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be realistic, make goals, have dreams and make a plan, don't just talk about it
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what to do in a relationship
Treat her like a lady Pick flowers for her on your way home Bring her breakfast in bed every sunday then uuumm (lol)
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share, everything.
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~Talk less, listen more
~never let an I love you go unexpressed ~make your actions match your words ~do silly things together, like dancing in the rain :) ~fall asleep in each others arms ~flirt with each other |
Apologize when you know you have said or done something wrong.
Accept an apology and acknowledge their effort to make one. (f) |
Sell your pedestal on Craigslist but compliment her life and bring her up not down.
Keep your "spidey sense" insurance for those wtf moments. Make love like it is the last time you will ever have the chance. Keep your finger on the eject lever for at least he first three months. Try to do your best to bring half (or more than half) to the table. |
allow yourself to be loved.
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Don't assume that the online version, weekend getaway version is the real thing, do your homework and don't hide from the truth. Honesty and reality are crucial to make it work, even the smallest hint of dishonesty will ruin it. Be real about who you are and what your hard limits are. You can't "make" someone fit no matter how badly you want to. The little things in the beginning become the BIG things in the end.
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It's probably been said a few times,
-Dont' lie. -Keep communication open. -Never say it's ok when it's not. -Forget about pride. -If you say sorry, mean it. -Don't compare your past with your present. -Give and take process. -Be aware of each other's feelings. -Be available. My biggest thing is COMMUNICATION. |
Love like there is no tomorrow!
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Communicate. It's the most important thing.
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Never lie...never, never, ever! Not in a relationship or just a friendship. Not for ANY reason!
It destroys trust, creates doubt and is just wrong! |
Together and Apart
Nurture your own interests and life separate from your partner.
Maintain a little mystery. Create a time and space just for you and your partner to connect, without distraction or interruption. Make sacred space for your love and relationship. |
Belly laugh together about those "only we can get" things. Let yourselves laugh to the point of tears.
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Recognize when your defenses are up out of fear or past baggage.
Admit it and talk about it. Allow yourself the vulnerability that comes from such openness. It fosters love and closeness. I work on this daily. ❤ |
Talk, sometimes it's hard as hell but not talking just causes things to fester then they come out way too emotional.
Working on this now. |
Always show appreciation for the things your partner does not matter how small.
When you are busy and cannot talk on the phone; explain politely you will call them back when you are free and say you are thinking of them; it does make a difference to your partner. They will feel wanted even if you can’t spend time with them until later. When doing things together; like reading, smile, blow a kiss or wink at your partner if you’re not snuggling together. |
what to do !
Listen with your head not your heart .. Sometimes you don't like to hear whats being said so you block it and get defensive ( I am guilty of this ) but listen and open your heart to whats being presented to you. ALWAYS kiss goodnight even when your mad. Make time to be a couple . I love date nite. We try at least once a week to check in with each other so the little things don't turn into big things ! Choose love always !:bunchflowers:
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Quote:
Although i don't kiss when i am mad, i just want to be left alone. |
what to DO....
Be grateful that you have one because a lot of people don't. Cherish it and know that although its not always perfect, you are loved and with very little effort you can make it extraordinary. |
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