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JustBeingMe 10-30-2010 07:01 PM

the older I get the more I realize, that Stability is my number one priority in my life and so is taking care of me. Cause no one else will do it for me let alone take care of me.

Blade 10-30-2010 08:30 PM

there aint no such thing as forever

sweetfemme247 10-30-2010 08:33 PM

to accept everyone for who they are, try to better myself, and dont let the people who have done me wrong continue to affect me in future relationships.

katsarecool 10-30-2010 08:39 PM

I have learned some battles are just not worth jumping into. I have learned that I should take care of me first. I have truly learned to love the little things in life. I have learned to keep toxic people as far away from me as possible. I have also learned if we take a stand, stand up for our rights change can happen. And a little cuppa :tea: goes down good before bed.

Wryly 10-31-2010 11:53 AM

. . . that some people enjoy being a victim. (Or perhaps they enjoy letting everyone know how badly they think they've been treated?).
While trying not be be less compassionate - I've learned to be more cautious when dealing with this type of person.

. . . that I shouldn't take myself so seriously.

. . . to take everything with a grain of salt.

. . . that cigarette smoke buggers up my sinus a lot more than it used to.

. . . that I really shouldn't buy Hallowe'en candy too early.

. . . that stretchy gloves from the dollar store are a good thing to invest in.

IrishGrrl 10-31-2010 11:54 AM

That getting home at 4 am is something I shouldnt do very often.:|

suebee 10-31-2010 12:30 PM

...that loving and being loved in my fifties is WAY better than it was in my twenties! :awww:

Tcountry 11-01-2010 04:09 AM

...that no matter how much you "think" you are in control of your life...a road block always comes along and reminds you of how wrong you are... :)

AtLast 11-01-2010 07:46 AM

..... that ageism even permeates this community in the very same ways as it does outside of it. Sux!

little man 11-01-2010 07:56 AM

the older i get, the more i realize....
 
...that the less i care about what others think of me, the higher their opinions of me are. go figure.

Glenn 11-01-2010 08:55 AM

How a sense of humor never ages one.

justkim 11-01-2010 09:44 AM

I am so much more than just a post in a forum...
Won't you take the time to get to know me?
No matter how hard I try I have never been able to *NOT* lead with my heart...

Guy 11-01-2010 10:47 AM

how often my parents actually knew what they were talking about.

Tcountry 11-02-2010 02:35 AM

...that some people spend more time trying to find the one person they can spend the rest of their life with rather than learning/enjoying the friends they have...

Pixie 11-02-2010 06:50 PM

that sleep, good or bad, or lack of....can really effect your day, mood, and approach to thinking.....

that time flies and you crave to cherish every moment and try to fly with it.

AtLast 11-02-2010 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suebee (Post 217952)
...that loving and being loved in my fifties is WAY better than it was in my twenties! :awww:

Something, isn't it!

I miss the love of my late 40's and early 50's far more than the one in my
20's. Much more balanced and joyous love! Not that my way long ago partner isn't a great woman, but... we were soooooo young and unfinished! Just life!

Mtn 11-14-2010 03:26 PM

That sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel is just another oncoming train....

Leigh 11-14-2010 04:16 PM

I realize that I need to live life and not be afraid of it, because before I know it life will have passed Me by & I'll have screwed Myself

sharonsuburbia 11-14-2010 04:22 PM

:fart:

i came out forever when i was 49 - i do not regret much but the future is in my eyes ever since :glasses:

katsarecool 11-14-2010 06:49 PM

how important it is to pick your battles. To make a point there is no need to hammer away at someone because that will most likely not reach them or change their mind either. That when debating once anger sets in the game is lost. That it is okay not to win every disagreement just agree to disagree and get on with life.

Leigh 11-14-2010 07:30 PM

I'm only humam & make mistakes

Julien 11-14-2010 07:30 PM

The older I get, the more I realize that time with my parents is getting shorter. It is important to communicate and tell them how much you love them. I have no regrets.

Jesse 11-15-2010 12:34 AM

The older I get the more I realize how thankful I am for knowledge and the ability to use it...most of the time. ;)

The older I get the more I realize that it really was a good thing to give up Spider Man briefs. :|

The older I get the more I realize that I really should listen when well meaning people try to warn me against doing a thing...starting with that swig out of the Vanilla Extract! :doh:

1PlayfulFemme 11-15-2010 12:44 AM

The older I get the more I realize that my thoughts, ideas, and notions are perfectly fine with or without validation from anyone else.

The older I get the more I realize how very important it is to form real friendships.

The older I get the more I realize that it's okay that my family doesn't understand me or think like me or fully accept me - as long as I understand and accept myself.

The older I get the more I realize I need to enjoy the little things, because sometimes they add up to (or become) the really big things!

Passionaria 11-15-2010 01:21 AM

The older I get the more I realize that peoples behavior reflects what lives in THEIR heart, and ultimately belongs to them. That I can observe, and see them for who they are, and not take it personally. Please, let me get better at this every day. My mantra should be: not my stuff, not my stuff, not my stuff.................

:praying: Pashi

Nat 11-15-2010 07:25 AM

the older I get, the more I realize that observing my bedtime would be helpful.

JustLovelyJenn 11-15-2010 06:32 PM

The older I get the more I realize....

RULES ARE GOOD!!!

The world doesn't revolve around anyone. Everything just is. Learn to work with it, or never make any progress.

Almost everything they told me I would "be glad I learned when I was older" they were right about.

Kelt 11-15-2010 06:42 PM

Moderation in most things actually does work out better

Wryly 11-15-2010 06:42 PM

I really like cooking.

1PlayfulFemme 11-15-2010 06:44 PM

The older I get, the more I realize that everything that we 'need' to experience isn't always for US. Sometimes, it's for someone else. Be it that we have been through what they are going through, or their lesson involves us...and I realize how freeing that realization is.. :)

Leigh 11-15-2010 07:19 PM

I realize that My life is My own

Gentle Tiger 11-15-2010 09:30 PM

....that the saying is true, "youth is wasted on the youth"
and
There is something to be said for eating dessert first.

Ebon 11-15-2010 09:33 PM

3 beers is the equivalent to a six pack and 3 shots for me now

miss entycing 11-15-2010 09:44 PM

the older I get, the more I realize that........
I just cannot seem to compete anymore.
:sigh:
because most companies are hiring ones half my age, for half the salary...
and offering bigger titles to reel them in.
:deepthoughts:

the older I get, the more I realize that.....
it takes WAY LESS effort to flip that bitch switch.
:slapfight:


and the older I get, the more I realize that.....
it takes way more work to age gracefully
:whine:


Guy 11-15-2010 11:01 PM

the older I get, the more I realize
 
that "getting lucky" means you find your car in the parking lot.

katsarecool 11-16-2010 12:50 AM

Hello Guy. Now THAT was funny!

LipstickLola 11-16-2010 01:20 AM

the older I get, the more I realize, (and say!) "bite me" :cigar2:

little man 11-16-2010 08:55 AM

the older i get, the more i realize....
 
...i really should have taken those naps back in kindergarten. perhaps they've been saved up in a naptime account for me somewhere?

little man 11-16-2010 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gentle Tiger (Post 228674)
....that the saying is true, "youth is wasted on the youth"
and
There is something to be said for eating dessert first.


that's what i used to tell my mom...life is uncertain, dessert first!

JakeTulane 11-16-2010 09:03 AM

Sometimes there is just enough hope to make One smile again. (f)


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