Did you ever just know?

[Sachita]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

[Strappie]

I guess my "just know" feeler is a bit off.. I'm still single.

[Andrew, Jr.]

This is funny you brought this up. It isn't about love or anything of that nature. It is about my late sister, JoAnn.

When we were at NIH, there was a young girl who was participating in a clinical trial for Melanoma (same one as my sister). We all just "knew" instinctively that she would be ok.

Sure enough, after she went thru chemo and the stem cell treatment, all of her results came back clean. Her 6 mo. checkup - clean. Her 1 year checkup - clean. She was in remission, and pretty much cancer free.

Call it instinct or deja vu. You just know it.

[Rockinonahigh]

Yes I have,but she will never know about it.
Rockin

[Soon]

...I just KNEW!

(and that took many years of not knowing and/or not settling)

:cheer:

[Diva]

Yes.
Yes.
And yes.

A beautiful and tragic torture.

[Just_G]

I have met a few that have been "the one for now"....and have not given up on the "one", but I am learning patience and having a lot of fun until then! :thumbsup:

[Corkey]

yes x 3 ...

[Passionaria]

Yes, :vigil: and it is delicious, touching heaven on earth. My heart so moved, that I would travel through time for just one kiss.


YouTube- Looking For Your Face -- Rumi

[Daktari]

yes, on two occasions - one of them I still share a house with after 12yrs and the other is my wonderful girl, Ingress...I am truly blessed to have found 2 such amazing women to share my life with along the way.

[Cyclopea]

Yes. I still remember the first moment my eyes rested upon her. We spent much of our life together.

[christie]

I have often thought of some contemporary christian songs as beautiful love songs of adoration and boundless love...

This one is the epitome of how I felt, and continue to feel every moment of every day, about my perfection, Jess.

YouTube- Born Again (with lyrics)

[Random]

Yes...

What Diva said...

[Jess]

That was beautiful baby!! It's wayyyyy too early to be all mushy and leaky eyed.

I love you so much! Knew it fifteen minutes before I felt forever

[NJFemmie]

Yes, on all three.

[Softly]

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?
Yes, it's happen that way with my current. when I first saw saw her it wasn't like explosives or anything...we were meeting as friends...but we also kissed that same night before we parted ways and my stomach did flips and I felt like I was going to be sick LOL in a GOOD WAY when I got into my car. :flowers: ever since then her mouth makes my heart explode.
:sparklyheart:



Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?



I knew I was in love with certain people a couple times and I recall the feelings...
1. the first time he kissed me, he grabbed my hand and looked me into the eyes and we both looked like we were going to cry it was really beautiful.

2. the first time we made love and I felt my body react like it hadn't before and I really thought this was the one and it would be wonderful and stuff.

and then my current lover, who as I said above, still after almost a year makes my heart thump thump and my body tingle with a slightest touch. xo

[Jess]

When home became her instead of a place...

YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home

[Sachita]

wow thank you all. Sometimes its scary, I'm sure but the most amazing thing is how peaceful I feel. In the past I always would go back and forth, unsure, battling with myself and others. I always had doubts and always always figured time would change this... I should give it time, a chance to grow. It just wasn't complete or elating.

I am spellbound. Literally captured and have not doubted or questioned my motives at all. It is the most amazing thing. I feel peaceful, safe, excited and feel like I'm dreaming. This has never happened to me before.

So again, thank you. I know I'm crazy. We both know we're crazy but we're gonna be slap ass crazy together and have an incredible life. Never have I been more certain of anything.

[Softly]

:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

When home became her instead of a place...

YouTube- The Notebook - Feels Like Home (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjky7v7JIow)

[christie]

:bunchflowers: :thumbsup:
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

This is why i love hym so.

[Sapph]

For me.. my "one" is standing by myside. From the moment I first talked to her I knew she was different, something I couldnt let go. I remember telling my friends (and her) that I was going to marry her on the very first day I met her. I knew it wasn't going to be easy, and I knew we were going to fight (and sometimes we do), but we don't give up and throw in the towel. I'm her ass, and shes my pain in the ass, but I wouldnt have it any other way.

YouTube- Garth Brooks-She's Every Woman(Performed by Chris Tincher)

[Kenna]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...

But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/08-21-08_1759.jpg?t=1265727791

[Sachita]

...wish I could answer all three...I had thought I did, but it was all a fairy tale dream...

But this was certainly love at first sight:
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/08-21-08_1759.jpg?t=1265727791

how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

[christie]

how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:

[Sachita]

I wonder if the make the HoverRounds in an all terrain? :goodscore:


lol- we can still hop on a gator! but seriously when we get to that point the farm is going and we'll get a beach house in costa rica with a ramp! lol

[Blade]

Yes to all three, but never love at first sight.

I realize my picker is broken or defective or something. So now when I feel all of these things at once I back up and regroup and start looking for what is really wrong with a relationship if there is a YES to these in the early stages.

Not saying it doesn't happen for others just saying that I've realized when it happens with me, usually it doesn't turn out to be real after all. Like red flag city. Thanks for the lesson. One of many in life I'm sure.

[BullDog]

No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.

Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.

[The_Lady_Snow]

Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...

[Jess]

Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...


Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.

(f)(f)(f)

[The_Lady_Snow]

Is that like "mulitples" ? heh.. Love is love, no matter in what form or how often, slow or quickly it descends upon us. We are truly blessed to have it visit as often as possible for as long as it chooses to stay.

(f)(f)(f)

The kids were born at different times....

My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...

heh:smileywhip:

[Jess]

The kids were born at different times....

My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet...

heh:smileywhip:


LMAO.. awesome!

[suebee]

We met on the dash site and flirted for a couple of months. On Christmas day we were chatting online and she mentioned a GLBT dance that was going to take place a couple of days later. So I went. We'd never even talked on the phone, but I knew I wanted to meet her. When the day came I got into the car to make the two hour trip to see her. The weather was NOT good. In fact, it was our first real snowstorm of the season. I didn't answer my cell phone the whole way there, because I was afraid she was going to call and tell me not to come because of the road conditions. When I got there she was waiting outside for me. I got out of the car and walked over to her, and she just held me for the longest time while I trembled, with the snow falling down around us. I knew right then.

[Sachita]

No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.

Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.

I agree but that thick and thin is so much better when you're connected. I don't think its infatuation. I know what that feels like and even when I had that there were doubts and concerns. When you meet the one there is a comfort, peacefulness and balance you just know everything is going to be ok. It also takes faith.

A friend of mine told me the story of her meeting her hubby. She also said that the highs were intense and the lows just as intense. Love is fueled with fire. Sometimes a warm glow, sometimes a raging inferno and then periods of smoldering.

If I didnt feel a deep friendship then it would be infatuation.

[always2late]

This is not a story about me...but its true.

My brother met his wife when he was 16...on a blind date. That night he came home and told us he'd met the girl he was going to marry. Of course, none of us believed him and I, being the mature, all-knowing 19 year old that I was, laughed at him. I told him he was crazy.

Over 20 years later..they are still together. They both just knew. :)

[Sachita]

Only two more days!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so excited. I know, in my heart that everything will be fine.

Thank you for your stories. They give me so much faith.

[Kenna]

how cute is that? omg I'm in love too!

never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!

Thank you very much for your encouraging and sweet response. Your love story, passion and positive attitude really helps on my worst days.

LOL, Willy steals everyone's heart with those big "gotta love me" eyes! Biggest Love Bug on the East Coast... but now I've fallen head over heals for Love Bug #2... Tashi... my new "belly bump" (she'll have to fight Willy for his spot on my belly...)
http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/Tashifirstnighthome.jpg?t=1265849472 http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz72/kjs11/TashiandWilly2nddayhome.jpg?t=1265849541

[Soft*Silver]

I had always believed in love at first sight, but waivered on believing in soul mates. I felt that there always was more than one person in our lives we could fall in love with so the need for a soul mate was moot. However, one day I met, whom i will call, My Samarai. From the moment she pulled into the driveway, before she came out of her car, all of my energies began to swirl and I felt light headed and seasick. She had come to look at a horse I was buying. She felt it too...we talked later and she confirmed that the mixing of our presences up close had indeed rocked her energies. We became friends and when together, people around us would stop and stare, or be drawn very closely in. Our friends remarked that the energy in the room changed when we were together. Eventually we became a couple, even tho she was straight. Or she had always believed she was straight. Unfortunately she could not come to terms with being a lesbian. We departed...but years later, I met her brother...not her brother in this life, but in the life we all once shared....but thats a different story...

[Random]

Yes...

Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...

Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?

It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..

sigh... remembering....

[The_Lady_Snow]

Isn't it funny how it's different for everyone?

It took me two days to fall in love with my son... I was so scared and hadn't a CLUE what I was going to do with this baby... Then this click came... and he was my baby.. not just a baby..

sigh... remembering....

I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..

[Sachita]

I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..

how fucking profound these words and you can read it so many ways.

I have been in love 3 times. I am 51 and my first love was in my 20s. It was crazy and out of control. My second broke my heart. I learned from both of these and even the ships passing in the night but this is so very different. There is love fueled by passion and we learn more about ourselves. Then there is a point where youre all grown up and love becomes a totality of your being. Could it be another lesson? Of course but the journey is always one that brings you deeper into loving yourself through the expression of another.

I have waited all my life to feel like this. Its not just a ship passing or a flight of fancy but my very best friend coming to sweep me off my feet. None of my lovers were really friends until now. No matter the transition, the destiny or final result, I know it was meant to be.

[luciddreamer]

Do I believe in love at first sight...soul mates..Yes I do...
I can honestly say ..this has happened more then once with past partners..not that I have had many...lol. The first meeting of each other...the first touch ...the first kiss...the amazing chemistry....the longing of your next seeing of each other...then....the ultimate...the utter explosion of passion..animal lust..if you may..the uniting of two souls..and never feeling and being able to explain what you both have felt...
Will you ever feel this way again..yes....but on entirely different levels...
Enjoy each and every moment of love and passion...it is never ending...

[apretty]

yes, i know a lot, and often.

:smladybug: <3's :tiger:

[Lynn]

I've "just known" a few times. Most of the time, it turned out I was wrong. I think we can connect with people on many levels, and it can be exhilarating. If there's such a thing as knowing someone from a prior life, that would be really intoxicating, too. But, who says that this means that the person would make a good partner? I think it's easy to confuse attraction, lust, or chemistry with true love. In my opinion, none of those is necessarily an indicator of a good long-term relationship.

I was very attracted to someone at our first contact, which was on line. We both expressed that it felt like we were "soulmates." I was over the moon. It turned out to be the darkest, most toxic relationship I ever had. I'm willing to believe that we are connected in some psychological or maybe even some psychic way. But, "psychotic" would more aptly describe it.

In my present relationship, we "just knew." But then, we lived the ups and downs of the relationship. It's great to connect with someone from the outset, and really feel that deep connection. But, in my opinon, you have to keep creating the love, romance, and respect in the relationship for it to continue to be the one you envisioned.

[Julien]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?


Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?


Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

1. Yes, although we'd been talking for a while without first meeting each other in person. I'd never felt so confident and content in all my life.


2. Yes I have. It is a incredible experience. What's better is she felt it too.

3. Again this is a yes. And what's cool it is all for the same person.

[leatherfaery]

yes yes yes yes yes ! :cheer:

[Sachita]

1. Yes, although we'd been talking for a while without first meeting each other in person. I'd never felt so confident and content in all my life.


2. Yes I have. It is a incredible experience. What's better is she felt it too.

3. Again this is a yes. And what's cool it is all for the same person.

read lynn's post.

sometimes its dead on and then sometimes its another one of life's lessons. its all a journey- the good and the bad

[Luckydwg07]

Those butterflies in the pit of my stomach were great! I miss that feeling... I want it again!
Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

[Slave to the Buffet]

oh yes and still do

[julieisafemme]

I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..


Oh! Thank you. This so resonates with my Mama heart. It was the same with me when my girl was born. She lay on my chest and looked right at me with these huge eyes. Skin to skin and eyes to eyes. It is one of my most cherished internal snapshots. We knew each other!!! Right there.

Thank you for sharing that.

[Greyson]

Did I ever just know? No. I know, call me Mister Romantic. When I think I may even be close to the "know" I pause, think about it, see how things go.

Yes, I have fallen in love and even though things do not always unfold as I had hoped, this does not take away from the fact that "Yes" I can, I did and do love. I have found it is possible to love again.

[AtLast]

I know I believe in what is possible... and that I know the real thing when it has happened. And that taking one's time is how to nourish what is possible.... Rushing in... well, that is for fools! Best to choose well and grow...

[WickedFemme]

I have been in love twice before this current one...

When we met the first time I felt an instant attraction, we chatted a little socially but the timing was not appropriate and I remember thinking that hys energy was just amazing and calming, but I let it go instantly and went on with myself. We met again a couple of months later and felt acquainted enough to hug each other in 'hello'...the energy that passed between us in that instant was the most amazing sensation I have ever felt... the evening went on but once again not an appropriate time for flirting or showing of any kind of interest (it just wasn't the right place). Not long after that, I felt an urge to contact hym to express my gratitude for hys kindness towards me under some unusual circumstances and let it go. Surprisingly, hy responded back and we began e-mailing back and forth, etc.. met again in much better circumstances and have been seeing each other ever since.

I just knew from the first moment and it was further reinforced by the 'hug' and it has continued to grow since then. I am in love and believe this is the 'one' and am grateful that everything is 'mutual'... 'everything'.
I cherish each moment we have together as if it is our last. It is truly the most selfless love I have ever experienced in my life. I don't feel any negative feelings, I don't have any negative thoughts. I let go spiritually in every moment we share and the more I let go the closer we become. I don't know how to articulate the experience at all... it just 'is'

[Mrs. Strutt]

Another vote for yes, yes and yes.

19 days after our first date, I said, "Yes" to another question. 12-1/2 years later, I still feel like the luckiest woman in the world :love1:

[julieisafemme]

Did I ever just know? No. I know, call me Mister Romantic. When I think I may even be close to the "know" I pause, think about it, see how things go.

Yes, I have fallen in love and even though things do not always unfold as I had hoped, this does not take away from the fact that "Yes" I can, I did and do love. I have found it is possible to love again.

Ah well i am romantic. i knew when i asked You what You wanted to do when You retire and You said "Save the world". :sparklyheart:

[Jet]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

I was 16 and then it happened again later in life when someone took me by storm. I really believed that person was my life mate—the one who would kiss me goodbye for the last time. It wasn't the case which is something I never got over—as such I'm not sure I will ever open up to anyone again. As much as I would like to, I just can't muster trust.

[GentleAndro]

Yup. And I told her (2 years later) but bad timing, lack of mutual feeling or just plain old fear of her feelings on her part ... it didn't work out. Course, never say never ... but move move movin on. At least I recognized it and went for it. :)

[Venus007]

For me, personally, when I get that leaping toward feeling in my chest, that whacked upside the head by cupid's cute little ass feeling, I have learned to RUN not walk away, it is a sure sign that their broken parts will line up with my broken parts and our gears and cogs of dysfunction will make a machine of mass destruction called a bad relationship.

The kinda love that works for me, that bodes well for a relationship and healthy loving long term interaction is a peacefulness, an ease of relating, a spark of desire and a bit of admiration tossed in for good measure.

For those who have unblemished hearts or souls (or whatever you want to call it), my congratulations to your swept away feelings, I am a little envious.





Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

[Queerasfck]

Usually I can tell when I pick one up. If I tap it just right it has a distinct sound and is ready. Sometimes you can't tell by looks alone, but sometimes there is that special sheen as well.
Also the smell. Pleasant, sweet. I am an excellent produce shopper.

[nowandthen]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

I have had this experience, it was wonderful to swim around in.

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Yes, both my Heart and breath were taken at our first real time meeting. My mind had been taken in conversation online and phone calls prior to our first meeting.

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?

Yes, and then followed it up by action and reassurance. Timing is the unknown factor that can change the outcome, but a life not lived or a love not risked is no life I want....

[Starbuck]

I have been in love twice before this current one...

I just knew from the first moment and it was further reinforced by the 'hug' and it has continued to grow since then. I am in love and believe this is the 'one' and am grateful that everything is 'mutual'... 'everything'.
I cherish each moment we have together as if it is our last. It is truly the most selfless love I have ever experienced in my life. I don't feel any negative feelings, I don't have any negative thoughts. I let go spiritually in every moment we share and the more I let go the closer we become. I don't know how to articulate the experience at all... it just 'is'

Talk about reading my journal! I too cherish each moment I have with D. as if it is my last, thus making all my acts of love toward her my absolute pleasure.

[StrongButch]

We have been talking for years. I enjoyed all of our conversations. I have not been in love in years. I can honestly say ive only been in love once. I have loved but it wasnt deeply. I walked away from them. I am ready now to take her hand and give her my heart. I knew and know now shes the grl for me.

[Breezy]

I've been there, yes. I've been there on my end and been told no from the other they aren't ready. It's all good. I believe in putting it out there and seeing what lands and what sticks.

[~ocean]

We have been talking for years. I enjoyed all of our conversations. I have not been in love in years. I can honestly say ive only been in love once. I have loved but it wasnt deeply. I walked away from them. I am ready now to take her hand and give her my heart. I knew and know now shes the grl for me.

I've known u since u were Harley to me , funny sarcastic humor , a deff. bad boi *winks ** ,full of adventure stories , wich always left me shaking my head ~~ now I intend to take your hand forever more. ~~
Yours Only,
~ ocean

[RockOn]

Yes.
Only once.


Happy Thanksgiving 2012 to all you BF-ers!

[cinnamongrrl]

There were times when I THOUGHT I knew...and a time when I REALLY knew... :)

[Teddybear]

There were times when I THOUGHT I knew...and a time when I REALLY knew... :)

I knew once before but it was short lived cuz if disease. I spent years thinking I would never find that again. Settled for what I THOUGHT was it and tried like hell for it to be.

From our first chat that lasted what 5 whole minutes to me driving up to meet her a week early I KNEW she was different.

The moment she got out of her car I was blown away but the moment we wrapped our arms around each other I KNEW that what I had had years early was something special but THIS exceeded it by ten fold atleast.

My heart finally found its home full of happiness and joy. Things I had never really known till her.

I thank God daily for her and that he keeps the wool over her eyes

[TheMerryFairy]

Yes! I have had those "instant" spark connections several times in my life, but only a few did I ever think more would come to be. Occasionally I find myself half hoping I am overthinking it so I don't fall further and the other half is wonder if the feeling is mututal. Most of my relationships have developed through long conversations and lots of opportunities to interact through shared interests.

[~ocean]

I know what I know ~ the rest is a mystery ~:)

[oksoftbutch]

I felt that one time in my life....I was at a night club that had two stories to it. I was about to climb the steps to leave at the end of the night. I looked up and saw her just as she saw me. our eyes locked. My heart was captured. We had a wonderful month together. Unfortunately she had life to deal with as I did....Our paths crossed one more time but I had just sobered up and was trying to live an honest life. I was with someone and had to tell her. We parted that day and never met again. Sigh.....

[Soft*Silver]

Knowing doesnt make it happen. There are matters that keep people apart, even tho they Know.

in saying that, there have been several moments/people in my life when I KNEW we would become or were already connected.

My Samarai was the strongest. Before she stepped out of the car, before I even laid eyes on her, my face was literally turned to face her coming, made to open my third eye, felt my heart chakra break open its stitches, and when she came close up to me, the air between us waved, the significance of our meeting was palpable and generations of lives tilt awhirled around us making THIS life so significant/insignificant in the score of where we had already trodden...

[dixie]

I too have had those instant sparks, but it's very, very rare. In all honesty, I have had that happen three times in my life. Two of which were years ago and one was more recently. It's very rare for me to feel any kind of instant connection to a person on so many levels, right from the beginning. That doesn't mean I believe or call it love at first sight. I also don't think of it as love. It is just an uber deep connection that I feel in my soul. My heart may flutter but it is my soul that speaks. Sadly, it's even more rare when this is a shared connection. Personally, I believe that missed connections are because some people do not "feel" or "see" with their whole being (whether they realize it or not). One way or another, it is a powerful feeling....which can also cause immense pain.

[Rivkeh]

...yes, that feeling has only happened once for me.

[JinxieB]

yes... we never so much as kissed or even held hands, but just her hand brushing up against my arm while reaching for the same thing or vice versa was enough to make us both stop in our tracks.......it was unspoken between both of us, but was just known...if that makes sense...oh how I wished I would have just kissed her, just grabbed her and kissed her and whispered to her how I really felt...just so that she would Know without question......

Gosh...Regrets have a way of trying to eat you alive

[KCBUTCH]

I can say YES, although it must have been knowing for whatever the time we were meant to be- because we aren't anymore.
But I would still say YES

[Bella~Vita]

Yes, very much so... only once... and we are not together anymore.... but I will never forget what we once had ...amazing .... but ' bitter sweet' .

[~ocean]

Yes, very much so... only once... and we are not together anymore.... but I will never forget what we once had ...amazing .... but ' bitter sweet' .

ohhhhhh ~bella, @bitter sweet ~ always lingers ~ lol

[Sweet Bliss]

Oh ........ for about 4 years now. Never met in person. Just a photograph. Long talks on the phone. After all this time, now I'm having dreams about him and I together. Totally ridiculous. I have no idea what my problem is regarding this person. Must be a joke from the Universe.

I was jack lighted like a deer in headlights when I first saw his photo. He was jack lighted like a bull in rut when he saw mine.... and yet... nothing, nada, zilch, nunca, zero.

I cut my ties to him. Now the dreams have started. fuckmebuffy. It's worse than ever now.

The heart wants what the heart wants.

i'm so screwed :seeingstars:

[Glenn]

Yes. Once Upon A Time over thirty-five years ago, when my gaze first fell upon my wife-to-be of thirty-five years, at the local lesbian community center. We were the only two in there when the director introduced us. I can't explain it othen then, it was like we were in star filter, that was surrounding us, alone, and I can still see the starry look in her eyes. There was an instant connection.Then, she asked me if I'd like to go for a walk...

[JustBeingMe]

Yes I did know once upon a time about 11yrs ago. She is still heavy in my heart. She probably always will be. For some reason, the timing just wasn't right. We're still close friends, we still talk almost daily just to keep in touch. Does her gf like it, nope, she feels threatened by me and I've never once asked her to step outside her relationship. I respect her enough not to. Would old sparks fly again if she did? I'm lalmost positive they would.
But as I said earlier, I won't ask her to be tempted to do that and be dishonest in her relationship, I won't ask her to cheat with me, it's just plain not right to do. I wouldn't disrespect her like that , or her partner.
We're just friends now and that's how it's going to be.

[Amante]

Have you ever just met someone and just knew they were the one?

Has you heart ever physically moved in your chest when you talked to them, felt them inside of you?

Have you ever fell madly, deeply in love at first sight or even more profound before you ever met.. just knowing it was everything you ever wanted?
Had I been asked this question a year ago, I would have insisted that love at first sight is simply not possible, and I would have even more derisively insisted that it was not possible to know that someone was The One before you'd even met in person.

Then I met my sweetheart. At 54, completely to my surprise, I knew that she was The One before we even met, and it was confirmed the moment I saw her. At at 63, completely to her surprise, she experienced the same thing. Before we found each other, we were both cynically insistent that this kind of thing doesn't really exist. Now we know better.

Never say never.

[wahya]

I believe that when that " one" comes into you're life. You both have no say so in it. I believe in the twin flames totally.

[~ocean]

see last post I made ~ still ~

[homoe]

BUMP BUMP BUMP

[anotherbutch]

Yes, and it's the most powerful, overwelming feeling there is. She was the love of my life... still is. I've come to the realization that she was my one true soul mate and perhaps the only woman I've ever really given my heart to 100%. She will forever be in my heart. RIP Babygirl

[Orema]

Yes. I knew and she knew. Immediately. We were both attached at the time. We left our mates and made a life together for 5 years. It seemed that everyone was against it for one reason or another. We left the state we lived in and it was the best thing we could have done.

Something weird ... We were certain we knew each other from childhood or school or church, but we could never nail it down. There was always a feeling of having known each other at a different time.

I've been settling for less ever since.

No more.

[JDeere]

No I have not experienced this yet!

[BullDog]

No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.

Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.

I stand by what I said in 2010. :|

[MsTinkerbelly]

"The first time ever I saw your face......."

Still true today.

[Tuff Stuff]

No, I never in a million years thought she be the one.Ask her and she'd probably say the same about me.So you see,we're a match.lol