tattoos with her fingers

[JustLovelyJenn]

All the adorable pet names
HEARING her smile
Random picture messages
Just how much I NEED her...

[Daisy Chain]

Taking hold of my hand.....I dont just mean holding my hand, I mean taking hold of it, firmly, protectively, in a leading, you`re safe and secure with me and I`ve got it all covered kind of way. Something inside me always surrenders a little when that happens.

Been a while though...:sigh:

DC

[CherryWine]

Simply just watching my butch partner interact with others can be a huge turn-on for me.

The other day we stopped at a convenience store, and I stayed in the car while she ran in to grab something. I could see her through the store window as she waited in line and struck up a friendly conversation with the guy behind her. Her wide stance, arms across her chest, throwing her head back with a laugh. As she was walking out she gave the guy a brotherly slap on the shoulder.

Confidence is definitely a turn-on.

[Tuff Stuff]

That gaze...brown eyes,blue eyes,green eyes whatever...we're talking face to face and it's like I can read her mind and she can read mine...that's hot.

Okay, and high heels.

[Chad]

Bumping this thread.

For me it is kindness and a sweet smile.

[NavyButch]

When I see someone show another kindness. Especially in the climate of our world today. Melts my heart every.single.time.

[Sweet Bliss]

witty reparte'.....

oh lordy, i love a funny witty wit.

[girl_dee]

a big juicy brain!

[CherryWine]

Humility...definitely. With an air of confidence.

[~ocean]

admiring someones actions ~ how they handle a situation:)

[cathexis]

An intelligent person who is able to navigate a critical conversation in many disciplines such as politics, philosophy, history, the social sciences and geology.

[girl_dee]

confidence.

[Gemme]

Equal power exchanges.

[Chad]

A confident femme is very sexy.

[AmazonDC]

When she bites her damn bottom lip when We talk...instant

[JDeere]

Freckles!

That's enough for me!

[bright_arrow]

When the authoritative, "Take no shit" tone of voice comes out

[girl_dee]

when you lock eyes, and you don't want to move

[*Anya*]

Let's see if I can remember back that far...oh yes, gently pushing my hair back on one side, holding it in her hand,

in order to kiss my neck.

Chills.

And thrills.

[~SweetCheeks~]

When hy gets home from work and gives me that look.

When hy comes up behind me and pulls my hair aside and gently bites and kisses my neck, OMG!

[girl_dee]

Oh! A hand on the small of my back... hot damn.

[cathexis]

When She swells with the attitude of, "I am the Head of the Household and don't dare threaten them." Her energy swells to take over the entire room. Everyone can tell who is in charge

Her fearlessness including an uncanny ability to go toe to toe with thugs threatening Her family (pets included), friends, and anyone She cares about.

Her whole Alpha leader package.

Oh, yeah...going into the bedroom to get something and just happening to notice the box of gloves and bottle of lube on the bedside table knowing Her plans for later. twitch...twitch...twitch

[girl_dee]

A hair tug from out of nowhere

[girl_dee]

From.the right person "hello" works.... :awww:

[Sweet Bliss]

reaching for my hand while driving...

[girl_dee]

reaching for my hand while driving...

Oh yes! Or a hand on my thigh........

[Lyte]

Mel Gibson? :p
From.the right person "hello" works.... :awww:

[Lyte]

Wit ... not simply a sense of humor ... but a smart and quick wit ... very sexy.

[girl_dee]

Mel Gibson? :p

CLOSE !........... :huhlaugh:

[gotoseagrl]

~ A great, ongoing sense of humor
~ Austerity in a certain subtle context
~ Straight-forwardness
~ Passion
~ Spiritual connection with nature
~ Music, book, movie and art nerdism
~ Good conversation
~ Writing
~ Old-fashioned things
~ Cologne
~ A look that needs no words

[Chained Daisy]

I don`t think anything`s instant with me anymore....everything seems to need pondering, planning and quite often postponing :blink:

[WheatToast]

witty reparte'.....

oh lordy, i love a funny witty wit.

I love femmes, but not the kind who are too foo-foo and always pretend to be weak little damsels in distress.
I like brainiacs with pretty faces they have yet to fully discover.
I like femmes who come after me and catch me, but then they say, "Okay, your turn."
I like sad eyes combined with beautiful smiles.
But perhaps most all, I like a woman who seems refined, articulate, and reserved at first, but then out of the blue she will start cussing, and her favorite word is fuck, whether it's used as a verb, noun, adjective, adverb or nickname. If she springs it on me when I least expect it, and uses it in the, "Hey you, come over here and fuck me silly tonight" sense, well, it makes me very cooperative, fast moving, thorough and downright chipper.

[MaddieRobbie]

What makes this femme weak...

Wearing a good suit.
Confidence and a little swagger.
Eye contact.
Kissing my neck.
Boxer briefs.
A sharp mind.
A loose tongue.
A muscular back.
Kindness to children (a butch is never so strong as when they stoop to pick up a child...)
The unexpected discovery that someone is packing.

[Bèsame*]

When there is actual live conversation...

The sound of vulnerability during the pauses, as you seek the right word to describe what your feeling.

[Gemme]

A nice dresser with that aura of confidence and a crooked smile.

[~ocean]

a butch that is ~ charismatic , cocky , confident , courteous in that order :)

[kittygrrl]

can read me

[Ascot]

A woman who can unabashedly laugh at herself.

[girl_dee]

sometimes hy just looks over at me in a certain way. i just melt.

[Plaidandroses]

OMG a fresh haircut and that clean, sharp line across the back of her neck. And there's that certain smile when she wants to get something going... :eyebat::drool:

[TL1]

Intelligent
Decisive
Self respect

[Reach *BANNED*]

A nice hair flip and the "look".

along with..

Intelligence
Bashfulness
Sense of humor
Attentive

and cares about what goes on in the World.

[2qt]

For me.... Body language is huge on my list...

A quick wit but the kind of quick wit that stops me in my tracks...

Eyes... A glance/connection of our eyes together will say a million words to me... Glance wrong & the connection is all over... lol

Confidence meaning someone who knows what they want & are confident enough to go after it without all the what if's & what not doubts....(Nothing is more of a turn off to me then someone who just don't know what they want because they fear the unknown)

Humour..... Everyone needs laughter in their lives....

A cheeky smile that keeps me guessing what they're thinking...

Self sufficient..... Can look after their own affairs without needing me to look after it for them.... (Being reliant upon me & clingy is a complete turn off, I don't want a baby in boxer shorts, I want someone who can be adult & deal with adult life so to speak)

Spontaneous..... I'm a Scorpio.... I love someone who is spontaneous & will surprise me at times....

Sheesh it's becoming a big list! lol Yikes.... :praying:

[Gemme]

A big list but a really good list, 2qt!

[Blade]

Their play list or radio station or the CD's in their car

[Kätzchen]

Turn-on's:

--unabashed honesty, when it's delivered with a f*ck-ton of kindness and compassion.

--attentive listening skills.

--a dazzling smile and sparkling eyes (melt!)

--thoughtfulness.

--their hand on the small of my back or when they slide their arm inside of my arm or hold my hand (priceless).

*** Swooooon ***

:stillheart:

[C0LLETTE]

1.argue/debate with me and get me to change my mind.

2. make me laugh

both those things come from the same source.

[MrSunshine]

Messy hair or a girl with a curl

[JDeere]

Great personality

Great sense of humor

Nice smile

Someone who likes animals

Non political is a good one as well

[cathexis]

Fit and trim Mexican wearing cholos CLEAN from fedora to shined brown shoes. Everything fitting perfectly, pressed pant creases, well fitting jacket.

And most importantly a long gold chain from belt to pocket hanging down 4-5
feet of shiny chain.

Got to have the attitude that s/he rules the world with absolute conviction.
(........will follow anywhere)


mental attributes in another post...all I can think of now if this handsome physical specimen

[Vincent]

A natural empath and love of our world,sounds corny?
A woman/femme on a bull horn at a demo is pretty fuckin sexy.
add a skirt and doc martins..................I'm real real gone ,as Van Morrison says.
I like woman smarter than me,I left school at 14,so dont mean academia,but I love peoples minds and I can learn stuff
same music tastes and plays music more than television watching
Also,I gotta say it,someone with a healthy lifestyle

shit any wonder I'm single :(

also dont take yourself so serious ;)

[C0LLETTE]

Be judgemental, opinionated, have convictions, and be prepared to reasonably defend and act on those convictions... otherwise what's your purpose on this earth....plus, you will turn me on.

[JustLovelyJenn]

A good kiss
Being touched
Little moments of affection
Giving me THAT look
Pampering me

... of course, those only work if I already love you for all the things about you that you cant see or hear.

[charley]

Truth, beauty

the truth of beauty... :)

the beauty of truth... :)

[PlatinumPearl]

Definitely intelligence.

Knowledge....expert knowledge in something. :glasses:

[Mel C.]

that tongue...yummy

[firecat242]

A pulse, heartbeat, and breathing. Very exciting. oooooobaby

[JDeere]

Classy sexy lingerie pics, not trashy pics!

[kittygrrl]

complicated committed

[PlatinumPearl]

Confidence and healthy self-esteem. :stillheart:

[kittygrrl]

grace:tea:

[homoe]

Fit and trim Mexican wearing cholos CLEAN from fedora to shined brown shoes. Everything fitting perfectly, pressed pant creases, well fitting jacket.

And most importantly a long gold chain from belt to pocket hanging down 4-5
feet of shiny chain.

Got to have the attitude that s/he rules the world with absolute conviction.
(........will follow anywhere)


mental attributes in another post...all I can think of now if this handsome physical specimen

I'll keep my eyes open for someone like this bud to send along your way!

[bright_arrow]

Side glances with raised eyebrows
Kisses on the back of my neck
Bossy attitude and the don't-fuck-with-me way he calls me "baby girl"
Bare shoulders and forearms
Fresh from the shower and radiating heat
Any time he stands directly behind me :blush:

[cathexis]

A pair of highly shined of high black leather boots on a Butch Top

Attitude and aura that instantly Dominates a room upon entering

Said Butch backing me against the wall, asking an intimate question

[JDeere]

Brute honesty!

[kittygrrl]

loves hiking & camping
kind
deliberate

[Lizdoyle83dance]

I love being the only femme in a space full of masculine of center queer women.. sometimes this happens for me ata bar close to the studio where I work. It’s such a turn on, I love the attention 💁🏼‍♀️💕

[JDeere]

Freaky women but freaky to my extent.

[Amulette]

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Hindi Zahra - Beautiful Tango (Unplugged)


Beautiful stranger I don't want to know your name.......

[kittygrrl]

tenacity wisdom immutable

[RebelDyke]

intelligence, confidence and a bit o'sassy not in that order and DEFINITELY well-mixed!

[Baby_Yoda]

I dont have a one size fits all trigger. Meaning what works for one person could have a completely opposite effect if someone else tried it. That being said,there is someone that has to do little more than breathe and im in a state.

[cathexis]

Intelligence (sapiosexuality).

[justkim]

Kind
Spontaneous

[kittygrrl]

know what you want, that's sexy

[JDeere]

A nice perfume/cologne collection!

[Kätzchen]

Oh goodness...,

When my sweetie holds me in his arms and showers me with kisses: His voice, the way he smells and how he touches me is my instant turn-on. :cheer:


:kissy:

:hk20:

[Bèsame*]

member of the military👩‍✈️

[Reach *BANNED*]

That laugh-giggle combo. It gets Me every time!

[kittygrrl]

when they take control..and i feel safe

[bright_arrow]

Honestly, any attention from him is an instant-turn on, but my favorites are back of the neck kisses, his hand gripping my hair, and his hand on my throat.. *gulp*