Unwritten Rules II

[kittygrrl]

......of dating..what do you want to see and what do you hopefully not see in the people you date or see? ....i find my tastes and must haves have changed so much as time goes by...what are your 'nevers' or what makes you hopeful or happy? and i wish there was another way of getting to know someone..It's not hard, on a first date or even the tenth, to make the worse impression...how do you undue it? Can you change their minds or do you have to live with your mistakes??

We all have unwritten rules, please share yours

[kittygrrl]

well...my ideal loves rain and autumn..we share this favorite

[kittygrrl]

if they say they are going to do something - note if they follow through


having coffee(scorching hot)

[kittygrrl]

does you like their voice?..do they make you blush?

[kittygrrl]

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[kittygrrl]

be

creative, passionate in what you do

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[kittygrrl]

Interesting bed chem

[kittygrrl]

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere


i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

[kittygrrl]

3-6-9 rule
3mos 'honeymoon'
6mos 'facing conflicts, euphoria mellows'
9mos deciding if this is going anywhere


i guess i'm lucky i've usually know @ 3mos is that normal?..no idea

but posting today is crazy!

[Stone-Butch]

Cellphones get turned off before dinner is served unless an emergency, then off till the end of dinner.

[kittygrrl]

s7Li-zujJ80manners matter....:bouquet:

[Stone-Butch]

If you have feelings for someone tell it like it is. Leading a person on then off then on again is a terrible game to play with someones life.

[kittygrrl]

be kind.........:tea:

[kittygrrl]

loves the cello..............

[kittygrrl]

a Relish forL_pd7R_LRz4passionate living

[kittygrrl]

don't make excuses, own it:tea:

[kittygrrl]

no question..
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grrl

[Stone-Butch]

If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

[kittygrrl]

If you meet and think you would like to get involved, be honest. Getting to know each other can avoid dissapointment later on. If you like something say so. If you don't care for certain things, say so. If you are asked about something answer with the truth. I would make it fair up front while we messaged that I do not wish to get involved with a woman who drinks too much and often. I do not want to be with a smoker or illegal drug user. I do not like facial tattoos. I myself do not drink or smoke or take other than prescribed drugs. I do not like hearing unnecessary vulgar talk.
I do like honesty and kindness and respect from her and myself. I like to talk things over so the result of talk makes the situation satisfactory to both parties. I would like to have open communication for both parties as it makes life much more enjoyable. I like if things are not up to par she can say so openly as can I .

Interesting...so more a transactional relationship? inotherwords, you(the grrl) needs to bring something/s to the table that interests you?

[Stone-Butch]

That would definitely help.

[kittygrrl]

That would definitely help.

ah...seems reasonable...i crave connection

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even if it hurts

[kittygrrl]

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let it feel divine

[Stone-Butch]

When you find yourself becoming uncomforatable in a situation step back and think. It is easy to fall when it is something you want but it could be like jumping back in the fire, so, stay guarded and try to keep guarded moments close. How many times need repetition when you finally have to make a stand and wait to see how things go as opposed to feeling bitter again. What we want may not be what is best for us.

[Stone-Butch]

Meet a lot but pick just one.

[kittygrrl]

being right..but not having to prove it

[Stone-Butch]

If you have invited her to come to you and she doesn't, move on.

[kittygrrl]

well groomed

[kittygrrl]

a night owl

[kittygrrl]

quiet rainy nights

[kittygrrl]

cherished ...

[kittygrrl]

'protect' your girl (if i have to explain, you shouldn't be dating anybody until you figure out what that means)