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That I am under no obligation to fill every pause,
silence or gap, I do not have to appoint myself entertainer, soother, diplomat and conversational tour guide all the time and its quite alright to let others fill those pauses and put a little effort in and that does not make me a bad person. PS: This is a real time person to person observation not relating to interactions here on the Planet...just thought I should clarify ! |
That being in the moment is much more enjoyable than fretting about the future.
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I'm working on having faith and not second guessing things.
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darkness can take control at random moments
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Today I learned, after 9 years of dating, that my partner does not care for mushrooms on his pizza nor is he a fan of chocolate cake. Who knew?? :blink: :p
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that i have to get better and reading people........:|
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But we haven't been living together for 9 years, only dating. We have been living together for 7.5 or so. :rolleyes: ;)
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Happiness is about a delicate balance of giving and taking, independence and interdependence, holding on and letting go. It doesn't come solely from within oneself, even though the foundation of true happiness must commence from within.
We can pretend all day long that we don't need others and don't care what other people think, but the truth is we all need people in our lives who validate us. We must make sure to seek validation from the right people, though...our loved ones, those we know on a personal, deep level...those who have our best interests at heart. And we must provide the same to them in return. |
That doing the same thing and expecting different results is never going to work.
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there are two sides to every story...
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I have learned no matter how much you put in it won't always make a difference.... That it's okay to say no once in a while.... Text can be easily misread.... That giving a part of me to someone doesn't give them the right to own every part of me... That I am okay being me & if that isn't enough then they're not enough for me... That strength doesn't come from muscles it comes from the mind... If your mind is weak all of you is....
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To stay true to Myself. To give my energy, attention and love to those who genuinely care about me and value me as a person and ignore the noise.
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That my list for what I want and don't want in my next relationship or dating, has changed.
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That I can't change a tire in 15 minutes anymore. It took 20 minutes yesterday! I'm getting old lol!
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This last few months, I have been learning that there are more ways to be than I ever dreamt of, and that education is helping me understand myself better, and feel more comfortable in my own skin and amongst other humans. This is wonderful.
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I learned the most important lesson you could learn. You do you first. Everyone needs something but you cannot be everything to everyone when you are not running on a full tank.
I am sick yet people still look to me for help. I have nothing to give them because all my energies are focused on me. I kind of like it that way. |
I procrastinate way too much!
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Still learning that one...
If you look into the face of evil, evils going to look back at you.
No sh$t! |
That ebay is both addictive & dangerous....Cherry flavoured ice cream is really gross....When you open a bar of chocolate you can't just stop at one piece...
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if it's not broke, don't fix it
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Life is filled with challenges. Sometimes you think you have it all figured out, then suddenly, you really don't. One has to be willing to bend a little & accept things/people at face value. |
That some people are rude as hell and should know better then to do what they do.
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that i get to choose who i want to spend time with, and who i don't. (this was just a reminder of something i already learned)
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There will always be people who don't like you, and unless you're just trying to be unlikeable, it won't have a thing to do with you.
If you're good at what you do, you will have lots of people who don't like you. Obviously, those aren't your people. |
That even though I paid to have my astrology chart done years ago and it said I was a true Cancer, I'm realizing I have an awful lot of Gemini traits too..... Wondering if there is any truth to that being born "on the cusp" stuff?:confused::confused::confused:
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To ALWAYS trust my gut feeling.:hangloose:
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To listen better and keep my mouth shut!
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That finding contentment with waiting for what is coming truly pays off.
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That i can be myself, and it still be okay.
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I have learned that you can't educate ignorance....
I have learned that hate is not what we are born to do but what we have learned to do..... I have learned that letting go free's our mind from the things that weigh it down... |
i've learned it's better to be wise, then beautiful
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Actions speak louder than words ~ :)
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Pertaining to the work place, I've learned the more you do the more they expect you to do
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to listen to the still small voice..
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To sync my mind and heart
The heart just likes to fly off on its own sometimes leaving my mind way back there somewhere. So now they work together... team work! |
Well I Have Always Known This But In The Moment Of Truth It Is Always This
I can never be anyone but Me. Yes, I need to constantly strive to be better, to learn from my mistakes, and to admit when I am wrong (even if it sometimes takes me years to finally realize it). I blaze with an intensity that exhausts me sometimes and makes me misunderstood by others quite often, but I can truly only be Me - flaws and all- and feel everything with every fiber of my being and never, ever give that up.
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