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Lady Pamela 10-19-2010 11:48 PM

PLEASE WEAR PURPLE AND LITE A CANDLE
 
On October 20, 2010 - it has been decided that we will wear purple in honor of those six boys who have committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes and schools. Purple represents the LGBTQ flag - and that is what everyone should have with them - spirit.

PLEASE JOIN US



LINK TO ONE OF THE SITES.





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AtLast 10-20-2010 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 210543)
I'm lighting a candle for June :stillheart: , Medusa :stillheart: , Jack :stillheart: & Linus :stillheart: ......for their class and leadership....."it was the best of times....it was the worst of times"....but mostly it was the best of times, and I'm grateful to all four of You for The Planet.

Yes! And I have a candle for them, too. I also want light to shine on this communtity. This website is a life line to many and I keep reminding myself of this. And a website such as this is no easy task to administer or moderate. Not eveyone agrees all of the time... which is just plain human.

I am lighting a candle for It Gets Better and the very special young people we have lost due to bigotry and hate. We really do have an obligation as a community to reach out, set good examples and try to show that hanging on will bring many, many good things.

This very website can do this. To be honest, with these suicides, I am much more aware of how important it is to post truth and hope here.

Lady Pamela 10-20-2010 12:11 AM

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-..._1715846_n.jpg

This is Kaison
My Great, Great Nephew

Kaison was born at 28 weeks of pragnancy and his hips grew inward as well as his arm muscles are tight.
He is now off the breathing machines and oxygen...thank you for everyones prayers.

I have come once again to ask for energy and prayers as well as candles.

He returns today on the 20th to the hospital for his first of many surgeries.

He is getting a tendon cut in his hip to lenghthen it as well as his achielles tendons. The surgery itself lasts 2 hours and recovery is 3 hours if all goes well.


I want to thank all in advance for helping our lil man..I am in hopes one day he will be able to walk as well as use his arms normally.

The doctors say it looks good...but we have a long road ahead.


katsarecool 10-20-2010 07:54 AM

What a handsome baby!!! And of course sending healing thoughts and good wishes for a very long, happy and healthy life for this child!!!

Lady Pamela 10-20-2010 09:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by katsarecool (Post 210955)
What a handsome baby!!! And of course sending healing thoughts and good wishes for a very long, happy and healthy life for this child!!!

Thank you as well as a big thank you to everyone elase.

the healing for this one will be awhile. He is in surgery right now.


Thanks again..will post when I know more

miss entycing 10-20-2010 11:33 AM


Spirit Dancer 10-20-2010 11:44 AM

In Memory
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Spirit Dancer 10-20-2010 11:45 AM

For Peace
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Spirit Dancer 10-20-2010 11:47 AM

For those in need.
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waxnrope 10-20-2010 12:31 PM

I light a candle for my sister, Dolo (Dolores). She called, and after some pleasantry, informed me that in addition to her cough, she is short of breath. Although I urged her to call her doc and ask for an x-ray, or at least listen to her lungs, and she agreed to do so, I have the sense that she did not follow through. I couldn't reach her today. I called my niece, who said she spoke with her mom yesterday. Dolo did not mention her shortness of breath or an x-ray. Just said she was tired. I'm not sure if the brain metastasis messes with her memory now. I don't know if she's starting to give up, if she's depressed because her oncologist is leaving in two months ... it may be all of these things. I pray for her spirit mostly. That she continue to tread the waters that burst over her.

My oldest and dearest friend, who was hospitalized with a hospital acquired sepsis and pneumonia following a routine procedure (angiogram), developed an infectious diarrhea ... c. deficile for you medical folks ...from the antibiotics. Her bronchoscopy was negative for cancer, only showing evidence of the bacterial infection of her lungs. Her daughter and I, with my friend, decided that it was better to try and rehab at home ... before hospitalization killed her. She's doing just fine, thanks.

Thanks to all for prayers, light, candles. Many thanks for the PMs and emails. You have sustained me and given me strength. I can breath this in, this love, support and care, and be strong for my loved ones.

Lady Pamela 10-20-2010 06:16 PM

Update on my Great Great Nephew


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He is out of surgery and th road ahead is a hard one.
Thank you so much for the candles and energy for him.
And I ask to continue till he is on the mend.

I will keep you updated....and thank you so very muc.

Kenna 10-20-2010 06:53 PM

For little Zahra
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May you find peace, sweetheart.

AtLast 10-21-2010 01:20 AM

Keep lighting candles for my sister and her stresses as an Alzheimer's care-giver for her husband. He has been declining significantly as of late. I hear the hurt in her voice when we talk on the phone. The grieving for the real person she has spent over 40 years with.

I am thankful, however, that they do have good health insurance and both had good retirement pensions. To have this to deal with and not have these resources has just got to be horrible and many, many people are in that position. So, although I am sad, I know other people have it far worse. That would hurt far more.

MysticOceansFL 10-21-2010 03:27 AM

Lighting a candle for your widdle grand nephew!!!!

Miss Scarlett 10-21-2010 04:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 211326)
For little Zahra
http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...v7zLNo4hTfYKs=
May you find peace, sweetheart.

Me too. I hope they find her soon.

sylvie 10-21-2010 05:42 AM

lighting a candle in memory of ma tante and my marraine (aunt & godmother) Irene.. she was such a kindhearted soul, and was taken from us far too soon in 1999.. she's been on my mind so often as of late, and miss her tremendously.. she was the one person in my life who stood by me, encouraged me to be me, and loved me genuinely... ♥ miss you much Ma Tante xox!

- also lighting a candle for all those in need, sending you peace, strength & love ♥

Tommi 10-21-2010 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 210903)
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-..._1715846_n.jpg

This is Kaison
My Great, Great Nephew

Kaison was born at 28 weeks of pragnancy and his hips grew inward as well as his arm muscles are tight.
He is now off the breathing machines and oxygen...thank you for everyones prayers.

I have come once again to ask for energy and prayers as well as candles.

He returns today on the 20th to the hospital for his first of many surgeries.

He is getting a tendon cut in his hip to lenghthen it as well as his achielles tendons. The surgery itself lasts 2 hours and recovery is 3 hours if all goes well.


I want to thank all in advance for helping our lil man..I am in hopes one day he will be able to walk as well as use his arms normally.

The doctors say it looks good...but we have a long road ahead.


Sending wisdom to the medicine men and power to Kaison the Strong Young Warrior.

DomnNC 10-21-2010 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet (Post 211326)
For little Zahra
http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...v7zLNo4hTfYKs=
May you find peace, sweetheart.

Amen sweet. Bless her heart.

Spirit Dancer 10-21-2010 11:12 AM

Sharing the link for those who have never been
you can also light candles there.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...m?l=eng&gi=SDR

Lighting for all those here today who need healing
and strength, hope and faith.
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Spirit Dancer 10-21-2010 11:37 AM

For Syr
There isn't a need for words, you
already know them.
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Diva 10-21-2010 12:05 PM

Today, I lit candles for........

~ Eagle Spirit

~ Spirit Dancer

~ For A

~ For K & V

~ For Erin Parker

~ For Maggie & M



WolfyOne 10-21-2010 12:42 PM

Sneaking in to drop off prayer candles

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Lady Pamela 10-21-2010 02:46 PM

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On behalf of our family I would like to say thank you for all the energy,candles and prayers.

Lil Kaison is now home and will have his casts removed in 3 months. His pain is still not under controle real well but that is being worked on.

His hip is dislocated and two club feet they are trying to fix..alteast this surgery..he has many more.

He got a new car seat for his lil casts...smiles

Thanks again!


waxnrope 10-21-2010 04:25 PM

I want to steal that baby, Lady P! Better light my own candle so I don't get into trouble ...

Lady Pamela 10-21-2010 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 211922)
I want to steal that baby, Lady P! Better light my own candle so I don't get into trouble ...


Awwww ty..he is such a beautiful soul. And such a fighter from day one. I just love that I was blessed to be his great great aunt.

lol

LipstickLola 10-21-2010 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 212002)
Awwww ty..he is such a beautiful soul. And such a fighter from day one. I just love that I was blessed to be his great great aunt.

lol

Precious, precious!!! Love me a little baby boy, mine is too big to rock
Will remember your sweet baby boy.ox
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Lady Pamela 10-21-2010 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LipstickLola (Post 212019)
Precious, precious!!! Love me a little baby boy, mine is too big to rock
Will remember your sweet baby boy.ox
.

Seee why this planet is so awesome..people who love unconditionally..ya all rock!

miss entycing 10-21-2010 07:34 PM


Chancie 10-21-2010 07:37 PM

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princessbelle 10-21-2010 07:56 PM

For the ones in need of a hug, blessing, prayer or hand.

For old friends and new ones that are hurting, are sick, lonely, desperate or just needs a little light.

For those that haven't come forward but are in need of something that is just to hard to talk about....




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Blade 10-21-2010 08:05 PM

Lighting a candle for Nannie, she's in the hospital with pneumonia, and her blood sugar is way high.:praying:

Blade 10-21-2010 08:08 PM

Lighting a candle also for

Eagle Spirit

Spirit Dancer

Precious lil Spirit

DomnNC 10-21-2010 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 211922)
I want to steal that baby, Lady P! Better light my own candle so I don't get into trouble ...

I'm with you on that wax. Bless his little heart, he looks like a lil trooper! Will keep him, you and your family in my thoughts and prayers Pamela. Can you just imagine how strong that lil baby is???

Lady Pamela 10-21-2010 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DomnNC (Post 212198)
I'm with you on that wax. Bless his little heart, he looks like a lil trooper! Will keep him, you and your family in my thoughts and prayers Pamela. Can you just imagine how strong that lil baby is???


Thank you so much..Even though he is hurting..he always seems to push out a smile
He is such a gift to all he comes into contact with.
Ty again.


Tommi 10-22-2010 12:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 212247)
Thank you so much..Even though he is hurting..he always seems to push out a smile
He is such a gift to all he comes into contact with.
Ty again.


With that smile he is a winner ya know.:bunchflowers:

Ms. Tabitha 10-22-2010 05:19 AM

Lighting a candle for Terrell Martin who is my bestest guy buddy.
He had been my EMS partner for over 20 years.
We have been each others rock through lifes up's and down's, on duty and off.
He had gastric bypass surgery on the 19th.
What was supposed to be an hour laparoscopic surgery, turned into serious complications and into a 7 1/2 hour ordeal.
He is in critical condition in ICU in Beaumont.
He is still on a vent and is now showing signs of renal failure and had his first round of dialysis last night and will have his second one today.
:rrose:


Lady Pamela 10-22-2010 05:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi (Post 212267)
With that smile he is a winner ya know.:bunchflowers:


Awww ty..and yes I know..lol I will give him a super long hug for ya all...smiles

ravfem 10-22-2010 09:14 AM

For those of us who are traveling this weekend.

and also, for those of us who may be facing hard news and important decisions...

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miss entycing 10-22-2010 11:37 AM


Kenna 10-22-2010 12:39 PM



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