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incisive, inquisitive, insightful, with an irreverent mind. enjoy a philosophical discussion as much as i do, and naturally charming, confident but most of all thoughtful..
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Be willing to let go when you give love .
Sounds complicated, easier said than done, but I recently practiced doing that very thing. I had a great year and a half with an amazing person in my life and although we love each other, we have to say good bye. He took a 2 year assignment overseas. We enjoyed our time together. We care about each other's happiness, so we're letting go of each other by sending each other off with loving wishes for the very best for both of us. |
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zimzum..of love~
When you love someone, it's no longer all about you. Your center of gravity expands and you create space for another person to thrive in your life while they do the same thing for you...
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remember what brought you together.............. :blush:
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Talk things out instead of yelling and screaming at each other.
Always overuse the words I Love You. |
in hard times, don't go for the jugular......
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be patient and let the other one catch up to what you just said...even if it takes awhile. Even if they argue against it. Even if you feel you werent heard...
and if they still didnt hear you...say it softer instead of harder. |
~ Be all of yourself, not just the "pretty picture" parts, even during the honeymoon.
~ Remember there are 2 people to think of in major decisions that will affect the other person. ~ Know when to walk away and give space when it's needed. ~ Communicate in any way possible. ~ Stay in touch with your passions and core beliefs. ~ Validate the other person's feelings. ~ Try to act out of love & care, not resentment. ~ Stay connected. ~ Spend quality time. ~ Don't forget all of the little things that made you fall in love with each other in the first place. ~ Get help if you need it. ~ Recognize and face if it isn't working out. |
At the very start of the relationship read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and determine your partners language.
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Amen. In my opinion, there is no way around knowing this type of important information to avoid being lost in translation and not knowing why.
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"I'm sorry" goes a long way
Apparently, "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings" are just empty words.
Even if your intent wasn't to hurt someone's feelings, once they are hurt a heartfelt "I'm sorry" makes things better. Two morals to this story: Less is more. You can teach an old butch new tricks. :mohawk: |
listen , share , laugh a lot together, seduce w/your body & soul , feast on hys needs , give in 2 hym.
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stay true to who you are... its easy to forget who you are sometimes....
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keep that communication going!
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Laugh, a lot!!!
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Show up, in every way.
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Keep those neurochemicals flowing. There's nothing like healthy daily doses of adrenaline, endorphins, enkephalins, and oxytocin to keep a relationship alive and healthy.
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be supportive when they are dealing with their own life's tuff stuff.
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Know when to keep your cake hole shut.
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Pick your battles! and only pick the ones you can win!
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by all means lean on each other..............
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Have integrity and a good moral compass, during the relationship, and even after it's over.
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But yes this is a good lesson for both butches and femmes keep ya cake hole shut! |
Have some consideration for the other person. It goes a long way.
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It's a good question...each relationship is unique as are the people in them, but respect, understanding and communication should be the foundation to work from I feel.
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Daisy is British so maybe cake hole is more common across the pond!
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think before you speak!
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Forgive freely.
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Communicate.
Compromise. Be consistent. Laugh a lot! |
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Simply put: Tell the truth. Don't cheat. Be selfless in your affection for the one you love. Strive for the betterment of your romantic relationship. Be kind. Kiss and laugh and hold hands, often. Give nothing less than the very best.
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listen and let your response be measured
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don't let the flirting come to an end.........
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Let your walls down. Trust.
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