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Don't be thier option while making them a priority
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Don't go around referring to someone as your partner if you don't really mean it.
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dontcha even THINK I am getting fat if you are busting out of your own granny panties....
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Hey Y'all,
Just a reminder about posting in this thread (and this isn't necessarily directed at any of the recent posters, although it certainly applies to everyone)- We need to keep things very general in here, especially if you are currently dating or have dated anyone who is a member of this site. We wouldn't want any ugly feelings for anyone here - So please consider when posting, if you wouldn't want it said about you, don't post it. Remember, don't poke at or pick at your exes here! (unless you want a little vacation ;) ) Thanks all, Admin |
Don't go into the relationship thinking " I can change this or that" . For Goddess sake. You fell in love with them for who they are (positives and negatives) NOT for what you think they should be.
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Note to self
Don't EVER EVER turn your head from your "joyful ministrations" when you hear the crack of a well hit baseball during a game in the world series. Nope don't ever do that <again>. :canadian::nerd::shocking:
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Don't assume the worst, and secondly, just don't assume
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Don't sell her blood without telling her.
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Don't, whatever you do, decant lube from that industrial sized bottle into a smaller one that looks exactly like the bottle of antiseptic handwash that also lives on the bedside table...She really won't thank you! :blink:
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Do not allow yourself to be treated like an ATM...
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Don't create a relationship with winners and losers. Relationships are between winners who seek answers to problems together.
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wise advice
Seeing this thread reminds me of this what not to do in a relationship : don't take your love for your spouse , partner , significant other what have it , really, anyone that you love in general for granted because you never know when that person will leave this world. I say this as a trauma nurse that witnesses the reality of watching my patients loved ones stand over them and grieve and I hear this a lot " I should have ..... Or if only I didn't ..... Or said..... " it is sad to watch but also hits the heart as a reminder ....... Peace , RNguy
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*Don't pick yer nose n eat it. ________In front of her.
*sex is easy, relationships are icebergs, and they roll over *glass 1/2 full ~ 1/2 empty. I'm not real good at the do's n dont's |
Don't lose each other.
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Don't let your past relationships get in the way of the present
Don't let the little things ruin your relationship, and remember its ALL little things Don't forget to laugh together Don't forget to say I love you |
Don't critcize your partner's driving while you are in the car.
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I'm single for a reason. *insert chagrin here* So I'm taking really good notes from this thread!
Thanks y'all! ;) |
Stay with the topic
Don’t use a current concern as a reason to jump into everything that bothers you. |
Don't EVER be some one's door mat to just lay down & take their crap.
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Don't make someone feel like a "placer holder" or "person of interest - at the moment." Better yet, don't date someone you know is a "place holder."
Don't ask for something you are not prepared to give in full measure. And most importantly, don't say one thing and do another. |
Don't lose yourself in a relationship.
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Do Not answer your phone while in bed!!!
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Just a few that come to mind for me........
~ Don't stop communicating
~ Don't stop being open to compromise ~ Don't ASSume you know what the other is thinking ~ Don't stop being able to forgive ~ Don't stop smelling the roses & appreciating the small things ~ Don't stop respecting each other & thier opinions |
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*Do not doom a relationship with inappropriate expectations.
*Do not try and change the person, if you want a Toyota, don't buy a Jeep and resent it for being a Jeep. *Do not suck the life out of your partner, give space and freedom. |
~Don't make assumptions
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Don't expect more out of me, than you are willing to invest of yourself.
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Fight fair. No hitting below the belt.
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Do not change to suit their needs......and don't expect them to change for yours...
Do not lose yourself in them.....if it ends you will find it that much harder to get back to yourself... Do not forsake your friends and/or family for anyone...that's the first sign of control issues.... Do not anticipate them being just like "everyone else". They are themselves and are not the ones that hurt you in the past.... Do not forget to tell them you love them....every single day..... |
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Don't....
Be afraid to ask questions before making life changing decisions
Be willing to move somewhere you dislike to please someone else. Give up your own needs trying to get them from the other person. Allow the other person to assume they "know" you...they most likely do not know who you truly are, & don't assume you know them. Lie about anything...not who you are, what you want, what's important to you, what IS ok & what isn't...but mainly don't ever lie to yourself. My favorite saying is: If it never got any better than it is RIGHT now.....is it good enough? If you can't answer yes....then you better be examining why & making some decisions for yourself...cause, NOW is all any of us truly have. |
Let me quote the pompous doctor in Terms of Endearment, as he breaks the bad news to Shirley MacLaine that her daughter is dying:
"Expect the best, but prepare for the worst." Just kidding. Carry on. |
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Sharing too much too soon.
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