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girl_dee 10-17-2011 01:54 PM

dont get into ruts!!!

ONLY 10-19-2011 08:06 PM

Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl (f) ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking ;)

princessbelle 10-19-2011 08:08 PM

Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you.

Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things.

girl_dee 10-19-2011 08:25 PM

get a puppy!

Starbuck 10-19-2011 08:35 PM

Don't forget to play, have fun. It doesn't always have to be serious.

SelfMadeMan 10-19-2011 09:14 PM

If he/she tells you you've hurt their feelings, regardless of whether YOU think that whatever it was should've hurt their feelings, apologize and be empathetic. We don't choose to get our feelings hurt, and if you love someone, it shouldn't matter who was right, and they should matter enough to say I'm sorry.

And lastly.... don't lose your crush :)

girl_dee 10-21-2011 05:13 AM

Either make it work somehow or get out, no point in making everyone miserable.

Guy 10-25-2011 02:14 PM

Become a good listener.

betenoire 10-25-2011 02:35 PM

When I send you out to run some errands remember that I only like citrus scented cleaning products.

Apocalipstic 10-25-2011 02:36 PM

Tell The Truth

SelfMadeMan 10-25-2011 03:54 PM

Be Sincere

Lazy Daze 10-25-2011 07:10 PM

Tell them every day how much you love them, either in actions or words :)

Scorp 10-25-2011 07:13 PM

Do the laundry in between your work from home day...

princessbelle 10-25-2011 07:15 PM

Make sure your partner knows they are the most important person in your world...

every
single
day.

:)

Scorp 10-25-2011 07:17 PM

Seriously....

Cherish each and every day with that person you love and adore and DO NOT take one another for granted....

bigbutchmistie 10-25-2011 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SelfMadeMan (Post 441556)
If he/she tells you you've hurt their feelings, regardless of whether YOU think that whatever it was should've hurt their feelings, apologize and be empathetic. We don't choose to get our feelings hurt, and if you love someone, it shouldn't matter who was right, and they should matter enough to say I'm sorry.

And lastly.... don't lose your crush :)

I absolutely agree with this.. Well said! :)

Just_G 10-25-2011 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scorp (Post 446655)
Do the laundry in between your work from home day...

Wait, you have to do laundry in a relationship? :blink:


Scorp 10-26-2011 06:56 AM

Yes G...Care to have your undies washed? :boxers:

:gimmehug:


Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G (Post 446920)
Wait, you have to do laundry in a relationship? :blink:



girl_dee 10-26-2011 08:13 AM

:| :| :| ........

Starbuck 10-27-2011 01:54 AM

Be honest! Don't carry something around in your head, not letting your partner know. It just makes the inevitable that much more painful.


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