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Mel C. 09-30-2012 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 665410)
Ok Butches... advice please. I don't want to appear too anxious, but I don't want her to feel like I'm not interested. What do you think?
Ok, when you email or text someone, do you want them to respond when they can, or wait until they get around to it? It's one thing to not check your messages, but another to ignore them. You received the message, so why not respond to it?

ruthie14 10-01-2012 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Mel (aka BlistexLez) (Post 665466)
Ok, when you email or text someone, do you want them to respond when they can, or wait until they get around to it? It's one thing to not check your messages, but another to ignore them. You received the message, so why not respond to it?
Ya Mel, 2 out of 3 butches said to email her (sorry little feather) so I did. Seems like the right move. Found another lovely email from her this morning. We shall see how it all turns out.

Have a wonderful Monday friends!!!


Ruthie

morningstar55 10-01-2012 05:37 AM
Morning loft dwellers nd peekers
its hard to do alot of this posting from my phone , forgive me for not responding much.

Two-spirit 10-01-2012 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 665716)
Ya Mel, 2 out of 3 butches said to email her (sorry little feather) so I did. Seems like the right move. Found another lovely email from her this morning. We shall see how it all turns out.

Have a wonderful Monday friends!!!


Ruthie
Smiles,

Its all good and dandy,I hope u find what you are seeking for..good luck..

Countyfem 10-01-2012 12:44 PM
Afternoon everyone! Another rainy day here in NC Pride was nearly washed out this weekend but it seemed everyone had a great time!

Hope ya'll have had a terrific Monday!

Mr.Nobody 10-01-2012 01:12 PM
Hey y'all...I would like to hang out in here with you if I may. I live in South Dakota and turned 50 last year. I'm a photographer now, after a first career as a car detailer.
I look forward to getting to know some of you a little...

lusciouskiwi 10-01-2012 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr.Nobody (Post 665890)
Hey y'all...I would like to hang out in here with you if I may. I live in South Dakota and turned 50 last year. I'm a photographer now, after a first career as a car detailer.
I look forward to getting to know some of you a little...
Hiya Mr Nobody, sure you can hang out with us :)

What kind of photography do you do? Are you able to make a living out of it?

Mel C. 10-01-2012 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 665716)
Ya Mel, 2 out of 3 butches said to email her (sorry little feather) so I did. Seems like the right move. Found another lovely email from her this morning. We shall see how it all turns out.

Have a wonderful Monday friends!!!


Ruthie
I think the best advice I can offer a femme is to be YOU. No facade, no "lemme try to be who they want", no games (unless they are games you are both into). JUST BE YOU. After the wooing, YOU is what remains, so why not start off with that? Plus, having met in person, I think YOU is wonderful

morningstar55 10-01-2012 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr.Nobody (Post 665890)
Hey y'all...I would like to hang out in here with you if I may. I live in South Dakota and turned 50 last year. I'm a photographer now, after a first career as a car detailer.
I look forward to getting to know some of you a little...
((((((((((MrNobody)))t))))))))))) U .... r sombody to me.. lol
welcome to the loft :)
how many yrs have we known each other???? Ha..
ladies ... Mr nobody is a tall handsome thing ;)

eclectic_fox 10-01-2012 07:59 PM
hi all, I'm 45 and would like to join you all. I'm new here and keep wanting to go through all the threads but there's so much… (and it's taking me a while to find the send button)
have a great evening!

Two-spirit 10-01-2012 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by eclectic_fox (Post 666169)
hi all, I'm 45 and would like to join you all. I'm new here and keep wanting to go through all the threads but there's so much… (and it's taking me a while to find the send button)
have a great evening!
Hello,
and welcome,I'm new myself just joined about a week ago..Met some nice people and hoping to keep meetign new friends.

Little Feather

morningstar55 10-01-2012 08:28 PM
Welcome to the loft Fox .. :)

ruthie14 10-01-2012 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Mel (aka BlistexLez) (Post 665998)
I think the best advice I can offer a femme is to be YOU. No facade, no "lemme try to be who they want", no games (unless they are games you are both into). JUST BE YOU. After the wooing, YOU is what remains, so why not start off with that? Plus, having met in person, I think YOU is wonderful
Thanks Mel, I needed to hear that right now!!You are very sweet!

Apparently, this woman doesn't share your opinion. I am ok, I guess, but the fact that my mother shares my home (mind you she is independent, healthy, is not here 2x's a week, very accepting of me and my friends/gf etc) and that I have a dog... well, that put the brakes on it. Wow... really?

Oh well, such is my love life recently....

on top of that, my dog has been ill the last 24 hours. Was trying to figure it out... finally I realized my mother had given her a steak bone from her dinner last night. Bella has a very sensitive tummy and cannot eat but very spacific things. So here I am, up late, washing her bedding, cooking rice and will have to get up early to cook her chicken (had to get it out of the freezer and is just starting to thaw) so she can have it for breakfast. She is still throwing up. I am exhausted! Only had Sunday afternoon off from working and will work straight through to the weekend. 2 jobs on tues and thursday. urrrrggggg

:ohm: Can somebody please help me find my happy place!!!

Mel C. 10-01-2012 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 666228)

:ohm: Can somebody please help me find my happy place!!!
Poor baby. I am sorry to hear things aren't great. I am a big fan of being real. I have major highs and major lows. If someone only sees one or the other, they don't know ME. I figure, put it all out there and the ones who are skeered aren't the "right" people to be in your inner circle. Sometimes people just need to absorb for a bit and then they come to their senses.

I'm also wishing your pup a better tummy.

HUGS

clay 10-01-2012 09:29 PM
evening all you beautiful lofters! Welcome to the newbies! Great to see new folks on this thread.
I read posts often, don't post much here! Enjoy seeing how everyone is doing!
Hugs Ruthie...it WILL get better....hang in there my friend!!
Enjoy your evening everyone...Clay

LipstickLola 10-02-2012 07:13 AM
Wow! Lots of action in here, yaaaaay! :D

Ruthie, hang tight!!! I share your struggles!! I'd love to be able to connect with other women, there just isn't a place like that in my community and everyone I know is partnered, sigh....

It's rainy and nasty out this morning and since I'm still in recovery mode I think I'll nap then head off to the gym for a little light rehab.

Hope everyone here (Welcome New Lofters!!) has had a great start to their week!!
:lips:

deb0670 10-02-2012 07:44 AM
hiya everyone ! I would love to join this Awesome group of people. I am 42, a mother of three( son is 25, then two daughters 23,and an almost 16 yr old) and a grandmother of a nine month old grandson. I feel older than I am sometimes, especially admitting that i have a 25 yr old, but then I have to remind myself i had him two weeks before I turned 17.

dykeumentary 10-02-2012 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 666228)
Thanks Mel, I needed to hear that right now!!You are very sweet!

Apparently, this woman doesn't share your opinion. I am ok, I guess, but the fact that my mother shares my home (mind you she is independent, healthy, is not here 2x's a week, very accepting of me and my friends/gf etc) and that I have a dog... well, that put the brakes on it. Wow... really?
I told you that you should have made a move on the OTHER one!!! :)

Ruthie, you're amazing and the perfect butch will come to you.
We will just keep having fun until then, ok ! ?

Two-spirit 10-02-2012 09:42 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 666228)
Thanks Mel, I needed to hear that right now!!You are very sweet!

Apparently, this woman doesn't share your opinion. I am ok, I guess, but the fact that my mother shares my home (mind you she is independent, healthy, is not here 2x's a week, very accepting of me and my friends/gf etc) and that I have a dog... well, that put the brakes on it. Wow... really?

Oh well, such is my love life recently....

on top of that, my dog has been ill the last 24 hours. Was trying to figure it out... finally I realized my mother had given her a steak bone from her dinner last night. Bella has a very sensitive tummy and cannot eat but very spacific things. So here I am, up late, washing her bedding, cooking rice and will have to get up early to cook her chicken (had to get it out of the freezer and is just starting to thaw) so she can have it for breakfast. She is still throwing up. I am exhausted! Only had Sunday afternoon off from working and will work straight through to the weekend. 2 jobs on tues and thursday. urrrrggggg

:ohm: Can somebody please help me find my happy place!!!
Sorry to hear about yr dog. hope he/she gets better..

Canela 10-02-2012 09:44 AM
Jumping in...
 
Hi Everyone,

I'd like to be part of this group as well...
I'm 49 and am having a great time and a hard time with myself right now...lol

I'm in transition, I moved last year, downsizing since I'm now an empty-nester (but that's getting easier)...I'm in a healing place right now, as far as my heart is concerned and I'm really needing/looking for a safe/comfortable place in our community, if you will. This feels like that place.

So, I hope it's okay if I stay awhile...?


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