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Arwen 07-31-2010 09:21 PM
  • Do not use me as your emotional punching bag.
  • Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?)
  • Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you.
  • Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face.
  • Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff.
  • Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff.
  • Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important.
  • Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise.

I promise to do the same for you.

SuperFemme 07-31-2010 09:43 PM
do NOT make fun of my family.

The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 09:44 PM
DO NOT tell me yo' mama jokes

Jesse 07-31-2010 10:22 PM
The Truck...ahem!
  • Do not your leave trash in it
  • If you have to adjust the seat, please... do put it back
  • If I allow you to drive it, do not bring it back on empty!

The_Lady_Snow 07-31-2010 10:23 PM
DO NOT badger me after a 14 hour day of working about how the dog got into the trash can and you had to clean it up and how I did not answer the phone while I was at work to listen to you complain about it.

amiyesiam 07-31-2010 11:17 PM
Please, do not, while I am at work, give me away:blink:

dixie 08-01-2010 12:47 AM
Please don't tell me about all the people you have slept with or wish you had slept with. It makes for awkward moments when I wake up to an empty bed at 3am and find you in the living room on webcam with one of them while they are very scantily clad (to say the least)...

Gemme 08-01-2010 02:28 AM
Don't call little people midgets. I hear they don't like that.

And don't ever let me run out of sugar. This is for your safety and sanity as well as mine.

Julie 08-01-2010 09:11 AM
Do Not speak to me as if I am beneath you..
I will Chew you up and Spit you Out.

weatherboi 08-01-2010 09:20 AM
please please please do not throw away my *extra* copies of "Pillars of the Earth"

they all mean something to me!!!

Jesse 08-01-2010 11:44 AM
: points to pc and laptop: MINE! nuff said.

Arwen 08-01-2010 11:48 AM
  • Do not promise to do something then back out at the last minute.
  • Do not be subtle. If you love me, tell me. Words count. Actions do too.
  • Do not expect that because I am psychic I will be.
  • Do tell me where you would like to go with me even if we can never get there. Dreams are good.
  • Do not promise anything you can't deliver.
Again, I'll do the same for you.

UofMfan 08-01-2010 11:51 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by amiyesiam (Post 165387)
Please, do not, while I am at work, give me away:blink:
I am still laughing out loud over this one! :)

theoddz 08-01-2010 12:13 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tranzman (Post 165324)
The Truck...ahem!
  • Do not your leave trash in it
  • If you have to adjust the seat, please... do put it back
  • If I allow you to drive it, do not bring it back on empty!

I second this with overwhelming emotion. :clap:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

tuffboi29 08-01-2010 01:16 PM
DO NOT...


Touch my stogies!!!! They are *mine*. If you want one...ask first please.


Also...


Apparently....

(generally speaking) femmes do not seem to appreciate carburetors left on the kitchen table for rebuilding.


Sorry... :worried:

TenderKnight 08-01-2010 01:30 PM
If you meet someone online and send them a picture, please have it be a recent one, meaning no longer then a year ago.. If you've changed a LOT from the picture you've sent and what you look like in real life, the truth WILL come out and yes, sometimes it does matter..

violaine 08-01-2010 01:52 PM
push me if i'm in need of space -

disrespect what is mine, your story is respected as it is an honour to listen to the journey of another human being as their story unfolds-

AtLast 08-01-2010 02:16 PM
This may sound trite, but, screaming at me just does not go over well. especially obscenities. Verbal abuse is verbal abuse. Not talking about raising one's voice to make a point or to get my attention. But, I will hear this and give my undivided attention so partner's have never had to go to the screech level.

ARGH... there is a lesbian couple living across the street from me and one of them is a mega ragea-holic. out of control and very loud!! I am so tired of hearing her scrteam at her partner. Why the partner stays is beyond me.

Besides, it's noise pollution and I don't want to know the details of their relationship issues. I wish they would get some help.. or just break up and move!!

Lynn 08-01-2010 02:26 PM
Don't tell me how to spend money.

Don't try to dictate my priorities.

It isn't necessary for us to enjoy all the same things, but don't belittle my interests. Same for my friends and my aspirations.

JustJo 08-01-2010 02:30 PM
Please do not:
  • tell me how I "should" be...I am who and how I am...and my way of being is as a valid as yours
  • rage at me...I cannot hear you if you shout, accuse or cuss. My brain and emotions shut down and I stop being able to hear
  • put others before me all the time. Yes, others count and will be first sometimes, but I should not always be last on the list
  • pretend that my reality isn't what it is...if you hate kids, cats, or stubborn women...then I'm not the woman for you
  • expect me to read your mind...tell me what you want, what you think and how you feel. I will always listen....but I need you to tell me
  • close down on me verbally, sexually or emotionally. If you need space, tell me and I'll honor that...but if you just "leave" don't be surprised when I react by feeling abandoned


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