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bright_arrow 08-02-2010 09:58 PM
Don't push me when I'm irritated at you. I like to think I'm very laid back, it takes a bit to set me off, and I don't want to be annoyed/angry with you. It takes a lot more for me to get over being angry with you than if I am just irritated. Besides, I will get snippy. There's a side of me you shouldn't have to ever see, and if you do, not directed at you! :sunglass:

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by softness (Post 166828)
Mistie..I love ya! Its an old story and its over now...lol. LONG over, long time ago. But it still pertains to this thread, so I included it.

I dont think there will be another butch to ever make me sad again, honey. I would kiss you if I could....for the love you gave me here tonight...

and by the way, I look damn good fat...lol...
BBW's are beautiful :) :bunchflowers: And you deserve nothing but the best Ms Softness, thank you,

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 10:09 PM
Understand that I dont have family dont belittle me because you do.

Dont be verbally/physically/emotionally abusive in any way to me

Dont expect me to pay your bills

Dont complain about me being too mushy. When Im a man whose comfortable enough to tell you and show you that I love you and adore you.

When you know I dont dance, dont dance to love songs with other butches while out. Its disrespectful. And rude. Besides I may have two left feet but would slow dance with you given the chance.

Dont fall asleep during a heartfelt conversation

Lynn 08-02-2010 10:11 PM
Don't yell at me or call me names. Don't be sarcastic when you are angry or say "nothing" when I ask what's wrong.

Don't notice and appreciate beautiful women and expect me not to do the same. We sometimes are attracted to the same thing. Sorry that weirds you out.

bright_arrow 08-02-2010 10:11 PM
Don't tickle me to wake me up. You will have one seething, hissing, hellbent femme on your hands!

bright_arrow 08-02-2010 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Lynn (Post 166839)
Don't yell at me or call me names. Don't be sarcastic when you are angry or say "nothing" when I ask what's wrong.

Don't notice and appreciate beautiful women and expect me not to do the same. We sometimes are attracted to the same thing. Sorry that weirds you out.
I am guilty of sometimes being sarcastic while angry, though I do my hardest not to be.

And I hate to be told "nothing" is wrong when something is clearly wrong...

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by desdansmoncoeur (Post 166840)
Don't tickle me to wake me up. You will have one seething, hissing, hellbent femme on your hands!
Im the same way except I will be one moody dude. LOL I cant stand to be "hollered" at either to be woken up... DONT every do that one either lol

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Lynn (Post 166839)
Don't yell at me or call me names. Don't be sarcastic when you are angry or say "nothing" when I ask what's wrong.

Don't notice and appreciate beautiful women and expect me not to do the same. We sometimes are attracted to the same thing. Sorry that weirds you out.
Yea I hate that too. Being yelled at and called names. I also hate the sarcastic "nothing" when asked if something is wrong.

Soft*Silver 08-02-2010 10:20 PM
I just had to say it...
 
yeah....well....call me fat and I will say "nothing!" when you ask me what is wrong...lol....

we will need a :fireman: to put out the fires with that!


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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie (Post 166847)
Yea I hate that too. Being yelled at and called names. I also hate the sarcastic "nothing" when asked if something is wrong.

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by softness (Post 166849)
yeah....well....call me fat and I will say "nothing!" when you ask me what is wrong...lol....

we will need a :fireman: to put out the fires with that!
LOL I have no doubt! :)

Lynn 08-02-2010 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by desdansmoncoeur (Post 166843)
I am guilty of sometimes being sarcastic while angry, though I do my hardest not to be.

And I hate to be told "nothing" is wrong when something is clearly wrong...
Believe me, I can be sarcastic, too. I work on it.

Maybe the biggest one of all is:

Don't be hesitant to take responsibility for what you do, and I'll do the same. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. A quiet apology goes a long way.

bigbutchmistie 08-02-2010 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Lynn (Post 166857)
Believe me, I can be sarcastic, too. I work on it.

Maybe the biggest one of all is:

Don't be hesitant to take responsibility for what you do, and I'll do the same. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. A quiet apology goes a long way.
AMEN, AMEN AND AMEN !!!!! :)

bright_arrow 08-02-2010 10:43 PM
Don't tell me you don't deserve me. You do. I am not perfect, I have flaws. How do you not deserve someone who will care about you and love you? Everyone deserves that.

Don't get snippy with me. You might be in a bad mood or caught off guard but do NOT bite my head off. And do not use profanity aimed towards me or something I may have done. I get defensive and the last thing I want to do is be around you because now I feel like worthless.

tuffboi29 08-02-2010 11:17 PM
If you're mad at me, fine...but for the love o' Moses...DO NOT say "whatever" and disregard what I have to say on the situation.
I swear thats the most juvenile thing I've ever heard come up in an argument.

DamonK 08-03-2010 02:03 AM
Don't forget why you fell in love in the first place.

If that happens, sometimes, you can never recover.

dark_crystal 08-03-2010 08:45 AM
do not escalate every disagreement to "we might as well just break up, then"

because we will.

i have been emotionally blackmailed with this one too many times, and i dated a butch a couple of years ago that i warned straight up about this. i was really attracted to hym. i really liked hym. we had a really good time together. i was considering relocating, even.

then one day hy picked a fight with me thru text message (!) and when it didn't go hys way hy texted me that maybe i should just go find someone else if i wasn't going to act right (!)

hy never heard from me again.

Rockinonahigh 08-03-2010 08:55 AM
Oh yes I get ya'll on the hollering,tickleing and belittling ...one more thing to add..dont ever grab me in anger and threatin me..not cool..u will not win...u will be out the door ina flash.

Julie 08-03-2010 09:04 AM
To be naked ~ Body and Soul
Is a most vulnerable place
Do Not turn your back and walk away
I will never forget that hurt ~ nor will I let it go

foxyshaman 08-03-2010 10:22 AM
Dont start a deep conversation, or try to sort out an issue, when I am on my way to bed. Or when I am in bed. If you want to talk to me, do it when i am awake.

amiyesiam 08-03-2010 11:47 AM
don't call me controlling when I won't do what you want me to do


and don't blame me when you want to do something I don't wan to do and you chose not to do it cause I won't do it.


don't hog the remote, the music, the phone or anything else that impacts me cause i am in the same space

don't expect me to entertain you all the time. I am never bored and there will never be enough hours in the day to learn, do, find out about, discover, read, craft, etc. everything I would want to.

don't tell me you are bored all the time
bored people are lazy or boring in and of them selves.


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