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Cancer's week ahead...........

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WEEK OF OCT 21, 2019: You clear a lot of space out of your day on Monday or Tuesday just to make a good impression on you-know-who. If you know how to make dynamite apple pie from scratch, you might take the day off work just so you have enough time to have it ready by nightfall...:blink: (Making an apple pie from scratch takes hours -- but it's so outrageously delicious!)

Wednesday and Thursday are for taking care of details (whatever fell through the cracks while you were making a pie Monday and Tuesday) and Friday through Sunday are puttering-around-the-house days..:| (not much romance there).

Cancer's day.........

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OCT 27, 2019: You should feel absolutely free to take big risks and make big blunders. That's life, so do something totally outlandish today. Why not? You only live once, you're charming enough to pull it off and so on.

Taurus for today

NOV 14, 2019: You shop around when you want to find a good bargain, so why aren't you shopping around on your quest for a romantic partner? If you're on the market right now, don't just say 'yes' to the first person who shows interest. Your time is valuable, and your calendar is too full for you to make room for someone who doesn't really excite you. If you are already in a relationship, now is the time to find some quality time—make a date night happen earlier than you've been talking about.

NOV 18, 2019: There is a lot of transition going on in your life right now, and there is a great opportunity for you to get rid of emotions, ideas, and physical goods that you just don't need anymore. The classic saying 'out with the old and in with the new' has never been more applicable for you. Toss out the phone numbers of people you will never call, and delete those emails that remind you of unpleasant memories. Clean the slate and give yourself a blank canvas to work on.

Sick of your usual day-to-day routine? Take a walk on the wild side by doing something totally unlike you. Ask someone new on a date without over-analyzing it. Or go sky-diving if that sounds less risky.

Cancer's Week.........

WEEK OF DEC 2, 2019:

Try not to worry too much about whether or not your sweetheart, date or flirt is really dealing with stuff early this week, because you're the one who needs to make sure the events of your life are happening at the right pace. You're back in the swing of things by Wednesday, and ought to really be in tune with your romantic side, maybe in a new way. Explore the options, if possible. You're going to have to think on your feet this weekend, but that comes naturally to you. There won't be any serious arguments, though.

Cancer's week......

WEEK OF DEC 16, 2019: Watch for a sudden flash of inspiration in the love department on Monday -- and do something about it, right away, without overthinking it. Whatever the initial results are, you can finesse the outcome between Tuesday and Thursday, when you're a smooth, sexy communicator and most excellent at making connections.

Reach out and touch a certain someone, both figuratively and literally! You may not be clicking as well this weekend, but remember that differences make for interesting conversation -- and possibly some added heat...:blush:

Cancer's day.........

DEC 18, 2019: Take the romantic initiative and the stars say you're likely to reap some seriously sweet rewards. Let your instinct guide you about who to approach and how—it's right on target now.

JAN 6, 2020:

It would take a lot of creativity to fit romance into your hectic schedule. But you have to find a way eventually. Otherwise your personality will take a turn for the worse. A little lovin' would do you good...:sunglass:

JAN 10, 2020: Kindness, humor, intelligence. You know what truly makes up the mettle of a person. However, it doesn't hurt if those stellar qualities come in a well-dressed and attractive package. Attraction is electric.

Today's Cancer.........

JAN 17, 2020: Now is the time to make your move, or to get even closer to that one lucky hottie. If you can work a little spontaneous art into the mix, so much the better -- that will definitely seal the deal..:sunglass:

JAN 19, 2020: Don't let a little desperation lead you into a weird situation. Feeling antsy is no reason to date the first person who says what you want to hear. Talk a few times before agreeing to meet. The world's full of scammers, and if you're not on your game, you could be susceptible to fraud...:blink:

Chinese New Year 2020: Rats, luck and why you should avoid medicine, laundry and crying children

Chinese New Year 2020: Rats, luck and why you should avoid medicine, laundry and crying children

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Chinese New Year is fast approaching – and with it comes a host of superstitions that will apparently dictate how the next 12 months will play out for each of us.

Washing clothes, using scissors and sweeping floors are some of the easier omens to sidestep. However, parents might find it difficult to dodge crying children and – on the more extreme end of the scale – women might find it difficult to avoid leaving the house all day.

According to Chinese superstition, doing any of these on January 25th – the day Chinese New Year falls in 2020 – will lead to bad luck for the entire coming year. But it isn’t all doom and gloom: 2020 is the Year of the Rat, an animal that symbolises wealth and the beginning of a new day.

Here is everything you need to know about the annual celebration, as well as recipes to cook for a delicious family feast and why the Year of the Rat will be more lucky for some than others.

When is Chinese New Year?

The annual celebration begins on the new moon that comes between Jan 21 and Feb 20. The Chinese year will start on 25 Jan 2020 and end on 11 Feb 2021, when the Year of the Ox begins.

The new year, also known in China as the Spring Festival, is marked by the lunisolar Chinese calendar; this means the date changes from year to year.

The festivities usually start the day before the new year and continue until the Lantern Festival, the 15th day of the new year.

The Chinese zodiac is divided into 12 blocks (or houses) just like its western counterpart, but with the major difference that each house has a time-length of one year instead of one month.

Each Chinese New Year is characterised by one of 12 animals that appear in the Chinese zodiac – last year was the Year of the Pig.

Which Chinese zodiac sign are you?

Your sign is derived from the year you were born in the Chinese lunar calendar.

Rat: 2020, 2008, 1996, 1984, 1972, 1960

Ox: 2009, 1997, 1985, 1973, 1961

Tiger: 2010, 1998, 1986, 1974, 1962

Rabbit: 2011, 1999, 1987, 1975, 1963

Dragon: 2012, 2000, 1988, 1976, 1964

Snake: 2013, 2001, 1989, 1977, 1965

Horse: 2014, 2002, 1990, 1978, 1966

Sheep: 2015, 2003, 1991, 1979, 1967

Monkey: 2016, 2004, 1992, 1980, 1968

Rooster: 2017, 2005, 1993, 1981, 1969

Dog: 2018, 2006, 1994, 1982, 1970

Pig: 2019, 2007, 1995, 1983, 1971

The years above are a rough guide; bear in mind that if you were born in January or February it may be slightly different as the new year moves between January 21 and February 20.

The years allocated to each animal are in a very specific order. According to an ancient Chinese folk story, the Jade Emperor had called 13 animals to a meeting and announced that the years on the calendar would be named according to the order they arrived in. This led to ‘The Great Race’.

The rat travelled on the back of the ox, leaping from its back to nab first place. The pig stopped for a snack and a nap and arrived last; a cat was also in the race but drowned during the competition, leading to there being only 12 animals in the zodiac.

Who should be on their guard this year?

According to Chinese astrology, the year of your birth sign is believed to be one of the most unlucky years of your life. It is thought that people in their zodiac year offend Tai Sui, the God of Age, and incur his curse.

Famous names who should be wary this year include Jeremy Clarkson (1960) and Idris Elba (1972), as well as the Duke of Sussex, Katy Perry, and Scarlett Johansson (all born in 1984).

Lewis Capaldi (1996) was also born in the Year of the Rat, plus Gary Lineker and Jonathan Ross (both born in 1960).

Lucky Signs for the Rat

Lucky numbers for people born in the Year of the Rat are two and three, and their lucky colours are blue, green and gold. Their lucky flowers are lilies and African violets and their lucky directions are west, northwest and southwest.

The Personality of the Rat

People born in the Year of the Rat are characterised as smart, resourceful and quick-witted. They have great imaginations and make sharp observations, with the ability to take advantage of several opportunities.

While their weak communication skills can sometimes come across as rude, they are kind and sensitive to other people's emotions.

They also enjoy saving their money, but this personality trait can sometimes cause them to waste their money on unnecessary things.

Strengths: Intelligent, optimistic and adaptable

Weaknesses: Stubborn, timid and greedy

Why do the Chinese value rats?

Rats symbolise wealth, intelligence, success and wisdom to the Chinese. In terms of the Yin and Yang theory, they are the yang and signify the beginning of a new day. They also represent the midnight hours and the Earthly Branch Zi.

A person born in the Year of the Rat is thought to be clever, optimistic and favoured by all. In particular, men born in this year are able to adapt to new situations, while women take a caring, organised approach.

As rats tend to have a strong reproductive capacity, the Chinese say they are a sign of virility and married couples have been known to pray to them, in hope of conceiving. In fact, Chinese astrology specialists suggest that 2020, the Year of the Metal Rat, is a good time to give birth as metal symbolises stability and longevity. Those born in the Year of the Metal Rat tend to live a stable life and have the ability turn unlucky events into fortune.

What does your Chinese zodiac sign mean?

In Chinese astrology, the 12 animal zodiac signs each have unique characteristics.

Rat: Intelligence, adaptability, quick-wit, charm, artistry, gregariousness.

Ox: Loyalty, reliability, thoroughness, strength, reasonability, steadiness, determination.

Tiger: Enthusiasm, courage, ambition, leadership, confidence, charisma.

Rabbit: Trustworthiness, empathy, modesty, diplomacy, sincerity, sociability.

Dragon: Luckiness, flexibility, eccentricity, imagination, artistry, spirituality, charisma.

Snake: Philosophical, organised, intelligent, intuitive, elegant, attentive, decisive.

Horse: Adaptable, loyal, courageous, ambitious, intelligent, adventurous, strong.

Sheep: Tasteful, crafty, warm, elegant, charming, intuitive, sensitive, calm.

Monkey: Quick-witted, charming, lucky, adaptable, bright, versatile, lively, smart.

Rooster: Honest, energetic, intelligent, flamboyant, flexible, diverse, confident.

Dog: Loyal, sociable, courageous, diligent, steady, lively, adaptable, smart.

Pig: Honorable, philanthropic, determined, optimistic, sincere, sociable.

Chinese New Year traditions

In preparation for the new year, the Chinese will clean their homes and put up red decorations and lanterns.

The celebrations will then officially kick off with a New Year’s Eve family dinner, with fish and dumplings being served to encourage prosperity.

Shou Sui, which translates as “after the New Year's Eve dinner”, follows the traditional feast, where families stay awake throughout the night and gather for fireworks at midnight to banish evil.

Adults typically give children red packets containing money at Chinese New Year, to help them avoid the evil and wish them good health.

Chinese New Year's Day taboos

There are many superstitions surrounding Chinese New Year. These are to be avoided on the first day of the festival:

Medicine: Taking medicine on the first day of the lunar year means one will get ill for a whole year.

Porridge: It is considered that only poor people have porridge for breakfast – and people don’t want to start the year “poor”.

Laundry: People do not wash clothes on the first and second day because these two days are celebrated as the birthday of Shuishen (水神, the Water God).

Washing hair: Hair must not be washed on the first day of the lunar year. In the Chinese language, hair (发) has the same pronunciation and character as ‘fa’ in facai (发财), which means ‘to become wealthy’. Therefore, it is seen as not a good thing to “wash one’s fortune away” at the beginning of the New Year.

Sharp objects: The use of knives and scissors is to be avoided as any accident is thought to lead to inauspicious things and the depletion of wealth.

Going out: A woman may not leave her house otherwise she will be plagued with bad luck for the entire coming year. A married daughter is not allowed to visit the house of her parents as this is believed to bring bad luck to the parents, causing economic hardship for the family.

The broom: If you sweep on this day then your wealth will be swept away too.

Crying children: The cry of a child is believed to bring bad luck to the family so parents do their best to keep children as happy as possible.

Theft: Having your pocket picked is believed to portend your entire wealth in the coming year being stolen.

Debt: Money should not be lent on New Year’s Day and all debts have to be paid by New Year’s Eve. If someone owes you money, do not go to their home to demand it. Anyone who does so will be unlucky all year.

An empty rice jar: A depleted receptacle may cause grave anxiety as the cessation of cooking during the New Year period is considered to be an ill omen.

Damaged clothes: Wearing threadbare garments can cause more bad luck for the year.

Killing things: Blood is considered an ill omen, which will cause misfortunes such as a knife wound or a bloody disaster.

Monochrome fashion: White or black clothes are barred as these two colours are traditionally associated with mourning.

Giving of certain gifts: Clocks, scissors, and pears all have a bad meaning in Chinese culture.

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Year of the rat.....

Crying children: The cry of a child is believed to bring bad luck

Oh I've always believed this and I avoid them at all costs.......:praying:

JAN 31, 2020: Don't give it all away in one fell swoop. Even if you're convinced you've found "the one," hold back that easily bruised piece of yourself. Just in case something goes wrong, and it always does in the dating world, protect that soft, squishy part of your personality at all costs.

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FEB 2, 2020: Do a little cleaning, both mentally and spiritually. Old baggage is taking up space that rightfully belongs to new items. Old photos and sweaters, memories of old loves that didn't work out, it's time to let it all go....

Cancer's day.....

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APR 21, 2020:

Don't feel bad if you get what seems to be more than your fair share of good luck today -- you know deep down that you totally deserve it. Almost anything could happen, so say yes to anything new.

APR 25, 2020:

Keep in mind that people have very long memories, so invest in making yourself a good one. Helping others today will take you a long way tomorrow. Set your own needs aside for a little while and free up time to prioritize someone else. Keep an open mind and look out for shy folks who don't quite know how to get your attention. You'll have to take the initiative to get them to spill the beans, but the extra effort will pay off.

APR 28, 2020:

Remember the virtues of starting small. A little friendly chitchat can be more revealing than a real date. You've got charm to spare, but the point is to figure out how you feel about this new person....:cheer:

Cancer's week ahead....

WEEK OF MAY 18, 2020: On Monday, you may end up making a real love connection. What you put into action now could be bound for some serious glory. Your romantic challenge midweek is to deal with conflict or differing ideas, whether internally or within a relationship. How you incorporate what's happening now will impact the future, so above all, be positive and forward-thinking. The end of the week brings emotions you've just got to let out, so confess your feelings (or tell that person where to go). This weekend, soothe your heart and soul by treating yourself right.

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MAY 22, 2020: Someone you used to have strong feelings for could come back into your life, either physically or online. They still have a hold over you, although you won't know for certain if you're ready to reconnect and stir things up again. Wait until you know more about how you feel before responding.

Getting back in tune with other people at this point in your life could turn out to be much more complicated than you think...:blink:

MAY 29, 2020: Little things count right now. Whether you're talking to a new cutie or checking out your prospects online, pay attention to the tiniest details. You should learn plenty about how compatible you two may be.

MAY 31, 2020: There is going to be a lot of activity in your life right now, and all this busyness offers you a great opportunity to get rid of some of the negative emotions you've been holding on to. Jealousy, regret, anger, and self-doubt aren't helpful, and they need to go! Luckily, with all the new stimulation in your day today, you'll enjoy an "out with the old and in with the new" dynamic that leaves you feeling refreshed and invigorated for the future.

JUN 2, 2020:

Today, you should eagerly follow any and every impulse to explore a new interest, person, or career prospect. This is a great time to look ahead at your five-year plan and start putting things into place. Feel free to get a bit more aggressive about your goals. Time is going to move forward whether you're aware of it or not. Being more thorough about all your options would be extremely wise. You could be missing opportunities right now!

JUN 3, 2020: Those little signals are coming in are totally reliable, so trust in your intuition and you should quickly see what's really going on. Someone likes you, but doesn't know how to tell you.

https://www.astrology.com/horoscope/daily-lesbian.html

June 3, 2020: Today, if you keep walking West towards the setting sun you will fall off the edge of the flat earth. Be careful.

WEEK OF JUN 8, 2020: You're electrically charged at the beginning of the week, and anyone lucky enough to be around you is bound to get a pleasant shock. Mind your internal circuits, too. What's going on there holds a message for you about matters of the heart. On Wednesday and Thursday, you can light up your love life like a blinking marquee, so think—and act—big. (Just remember that outrageous is as outrageous does.) The weekend's calmer, but new (or renewed) connections you make happen to be crackling.

This is the week that you are going to fill up the truck and wash the kitchen floor.

JUN 18, 2020:

You're surrounded by good people with good energy right now, so try to make the most of it! Get to know those people who you've had some short but sweet conversations with. Where there is smoke there is fire, so follow any chemistry and see where it leads. It doesn't have to be a romantic connection either. Great friendships can blossom out of the tiniest little seed, so be open minded and let whatever is meant to be come to be!

https://www.astrology.com/us/horosco...px?sign=cancer

Cancer's Week...

OF JUN 22, 2020: Oppositions are in the stars, romantically speaking, at the beginning of the week, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. You may need to relocate that happy medium between love and work, or it could be a matter of opposites attracting! You might feel like you're being told what to do on Wednesday or Thursday, whether by a friend who's full of love advice or by a partner. Acknowledging it and then letting it go feels much better than taking it personally. The weekend brings bountiful good energy, and your head's in the clouds. Perfect for romance.

https://www.astrology.com/horoscope/...ic/cancer.html

Cancer's week ahead...........

WEEK OF JUN 29, 2020:

Love's all over the place this week, which is perfect for your changeable but romantic heart. On Monday, you're quick to respond emotionally, but engage the old brain for a moment before you voice your feelings. Tuesday through Thursday sound super, especially if someone sweet is involved. You're quite a charmer and a natural leader now, so see who follows!

If you feel crabby this weekend, perhaps a little tour on the wilder side is in order to dispel some tension. Bonus: There's an attractive glint in your eye when you're busting loose.

SEP 17, 2020: No matter what the weather's like outside, it's sunny in your heart today, or at least it's filled with good, warm energy! The spring in your step and your cheery demeanor should brighten things up for everyone.

Taurus.

Yes - both stubborn and likes food :pipe:

SEP 24, 2020: Kicking off a new agenda, whether it's work related, social, or in the love department, means working out a few initial kinks. Don't expect it to go perfectly immediately, especially right now...:blink:

Cancer's week ahead...........

WEEK OF SEP 28, 2020:

Shopping at the beginning of the week could find you contemplating an extravagant splurge, whether it's a gift for you, your partner, or perhaps something extra hot to wear. If you can afford it, why not? You are worth it, after all. While you're taking care of some details on Wednesday and Thursday, you should also be aware that you've got a unique opportunity for some great romantic communication. Making or deepening a sweet connection is definitely in the stars. Watch out for stress this coming weekend. A partnership could be a source of support.

SEP 30, 2020:

There are a lot of things up in the air in your life right now, but that doesn't mean you need to feel nervous. Try to see this uncertainty as an opportunity. You can make things go the way you want if you try hard enough. If you want to make a change, you can make it. Instead of projecting what you fear onto the situation, project what you want out of the situation. You'll be surprised by how a little bit of positive thinking can turn the tide and make things fall into place.

OCT 3, 2020:

It's time for you to do your chores, young lady. That means cleaning your house from top to bottom and throwing out all that stuff you don't use anymore. You'll feel ten times better once you do.

https://www.astrology.com/horoscope/daily-lesbian.html

Cancer's week ahead...........

WEEK OF OCT 5, 2020:

If you've got a romantic decision to make, don't expect to make a lot of headway with it on Monday or Tuesday. The feelings involved need to settle before you add the all-important thinking into the mix. By midweek, you're in a nurturing mode, and now's a good time to nurture yourself. Some time to relax and ponder your romantic resolutions is definitely in order. Going into the weekend, you're well equipped to find a new balance in your life, but know that this may include dealing with something or someone on Friday or Saturday. Toast your strength and a bright future.

Cancer's Day.........

OCT 5, 2020: Sure, you might be forced to deal with a past failure, but you can fix what needs to be fixed as long as you have confidence in yourself. Don't sell yourself short. You know exactly what to do and you know exactly how to do it. Start listening to your strong intuition because it's getting even stronger! Trust your gut to tell you the answer to a question you've had about someone who confuses you on a regular basis. If you overthink things, you'll lose an opportunity.

OCT 10, 2020:

You could be absolutely amazed by the energy you have today. What gives? When things are going along this well, it only stands to reason that you'd be in quite the mood. The good news is that it won't be ending for a while. In fact, the good feelings are really just getting started. Maybe you could try spreading them around, too!