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katsarecool 01-01-2011 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL (Post 257164)
Good Evening Everyone,

Wanted to come by and say good bye to all of my wonderful friends! I have found someone who really makes me smile. :jester::glasses:

Please keep in touch and sweet dreams to all of you!

Happy New Year!

Zimmy

But why are you leaving Zimmy? Do you mean you are leaving the singles thread? Or BFP entirely? Better not leave this site!!! OK?

I am single and you know I am perfectly ok with that. I would not mind dating as that can be a lot of fun. But I have trust issues that I cannot seem to work through. Though it is not entirely my bad; met quite a few wimmen that proved to be untrustworthy so I am disallusioned as well.

For example you meet someone, you find that you have a lot in common, have fun, go out on a few dates, start talking on the phone daily then all of a sudden you discover that she has been on the prowl all along with many others and suddenly a new person is her lover and has moved into the apartment. Like wtf? Why did she not have the courage to tell me she was seeing other people and actually was very involved? PEOPLE got to get honest with the ones who have put their trust in you and it is better if they hear the truth fron you than someone else.

So yes I have trust issues; rightfully so. But that does not mean I will not continue to work on me; to work on honing the skills I need to not trust someone right off the back and acquire the ability to see through the BS immediately. My life is precious to me and so is my time so I have to stop letting others waste it for me. So dating someone just for fun is fine with me. Letting it go further will need greater consideration. *sigh*

Strappie 01-01-2011 02:07 PM

Hello Singles.....

Happy New Year to you all... This year will bring us all new happenings and also will bring us much love. Hang in there things are looking brighter!

Leigh 01-01-2011 02:30 PM

Good things will happen to all of us this year, even if its not love ~ the greatest love of all is to love ourselves :)

morningstar55 01-02-2011 07:38 AM

good morning singles
its another McDonalds....... oatmeal kinda morning....

what is everyone up too today on the last day of the holiday weekend??


http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o...55/oatmeal.jpg

cuddlyfemme 01-02-2011 08:17 AM

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is having a good day. Its gray and looks like its going to rain where I'm at. I'm also still staying in bed and taking my meds like a good girl :) Have a beautiful day everyone!!

asphaltcowboi 01-02-2011 08:37 AM

good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll

cuddlyfemme 01-02-2011 08:46 AM

Welcome back Cody! You were missed. I hope you had a good time in SF

asphaltcowboi 01-02-2011 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 257800)
Welcome back Cody! You were missed. I hope you had a good time in SF

ty i had a great time but im exausted!

morningstar55 01-02-2011 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 257795)
good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll

heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

cuddlyfemme 01-02-2011 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 257848)
heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

Its the same Cody :) Hy just went away to visit family for the holidays

asphaltcowboi 01-02-2011 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 257848)
heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

nut ahhh theres only one cody!

morningstar55 01-02-2011 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 257858)
nut ahhh theres only one cody!


** giggling here**

glad to see you survived the holidays for another yr and are home :)

DomnNC 01-02-2011 10:23 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful day!

Welcome home Cody, I'm happy to see you had a safe journey and an awesome visit!!

cuddlyfemme 01-02-2011 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 257858)
nut ahhh theres only one cody!

just in time Dr. Cody...i'm sick... i have bronchitis :(

lipstixgal 01-02-2011 10:31 AM

Good Morning singles how is everyone doing?? CF feeling better and welcome back Cody!! Did you have a good trip in SF?? Just settling down to some lunch its gonna be lunch and dinner because its too much. Tuna helper never made it before but seems good, tuna, noodles and butter my three favorite ingredients and some sort of cheese flavoring I don't know yet but it will suffice for now..and later..with a salad!!

asphaltcowboi 01-02-2011 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 257886)
Good Morning singles how is everyone doing?? CF feeling better and welcome back Cody!! Did you have a good trip in SF?? Just settling down to some lunch its gonna be lunch and dinner because its too much. Tuna helper never made it before but seems good, tuna, noodles and butter my three favorite ingredients and some sort of cheese flavoring I don't know yet but it will suffice for now..and later..with a salad!!

had an awsome trip ty for asking..at the new years party we had ice cubes that lite up!! it was so cool.. right when i didnt think anything could top Christmass!

lipstixgal 01-02-2011 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 257894)
had an awsome trip ty for asking..at the new years party we had ice cubes that lite up!! it was so cool.. right when i didnt think anything could top Christmass!

Really that is so cool about the ice cubes that is great!! I'm happy for ya I bet you are glad to get back to Arizona though huh??

Zimmeh 01-02-2011 07:03 PM

I'm just leaving the thread as a single, would never leave my friends!

How are you feeling?

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by katsarecool (Post 257484)
But why are you leaving Zimmy? Do you mean you are leaving the singles thread? Or BFP entirely? Better not leave this site!!! OK?

I am single and you know I am perfectly ok with that. I would not mind dating as that can be a lot of fun. But I have trust issues that I cannot seem to work through. Though it is not entirely my bad; met quite a few wimmen that proved to be untrustworthy so I am disallusioned as well.

For example you meet someone, you find that you have a lot in common, have fun, go out on a few dates, start talking on the phone daily then all of a sudden you discover that she has been on the prowl all along with many others and suddenly a new person is her lover and has moved into the apartment. Like wtf? Why did she not have the courage to tell me she was seeing other people and actually was very involved? PEOPLE got to get honest with the ones who have put their trust in you and it is better if they hear the truth fron you than someone else.

So yes I have trust issues; rightfully so. But that does not mean I will not continue to work on me; to work on honing the skills I need to not trust someone right off the back and acquire the ability to see through the BS immediately. My life is precious to me and so is my time so I have to stop letting others waste it for me. So dating someone just for fun is fine with me. Letting it go further will need greater consideration. *sigh*


lipstixgal 01-02-2011 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL (Post 258222)
I'm just leaving the thread as a single, would never leave my friends!

How are you feeling?

Zimmy

HI Zimmy good luck with the new beau I hope hy is good to you!!

Zimmeh 01-02-2011 07:30 PM

Welcome back!!

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 257795)
good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll



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