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socialjustice_fsu 04-29-2011 11:51 PM

...I wish I knew how to post the beautiful...
 
candles such as what Entycing Femme and so many of you post but instead I simply ask this of you...

My dear Aunt (75) died unexpectantly today. She and my uncle had been married 55+ years. She had had issues with a buildup of CO2 in her lungs, however, last night when my mother and I visited her she had shown significant improvement. She was alert, talkative and animated. For some reason as I left her last night I decided to thank her for seeing me through some of the darkest hours in my life. This morning her 02 sats dropped and she became unconscious. She was on life support until we reached the hospital. Since she had given her family the sweetest gift of completing a living will, my uncle and her two grown children disconnected her from all life support at 4:30 PM. She died in about 5 minutes. She was peaceful and painfree. Tonight my uncle is struggling with doing this although he knows this is what she wanted.
After all those years as soulmates I find his courage and love to be beyond comprehension.
Please remember him as he searches for peace as he moves through the days ahead.


Traveling mercies, Aunt Helen.

Capricia 04-30-2011 12:26 AM

Prayers for your uncle, it is truly beautiful to see true love like he had for your aunt.

Goo 04-30-2011 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by socialjustice_fsu (Post 330065)

Please remember him as he searches for peace as he moves through the days ahead.

Lighting a candle for your uncle, may he find the strength and courage to search for peace and move through the days ahead. May he find comfort in those who are around him, may he never walk alone through this difficult and trying time.

Also lighting a candle for those tonight who are rebuilding after having everything taken away from them by these horrible storms. May the searchers find more survivors, and comfort those who are awaiting word of their loved ones. May they find some light in these hours of darkness. May their faith in a higher being(s) be strengthened and renewed.

Sweet_Amor_Taino 04-30-2011 12:48 AM

A candle for you your Auntie and family
 
http://i1008.photobucket.com/albums/...0Bw053ZDZA.jpg

Turtle 04-30-2011 08:34 AM

As those who have been there before,
 
...leave a candle in the window showing the way for those of us trying to find a new path...

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...Blessings To All

Diva 04-30-2011 08:37 AM

.....to light the way.....


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WolfyOne 04-30-2011 12:39 PM

I read this online at a site I was at, didn't give the author, but I wanted to share anyway

Keep The Candle Burning

When you're walking in the dead of night
And your soul is churning
When your hope seems out of sight
Keep the candle burning

All it takes is one steady heart
In a world that's turning
Shine a light and pierce the dark
Keep the candle burning, keep the candle burning



http://www.featurepics.com/FI/Thumb3...andle46016.jpg

For socialjustice and family
May your uncle find the peace he needs to make, within himself
Our prayer circle is strong, we'll all pray
Peace be with you, too

miss entycing 04-30-2011 07:09 PM


miss entycing 05-01-2011 08:02 AM

Blessings, Love and Light always.
Have a beautiful day.

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Blade 05-01-2011 09:34 AM

Lighting a candle for Socialjustice and family. Praying that God leads you all to comfort, peace and strength

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And for Socialjustice Uncle comfort in knowing he is in God's hands
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Miss Scarlett 05-01-2011 09:51 AM

For socialjustice, her Uncle, family and friends...sending the warm, golden light of comfort, healing love to you all...


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Abigail Crabby 05-01-2011 09:54 AM


Diva 05-01-2011 11:18 AM

For the birth, growth and success of The Breast Project in bringing even more light to Breast Cancer through art.


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Andrew, Jr. 05-01-2011 01:46 PM


My prayers today are for the sick, poor, needy, grieving, homeless, starving, hopeless, term. ill, children, pets/animals, nature, and the environment. May our Creator helps us overcome our hardships and our sufferings. May we all find peace, love, and happiness.


:candle::candle::candle:

:vigil:

JakeTulane 05-01-2011 02:01 PM

For you Tamara.. and your family.. let the fireflies light your way.. to the finding of peace. Knowing in your heart's that your Aunt led a beautiful life.. that she is resting now.. next to those before her.. and waiting for you.. and the rest of your family to join her. Keeping you all in My daily meditations. Know that you are thought of.. and hold those fireflies close.. they know much more than we.


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Turtle 05-01-2011 10:31 PM

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For all those who are tuckered out for the many reasons this life can be hard. May you be blessed.

Miss Scarlett 05-02-2011 04:17 AM

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Today is Yom HaZikaron laShoah ve-laG'vurah
(Holocaust and Heroism Remembrance Day)

"I believe in the sun
even when it is not shining
And I believe in love,
even when there's no one there.
And I believe in G-d,
even when he is silent.

I believe through any trial,
there is always a way
But sometimes in this suffering
and hopeless despair
My heart cries for shelter,
to know someone's there
But a voice rises within me, saying hold on
my child, I'll give you strength,
I'll give you hope. Just stay a little while.

I believe in the sun
even when it is not shining
And I believe in love
even when there's no one there
But I believe in G-d
even when he is silent
I believe through any trial
there is always a way.

May there someday be sunshine
May there someday be happiness
May there someday be love
May there someday be peace...."


Tommi 05-02-2011 07:31 AM

For days and nighst of burning candles enriching the Planet.
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A time of turmoil and darkness and searching for the light.
For my friend Milana. Cancer and infections are running their course in her tired body. She was rushed to Saddleback Hospital last night, high fever, and the feedeing tube site growing bigger and leaking since her chemo treatment on Friday. Her PIC line was not in place and had to be removed. It is one thing after another and I see her growing tired and weary of it all.

Wishing a safe trip for her sister Rozella, trying to get a flight from No. Calif. this morning. Light to send her strength to face and deal with the pending decisions.

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For that time of turmoil in the darkness while searching for the match, creating that spark to light the hidden wick. For my own introspection.

For those around the world in storms way and fearful travelers trying to get home, candles stay lit for all in harms way.

Abigail Crabby 05-02-2011 08:06 AM

Posting these candles for those
who are in pain, frightened
dealing with so much.
May God's love see you thru.
May these candles brighten
your life.

http://finkorswim.com/wp-content/upl...ndles-7047.jpg

Andrew, Jr. 05-02-2011 01:47 PM


My thoughts and prayers are for the sick, poor, needy, homeless, starving, and term. ill. I also pray for those who are grieving, and for those who died on 9/11, and our military soldiers & vets. And as always animals/pets, nature, and our environment.

Peace be with everyone today.


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