Hey ya loft dwellers n peekers, check ing in. Via smart phn...... leaving Dallas... and will b landing in Orlando,fla .. by late Sunday afternoon..... clay i love to fish i carry my fishing stuff with me.

GOOD NEWS...FOR ONCE.
 

I got some good news for now. My Dr is not putting me on the kidney list for a transplant. My kidneys was working 24% and they have to be 25 % or under. My kidneys are working 27% and befor they never got over 25%. I will still have to stay on this dieit and take crappie medicon that tast crappie. End of March I will have to have blood test and again in another 60 days. I will still have test done as if I'm still getting a transplant.:):happyjump:

Now,my Mother has made her mind up to not have surgery. I talked to my daughter and now I think its wice for mom not to. No matter what she desided I will stand behind her. Its her body and her life her choice.
The gal who was going to marry my brother (the one who died befor they got married) she has cancer very badly. I love her dearly as a exsended sister. Please,keep her in your prayers and thinking well wishes. She has all the treatments for this cancer there is.

I hope all of you are well and enjoying the week.
Take care of you and be safe.

Hi Loft Folks,

Just saying hello and checking in, reading posts. Wish to be more consistent on this thread in 2012.


Have a great Friday and weekend!


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Good Afternoon
 

On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!



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Hey Ruthie:
That is just awesome. I am so very happy for you! Enjoy that time..and let it evolve..slowly...and YOU are a beautiful woman..and hy is a lucky butch! Grin..hugs..Clay

Ruthie,
I'm sorry for all the sickness in your family and friends,I know how it is. Its the pitts. I'm glad you have found someone to date and havr fun. I'm happy for you. Shoot that means I don't stand a chance.LOL You desurve someone.

Dropping by to say hello to all. I hope your week is going well. I am in my young 40's none the less here lol.

Oldie but a Goodie
 

Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?

Very good question, Salty.

I, for one, don't think that we should be limited--within reason, of course. This is especially true for older femmes. Here in the B-F community, we often are subjected to traditional het social rules; ie femmes only date older butches. For some of us, that's just fine. For others, that's very uncomfortable on many levels.

Let me explain. When you are dipping into your sunset years, the number of available older butches is quite limited. That means your dating pool is smaller than a thimble. That can make some of us resign ourselves to an easy chair and watch life pass us by.

For myself, in general I prefer the energy of younger people, butch or femme, straight or gay. Their fresh view on life, their raw courage to try new things, their stamina amazes me. That's one reason I've covered music for so long. Younger people keep me young and keep me looking forward toward the next sunrise.

But to date? I prefer someone a bit younger (or someone who has that same youthful attack on life). But my cut off is about 20 years my junior. Once someone is in their 40s the age and generational barriers dissolve. It's a matter of personal charisma and, of course, integrity.