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be gentle, be soft, be compassionate, be kind, be aware...mentally, physically, sexually
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* I have not mastered the above |
Relationship
Treat her like a lady!
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i won't be treating my partner like a "lady", whatever that means but i do respect her as a butch woman!
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Shy away from validating your partner for them, to me it seems unauthentic when one person tries to sell someone, or the relationship to the rest of the world. That can often come back to bite. Rejoice and be happy about it, but there is a such thing as going overboard.
Don't be so willing to make them "fit". Differences are ok, unless they push your boundaries too far. Don't be the one to do all the work. If you are carrying the load, you should think about that. |
Be excited when your partner tells you she is making a scarf for you in your fav basketball team's colors. (Even when it is her first "knitting" experience and you both know that it probably won't be that good.)
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Enjoy face to face dinner, no electronics or distractions.
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Don't forget to date.
Remember the reasons why you fell in love in the first place. Know that hard times happen, and be willing to wait it out. Know your limits and boundaries. Even when upset at one another, make sure your love is still known. |
Do a jigsaw puzzle together, it's a blast!!!
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Unclench...
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I'm no relationship expert, but one thing that I feel is pretty important
is to just keep your attitude in check. If your always down on something, spewing judgementalness, and just have a generally bad attitude towards others or life in general, it's a complete turn-off. The more you nurture the negativity, the more negative you become. :angry: |
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This is SO true. No fun to be around someone like this. Thank you for the reminder! |
Easier said then done.....right
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Direct
Honesty, Honesty, Honesty, and Directness. And get it, Honesty.
Then a relationship with me can begin, in friendship, real friendship, then we'll see. I don't do the "masks", life and friendship is too precious to waste time with anything less. So, what to do in a relationship? Start with Honesty. Greco |
...listen, understanding , expectance .. communicate... cuz your gonna really need to learn this part after the honey moon faze
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Laugh together everyday :)
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Expectance is good too, as long as you communicate that.. Freudian! |
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Yes, and so are the majority of things in life. |
Laugh until you cry
Be there for the other Make sacrifices for the other Love with all you are |
Scritch their head, or their back, or what ever spot makes them go... oh...yah...
Encourage them to cry if they need it... Sometimes everyone needs a good cry... Support them... how ever they need that support... |
Communicate. Communication is THE key.
I use to interview couples when I was lots younger, who had been together for over 50 years or more. And I would ask them, how did you make it. The majority of them replied: Number #1 - Communication. We listen to each others opinions. And we can agree to disagree. Also, I often heard, "I married my best friend" These couples still smiled at each other in that loving way when looking at each other and talking about each other. Communication, is the road to success or failure in ANY relationship. It definitely has been in mine. |
whispers in the dark are amazing (in their place) but seldom mean as much as what is said & done in the cold light of day. It's just my opinion that it is only in this light you will perhaps see what you truly have and what you do not
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find happy mediums :)
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To be loyal
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own your shit. .........:blush:
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be each-others safe place
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don't say things that you don't mean
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listen to each other take the time to enjoy the simple things like the sound of her heart beating when you hold her close at night , the feel of her skin next to yours
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ensure you guard your "me time", and make sure your partner has their "me time".
relax......for goodness sakes, clinging too tightly makes someone like me bolt. if you live together, whenever you get up ask, "hun, can I get you anything while I'm up?" |
Always be:
Honest
Present Compassionate Gentle Yourself (never lose your own identity) Independent Encouraging and Respectful. They'll take you far. |
~ dont relive the past ~ live in the today ~ forgive and accept ~ make love BUT have sex often ~ :) ** wink wink **
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Know yourself, and be self aware, the older I get the more I see how important this is
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Love with an open heart...innocently like a child, yet with *everything* that you possess.
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~ in my own opinion : ~ I have only been in love 2x's ~ I don't fall in lust ~ I have loved but not in love ~ being a spiritual being I belive God puts ppl in our paths for a reason ~ don't forget how you met ~ what your partner has given to u ~ spirtiualy ~ and what u have given back to them ~ cherrish your connection ~ honor ~ respect eachother ~
(even tho in an arguemnet words get said ) ~ thats how I know my love for hym is endless ~ noone can take hys place ~ I submitt to hys strength ~ follow hys lead ~ I'm not perfect ~ hys guidence keeps me focused ~ my love and devotion I give to only hym ~ realtionships need to be worked on ~ seasoned ~ I will always love hym ~ even if .......~ |
*Be a good listener.
*Reflect and grow together. *Pick your battles. Some are just not worth having. *Forgive. I can struggle with this one. I have experienced lots of hurt and sometimes it is just hard to forgive those that add to that hurt. *Don't forget the Romance. *Be affectionate. Love and Lust...have those moments of pure "rip your clothes off" passion. But then again, what do I know! lol |
live a reality based life.
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I have two rules.
Listen even when you're angry.
Love and put yourself first. |
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