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Hi people,
I hope all is well with all of you. I hope all of you had a Thanksgiving not like mine. My daughter and her hubbie came and belive me it wasn't a nice Thanksgiving. It will take some time for my heart heals from her crap.Her and I got in to it 3 times. What am I thankful for....They left the day after Thanksgiving. :byebye: One of the things-I brought Jon some candy he likes and was going to give it to him so I disn't have to pay postage. Shelly,my daughter, informed me They DID NOT like that candy. I said well I gave Jon some last year and he seemed to be happy about it. She told me NOT TO get them any thing. There was nothing they needed or wanted. Because,they just go out and buy what they need and want. If I give or send them any thing it will get returned. She blew up again and I said well never mind shelly I'll take care of it. She said something to me and I said I'll take care of it. I told her to scue it Shelly and tossed the candy in the trash can. She also told me she will not pay for my casket and so on. (I had told er my life Ins was made out to her but she would have to pay the rest of what my life Insurance will not pay. What a duirty look I got from her. I asked her if her and Jon got there blood typ done to see if they matched my blood typ. She more or less told me to go to H**l. She didn't like my friend Kodey who ate Thanksgiving with us. She pulled more crap but,I know you have a feeling what all had gone on.Some of You know the trouble I have had with the family. Honest to God I wanted to grab her and shake the stuffing out of her.She really had me ticked. Pluse,my Mom had one of her heart spells from all the crap from her. I belive Shellys money has gone to her head pluse his money to. I love my daughter very much but,my Kidney Dr. was me to try to stay away from stresful stuff. It makes my kidneys slah off even more.
I'm having test done to see if I can get a kidney. My kidneys are only 24% working. If it drops to 10% that willn't substan life.
Take care and be safe,
blueeyes226_l

am so sorry all this is happening to you. Family sure can be rotton. I think cause they are related they think they can say and do anything. I have my 16yr old grandaughter living with me right now. her parents dont WANT HER!! Imagine treating a child like a puppy!! She is a good kid!

blueeyes226_l

12-10-2011 09:49 PM

like a puppy

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Originally Posted by Rain (Post 483881)

Sorry aboutr your grandaughter. She must be feeling bad about things. Thank God she has you -your care and love for her. The teen years can be ruff as it is with out being treated like a puppy. Give her a hug from me.

Vlasta

12-11-2011 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l (Post 483370)

I am so sorry what is happening with your daughter . We as a parents should be enjoying are children and grandchildren . Hopefully one day she realizes that everything you teach her will surfaces and be daughter you raised . It's very painful and trust me I understand .

I am wishing you the best .

sending you a cyber hugs

Vlasta

LadyRain

12-11-2011 12:05 PM

The drama continues

SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!!

rustedrims

12-11-2011 03:39 PM

Hello everyone..

Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here..

Rain and Blue..
I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts..

Ruthie..
Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??..

Clay..
Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??..

Gina..
Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!..

s..

morningstar55

12-11-2011 03:51 PM

just peeking in.. .. guess i have some catching up to do.. heh...
nap time here.. then heading to nashville land.... yayy..
**yawwnnn**

Electrocell

12-11-2011 10:09 PM

waiting

We are still stuck in AL waiting on load. 3 hrs of detention time now.

Gina	12-12-2011 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by rustedrims (Post 484312)

Rusted - now the glitter is all over the place - but ya know Sparky looks good in antlers and glitter...You know I have no love for the *Bungles* and I know you prefer them over the Browns - but other teams are doing pretty good..(Not the Chiefs - did you see the way the Jets smashed them??) Let it rain let it rain let it rain...weather update for you...:)

blueeyes226_l

12-12-2011 08:26 PM

kids

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Originally Posted by Rain (Post 484223)

Hey Rain,
I wish you the very best in all of this. I don't even know what to do with my "kid" and her hubbie is a jurk. Any was sendinhg u a hug.

blueeyes226_l

12-12-2011 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta (Post 484154)

It is hard do to my Mom isn't to get up set. Shelly,my daughter,called he two times but didn't talk to me. I enjoyed my daughter when she was little. I rember those day. They would good. I could tell her things about the family but,I think it would hurt her and distory her. I think her hubbie is controling her from what I seen when they was here. I don't like him at all. I don't trust him. My mother found out today ibehind 1 eye she has a blood clot the othere eye has a groth. so,I don't know what all is going on.~~~~

blueeyes226_l

12-12-2011 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 9696)

Hi All! I'm 46 yo. This last year has really aged me. Life is very unfair, and unkind, but I am surviving.

I will definitely be back to see my friends who are in the same boat.

Namaste,
Andrew :hangloose:

This year has aged me as well. This kidney stuff has aged me as well as my daughter is for the birds and I wish the birds would take it back...lol :blink:

blueeyes226_l

12-17-2011 04:37 PM

wishes

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l (Post 484995)

This year has aged me as well. This kidney stuff has aged me as well as my daughter is for the birds and I wish the birds would take it back...lol :blink:

Hey,
I was checking in to see how you all was. Has any one on here has lived with your Mom and see changes in her-rembering-repeeting things and seeing her go down hill? I think one bad place is she notice it her self. Now she has too many red blood cells and has to go to the Hospital and have blood taken out of her. It just washes her right out like a lemp dish rag. She has to go Monday. Then she has to see the Dr. on tuesday.
the Dr. told my Mom she has 5 to 7 years if she takes good care of her self. The red blood cells change in to Loukemia.(mispelled)The Dr. she has is a back door Dr. Personaly I don't care for him.Meaning he is a100%jurk. I love my Mom very much. Its hard seeing these changes. I know other people have gone through this. You know if I had 6 wishes i would wish for 1.every one would have food 2.every one would have drinks and every 3.one would be happy and 4.us GLBT people would be exsepted and 5. everyone would know they are loved. 6. no one would be sick.
A gal we use to have here as a fresh air kid she emailed me today and said she should come up to see every one befor any one passes away. The last time she said that she came up and the next day after she left my Dad died.
(Mom has been saying she will not be here next year. She has said this befor I ever got this email from her.) I know I "talk " alot on here but,I really don't have any one to talk to about things. My Mom has had one heck of a life-her Mom died when she was 7 years old. My Mom dad was a drunk and she marryed a drunk-my Dad. She has worked all of her life. He would beat her and so on. I wish I could make the remander of Moms life a happy one. I don't cry around her. I walk off to some othere room or go out side and yell at God.
There are many things I just don't understand.
Thanks my friends for reading this. I hope this dosen't bring any one down. I do care about the people here.

Electrocell

12-17-2011 05:56 PM

Want to wish everyone a Happy Holidays. Barb and I are going to my families Christmas party tonight , then back out on the road tomorrow so we can get her home for Christmas with her family.

ruthie14

12-20-2011 09:26 PM

Hey blue... I live with my mom now. She is 72. Doing quite well for 72 but the signs that things are happening are there. I see it in her eyes when she knows. For now she has a boyfriend she goes to see 2x's a week, does volunteer work and keeps the house clean and the leaves raked and the lawn mowed (try to stop her and she kill you with her eyes.)

Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!
Ruthie

blueeyes226_l

12-21-2011 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 489882)

:rrose:
I see it in my Moms eyes the pain she has and she knows she might not be here. Her Dr. has ordered her a walker with wheels and co2 at night and during the day when she needs it. Ruthie,I know how hard it is to see a love one go down hill. Its heart renching.

To everyone have a very Merry Christmass and a blessed 2012

ruthie14

12-25-2011 08:03 AM

Merry Christmas Everyone!:santa1:

LadyRain

12-29-2011 09:40 AM

We still have my grandaughter with us.We have decided to get gardianship. Have all the paperwork, and a lawyer. Crazy thing is her mom wants her to come back and be put into a foster home. We spent Christmas in Washington Dc with my patners family, it was wonderful having the girl with us. My partner said, "I feel like this is the first time I am bringing "my family" home for Christmas. :)

Sunny

12-29-2011 10:02 AM

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

nycbutch

12-29-2011 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny (Post 494240)

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

couldn't have said it better myself, Sunny!!! Wishing you all the best, my friend!!!

Jay

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