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The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 07:00 PM

DO NOT introduce me as your latina girlfriend and wiggle your eyebrows at your friends.....

betenoire 07-31-2010 07:09 PM

Absolutely do not expect me to spend all of my spare time making words at you. Sometimes nobody has anything to say - and that is OKAY. It is fine to not have anything to talk about. But don't get upset and presume something is wrong when I can't keep up a constant stream of inane chatter.

Jesse 07-31-2010 07:10 PM

Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to.

Rockinonahigh 07-31-2010 07:18 PM

Do NOt play me against someone else.
or never let me catch u in our fav resturant at OUR table with some biker then tell me he was an old friend...im not stupid..esp when u 2 have been all over each other..it shows.
When we first meet,dont expect a one night stand..not my style.
Understand sex wont happen till im shure about our feelings about our relationship..I want us to get to know each other before that happends.
If u are a booze head or druggie get help or keep walking.
If u cant manage ur money dont even think about touching mine.
Be nice to my fur kids..if the good feelings are mutual fine if not bye bye.
My son is one of the most accepting persons I know who gets along with nearly every one,dont think u will ever get between us and diss either of us about the other..u will lose.
When we are dateing and arent exclusive,see anyone u want,when we are an ithem I will not be one of ur stable of studs in every town..I am not a toy boi.

Julie 07-31-2010 07:19 PM

Do not ask me for my truth
and then punish me for giving it
If you pretend everything is okay in the world when it is not
Do not expect me to know -- I am not a mind reader

The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 07:20 PM

DO NOT ever let my leather fall from your hands onto the floor....

adorable 07-31-2010 07:30 PM

Don't take love for granted.

Love is a VERB - it is something you do. Be open. Be giving.

Don't be selfish. It's impossible to love that way.

Enchantress 07-31-2010 07:30 PM

Never, ever, take something that I've shared with you in confidence (regarding my life, experiences, feelings etc..) and throw it back at me, in a twisted, not what I told you way (when you're angry). It is the personification of trust breaking. And, if this occurs, you will never hear another meaningful thing from me again.

SuperFemme 07-31-2010 07:33 PM

do not be afraid of death.

Jesse 07-31-2010 07:34 PM

IF you happen to be doing the laundry...your red panties in with my white socks or tees is a BIG no-no! :sunglass:

Lynn 07-31-2010 07:42 PM

Don't give me ultimatums or tell me what I will not be doing, "or else."

Don't think that I need you more than I love myself.

Don't be afraid or unwilling to accept love and affection to the same degree that you like to give it.

Don't start thinking that I'm better than you (I'm not), or that you don't deserve me (you do). It can only end badly.

Don't treat other people or animals badly and then expect me to trust you to treat me well.

Zimmeh 07-31-2010 07:43 PM

Tranzman,

I am using your post and this is nothing about you, but my ex did this to me. If I want complete strangers to know about my sex life, I may tell them, but please for the love of life, don't tell your friends anything. I am a private person..And don't go threadstalking me and then use what you find against me, especially if it is from almost three years ago...If you don't have trust in me, then I don't have trust in you.

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tranzman (Post 165074)
Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to.


The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 08:00 PM

DO NOT yank forward when I am inserting an 18 gauge needle into your back.

IrishGrrl 07-31-2010 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 165138)
DO NOT yank forward when I am inserting an 18 gauge needle into your back.

But what if it REALLLLY hurts?!

Soft*Silver 07-31-2010 08:45 PM

dont set me up for failure by deeming yourself unworthy of me while simultaneously acting as tho I am beneath you. In other words, dont transfer your issues onto me....

dont fuck with my reality

more importantly, dont fuck with my serenity

Billy 07-31-2010 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IrishGrrl (Post 165053)
Please do not give me a detailed run down about the amazing shit you just took.

Do not rush me to orgasm while fucking me

If I say I need time to think, please dont follow me around the house.

I dont mind harmless flirting, but DO NOT oggle other women all night

Please do not call me to talk, then go on a 20 minute spiel about something ADORABLE your cat did. Then go on for another 20 min's about your OTHER cats!

Never, EVER lie to me, even if it's gonna hurt.

If you are pissed off, or upset about something, talk about it. Passive agressive behavior will get you the boot.

Dont do the running man on the dance floor while we are out with our friends.

If you burp or fart say excuse me.

I may not act like a lady, but dont forget that I am one, and treat me accordingly



Alrighty then ...........:sunglass:

Billy 07-31-2010 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IrishGrrl (Post 165145)
But what if it REALLLLY hurts?!


Its going to hurt more , just sayin . And I believe you would not move when told not to :)

IrishGrrl 07-31-2010 09:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Billy (Post 165211)
Alrighty then ...........:sunglass:

You are training right UP!!

*hauling ass*

The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 09:17 PM

DO NOT yell red when I am halfway in a swing, it will land.

IrishGrrl 07-31-2010 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Billy (Post 165218)
Its going to hurt more , just sayin . And I believe you would not move when told not to :)

Because of course I always do what I"m told.

snicker*


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