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Soft*Silver 04-06-2017 05:39 PM

if my husband and I ever break up, I will be the only person I would commit to ever again.....

JDeere 04-06-2017 08:40 PM

Right now my answer is still the same as it was before, but HELL TO THE NO!

Not right now, I am a big, hot mess.

Venus007 04-07-2017 05:34 AM

I am a pretty solitary person so if I dated myself I would rarely see me and that would be fine for me. (us?)
The sex would be spectacular when we did get together though.

cathexis 04-07-2017 04:38 PM

Oh hell no!!!

I don't like "sammie" wenches.

MrSunshine 04-07-2017 05:32 PM

There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.

~ocean 04-07-2017 05:33 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 1137141)
There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.

the sex would be hard too lol

~ocean 04-07-2017 05:35 PM

I wouldn't date myself ~ viva l' differance

Deborah* 10-03-2017 08:04 PM

Yes absolutely.

Deborah

Blade 10-03-2017 08:21 PM

Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me

akiza 10-06-2017 07:39 AM

seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle

Tuff Stuff 10-11-2017 09:40 PM

Yes, I would definitely date myself.
It would feel like winning the lottery.

:daddy:

imperfect_cupcake 10-12-2017 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 259513)

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Would I date a butch, sexually dominant version of myself?

No. Because I need someone that *compliments* my strengths and weaknesses, that interlinks with the way I work, no a carbon copy of my personality traits, that wouldn't work. That's like two puzzle pieces of the same shape.

I'm a quiet living extrovert that likes gregarious introverts. It works better than two extroverts. Two extroverts don't ever shut the fuck up.

I like people who have strong points where I suck.

Two people who are very chill about the same things don't ever make decisions, and stubborn about the same things, never make compromises.

Having similar values/needs/wants in a relationship would be great, yes. And similar interests would be fantastic. But that's about the only places I would find it beneficial.

too much similarity - we'd fight too much.

Esme nha Maire 01-08-2018 10:13 PM

I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates!

(this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)

cathexis 01-08-2018 11:55 PM

Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with.

Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.

Lovely 01-22-2018 11:31 PM

Absolutely!
 
Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date. ;)

cathexis 01-23-2018 01:54 AM

Would definitely depend on the type of activity.
Gambling or Scrabble: yes
Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends

Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely
A party: not on my word

firecat242 05-01-2018 09:52 AM

I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.

JDeere 05-01-2018 12:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firecat242 (Post 1208770)
I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.

^ this is epic! Thanks for the laugh!

Bèsame* 05-01-2018 09:39 PM

sure...I'm a good kisser and I'm tall enough!

(Not that height really mattered, but it would be nice)

introverted1 05-15-2018 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firecat242 (Post 1208770)
I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.

Brilliant, LOL!!!


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