My friend sent me because I was single lol:moonstars:

I googled butch femme social network ...
 

and that got me to here.

I did this search because I was fed-up with justifying and or defending our way of living on the main Australian lesbian social network site. Most of us who identify with the butch/femme dynamic on that site got put-off by the negative innuendo. It costs a lot of money to subscribe to that site and I started seeing it as a waste of my money.

This site's subscription is chicken feed in comparison than the one I used to subscribe to. I've only just recently joined up, but I'm being a little bit more careful before buying a years subscription, even though its cheap in comparison. Once bitten, twice shy!:readfineprint:

(i hope i'm not digging up old posts)
 

it's been a year since anyone replied :0

welp i was doing a research project on butch women and i found this neat website. i kind wished i found it sooner, it doesn't look like as many people are on anymore.

Maybe not as many people as before but quality over quantity, right?

lol that's one way to look at it. Though going on the other forums it seems I was too soon to judge because this site is fairly active.

I clicked my heels three times and said there is no place like home and I wound up here.. go figure!

I was googling butch lesbian mens wear and this forum popped up

I forget how I actually found this place, but I found it through some Google search I think.

Appeared in a Google search, for me, too.

I was trying to find a lesbian community and some resources.

It was years ago, back in 2010, but nycfem invited me to join the community. Thank you, :rrose: :)

Nice to see you still here 🙌🏼

Hi, I’m new! I’m on another forum for LGBTQ folks, but I wanted one exclusively for queer women.

So... here I am.

I did a yahoo search for butch femme and the words welcome home pulled me right in. It’s so nice to find a site that really gets the dynamic.

First post!

I was trying to understand some identity terms (specifically, stone femme), and this site came up. Read some discussions and it looked like a place I would like to join.