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DapperButch 04-27-2010 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by MainelyButch (Post 93283)
I just loved this entire post Stoney...you brought up some of the best thoughts! I am also curious about the eye contact thing. It's seemed to me that it's just always been so difficult for lesbians in general to make eye contact. Like if we look at each other something will happen, or people will "know" (like I give a flyin fuck if anyone knows!). but it is particularly noticable with butches I think...maybe that's because I am butch so that's the only real angle I have experienced it from. As I have gotten older I have made more of an effort to make the eye contact, and the normal little head nod that we all do. But it is a phenomena that I have always wondered about....anyone else got anything to say about the lack or avoidance of eye contact between us? What are we afraid of? Or what are we avoiding?
Yes, I have always found it weird when I come across a butch who avoids eye contact with me. When we do have eye contact, the head nod thing happens.

I have wondered if the butch type person that avoids my gaze is the kind of butch who avoids eye contact with EVERYONE (so as to not get that look of disgust we can get), and so when hy/she sees me out of the corner of hys eye hy just assumes me to be male. Subsequently, no "butch nod" occurs.

Don't know, but the above was a thought that came to me once...

Andrew, Jr. 04-27-2010 07:06 PM

When in public I acknowledge anyone who acknowledges me. It can be a head shake, or a hand shake. I always make eye contact with people. It is other people who have the issue with responding back to me. They have no idea of what I am (is that a boy or a girl attitude). I think we all go thru that pretty much. We just have to be who we are, and hold our heads high.


:tanning:

Mister Bent 04-27-2010 07:19 PM
this thread
 
Criminy!

It's back.

Kim 04-27-2010 07:26 PM
I like it (this thread!). Bumpbumpbump

Mister Bent 04-27-2010 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Kim (Post 93660)
I like it (this thread!). Bumpbumpbump
And you claim not to be trouble.

Kim 04-27-2010 07:35 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 93661)
And you claim not to be trouble.
Yes, I do claim that :)

Sooooo...Let's hear your butch perspective - eye contact, or no? :D

Mister Bent 04-27-2010 07:40 PM
eye contact
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kim (Post 93664)
Yes, I do claim that :)

Sooooo...Let's hear your butch perspective - eye contact, or no? :D

Only at the urinal.

betenoire 04-27-2010 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 93667)

Only at the urinal.
*snort*

I'm only asking this question here because here is where I am and I am too lazy to find the appropriate venue to ask said question:

WHY can I not post a youtube video on Bob's usernotes thing?

Bob 04-27-2010 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by betenoire (Post 93671)

WHY can I not post a youtube video on Bob's usernotes thing?
Because I've blocked you. You will torment me with sweater vest videos no more!

betenoire 04-27-2010 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Bob (Post 93679)
Because I've blocked you. You will torment me with sweater vest videos no more!
*gasp*

OH NO YOU DI-INT!

Queerasfck 04-29-2010 10:11 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kim (Post 93664)
Yes, I do claim that :)

Sooooo...Let's hear your butch perspective - eye contact, or no? :D
It's all about survival of the species.

betenoire 04-29-2010 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by EzeeTiger (Post 95006)
It's all about survival of the species.
What happens if you do make eye-contact? You develop a bit of a swish, pass out, and wake up in a strange store buying strawberry lip balm?

Queerasfck 04-29-2010 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted by betenoire (Post 95085)
What happens if you do make eye-contact? You develop a bit of a swish, pass out, and wake up in a strange store buying strawberry lip balm?
No, cage match. Duh.

Mister Bent 04-29-2010 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by betenoire (Post 95085)
What happens if you do make eye-contact? You develop a bit of a swish, pass out, and wake up in a strange store buying strawberry lip balm?

Cripes, no, it's worse.

After eye contact, it's the head nod, which can soon be followed by the knuckle bump. All down hill from there.

Next thing you know, you're (unironically) calling each other "bro".

Gross.

apretty 04-29-2010 05:52 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by betenoire (Post 95085)
What happens if you do make eye-contact? You develop a bit of a swish, pass out, and wake up in a strange store buying strawberry lip balm?
no no no

it's BUBBLE GUM kissing potion.

http://s7d5.scene7.com/is/image/verm...id=250&hei=335

betenoire 04-29-2010 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted by EzeeTiger (Post 95247)
No, cage match. Duh.
So, at what point during this cage match do you decide which one of you gets to pitch and who gets to catch? Cuz you and I both know that eye contact followed by wrasslin' is all about sexual tension.


Quote:
Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 95252)

Cripes, no, it's worse.

After eye contact, it's the head nod, which can soon be followed by the knuckle bump. All down hill from there.

Next thing you know, you're (unironically) calling each other "bro".
Where -is- Bob, anyway? I tried to call Bob the other day but didn't get an answer because Bob was cooking and apparently elbow-deep in breadcrumbs. Whatever the hell -that- is a euphemism for.

Gross

Quote:
Originally Posted by apretty (Post 95308)
no no no

it's BUBBLE GUM kissing potion.

http://s7d5.scene7.com/is/image/verm...id=250&hei=335
NO NO NO! Lip Venom!

http://www.urbanchic-boutique.com/dh...inkshimmer.jpg

Bad_boi 05-03-2010 10:40 PM
That femmes are weird but I love them dearly.


(I am sure they think the same of us)

BamaBoi 05-07-2010 06:44 PM
eye what??
 
i'm a butch and eye contact is rare when meeting someone new... i know with me i'm a lip starer... it's a subconscious thing i do.. and the more they talk... the more i stare at them... it's also good to test this out with women..cuz if they stare at your lips alot..they might be interested :P

Blade 05-07-2010 07:02 PM
To me eye contact is about confidence. I think anyone who knows me would say I was quite confident. I walk with my head up and when I address anyone be it with a nod or verbally I look them in the eye. When I shake someones hand I look them in the eye. The eyes can say a lot about a person. It doesn't matter to me if a person is butch or any gender for that matter, my confidence level stays the same.

Hack 05-07-2010 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 95252)

Cripes, no, it's worse.

After eye contact, it's the head nod, which can soon be followed by the knuckle bump. All down hill from there.

Next thing you know, you're (unironically) calling each other "bro".

Gross.
Knuckle bump? WTF?

When we meet, it will be the leaping chest bump.

It's like butch ballet, man.


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