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MysticOceansFL 11-24-2011 04:14 PM

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!!:glasses:

ruthie14 11-24-2011 05:59 PM

Happy Thanksgiving friends. Just want to say how thankful I am for this site and the dash site. Without them both and the people here, I would have had a harder time coming out, and a harder time realizing you can be feminin and still be a lesbian. It was very eye opening and helped me accept who I am.

Thanks friends!

Ruthie :bunchflowers:

rustedrims 11-27-2011 05:35 PM

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Ruthie you are welcome..Anything else we can do for ya..??..You mentioned something about "Dash"...I am not fimiliar with that can you explain please and thank-you..

Found out something today.....
If you rake leaves in the rain they dont blow away..:winky:

ruthie14 11-28-2011 05:24 AM

Happy Monday Lofters. Still feeling sick but I must go back to work. Wish me luck!:seeingstars:

Ruthie

morningstar55 11-28-2011 06:48 AM

morning to all you loft dwellers
hope you all had a awsome weekend.
the panther truck has landed me in ha....... Las Vegas yay!!
and there is a bass pro shop across the road here...... with a lodge and casino, heh....
i have to make 3 deliveries around here today. so when im done will be exploring some places before i head back to the east.....

have a good day everyone.


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morningstar55 11-28-2011 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 475395)
Happy Monday Lofters. Still feeling sick but I must go back to work. Wish me luck!:seeingstars:

Ruthie

hope you get to feeling better soon Ruth.. nothing worse then trying to work when sick.....
i know i been trying to come down with some sort of cold, been sneezin a hella of a lot.. and watery eyes.. geeshh.....
i been popin some zinc tabs, asprins and juices.. and such.. seems to help some.

MysticOceansFL 11-28-2011 07:22 AM

Have a great week lofters!!!!!:glasses:

Vlasta 11-28-2011 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 475395)
Happy Monday Lofters. Still feeling sick but I must go back to work. Wish me luck!:seeingstars:

Ruthie

Hello Ruthie ,

I hope you are feeling better and get through the Monday . I am wishing you good luck , if you can drink you some ginger tea with honey .

hoping you will get well soon . :)

rustedrims 11-28-2011 10:17 AM

Hey Ruthie
 
Hope you are feeling better soon..Throwing get well glitter your way..Some Pink and some Purple..Doesnt pay to good to stay home..

s..

LadyRain 11-29-2011 02:59 PM

Still in Hawai'i, so ready to go home, but plane is on saturday (ugh) my grandaughter (16)has run away from home and contacted me, she wants to live with us... she said, its quiet and loving at your house............my partner wont let that happen so now i am in a real problem. Mart never had kids does not have that "nana" connection with my GD. no idea what to do. any advice is sure welcome

ArkansasPiscesGrrl 11-29-2011 03:49 PM

Good Tuesday afternoon, Lofters! Hope everyone here is enjoying their day. I personally am playing a wee bit of hookie from my work right this minute and playing here on BFP. I know, I know, BAAAAD grrrl!

Wishin' there was someone here to be bad with....

clay 11-29-2011 03:53 PM

hey lofters....have a great afternoon..
APG:
U R BADDD! Call 1800badbois....lmao

ArkansasPiscesGrrl 11-29-2011 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by claybaby (Post 476320)
hey lofters....have a great afternoon..
APG:
U R BADDD! Call 1800badbois....lmao

Clay, I happen to have that number on my speed dial! Gotta love me a bad boi! (good bois are pretty fun too!)

clay 11-29-2011 05:58 PM

hehehehhe...yep I just bet you do....lmao.
Have fun at any rate!! Be it with a "good" bad boi or a "bad" bad boi....smiles

ruthie14 11-29-2011 09:04 PM

Hello lofters! Thanks for all the well wishes. Trying my best to beat this thing.

Tonight was the final (un)dress rehearsal for the madrigal dinners I will be singing and serving in. Feel better today but have been under the weather so I hope I am not extending myself too much. Very hard to do this after a day at work but I love to do it and it is our biannual fundraiser. Really... Who wouldn't want to see me dressed up as a wench? and sing? and serve you a 6 course pork dinner to boot? Seeeeeee don't ya wish you lived in Jersey now. lololol I'll try to remember to take a picture and put it up in Galleries. I will let you know.

Have a great week folks. Going to shower and hit the hay!
Ruthie

rustedrims 11-30-2011 07:03 AM

Rain..
 
Here is my 2 cents..

Before the kids started comming in my family i was not intrested in being around anyones kidz..Kinda afraid of them because i didnt know how to interact with them or talk to them..

rustedrims 11-30-2011 07:06 AM

oooops
 
Rain not done with that..Clicked on something and it sent..Sorry i will go back and finish my comment..

s..

rustedrims 11-30-2011 07:54 AM

Try it again Rain..
 
Ok like i said i was scared of other peoples kids..Then my kids started to come and i learned how to talk to them and play with them and as adults now i am very-very close to all 5 of them..I bought my first cell phone to keep in touch with them.I learned how to text them and yes i did get help from one of the kidz..I love those kids and would take a bullet for anyone of them at a seconds notice..

Anyway here is my idea..Just my thoughts..
I guess first you gotta figure out if it is the Mom Lady making it hard on the Kid or is the Kid making it hard on the Mom Lady..If the kid is whining she only has 2 more years until she is an adult..So you might mention to her to suck it up you are almost on your own..I had this conversation with 2 of my kids..Now 4 out of the 5 are on their own and they lived through it..Ok now if the Mom Lady is making it hard on the Kid then i think you better find out why the kid wants to go..Quiet at your house..Hummmm..Is there alot of arguing??Step Dad-Sister-Brother..Dont know the living situation.Gotta find out the reason..If you do agree to let her stay give it a time limit and a few rules that you stick by..Also might mention if you do let her stay with you guys and it doesnt work out and you gotta fly her back early then as soon as she gets a job she needs to pay you back for that plane ticket..Ask your partner if there was anyone she/he looked up to as a kid growing up..Maybe a Kid in the house would be a good thing..Your partner might get a good friend and someone to hang out with when you arent around..I say try it and let the Kid know if the rules arent followed it will stop as quick as it started..
I dont mean to offend anyone if i did "mis-speak"..I am sorry if i did..This is just my thought..Actually i might be put in the same situation if i pursue the thought you are having..My 16 year old niece also..I dont want to finish raising her but will not turn her away..
Hope that helps a little..Good luck..

s..

rustedrims 11-30-2011 08:05 AM

Pork Dinner..???????..
 
Where in Jersey..????..
Gettin out my map and i think i can make it there by desert..

morningstar55 12-01-2011 09:00 AM

Mawning lofters, can't bleve am 136
Miles from droping off load, after drivng 1780 miles and friggin truck breaks down , just outside pf Birmingham, someone hav a harmonica


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