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If you really knew me.......
You'd know I feel vulnerable when away from home. I trust no one except my parents. My parent's mean the world to me! I love my son I suffered a horrible life altering experience in 2003 I am extremely shy I am intelligent, but don't brag I am VERY accepting towards others I want to belong I am very judgemental about myself and the way I look I want to be in a loving relationship I love dogs I am allergic to cats I am terrified of birds, and reptiles I am afraid of alot of things My dogs are half pitbull I hate when people lie to me I am loyal I will fight for my friends or family, but otherwise am very gentle I am optimistic I enjoy quiet I am stubborn I would love to live in the country I hate shallow people I am NOT judgemental about other people, xcept shallow people I hate cleaning, except my new van..............I LOVE cleaning that! I am a survivor If you really knew me, You'd know there was much more that people didn't know about me. |
If you “REALLY” knew me…
You’d know that I have a softness and tenacity with an innate clumsiness at times. I can be Conquering and vulnerable, yet, I’m thoughtful, nurturing, loving, and affectionate and feel things deeply. I’m very intuitive, instinctual and have non-rational perception of people and situations – this can unnerve some people. I’m very spiritual, yet, sometime I can be rebellious (within the law). I’ve lived and worked in 36 countries in 20 years. Despite working in the Funeral and Mortuary Sciences, I’m the least morbid person you’ll meet! I’m a former Para-Olympic Swimmer. I’ve had a phobia of Clowns since early childhood, yet, I’m OK! around Mimes. I love fruit and could happily eat it all day……..I swear I was a Fruit Bat in a previous life. I always sleep with the hall light on as I’m afraid of the dark. I don’t own a TV and haven’t done for years, although I watch DVDs on my laptop. I have to tone down my accent so people can understand me when I speak (this does not include fellow Kiwis or my family). I love working and making things with my hands. I’m a loyal and supportive friend unless you do something to hurt me, then I’ll have nothing more to do with you. I say what I feel/think and this has been taken as me being hurtful unintentionally. I can and do have a fiery temper when pushed too far! I love and adore my furbabies – in fact all animals - I take in unwanted, abandoned and neglected animals. I love sitting and feeding Swans – I’d love a Swan sanctuary. I’m not judgmental, yet, I am observational about people and their habits. I believe everyone has a right to their feelings and no-one has the right to tell you otherwise. I love silly, playful banter and I’ve been known to play practical jokes on people when they least expect it! If you "REALLY" knew me, you'd know that this is just a little of who I am. |
If you really knew me:
You would know I have changed a lot over the recent years..
I am still sensitive and really hate to let people down - but i now know how to let go of people who are toxic in my life. I am still shy and soft spoken- But am no longer afraid to stand up for myself when needed and if i am comfortable around you, i can be the life of the party. I try not to take anything or anyone for granted and also try not to assume, but sometimes it gets the best of me. I have a teen aged daughter with Aspergers Syndrome I am a very private person and don't share much about myself unless I truly trust you, and even then it takes time for me to be completely open. Trust is very important to me, once its been broken, it is almost never the same. I never feel like I belong anywhere.. |
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...I have a dry erase calendar on the side of my fridge...
...if I kno ur birthday, it is on the calendar... ...I don't hold onto grudges...or regrets...because everything happens for a reason ...I am friends with almost all of my ex's ...I am very affectionate & snuggly ...my eyes & smile are my best features (according to friends) ...I love kids & animals ...I am the opposite of a lot of ppl...I DON'T eat (at all) when stressed ...thankfully I don't get stressed easily or often ;) ...I dislike talking on the phone...but will for certain people ...if I love u & care about u...you will know it, because I will do everything in my power to show it ...respect is given...but trust is earned If u Really Knew me....you would kno my scars, their stories, & love me anyway... |
If you really knew me...
...you'd be stunned.
...you'd have your eyes opened to my reality. ...you'd see me fight my battles daily. ...you'd see me sometimes fight with everything I am to stay clean. ...you'd see my strength. ...you'd see my weakness. ...you'd see I never give up. ...you'd see the scars from old battles and recent battles. ...you'd see the love I have for certain people and why I love them so intensely. ...you'd know that most of the time, I think in ASL. ...you'd know I have several people that adopted me into their families. ...you'd see me pay respect when none should be paid. ...you'd know I expect nothing less than your best effort. Failure is okay. ...you'd see how quickly I read. ...you'd know that if the movie/show doesn't have captioning, I won't watch it. ...you'd see the different sides of me and know why they're there. ...you'd know why forgiveness was forgiven, and understand my boundaries regarding those situations. ...you'd know that you may randomly see me start signing, especially when I'm working out a problem. ...you'd know to not stare at me when that happens. Watch all you want, don't stare. It's rude. |
If you really knew me
you'd know how sensitive I am how I don't like crowds I stand up for what I know to be right am not predjudiced my family is important to me I am very proud of my daughter, she is 21 I say what is on my mind and sometimes get looked at like where'd that come from? I often get inspired and write poems I have a big heart I wish I could own a farm and have as many homeless animals as possible there I love the smell of a farm, it gives me a "high" I think I was meant to be on a farm it is so relaxing |
This feels like a resume to me
I was thinking about responding to this thread but then I thought it sorta feels like a resume. I read a lot of resumes on my job and what I look for are accomplishments and outside validations.
So I think I will wait until I have proven the things that I would put on this list to the rest of you. Then I will write it. :) HH |
If You Really Knew Me You'd Know :
My bark is worse than my bite so to speak. I absolutely love chocolate I cant eat enough Mexican Food I take life as it comes and roll with the punches. There have been very few times I couldnt roll with said punches. The death of my mom was one of those times. I am extremely independent. And appear as Superman to people who know me in real time. I only take my Superman cap off when I am home alone. And can finally exhale and just relax. I have no edit button. I say what is exactly on my mind I cant stand crowds I have a huge heart |
If you *REALLY* knew Me, you would know that ........
~ I suffer from depression and anxiety/panic attacks, and have been on disability due to this for the past 3-4 years ~ I live with My parents and sister, plus we have My uncle and his fiancee staying with us until they find a place of their own ~ I've had two gallbladder surgeries, almost 10 years apart to the day ~ I can't get enough of pepsi and chocolate ~ I am type 2 diabetic ~ I lost both of My grandparents, on My mom's side, of cancer 360 days apart ~ I was in the room when one of My cousin's died of cancer, holding her hand as I watched her take her very last breath ~ I'm a HUGE fan of hockey, football, wrestling and MMA ~ My two favorite teams are the Winnipeg Jets (hockey - NHL) and the Winnipeg Blue Bombers (football - CFL) ~ I identify as pansexual, meaning that I love the person for who they are on the inside not what gender they are ~ I love scratch tickets, especially Crossword and Bingo ~ My favorite color is purple |
If you knew me, you'd know how blessed tired I am right now.
This girl is going to bed. |
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I am outspoken I am opinionated I am very independent and don't like for anyone to tell me what to do. I have asthma but I still smoke I love gin & tonics way too much I would rather log on to BFP than my virtual computer (don't tell my boss) I am diabetic (not on any meds) but love my carbs I love comfort foods and hate veggies I don't believe in any "WooWoo" stuff or even consider myself spiritual in any way. I love to cook but hate doing laundry I like to gamble, slots are my favorite I hate washing my hair, it's long (twice a week at the most) I hate cleaning the toilet, would rather pick up the dog poop I like sleeping alone I hate sports on TV |
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lmao .... I am shocked !!!!! ;) |
If you really knew me, you'd know...
... my favorite color is green. ... that I very rarely cuss, instead saying things such as "good heavens," or "oh my gosh." Earlier this week, I pulled out an "oh my stars!" ... I've gotten angry only twice this year and I plan to go a full year without it in 2012. ... that I'm indecisive. ... that when I was little, I really wanted to grow up to be an entomologist... until I learned that I would have to kill the insects to do it. ... my favorite band is the Tragically Hip but my favorite song is 'From the Beginning' by Emerson, Lake and Palmer. If the Hip did a cover of that song, I would probably be all set in my musical life. ... I only drink tea, juice, water, and the rare cup of coffee. ... that I like odd numbers. ... I solve math problems in my head when I'm stressed to keep from panicking. ... that I'm gullible. ... that I tend to read books in a matter of hours unless I actively pace myself. ... I am equally right and left brained... and ambidextrous. ... that I really am this happy, positive, and peaceful. ... that I don't take medication of any sort, unless I could die if I don't. It's even in my medical records. ... that love people despite being very shy. ... I don't like to argue and it makes me withdraw when someone argues at me, even though I'm not disagreeing or saying anything at all. ... that while I am feminine, I do not ID as a femme. ... at Christmas and my birthday, I donate money to charities. I especially like the Whale Center of New England and I've adopted several whales. ... that one of the people I got angry at this year was a manager at the office. ... that I refuse to grow up till I'm at least eighty years old. Maybe not even then. ... I have an urge to hug people when I see them looking sad or hurt; friends, coworkers, strangers, etc. |
Swing High
If you really knew me, you would know
I have hiked 50 feet of the Appalachian Trail. my third grade teacher cracked a plastic ruler over my head and broke it. my worst fear is being buried alive. that when I am bored I like to try and catch 25 grapes in my mouth at one time. that I sort of don't like donuts much. But I do love tequila and donuts!! And cake!!!!! that I work hard and play low keyed, have too or I couldn't work hard. I had a cyst on my thyroid gland in the shape of Mickey Mouse. |
I have a VP in my title at work...not to brag...but to let you all know that with all my years in management, I don't participate in drama or back room gossip. What you see is what you get with me. I will always be forthright and upfront with you. Sometimes that may feel uncomfortable as people generally like to avoid conflict, but at least you can always know where you stand with me.
I don't know any of you on this board. I have not had any interaction either in real time or online with the posters on this board (except Vlasta), at least I don't think I do. I am the last person in the world to hold a grudge. Sure I get mad, but by the next day, it is completely forgotten. I don't know why I am like that but I sure am glad that I am. Holding grudges only hurts the one who is holding them. I just came here to make friends, I have no hidden agendas. If anyone is ever offended by what I post, I would surely hope that you would come to me and tell me, preferably in private. Now I am going to go find a smiley appropriate to this post...wish me luck! :newbie: |
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I love you so much , I wish everyone was like you , straight shooter no drama , no BS . I am all for it . Life is too short for all unnecessary crap . Will you still help me with my English ? Correct me as you use to ? ;) Girl you are real and true friend , I wish I can get rid of this monster house and be closer to you . Friends as you don't come around too often . hugs and kisses |
If you really knew me...
If you really knew me... you'd know my love of all things viking, pirate and/or ninja stems from my obsession with shiny doom-bringing objects wielded with flair.
If you really knew me... you'd know to buckle your seat belt when I drive because I love speed. Zoom zoom, baby! If you really knew me... you'd know I make a mean roast chicken 'n' taters for dinner and a delicious french toast for breakfast. If you really knew me... you'd know I fall in love as easily as other people fall out of a boat. And you'd know what book that saying came from. ;) If you really knew me... you wouldn't try to change me -- you wouldn't want to. |
If you know me well, then you'll know that...
I have a wide circle of acquaintances, but a small circle of friends who love me so beautifully and I love them back! They say I've changed their life in some way (for the better) and I feel the same way about them.
I am a very private person but my personality is highly contagious. I give the best I have and save the worst of me for people who really know me. I know I can talk about unvarnished stuff with them in ways that I can't do or be here online. I'd get in a lot of trouble. Trust me. I tend to be life long friends with people who dig bringing their creative reality to the equation of mutuality. People I associate with are rarely anything like myself yet we compliment and bring out the best in each other. I'm strangely intelligent. I often embarrass myself often by my own natural curiosity and stark openness. Sometimes I feel good about this and other times I wonder if I am cursed. |
Hello, how are you?
I made a quilt out of cocktail napkins once.
The worst place that I have been stung by a bee was on my tongue. I was walking and talking (go figure) and before I knew it there was something weird in my mouth that I spit out. I didn’t know if I was going to have an allergic reaction, so I basically sat down and waited to see if my tongue was going to swell and choke me to death. When I was young I had a fascination with briefcases, until I finally got one and realized they weren't all that exciting. My favorite vegetable is the avocado, which is technically a fruit. My favorite true vegetable is the artichoke. |
If you really knew me:
- I am shy until I get to know you - I love cats and dogs - I only play games on the xbox 360 - I don't do drama unless it is a tv show, movie or a book - I love to read - I don't judge people - I believe everything happens for a reason - I am very loyal and supportive - I have a very strange/weird sense of humor - I am an avid The Ohio State University sports fan - Go Buckeyes! - I am honest Fan |
if you really know me
I am not a mean spirited person . I tried to communicate with people the best I can . I cry often when I read the boards and see a struggle some people are going through. I tried to understand everyone on the boards and where they are coming from . I don't judge people since we are all coming from a different backgrounds . this is just for starters , I will be back with some more . |
If you really knew me you would know that
I am extremely competitive I have slept in a Wigwam Apparently I confuse people a lot. I don’t intend to, but it does happen anyway, and when I try to go backwards from confusing them, I end up confusing them even more. That’s when an “ugh” comes into play, followed by a mere “never mind”. But I do still wonder. I hate that feeling; it’s like a hunger for wonder that can’t be satisfied until the confusion is gone. Butterscotch (the flavoring) annoys me to its fullest potential. I mean, it’s so annoying because it just lasts and lasts and lasts. Surprisingly enough there has yet to be a gum flavor consisting of buttescotch. But I’m serious when I say that it literally lasts for a long time. I don't like to chew it, and I wouldn’t want it in a mint form, but the flavor butterscotch in a hard-candy form just seems to last a long time. As I’m sucking on that stupidly golden and round thing, I’m only hoping and wishing and praying to be almost done with it (because spitting it out would simply be both a waste of money AND a waste of my time (time spent and/or time used). But I do suppose it has its purpose. A lot of people I know like it, and a lot of people use it for cooking. Therefore, maybe it’s not such a bad thing after all. I hate tuna fish At least once a week, a woman from Brazil calls me asking to speak to her son "Thiago". She gets very angry when I explain that I don't know anyone by that name and to stop calling me. I have never been to South Dakota. |
If you really knew me, you'd know:
I am sensitive to not only your words, but how you look saying them. |
if you really knew me ...
you'd know that i have a john wayne lunch box. you'd know that i want to be a cowgirl, like sharon stone lol. you'd know that i was born with sports in my heart, in my entire being. you'd know that i won a state championship as a coach. you'd know that i like to study black history. you'd know that my soul knows it when i don't have a muse, ... so she searches until she finds. you'd know that i've written many poems while listening to the theme song from the tv show, the incredible hulk. you'd know that i know when i've won and when i've lost, without looking at the scoreboard. you'd know i crave competition and intimidation. you'd know that i like mathematics. you'd know that i practice being open minded. you'd know that when i've felt that i thought i was better than someone else, i've felt ashamed. and i hope that i always do. |
If you really knew me...
You would be one of the very few.
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My socks don't always match.
I wear my hair up regularly, my picture in the gallery notwithstanding. I make the best out of having been born in the wrong era. I read children's literature - things by Anna Sewell, Lucy Maud Montgomery and Louisa May Alcott. They keep me from hardening. Secrets stop with me. There are thousands I'll take to the grave and room for thousands more. Before my morning coffee I am the meanest bitch on the planet, thus I don't speak. |
If you knew me you would know....
That I'm a rare butch. I'm a very happy person. I'm always nice to those who are nice to me. I'm always willing to stop and listen to whoever needs an ear. |
If you really knew me you would know I have been hurt by so many family members that it seems like the norm instead of the exception.....
If you reall knew me you would know I enjoy people and all that has happened to me doesn't stop believing here is more positive then negitive in life... If you really knew me you would know I accept people and never ask or want them to change for me just be theirself.... If you really knew me you would see I am usually very lonely even in a room full of people.... If you really knew me I am always putting others needs above my own... If you really knew me you would know friendships are so very important to me they give us more then words can say. |
If you really knew me you would know that I have a really big heart…
If you really knew me you would know that I went through repetitive abandonment by my birth mother during my youngest years… If you really knew me you would know that the loss of one very important person in my life impacted me greatly and moving forward has been quite difficult… If you really knew me you would know that when I love, I love with my entire soul… If you really knew me you would know that I always strive to become better than I am at any given moment…. If you really knew me you would know that education is very important to me… If you really knew me you would know that I can be quite forgiving unless it is something which threatened my very existence… If you really knew me you would know that I love to play and have fun with people who are special to me… If you really knew me you would know that I grew up in the wilderness and being in nature grounds me when I am feeling out of sorts… If you really knew me you would know I am a romantic at heart… If you really knew me you would know how complex I truly am, but would still see my worth… |
If you really knew me
If you really knew me you would know
That .. I am kind loving and understanding. I am giving to a fault at times when I love I love deeply honest and sincere !! I know the meaning friendship. I am close with my family. I am also a no Bullshit type of guy I do not play games so do not play them with me..unless they are sexy fun games. I respect and expect respect in return. I dislike liars !!! and dishonesty !! |
If you really knew me:
You would know I am not a very sentimental person You would know I am a natural healer, but not a natural caregiver You would know my children are my life You would know that I am a natural teacher, couldn't run from it if I tried You would know what my tats mean to me You would know I am a warrior You would know I am a fabulous story teller You would know I am very shy You would know I am a hedonist You would know I would make you the best coffee you have ever drank You would know I have few friends, but know someone everywhere I go You would know I am a public figure, but fiercely protect my solitude You would know I study and learn non-stop:canadian: |
you would know the following:
* I am stronger now that I have ever been in my life. And it feels great! * Even though I make mistakes (some pretty huge ones) it is never my intention to hurt anyone or cause anyone pain. I used to always think that if I manipulated a scenario just right, no one would get hurt and everyone would be happy. Magical thinking, I know. * This is the happiest I have ever been. * I don't take anything for granted. Ever. * I like animals more than people 92% of the time. * I fall more in love with my daughters every day. I have ZERO desire to claim ownership of them. I am simply blessed to help guide them as they grow and mature into capable and responsible adults. * I love manual labor and hard work. I grew up on a farm where we worked from sun-up to sun-down. I really don't know any other way. * I can make you dizzy with my need to always be busy. ;) My mom used to say that she looked forward to when I came down with a cold because I would actually be still. lol * I have zero tollerance for animal/child abuse. If I see someone behaving negatively toward either, I will not hesitate to step in. Even if the poorly behaving person is a 700lb man. <gulp> * I am terrible about my personal safety. I guess I do take something for granted! I assume that people have good intentions and won't hurt me. Even though I have been victimized in the past. * I am not shy. At all. ;) |
If you really knew me you would know... I would like to believe that I am fearless... but I am NOT.
That no matter how much you are hurting there is ALWAYS room for Love... If you really knew me you would know that I am not a girl who likes roses... give me Shasta daisy's, Gerber daisy's, tulips, or sweet pea's and I am happy... If you really knew me you would know that it is really all about the little things... |
If you really knew me then you would know that the little things mean the most to me.
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If you really knew me, you wouldn't ask questions.:detective:
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If you really knew me.. we'd need no words.
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exactly pru ,, they would just know. :)))
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If you *really* knew me, you wouldn't be surprised by the crazy sh** I come up with......... :vigil:
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if u really knew me then we wouldnt be where we r today.
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If you really knew me then you would know that I'm thoughtful, considerate, kind and a compassionate person. :)
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