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Do chores together! It's fun!
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Always sleep in the same bed.
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Compliment your partner! Say the things you said in the days when you were in a lustmance!
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For the love that all that is holy, above all else, Make a Good Choice!! Do not excuse bad behavior early in the relationship and think...."If I just love them enough they will change." It's not going to happen, in fact, it almost always gets worse. So trust your gut and believe that you deserve "xyz", whatever that is for you. Remember, we teach people how to treat us. /rant
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accept the fact that you're going to argue
make an agreement that if the argument gets too passionate - you'll drop it so that both of you can calm down. make an agreement that the disagreement will be readdressed when both are in a better head space. understand that you both need to have your own life, you don't have to share every facet of your lives with each other. understand that there will be times where it will be much easier to walk away from each other than to stay and work it out - make an agreement that barring "deal breakers" you'll both strive as hard as possible to work it out. Remember that people tend to make serious changes in their lives every 7 years or so - as a couple you have to learn to grow together. Don't think that the person you're with today will be the same person 10 years from now - or vice versa. We all change. When it comes to arguing - ask yourself "Is this the beach I want to die on" Chances are - it's not. When you argue - never call each other names. It will destroy your relationship. Plain and simple. There's not a single successful healthy long term relationship that contains name calling when arguing. Understand that your sex life will at times not be a significant part of your life - for various reasons. Also understand that even if your partner doesn't have a high sex drive it doesn't mean that you can't masturbate - or that they wouldn't enjoy watching you do such.. who knows what it may spark ;) teasing is one thing - picking on a sensitive subject is another thing. Find out the difference for your partner. you're going to at some point (probably multiple times during the course of the relationship) take each other for granted - it's a natural human condition. Talk to your partner if you feel that is happening. Learn how to take constructive criticism. Buy your partner small knickknack gifts randomly just for the hell of it. It lets them know you're thinking about them. You and your partner should have this room in your relationship that no one else can go to. This is a figurative room - a room where you and he/she share each others secrets - a room where you talk to each other more than and about more subjects than you talk to anyone else. If you find yourself building a room with someone else - and starting to tell that person more than you tell your partner - you're asking for trouble. Serious trouble. |
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I still have a hard time forgiving myself for wasting so many years living for that big change and not trusting my own gut and common sense! If someone cheats on you once: They Will Do It Again!!! |
if she makes a great pecan pie,
tell her that you want one for supper tonight!! |
take time to go fishing even bait her hook I think it is all the little things kind of like a glue that binds
when I look at her I don't think well I wish she would change I look and see the face that I want to be the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning.. I would not change a thing |
Be a sweet, kind lover.
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never forget the butterflies you first felt when you met them... :-)
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Take responsibility for your own feelings.
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Don't let the pets sneak into the bedroom and wake him up when his alarm is going off at 5am...
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Listen
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DON'T GIVE UP ON SOMEONE YOU CAN'T GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT.
HOLD HER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE AND JUST BE. |
Do what works for you and your partner, don't let others tell you how your relationship Should be.
Laugh together everyday at all the crazy stuff you encounter Share everything~ feelings, the bed, the covers (hint hint honey!), even your ice cream cone Don't be afraid, don't expect to be hurt, don't keep your guard up. They are not your past, and they shouldn't have to pay for what the past has done to you Communicate!!! Love with all you have, and accept the love you are given~ he has shown me what it is truly like to be LOVED and I am completely in love with him bc of it |
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