My best friend went and picked up the Halloween candy, and she is a true candy fanatic. I have a variety of Reeses candy and Willy Wonka candy right along with some almond Snickers from my stash..:chocolate::cherry:

Enjoy!

Zimmy

Good Morning Everyone,

I am leaving some coffee and tea on for us. I am up early to start planning classes for the Spring semester which starts in January..Today is the first day of registration.

Have fun today and enjoy the candy..

Zimmy

Good Morning singles,
I am getting ready to leave for work while I have two puppies running around barking at me

I have "plans" for Saturday!!!! (oops, nother thread, LOL)
Hope everyone has a fabulous week!!! :cheerleader:

Well singles I'm done I am a medical assistant just not certified but will be in January!! yeah[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE]

Congrats!!:bunchflowers::)

Congrats!!:bunchflowers::)[/QUOTE]

Thanks wow I almost put the house on fire a small fire broke out on the stove!! Yikes I'm tired, too tired to be cooking..

congratz to cuddles
 

way to go THat is great
well lovelies I have to say that this will be my last message to this thread. I have met the one I think....wish me luck...we met over Facebook and she is just lovely...a British American who right now Lives in Conn. But is wanting to move here to be w/ Me and we will be beginning our new life here in about March.

take care and have a great day all

whazzzat? :o

Jumpin in...
 

Wow, after spending the last 9 and three-quarter years (but who's counting) coupled to the woman I thought I would grow old with - it's still a bit of a shock to verbalize, write or acknowledge that yep - I'm single again.

So.. here I am, licking my wounds and pulling myself up by the garter-belt straps to say HELLO! :seeingstars:

I'm a 41 year old, femme-identified mother of one grown son. I work from home for a large IT company and enjoy reading EVERYTHING I get my hands on, writing in my journal, shooting pool in a women's pool league, vegetable/herb gardening, cooking and exercise.

I live in the tiny state of DelaWHERE with my dog Coco and hope to soon get visitation rights to my 3 kitties and my veggie garden...

I look forward to 'meeting' folks here at BFP.

~Val

Reeses and Snickers! Yum!
Do you still have any left?

Hello everyone,


I am just cleaning up my room today and doing laundry, this single girl is missing having someone to talk to..........

Hi there! You can talk to us! :eyebat:

I think one of the hardest things for me to get used to on a day-to-day basis is what to do with all of the time I have on my hands - now that I'm not taking care of another person. Cooking for one has become interesting, as I'm freeze-packing meals for later (freezer is getting full) and while I've always been pretty tidy in general, my condo is SPOTLESS since I get up at 3am thinking I've forgotten to do something (which I haven't) so I'm up cleaning the bathrooms or the floors AGAIN.

I am trying hard to focus when I find myself in those modes of not knowing what to do and not having a human companion to talk to - for me it's go to the onsite fitness center and ride the bikes or punch the bag (GREAT release) or take my dog to the Bark Park. The Bark Park is nice b/c at least once I'm there, there are LOTS of humans to speak to. My goal is to not isolate, since that is my natural response when I'm hurting - withdraw and suffer alone. It doesn't work for me, even if it is easiest.

Anyway... like I said, talk to us!

Lately I just feel so alone, though I am on this site and I do talk to some people its only every now and then, I miss having someone to text during the day ask how they are doing and such.... when I do text people I feel I am a burden so I just dont do it. I have my dog bella but it' not the same and I can only crochet so many blankets for no one I have like 5 blankets and not a soul to give them to.

Well, if you are feeling like texting friends or other folks is being "burdensome" maybe just make sure that whatever energy you put out there in the text is positive - even if you have to scrounge up the positive energy to create the message. Folks shy away from us when we're hurt, like they are afraid it's a permanent condition or (gasp) contagious! I think that is natural self-protection for some people.

And, with winter coming? I think that your heart may feel good donating your blankies to some agency who needs them. Last year we rounded some up for a local senior center. I haven't crocheted in YEARS but it felt nice knowing where it went! Putting love out into the universe doesn't have to be limited to a partner and I firmly believe that love in ANY form comes back to us... :hangloose:

All I do is text hello. I have been alittle depressed lately from what has happen to me, which I will never forgive this person. But I truly want to get out of this depression and be happy again, make new friends grow from my experience and maybe find someone who will love me for me and not expect me to change.

Hmmm.. perhaps HELLO doesn't tell the person anything and your mood is what is making you feel like a burden.

How about try "Hello, I was thinking about you just now... when you have time, let's get together and xxx" fill in xxx with something you like to do OUTSIDE of your home. Get outside!!!!

Why thank you, Lola! This felt nice, it's especially CHILLY outside today... right back atcha!!!

:-)

I will try that, though most of my friends are from here and dont live near me

afternoon everyone, I didnt finish my laundry or anything else I was suppose to do today

Good Morning everyone,

It is 6:30am and I am wide awake

good morning and happy humpday to all the singles, its a beautiful crear crisp morning here. i think ill pull out my leathers,fire up the harley and ride up to grand canyon south rim and just kick around today.. forget all the responsable stuff and just enjoy the day.

ooo take me

I want to go and forget cleaning and looking for an apartment today