Night Ruthie!! Just let that fool go. The one for you will find you.

I hope everyone had a wonderful day today.

Well shit you're doing better than me. More than one. I have none!! Not one prospect and I'm tired of dating people for a few months and wasting my time. I don't want to bother unless we are getting married so everyone is friends first.

Yeah I try to be optimistic but I don't think that's going to happen for everybody. I know myself and people end up getting in my space and I like my alone time. If I can find a girl that doesn't get in my space like that then I'll be all set but I don't think it's going to happen.

Good Morning Everyone,

I to like to be friends with my partners first. This way, we both can see each other's true personalities and how we live on a daily basis. I have only lived with two of my partners and I am not ready for that again. I have giving up so much of myself, that I get lost in the relationship and it takes me awhile to find myself again.

Hope you all are having a good day,

Zimmy

Good Morning Everyone,

Hopefully you all are either still sleeping or are enjoying the start of your day. It is a gorgeous day here in Florida so far, the tropical storm rainbands are supposed to start hitting us later today.

Have fun and stay safe if you all are in South Florida, where it is already raining..

Zimmy

Single butch
 

Hi to all the single femmes and butches out there. I'm a 47 year old single butch from Ontario Canada. I have had my share of LDR that for some reason the ladies disappeared (this is a whole different thread in itself lol)

I'm an International Music Publisher, I work looooong hours everyday.This helps me to forget what i'm missing in life which is a femme to share my life with. I write poetry and what I call my writings. I love volunteering with the elderly ( can't get enough of their life stories) and with Hospice.It's an honor to be apart of their life while their on this earth and it is an honor when they allow you to be a apart of their leaving this earth.

I love all animals but heavily lean towards dogs. I have a part Lab part Chow female that is the love of my life.

I love British sitcoms, indie films, foreign films and of course all Genres of Music as I make my living in the music industry.

I'm not actively looking at this time ( if it happens and someone sneaks up from behind me) I wouldn't turn and run away.

Hope everyone finds what their looking for as we all deserve to be happy and in loving relationships.

Musicman

i have a question for anyone who cares to answer.

when dating, what is your expectation/intent? in other words, are you dating with the mindset of finding a life partner? sex? a friend you can share small physical intimacies with (hand holding, kissing, cuddling, etc)? just to go out and have a good time with no expectations at all?

thanks!

This would make a good thread!

i don't have much luck with thread starting. well, i start them, then bury them. i got a black thumb when it comes to that.

Expectations
 

Hi Littleman,

As I said I'm 47 years old, I'm at a point in my life that i'm looking for a life partner. I'm not looking/into one night stands.

The friendship has to be a starting point but i'm going in with the mindset that I hope to find my life partner. I'm not looking to casual date, i want something more substantial.

Musicman

My friend put it to me this way, he says I'm weeding through garbage until I find someone that will make me take out the trash.

wow. weeding through the garbage? we're talking about people here, right?

sounds like anyone who doesn't fit for a LTR is garbage?

maybe you want to rephrase this?

I'm not the one that said it. I don't think of anyone I've dated as garbage or trash it's just a metaphor.

not to belabor the point or be a dick about it, but it's really offensive. even if it's not your metaphor, repeating it would imply some sort of agreement. language matters...to me, anyway.