People who don't vote.

Instant turnoffs
 

I will not venture to say after the last fiasco I went through for speaking my mind but there are 3 major things I do not like and would not date a woman who is or does any one of them. Not picky, just lots of experience.

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Stone the best part of being confident in ourselves is we KNOW what we want ~ settling is for house foundations, not for life lol lol ~ freedom of speech don't forget ! when you speak your mind ~ you just taught someone else your truth , capish ?

Instant turnoffs
 

ocean I know what you are saying, however I KNOW I will be chastised in a serious manner and probably put on time out once again so I can't. I can just say I do have them and so I can only speak for my personal self the fact I have instant turnoffs.

Instant Turn-Offs
 

Weak, cowardly and deceitful people/person.

Smoking cigarettes or smoking anything. Smoking can and will kill you.

Such a huge turn off.

Im glad i have been smoke free since June 6th. Ive had many stressful events happen since i quit but i never once wanted to light up and smoke. That was a very bad, unhealthy habit i have had for years and im so glad i finally saw the light.

Those who drink yet lie about it. Just own your stuff man…

Instant Turn Offs
 

When going on a first date to a party let your date know if you are a "drug user socially". Works both ways. No surprises.

Disrespect and rudeness in any form.. shown to Me.. or to anyone else.

Arrogance and conversely, being timid or shy.

People that think that others are beneath them - that the world revolves around them - and in general they think you are "out of their league". In a word: narcissist.

tobacco smokers, 420 is fine but only medical
poor hygiene
no home training, ie how to wash dishes by hand, keep the house clean, et al...
dirty smells of any kind, dog, cat, human, you get the idea

Instant Turn-offs.
 

When you are being yourself and she says "It's ok I can open my own door" LOL. Spoiled my whole dinner before we ate. Our first and last date.

When you are on a date, and you catch that person making side glances (or even straight out looks) that are suggestive to another.

Also, when your date monopolizes the conversation- or even worse just talks about herself the whole date.

You're out on a date with someone whom you know lives with others. There are 3 separate full-bathrooms in this large four or five-bedroom home where several people of different sexes, genders, and orientations live.

The date and I get hot, heavy, gooey, and messy. Toward the end of the date, I head for the nearest bath to clean up a bit before getting dressed.

Right before sitting down, I notice something sitting on the lid top. I decided to look closer at the item. There, in plain sight, sitting on an otherwise clean toilet tank lid is a used and leaking condom. The nasty guy could have put a knot in it, put it in the trash, or flushed it. No, he's gotta be gross setting it on the lid where many of us would have shells, dop. kit, kleenex, tp, or pick any other suitable item. I had to stop my clean-up and move to one of the other washrooms. It was years (maybe 40 plus) ago, but it's nothing I'll probably ever forget. :brainsucker::deepthoughts::deepthoughts:

Instant Turnoff …
 

People who have an incessant need for personal attention … in all ways, shape or form. A huge big red flag, if you ask me. :firetruck:

Instant Turn-Offs
 

Going to dinner and the person you invited can't get her face away from her cell phone. Happened once. I got tired of it and just picked up my cutlery and my plate of food and walked to an empty table. First and last.