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Electrocell 11-03-2011 02:17 AM

Bumping this thread

smouldering 11-03-2011 05:51 AM

Good morning to all :) I hope everyone is having a good Thursday morning so far, this whole thread has made me smile, I am a full figured curvy girl and although i try to be confident, i have those days where i just feel unattractive, sure i get compliments about being cute, beautiful etc.. and i appreciate that more then you know, but sometimes it is hard to ignore those that say.. you have a pretty face.. BUT or you would be so beautiful if you would lose weight ugh.. i hate that lol..
The older i get the more i've adapted the attitude of if you don't like me for me, curves and all then i have no time for you :) .. i am pretty awesome once you get to know me *grins*

Scorp 11-03-2011 06:30 AM

Hi,

All I know is that I LOVE women of all sizes, especially voluptuous women. Nothing but pure yumminess.

My honey was having some body issues one day moreso than the norm and not feeling too good about herself. Something she's struggled with for a very long time. Honestly, I love her no matter what size she and she's gorgeous inside and out is and this is a fact.

Unfortunately we live in a society who passes judgement on women, especially big beautiful women and it sucks.

Therefore, I would like to share my story with all you beautiful ladies:

I was actually at my massage spa and waiting for my appt. On the table were some books and this one caught my eye because it had a cute cover with a pig on it. It was called "The Pig of Happiness". I started flipping through the pages and while doing so came to the following pages and I found this to be endearing and beautiful in a cute but meaningful way. I took my cell phone and snapped a picture of it and sent it to my honey just to let her know I love her and her body no matter what.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_shgL_8CR1t...0/tree+015.JPG

I think you're all beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid :sunglass:

No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself.

Rockinonahigh 11-03-2011 02:45 PM

Grandpas wisdom
 
My gramps was from old world Italy,he once told grannie even after haveing 8 kids,helping him throughout life no mater what ever sise she was to be happy with her self because she had lived and loved life,to be proud when u look in the morror.

Leigh 11-03-2011 03:15 PM

Just passing through and saying just how much I love big girls ~ this guy will always drool over you :D

LaDivina 11-03-2011 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scorp (Post 453746)
Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid :sunglass:

No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself.

Here's the Pig of Happiness! :flyingpig:

I love you, you crazy bastid. :kissy:

Countyfem 11-03-2011 09:36 PM

I have read thru this post and I have to tell you
You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me.
So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you.

clay 11-03-2011 09:48 PM

Work it, Lady!!! OWN it...WEAR it...WALK it...STRUT it.....give it your all...for YOU are truly captivating...just being YOU!!!
Quote:

Originally Posted by Countyfem (Post 454449)
I have read thru this post and I have to tell you
You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me.
So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you.


Leigh 11-03-2011 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by claybaby
Work it, Lady!!! OWN it...WEAR it...WALK it...STRUT it.....give it your all...for YOU are truly captivating...just being YOU!!!


My buddy here Clay said it perfectly and I second that motion as well :D

Electrocell 11-04-2011 03:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smouldering (Post 453732)
Good morning to all :) I hope everyone is having a good Thursday morning so far, this whole thread has made me smile, I am a full figured curvy girl and although i try to be confident, i have those days where i just feel unattractive, sure i get compliments about being cute, beautiful etc.. and i appreciate that more then you know, but sometimes it is hard to ignore those that say.. you have a pretty face.. BUT or you would be so beautiful if you would lose weight ugh.. i hate that lol..
The older i get the more i've adapted the attitude of if you don't like me for me, curves and all then i have no time for you :) .. i am pretty awesome once you get to know me *grins*

Good for you.

msW8ing 11-04-2011 03:17 AM

Popping to say Happy Friday to one and A/all..yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!

chris1life 05-14-2013 10:49 PM

Its been a while it seems sense anything has been posted on here. So here goes. I love my body I'm a sexy chunky delicious woman. It took a long time to be comfortable with my wife telling me how hot I Am but With some kind words and support. I finally started seeing myself the way she does. Now I cant fit into a size 10 but when I look in the mirror I see ALL of my sexiness. I'm strong, healthy and fat. So to all of you big beautiful women out there that fell into this thread Because u feel bad about yourself. I say look in the mirror and LOVE those curves because you are freaking HOT!

Licious 08-17-2013 09:43 PM

Hi All,

I saw this thread, and was happy about it. I have tended to be somewhat chunky all my life, but not usually very large, and a change in medication piled on a lot of pounds last year. I may or may not lose it at some point, but it is going to be that way for a while due to health reasons.

Seemed at first, I had a hard time accepting myself or feeling pretty or sexy. I had a hard time believing I was attractive, in the dating sense.

Now that seems so odd... because I have dated very chunky butches and found them very handsome, I have seen many plump femmes and thought they were gorgeous and sexy. But for myself, I don't know... there was just a judgement.

I appreciate these posts so much.

So I am subscribing and today I posted, too! :bow:

Gayandgray 07-17-2017 07:31 PM

BUMP!!!!!!

Dr_Finn 03-29-2018 06:23 AM

I want to express appreciation for this thread; I have enjoyed reading it!

I’m not sure if the title “Big Girl Love” is meant to focus on femmes, and I say hurray for all of the positive thoughts here for fat femmes. I also want to say that I love fat butches too. Fat butches are substantial, we take up space, we are solid. Fat butches are handsome, and I feel blessed to be married to one, and to be one.

Mel C. 03-29-2018 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr_Finn (Post 1203428)
I want to express appreciation for this thread; I have enjoyed reading it!

I’m not sure if the title “Big Girl Love” is meant to focus on femmes, and I say hurray for all of the positive thoughts here for fat femmes. I also want to say that I love fat butches too. Fat butches are substantial, we take up space, we are solid. Fat butches are handsome, and I feel blessed to be married to one, and to be one.

Try this thread!


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