While I do like/love me and consider myself my closest ally, trouble is, I like femmes and I'm just not femme enough for me. Being single, me and I have a friends-with-benefits thing that'll do for now, but if the right femme comes along, I am breaking up with me. :phonegab: "It's not you, it's me, Wheat."

Heck no!

I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.

I don't know how I missed this thread when it came out a decade (!) ago. I'm just now "coming back" and re-bumping things myself.

I read the whole thing, and among the laughs and deep thoughts (and pain from some), maybe a better question is: Do you like/love yourself?

For you can't hope to have a great relationship with anyone else until you have such a relationship with yourself.

As for myself, I think if I were to meet myself right now, I'd like my humor, strength, intelligence, and sure, nice looks ;), but I'd recognize a troubled person going through a lot. Not that it makes me unavailable, but I'd be cautious about getting involved until a later time.

But I'd also see someone who wants to work hard and get to a great place and is hella smart enough to know how to do it. So yes, I'd date myself and go along for a bumpy but fun ride!

I will answer this with a Blake Shelton song.
 

Honeybee:

Girl, I been thinkin' 'bout us
And you know I ain't good at this stuff
But these feelings pilin' up won't give me no rest
This might come out a little crazy
A little sideways, yeah maybe
I don't know how long it'll take me
But I'll do my best

You'll be my soft and sweet
I'll be your strong and steady
You'll be my glass of wine
I'll be your shot of whiskey
You'll be my sunny day
I'll be your shade tree
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee

If you'll be my Louisiana
I'll be your Mississippi
You'll be my Little Loretta
I'll be your Conway Twitty
You'll be my sugar, baby
I'll be your sweet iced tea
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee


Complement, not compliment. Well okay, a little of both.

Yes. Absolutely.

I date myself every day. I spoil myself everyday. I take wonderful care of me. I hold high regard for myself and do all I can to nurture my independence and to bolster my resilience.


Because I’m worthy of every good intentional act of love and care I give to myself. I honor my body and my existence in life.

:kissy: <<<<<<<~~~ I save my kisses and use my lips for beautiful acts of love and kindness.

Would You Date Yourself
 

Being Stone I would have to say no. However if I were able to make a change I defintely would date myself as a Stone Femme. I have been told I am easy going, thoughtful, respectful and fun to be around. I had a 22 yr. relationship and a 12 yr. relationship so I must have been a good first date. lol.