Butches..What makes you feel sexy?

[kittygrrl]

It's a mystery to femmes, (at least to some of us). Please enlighten. Are there rules to sex or sexy? Please enlighten, we all want to know. No rules, just be nice :)

[A. Spectre]

Taking a long hot shower after working out or working in the yard, drying off and putting on a crisp long sleeved shirt with a pair of Levis button down jeans.

SHE is waiting for me outside the door ready with the cologne she enjoys me wearing, a spray here a spray there. She reaches behind me and starts to put on my tie and whispers "oh baby you smell so good."

She makes me feel sexy, with all she says and all she does.

[BullDog]

- Getting a good haircut

- Working out (especially weight lifting)

[Lyte]

Mmm... when the hair is behaving!

[MitchM42]

My Blue Suede Donald Pliner shoes!

[Lyte]

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

[Onebutch]

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

I think butches can feel sexy. Sexy does not discriminate.


I can feel sexy just by the way she looks at me.
Working construction, building things.
Good smelling cologne
Nice clothes

These are just a few

[JDeere]

This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.

For me sexy isn't the right word.

[kittygrrl]

sexy means anything you think it means- when you are "in the groove", "in the mood", in charge, attractive, exciting, seductive, raunchy, bad ass, guapo, gato, rico...

[Sweet Bliss]

Words.....

Let's try some on....

" I feel ____________ when......_______________"

wanted................................ she puts her arm in mine...

desired ............................... her nostrils flare

hella hot .............................. she strokes my bicep


any of those work?

[homoe]

For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!

[JDeere]

For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!

Homoe has gone mushy on me :|

J/k!

[homoe]

Homoe has gone mushy on me :|

J/k!

HA HA HA no offense taken:giggle:

[JDeere]

HA HA HA no offense taken:giggle:

hahah good thing!

[Lyte]

I agree... I associate "sexy" more with the femme. That's not quite the right word in my head... but definitely butches can be sexy too!

I raised the question because I thought it curious that we butches didn't weren't commenting as much or as quickly as the equivalent femme question. Perhaps it's because there are more femmes here than butches? I don't know the reason but I'm curious!

[JDeere]

I prefer Handsome but nothing makes me feel handsome, I just am, according to my girlfriend.

[Lyte]

Doh! My bad... yet again! I didn't realize how much older the femme thread was....looked at the wrong date!! *insert forehead whacking emoticon here*

Is clueless sexy??? :p

[RockOn]

when she slowly rubs my stomach ... gets me feeling sexy (actually horny is an even closer definition)

[*Anya*]

Is clueless sexy??? :p

It kind of can be.

Depends on the circumstances.

[Lyte]

It kind of can be. Depends on the circumstances.

I won't ask if this happens to be one of those! :p :sunglass:

[Lyte]

This may seem a bit odd to some but...

I feel ... "sexy" .... when I look her way and she blushes.

[Rugged]

When I get my hair cut

[Greco]

just "tripped" over this thread..."sexy"? I associate this word with femmes.

So, what word?...to think about. Getting my hair cut for sure...after working out, running,
swimming for sure then showering...giving a great presentation...hmmm...but the word?
Have to think on this for a bit...smiling

Greco

[Chad]

For me definitely a fresh hair cut. A sharp tux, tails, or a well tailored suit.

Flirting is sexy and makes me feel sexy.

:cowboy:

[Tuff Stuff]

*Wearing an open shirt,showing naked skin
*Wearing button fly jeans
*Strapping
*Her hand down my pants
*Sex

[AmazonDC]

A fresh hair cut..
Great pair of slacks with My fav shirt and leather shoes
Polo red
And the way she looks at Me while I am wearing these things.

[Kosmo]

Riding my :scooter:

[Greco]

Currently I have a female barber...and there's something
very sensual about those hair cut sessions...love a great cut...

then a long run...or long swim...hot shower after...then leaving
my hair wet and natural for the drive home...

Greco

[Kosmo]

Currently I have a female barber...and there's something
very sensual about those hair cut sessions...love a great cut...

then a long run...or long swim...hot shower after...then leaving
my hair wet and natural for the drive home...

Greco

Mine's a guy, but he does a great low fade. I especially appreciate the hot lather neck shave followed by a warm moist towel.

[Ender]

For me, it's a nice suit.

[TL1]

My hair styled just right
Dressed nicely
My favorite cologne
Out on the town

Then there’s also times when I’m working on my car and have grease on myself and clothes and feel sexy.

I don’t need a woman to feel sexy BUT many small things a woman can do to contribute as well.

Such as a look or a simple certain gesture or touch.

[MaddieRobbie]

I think confidence is the sexiest thing a butch can have. If that's there, than whatever they're in - a suit, jeans, overalls, sweatpants - is going to be sexy.

It's not what you wear...it's how you wear it. I love a butch in a good suit...but if there's some swagger filling it out, I'm a freaking puddle.

[~ocean]

A butch with style has nothing to do with what hy is wearing ~

[homoe]

For me, I have to be wearing something I feel real good and look good in to feel sexy!

My favorite is a crisp white starched shirt, black dressed slacks with a crease in them, and a pair of nice freshly polished black dress shoes.

[WheatToast]

*Wearing an open shirt,showing naked skin
*Wearing button fly jeans
*Strapping
*Her hand down my pants
*Sex

Yep, what Tuff said pretty much covers it.

[homoe]

For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!


It's been a L O N G time since a femme has done this but I still like it..:eyebat: