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firegal 08-06-2017 10:03 PM

The little things.. i want to be more than a passing..obligated thought.

girl_dee 08-07-2017 03:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by firegal (Post 1161619)
The little things.. i want to be more than a passing..obligated thought.

YES.

if someone feels obligated what is the point?

Gemme 08-07-2017 05:18 AM

A little time, a lotta love and the freedom to be me and to be appreciated for what I bring to the table. When you know you are really and truly valued in a relationship, there are no limits.

jingles76 08-07-2017 08:45 AM

Safe feelings and patience, I hear I am hard to love

thedreamerin 08-12-2017 11:21 PM

Just good vibes
 
I'm sensitive. I need to feel it. I also need to hear it. The best way is to listen. When you listen and respond with gentleness I eat that up.

CherryWine 08-13-2017 01:10 AM

Consistency.

homoe 11-27-2017 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by adorable (Post 89988)
I have been thinking about this for the last few days. Sometimes I think, we think we know - but do we really? Can we actually say or explain our needs to another person?

What makes YOU feel secure and loved?

Is it a way that someone talks to you? That they pay attention to how you feel and are in tune with your emotions? Do they make you feel interesting and special? Is it being able to say nothing and just "be" with that person?

Or is it in gestures? Flowers, breakfast in bed? Notes on the pillow?

Is it routine? Coming home every Friday and knowing that Friday is always pizza night? Making the bed together every morning? Sunday is cleaning day?

What do you need to feel loved the way that you need to be loved?

May I suggest scanning Chapman's book Five Languages of Love ...

girl_dee 11-27-2017 04:35 PM

To feel like a priority :wine:

REA33 06-24-2018 07:25 PM

Ha!
 
She is there for me when I really need her presence
She doesn't blame me if I make a mistake in harsh words
She knows how to soothe my bitter and hard feeling
She gives her patience toward me
and being faithful with me


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