View Full Version : Did you ever just know?
Sachita
02-08-2010, 09:39 PM
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
Strappie
02-08-2010, 09:49 PM
I guess my "just know" feeler is a bit off.. I'm still single.
Andrew, Jr.
02-08-2010, 09:50 PM
This is funny you brought this up. It isn't about love or anything of that nature. It is about my late sister, JoAnn.
When we were at NIH, there was a young girl who was participating in a clinical trial for Melanoma (same one as my sister). We all just "knew" instinctively that she would be ok.
Sure enough, after she went thru chemo and the stem cell treatment, all of her results came back clean. Her 6 mo. checkup - clean. Her 1 year checkup - clean. She was in remission, and pretty much cancer free.
Call it instinct or deja vu. You just know it.
Rockinonahigh
02-08-2010, 09:51 PM
Yes I have,but she will never know about it.
Rockin
HowSoonIsNow
02-08-2010, 09:56 PM
...I just KNEW!
(and that took many years of not knowing and/or not settling)
:cheer:
Yes.
Yes.
And yes.
A beautiful and tragic torture.
Jackhammer
02-08-2010, 10:52 PM
Yes:
Yes:
Yes:
Just_G
02-08-2010, 10:55 PM
I have met a few that have been "the one for now"....and have not given up on the "one", but I am learning patience and having a lot of fun until then! :thumbsup:
Corkey
02-09-2010, 12:16 AM
yes x 3 ...
Passionaria
02-09-2010, 01:23 AM
Yes, :vigil: and it is delicious, touching heaven on earth. My heart so moved, that I would travel through time for just one kiss.
YouTube- Looking For Your Face -- Rumi
Incubus
02-09-2010, 03:04 AM
yes, on two occasions - one of them I still share a house with after 12yrs and the other is my wonderful girl, Ingress...I am truly blessed to have found 2 such amazing women to share my life with along the way.
Cyclopea
02-09-2010, 03:10 AM
Yes. I still remember the first moment my eyes rested upon her. We spent much of our life together.
christie
02-09-2010, 06:32 AM
I have often thought of some contemporary christian songs as beautiful love songs of adoration and boundless love...
This one is the epitome of how I felt, and continue to feel every moment of every day, about my perfection, Jess.
YouTube- Born Again (with lyrics)
Random
02-09-2010, 07:04 AM
Yes...
What Diva said...
That was beautiful baby!! It's wayyyyy too early to be all mushy and leaky eyed.
I love you so much! Knew it fifteen minutes before I felt forever
NJFemmie
02-09-2010, 07:20 AM
Yes, on all three.
Softly
02-09-2010, 07:23 AM
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Yes, it's happen that way with my current. when I first saw saw her it wasn't like explosives or anything...we were meeting as friends...but we also kissed that same night before we parted ways and my stomach did flips and I felt like I was going to be sick LOL in a GOOD WAY when I got into my car. :flowers: ever since then her mouth makes my heart explode.
:sparklyheart:
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
I knew I was in love with certain people a couple times and I recall the feelings...
1. the first time he kissed me, he grabbed my hand and looked me into the eyes and we both looked like we were going to cry it was really beautiful.
2. the first time we made love and I felt my body react like it hadn't before and I really thought this was the one and it would be wonderful and stuff.
and then my current lover, who as I said above, still after almost a year makes my heart thump thump and my body tingle with a slightest touch. xo
When home became her instead of a place...
YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home
Sachita
02-09-2010, 07:27 AM
wow thank you all. Sometimes its scary, I'm sure but the most amazing thing is how peaceful I feel. In the past I always would go back and forth, unsure, battling with myself and others. I always had doubts and always always figured time would change this... I should give it time, a chance to grow. It just wasn't complete or elating.
I am spellbound. Literally captured and have not doubted or questioned my motives at all. It is the most amazing thing. I feel peaceful, safe, excited and feel like I'm dreaming. This has never happened to me before.
So again, thank you. I know I'm crazy. We both know we're crazy but we're gonna be slap ass crazy together and have an incredible life. Never have I been more certain of anything.
Softly
02-09-2010, 07:30 AM
:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
When home became her instead of a place...
YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjky7v7JIow)
christie
02-09-2010, 08:47 AM
:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
This is why i love hym so.
Sapph
02-09-2010, 08:50 AM
For me.. my "one" is standing by myside. From the moment I first talked to her I knew she was different, something I couldnt let go. I remember telling my friends (and her) that I was going to marry her on the very first day I met her. I knew it wasn't going to be easy, and I knew we were going to fight (and sometimes we do), but we don't give up and throw in the towel. I'm her ass, and shes my pain in the ass, but I wouldnt have it any other way.
YouTube- Garth Brooks-She's Every Woman(Performed by Chris Tincher)
Sweet
02-09-2010, 09:04 AM
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...
But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/08-21-08_1759.jpg?t=1265727791
Sachita
02-09-2010, 01:18 PM
...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...
But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/08-21-08_1759.jpg?t=1265727791
how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!
never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!
christie
02-09-2010, 01:24 PM
how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!
never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!
I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:
Sachita
02-09-2010, 02:04 PM
I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:
lol- we can still hop on a gator! but seriously when we get to that point the farm is going and we'll get a beach house in costa rica with a ramp! lol
Blade
02-09-2010, 02:17 PM
Yes to all three, but never love at first sight.
I realize my picker is broken or defective or something. So now when I feel all of these things at once I back up and regroup and start looking for what is really wrong with a relationship if there is a YES to these in the early stages.
Not saying it doesn't happen for others just saying that I've realized when it happens with me, usually it doesn't turn out to be real after all. Like red flag city. Thanks for the lesson. One of many in life I'm sure.
BullDog
02-09-2010, 05:26 PM
No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.
Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.
The_Lady_Snow
02-09-2010, 05:31 PM
Yes...
Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...
Yes...
Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...
Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.
(f)(f)(f)
The_Lady_Snow
02-09-2010, 06:17 PM
Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.
(f)(f)(f)
The kids were born at different times....
My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...
heh:smileywhip:
The kids were born at different times....
My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...
heh:smileywhip:
LMAO.. awesome!
suebee
02-09-2010, 07:53 PM
We met on the dash site and flirted for a couple of months. On Christmas day we were chatting online and she mentioned a GLBT dance that was going to take place a couple of days later. So I went. We'd never even talked on the phone, but I knew I wanted to meet her. When the day came I got into the car to make the two hour trip to see her. The weather was NOT good. In fact, it was our first real snowstorm of the season. I didn't answer my cell phone the whole way there, because I was afraid she was going to call and tell me not to come because of the road conditions. When I got there she was waiting outside for me. I got out of the car and walked over to her, and she just held me for the longest time while I trembled, with the snow falling down around us. I knew right then.
Sachita
02-09-2010, 08:02 PM
No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.
Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.
I agree but that thick and thin is so much better when you're connected. I don't think its infatuation. I know what that feels like and even when I had that there were doubts and concerns. When you meet the one there is a comfort, peacefulness and balance you just know everything is going to be ok. It also takes faith.
A friend of mine told me the story of her meeting her hubby. She also said that the highs were intense and the lows just as intense. Love is fueled with fire. Sometimes a warm glow, sometimes a raging inferno and then periods of smoldering.
If I didnt feel a deep friendship then it would be infatuation.
woodstock
02-09-2010, 08:07 PM
This is not a story about me...but its true.
My brother met his wife when he was 16...on a blind date. That night he came home and told us he'd met the girl he was going to marry. Of course, none of us believed him and I, being the mature, all-knowing 19 year old that I was, laughed at him. I told him he was crazy.
Over 20 years later..they are still together. They both just knew. :)
Sachita
02-10-2010, 06:18 PM
Only two more days!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so excited. I know, in my heart that everything will be fine.
Thank you for your stories. They give me so much faith.
Sweet
02-10-2010, 06:54 PM
how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!
never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!
Thank you very much for your encouraging and sweet response. Your love story, passion and positive attitude really helps on my worst days.
LOL, Willy steals everyone's heart with those big "gotta love me" eyes! Biggest Love Bug on the East Coast... but now I've fallen head over heals for Love Bug #2... Tashi... my new "belly bump" (she'll have to fight Willy for his spot on my belly...)
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/Tashifirstnighthome.jpg?t=1265849472 http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/TashiandWilly2nddayhome.jpg?t=1265849541
Miss_Tia
02-10-2010, 06:58 PM
I had always believed in love at first sight, but waivered on believing in soul mates. I felt that there always was more than one person in our lives we could fall in love with so the need for a soul mate was moot. However, one day I met, whom i will call, My Samarai. From the moment she pulled into the driveway, before she came out of her car, all of my energies began to swirl and I felt light headed and seasick. She had come to look at a horse I was buying. She felt it too...we talked later and she confirmed that the mixing of our presences up close had indeed rocked her energies. We became friends and when together, people around us would stop and stare, or be drawn very closely in. Our friends remarked that the energy in the room changed when we were together. Eventually we became a couple, even tho she was straight. Or she had always believed she was straight. Unfortunately she could not come to terms with being a lesbian. We departed...but years later, I met her brother...not her brother in this life, but in the life we all once shared....but thats a different story...
Random
02-10-2010, 06:59 PM
Yes...
Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...
Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?
It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..
sigh... remembering....
The_Lady_Snow
02-12-2010, 07:31 AM
Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?
It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..
sigh... remembering....
I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..
Sachita
02-12-2010, 06:18 PM
I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..
how fucking profound these words and you can read it so many ways.
I have been in love 3 times. I am 51 and my first love was in my 20s. It was crazy and out of control. My second broke my heart. I learned from both of these and even the ships passing in the night but this is so very different. There is love fueled by passion and we learn more about ourselves. Then there is a point where youre all grown up and love becomes a totality of your being. Could it be another lesson? Of course but the journey is always one that brings you deeper into loving yourself through the expression of another.
I have waited all my life to feel like this. Its not just a ship passing or a flight of fancy but my very best friend coming to sweep me off my feet. None of my lovers were really friends until now. No matter the transition, the destiny or final result, I know it was meant to be.
luciddreamer
02-12-2010, 06:22 PM
Do I believe in love at first sight...soul mates..Yes I do...
I can honestly say ..this has happened more then once with past partners..not that I have had many...lol. The first meeting of each other...the first touch ...the first kiss...the amazing chemistry....the longing of your next seeing of each other...then....the ultimate...the utter explosion of passion..animal lust..if you may..the uniting of two souls..and never feeling and being able to explain what you both have felt...
Will you ever feel this way again..yes....but on entirely different levels...
Enjoy each and every moment of love and passion...it is never ending...
apretty
03-21-2010, 06:34 PM
yes, i know a lot, and often.
:smladybug: <3's :tiger:
I've "just known" a few times. Most of the time, it turned out I was wrong. I think we can connect with people on many levels, and it can be exhilarating. If there's such a thing as knowing someone from a prior life, that would be really intoxicating, too. But, who says that this means that the person would make a good partner? I think it's easy to confuse attraction, lust, or chemistry with true love. In my opinion, none of those is necessarily an indicator of a good long-term relationship.
I was very attracted to someone at our first contact, which was on line. We both expressed that it felt like we were "soulmates." I was over the moon. It turned out to be the darkest, most toxic relationship I ever had. I'm willing to believe that we are connected in some psychological or maybe even some psychic way. But, "psychotic" would more aptly describe it.
In my present relationship, we "just knew." But then, we lived the ups and downs of the relationship. It's great to connect with someone from the outset, and really feel that deep connection. But, in my opinon, you have to keep creating the love, romance, and respect in the relationship for it to continue to be the one you envisioned.
Julien
03-21-2010, 08:13 PM
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
1. Yes, although we'd been talking for a while without first meeting each other in person. I'd never felt so confident and content in all my life.
2. Yes I have. It is a incredible experience. What's better is she felt it too.
3. Again this is a yes. And what's cool it is all for the same person.
leatherfaery
03-22-2010, 01:01 AM
yes yes yes yes yes ! :cheer:
Sachita
03-22-2010, 06:32 AM
1. Yes, although we'd been talking for a while without first meeting each other in person. I'd never felt so confident and content in all my life.
2. Yes I have. It is a incredible experience. What's better is she felt it too.
3. Again this is a yes. And what's cool it is all for the same person.
read lynn's post.
sometimes its dead on and then sometimes its another one of life's lessons. its all a journey- the good and the bad
Luckydwg07
03-24-2010, 02:12 PM
Those butterflies in the pit of my stomach were great! I miss that feeling... I want it again!
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
Slave to the Buffet
03-26-2010, 02:59 AM
oh yes and still do
julieisafemme
03-26-2010, 02:21 PM
I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..
Oh! Thank you. This so resonates with my Mama heart. It was the same with me when my girl was born. She lay on my chest and looked right at me with these huge eyes. Skin to skin and eyes to eyes. It is one of my most cherished internal snapshots. We knew each other!!! Right there.
Thank you for sharing that.
Greyson
03-26-2010, 02:35 PM
Did I ever just know? No. I know, call me Mister Romantic. When I think I may even be close to the "know" I pause, think about it, see how things go.
Yes, I have fallen in love and even though things do not always unfold as I had hoped, this does not take away from the fact that "Yes" I can, I did and do love. I have found it is possible to love again.
AtLast
03-26-2010, 02:43 PM
I know I believe in what is possible... and that I know the real thing when it has happened. And that taking one's time is how to nourish what is possible.... Rushing in... well, that is for fools! Best to choose well and grow...
WickedFemme
03-26-2010, 03:31 PM
I have been in love twice before this current one...
When we met the first time I felt an instant attraction, we chatted a little socially but the timing was not appropriate and I remember thinking that hys energy was just amazing and calming, but I let it go instantly and went on with myself. We met again a couple of months later and felt acquainted enough to hug each other in 'hello'...the energy that passed between us in that instant was the most amazing sensation I have ever felt... the evening went on but once again not an appropriate time for flirting or showing of any kind of interest (it just wasn't the right place). Not long after that, I felt an urge to contact hym to express my gratitude for hys kindness towards me under some unusual circumstances and let it go. Surprisingly, hy responded back and we began e-mailing back and forth, etc.. met again in much better circumstances and have been seeing each other ever since.
I just knew from the first moment and it was further reinforced by the 'hug' and it has continued to grow since then. I am in love and believe this is the 'one' and am grateful that everything is 'mutual'... 'everything'.
I cherish each moment we have together as if it is our last. It is truly the most selfless love I have ever experienced in my life. I don't feel any negative feelings, I don't have any negative thoughts. I let go spiritually in every moment we share and the more I let go the closer we become. I don't know how to articulate the experience at all... it just 'is'
Mrs. Strutt
03-26-2010, 03:34 PM
Another vote for yes, yes and yes.
19 days after our first date, I said, "Yes" to another question. 12-1/2 years later, I still feel like the luckiest woman in the world :love1:
julieisafemme
03-26-2010, 06:35 PM
Did I ever just know? No. I know, call me Mister Romantic. When I think I may even be close to the "know" I pause, think about it, see how things go.
Yes, I have fallen in love and even though things do not always unfold as I had hoped, this does not take away from the fact that "Yes" I can, I did and do love. I have found it is possible to love again.
Ah well i am romantic. i knew when i asked You what You wanted to do when You retire and You said "Save the world". :sparklyheart:
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
I was 16 and then it happened again later in life when someone took me by storm. I really believed that person was my life mate—the one who would kiss me goodbye for the last time. It wasn't the case which is something I never got over—as such I'm not sure I will ever open up to anyone again. As much as I would like to, I just can't muster trust.
GentleAndro
03-27-2010, 04:34 PM
Yup. And I told her (2 years later) but bad timing, lack of mutual feeling or just plain old fear of her feelings on her part ... it didn't work out. Course, never say never ... but move move movin on. At least I recognized it and went for it. :)
Venus007
03-27-2010, 06:15 PM
For me, personally, when I get that leaping toward feeling in my chest, that whacked upside the head by cupid's cute little ass feeling, I have learned to RUN not walk away, it is a sure sign that their broken parts will line up with my broken parts and our gears and cogs of dysfunction will make a machine of mass destruction called a bad relationship.
The kinda love that works for me, that bodes well for a relationship and healthy loving long term interaction is a peacefulness, an ease of relating, a spark of desire and a bit of admiration tossed in for good measure.
For those who have unblemished hearts or souls (or whatever you want to call it), my congratulations to your swept away feelings, I am a little envious.
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
John Shaft
03-27-2010, 06:37 PM
Usually I can tell when I pick one up. If I tap it just right it has a distinct sound and is ready. Sometimes you can't tell by looks alone, but sometimes there is that special sheen as well.
Also the smell. Pleasant, sweet. I am an excellent produce shopper.
nowandthen
05-18-2010, 11:28 AM
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?
I have had this experience, it was wonderful to swim around in.
Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Yes, both my Heart and breath were taken at our first real time meeting. My mind had been taken in conversation online and phone calls prior to our first meeting.
Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
Yes, and then followed it up by action and reassurance. Timing is the unknown factor that can change the outcome, but a life not lived or a love not risked is no life I want....
Starbuck
01-15-2011, 11:22 PM
I have been in love twice before this current one...
I just knew from the first moment and it was further reinforced by the 'hug' and it has continued to grow since then. I am in love and believe this is the 'one' and am grateful that everything is 'mutual'... 'everything'.
I cherish each moment we have together as if it is our last. It is truly the most selfless love I have ever experienced in my life. I don't feel any negative feelings, I don't have any negative thoughts. I let go spiritually in every moment we share and the more I let go the closer we become. I don't know how to articulate the experience at all... it just 'is'
Talk about reading my journal! I too cherish each moment I have with D. as if it is my last, thus making all my acts of love toward her my absolute pleasure.
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