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Elijah 11-21-2011 06:20 PM

Know when to say when, for both your sakes.

Leigh 11-21-2011 07:12 PM

Communication is definately key, so DO communicate at ALL times :)

girl_dee 11-21-2011 07:37 PM

Yes, talk and be present during the talk! :canadian:

ONLY 11-21-2011 08:30 PM

Remember her favorite snacks :eatinghersheybar: and :wine: .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it :thumbsup: cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble :| :byebye:
I am teasin' :p
Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny :p
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song :)

VintageFemme 11-21-2011 08:40 PM

do.... all the little things. they add up to way more than even one big thing.

girl_dee 11-21-2011 08:57 PM

Go on trips together, get out of the house and enjoy each other!

Hot monkey sex is a bonus!

bright_arrow 11-21-2011 11:29 PM

Remind each other that you are a partnership, not a competition.. and so therefore, it's "One for all and all for one!"

SoulShineFemme 11-22-2011 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ONLY (Post 470430)
Remember her favorite snacks :eatinghersheybar: and :wine: .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it :thumbsup: cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble :| :byebye:
I am teasin' :p
Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny :p
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song :)

I love it when you do these things for me. :bunchflowers: I am so lucky. XO.

girl_dee 11-23-2011 06:14 AM

Greet your love with a warm cup of coffee !!!!

amiyesiam 11-23-2011 12:10 PM

do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!


Corkey 11-23-2011 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amiyesiam (Post 471845)
do the things that make them happy
especially if those aren't the things you would want done for you.
Feeling like you have been heard and having someone follow up on that is an awesome feeling!


This.... precisely.

girl_dee 01-28-2012 07:44 PM

learn from your mistakes and become a better partner/person

Kenna 01-28-2012 07:55 PM

Honor the friendship and familiarity you share... because it's very unique and will never compare or be the same with someone else... allow yourself to enjoy and not regret the connection you share ...don't regret, only relish and respect

girl_dee 01-28-2012 07:59 PM

Believe in each other!

Mr Nice Guy 01-28-2012 08:26 PM

Be real with each other.

girl_dee 01-28-2012 08:40 PM

be the same wonderful person in real time as you are on line

MysticOceansFL 01-28-2012 08:50 PM

If you can't be truthful and honest at friendship level how can you be anything else , and also was there ever a friendship to start? It takes time to get to know someone.

princessbelle 01-28-2012 09:23 PM

Go to bed together....and cuddle ;)

girl_dee 02-02-2012 08:36 PM

write love notes, we love that sorta thing!

softheart 02-03-2012 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 319548)
Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.

I love this!


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