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Reach *BANNED* 05-26-2022 07:05 PM

I feel GREAT!! One month to go until the move!!!! Work is great!!! I have reconnected with someone special and that makes Me happy!!! So yeah - feel pretty damn great!!

Did I mention I feel great? (laughing)

Stone-Butch 05-26-2022 10:03 PM

How are you Feeling?
 
Feeling better now that our power is back on and we have our tv, phone, computer and lights back after the Tornado but with 6 dead no reason to feel elated.

Orema 06-08-2022 07:10 AM

Prety good. Bruno got a great report card. The blood tests were surprisingly good. His doctor called me excited that his white blood cells and thyroid seem to be doing well. That could be problematic with cats who have FiV.

I'm good and he's good. Errbody is good in the femme cave.

JDeere 06-08-2022 10:07 AM

Good just a bit achy in my joints due to the weather

Soft*Silver 06-10-2022 06:04 PM

Feeling silly….playing app games w the 5 year old grand daughter

Gemme 06-11-2022 10:36 AM

Pretty good. I have the whole weekend off and don't have to worry about anyone messing up my store. I'm going to relax and take things slow today. There's no need to be in a rush or get upset about anything. Breathe in, breathe out...Namaslay, y'all.

JDeere 06-11-2022 06:17 PM

Sneezy and snotty LOL, too may allergies!

Blade 06-18-2022 02:06 AM

Chuckles...well I'm alive and feeling pretty fair. Had COVID all week. Thought if my head would just go ahead and explode I'd feel better. I'm on the mend now and hopefully back to work Monday

Gemme 06-19-2022 03:44 PM

I feel good! Well, a little drowsy now but that's because it's darkening outside and I didn't get a full night's sleep but still good nonetheless.

I went to Pride last night! :rainbowAfro: I went later in the day so I didn't have to fight too many people to visit vendors and I wasn't going to eat there so I didn't need to hit up the food trucks. I was mainly going for the illuminated parade, which didn't start until 8pm. Once it got going, I was packed in with about 15,000 of my closest friends on my section of the parade route. They were expecting about 100,000 people altogether so I'm not sure how many in total showed up.

There was an adorable butch/femme couple slightly ahead and to my left. She was in a nice dress and dolled up with heels and a wrap and he/hy (pretty sure of the masc pronoun) had slicked back short hair and was in a nice suit vest and dress pants and a bowtie. OMG, a bow tie! I loved it and managed to get them in one of my video snippets.

The parade itself was a wee bit disappointing to me. Not sure if it's because they are still building back up after the shutdown or if it was always this way but when you tout something as "illuminated" it best damn be illuminated. All the way through. Nope. Some cars and floats were better than others but there were plenty of cars, floats and walkers that didn't have one bit of light on them. Shame! I wanted my eyes to burn from the light but alas, it was not meant to be. So, next year, I'll come earlier for the vendors but not worry about the parade, I think. And I'll attend PVD, which I did not this year because it's usually the same weekend as the parade but they had it last weekend and I didn't find out about it until Sunday late afternoon.

My squad consisted of my trainer, her girlfriend and 4 of their closest friends. All of them are in their 20's, which amused me because I also remembered not caring if I was losing my hearing or if my dogs were barking or not when I was their age. I did hold my own, though, and got a few compliments on my rainbow eyeshadow technique and was able to chat with all sorts of lovely people throughout the day and night.

I got home at 2am, went to bed at 5am, woke at 11:45am and kind of want a nap now but I'm one of those people who cannot nap without ruining the nightly sleep so I must plow through it. Next step, get off the computer, turn up the music and shake my booty!

Reach *BANNED* 06-26-2022 02:43 PM

I feel good and excited. I also feel upset with My sister. However, this will pass. It has been a busy weekend and the week looks much the same. But, by this time next week - I will feel pretty darn happy, for a lot of reasons.

JDeere 06-27-2022 04:51 PM

OLD lmao

Lupus issues rearing it's ugly head, pain management is helping in a way but I know the pain is forever and the meds only do so much.

homoe 06-28-2022 09:22 PM

For the past month I have had a horrible salty taste in my mouth!

Dentist has ruled out any dental issue, it's not COVID, not a sinus issue either so next I'll consult a Homeopath.

Has anyone ever experienced anything like this?

Orema 06-29-2022 09:02 AM

Not good. Having a bad week.

Bruno escaped on Monday. Took him to the vet for his booster and an exam. He didn't like anything about that. As soon as we returned home I tried brushing his jowls to get him in a better mood (he loves that more than almost anything else). The only time he won't let me brush/comb him is when he's in attack mode with his toys. Then all bets are off and he has no time for anyone nor anything else. Well, he was still huffy from the vet visit and didn't even want to get brushed, so I let him be and went on the deck. He rushed out just as I open the door. I have a raised deck with a slatted fence. He quickly ran to the slats and squeezed himself through and off he went running. I have been heart broken ever since.

Posters have been passed out, vets have been called, shelters and neighbors notified, his poster is on social media. I've been out searching for him while shaking his treats and calling out to him. Will get Rick to put up some chicken wire (or something) on the fence to help prevent this from happening again.

I drove into the garage door tryna get out quickly to search for Bruno when he initially ran off. The garage door is dented and won't fully close. I'll need to fix or replace it soon before the HOA notify me.

Now the air conditioner stopped working and will need a tune-up soon.

And it's only Wednesday.

Mostly I've been sad since he's been away, but I smile each time I remember that cutie pie squeezing and wriggling his big booty through that slatted fence. There is that.

JDeere 06-29-2022 03:08 PM

Tired just plain tired, no relief from physical pain, just temporary.

Nervous, excited, etc!

Reach *BANNED* 07-01-2022 10:11 AM

Two words - happy and excited!

JDeere 07-02-2022 08:09 PM

Sleepy....took my meds early and slept for a bit but still sleepy..may go back to bed soon.

Gemme 07-03-2022 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1288881)
For the past month I have had a horrible salty taste in my mouth!

Dentist has ruled out any dental issue, it's not COVID, not a sinus issue either so next I'll consult a Homeopath.

Has anyone ever experienced anything like this?

Dry mouth seems to be the prevalent cause that pops up when I do a Google search on it. Other options, since your dentist ruled out the oral stuff, is dehydration, medication side effect, hormonal changes, neurological issues, Sjögren Syndrome, a nutritional deficiency or acid reflux.

Do you think it could be one of those issues?


Quote:

Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1288883)
Not good. Having a bad week.

Bruno escaped on Monday. Took him to the vet for his booster and an exam. He didn't like anything about that. As soon as we returned home I tried brushing his jowls to get him in a better mood (he loves that more than almost anything else). The only time he won't let me brush/comb him is when he's in attack mode with his toys. Then all bets are off and he has no time for anyone nor anything else. Well, he was still huffy from the vet visit and didn't even want to get brushed, so I let him be and went on the deck. He rushed out just as I open the door. I have a raised deck with a slatted fence. He quickly ran to the slats and squeezed himself through and off he went running. I have been heart broken ever since.

Posters have been passed out, vets have been called, shelters and neighbors notified, his poster is on social media. I've been out searching for him while shaking his treats and calling out to him. Will get Rick to put up some chicken wire (or something) on the fence to help prevent this from happening again.

I drove into the garage door tryna get out quickly to search for Bruno when he initially ran off. The garage door is dented and won't fully close. I'll need to fix or replace it soon before the HOA notify me.

Now the air conditioner stopped working and will need a tune-up soon.

And it's only Wednesday.

Mostly I've been sad since he's been away, but I smile each time I remember that cutie pie squeezing and wriggling his big booty through that slatted fence. There is that.

Oh no! Is he chipped?

JDeere 07-03-2022 07:49 PM

Starting to hurt but i'm okay....just dealing with the moving/packing pains.. emotional and physical.

Reach *BANNED* 07-03-2022 08:46 PM

Tired, but still very, very happy!

Orema 07-04-2022 06:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1288969)
[B][SIZE="3"]Oh no! Is he chipped?

Yes, he's chipped and registered to me on multiple databases.

Still feeling in a funk.

nhplowboi 07-04-2022 06:41 AM

Disoriented and untethered. For the first time in 45 years I do not have a job to go to. Retirement is not going well. :(

FireSignFemme 07-04-2022 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1288991)
Yes, he's chipped and registered to me on multiple databases.

Still feeling in a funk.


I was just thinking about you both and wondering how things were going. Didn't want to bring it up though if you were trying to not think about it as much as is possible when going through something like this. Anyhow I just wanted to let you know my thoughts are with you and my prayers are for his safe and happy return.

Blade 07-04-2022 05:19 PM

Stuffed to the brim

Orema 07-04-2022 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme (Post 1289008)
I was just thinking about you both and wondering how things were going. Didn't want to bring it up though if you were trying to not think about it as much as is possible when going through something like this. Anyhow I just wanted to let you know my thoughts are with you and my prayers are for his safe and happy return.

Thank you, FSF.

I’ll be sure to let you all know when he returns.

Stone-Butch 07-07-2022 02:54 PM

How are You Feeling?
 
Disillusioned. I thought joining an all female chat room would be a place to meet ladies and perhaps have a date or two. OMG. No less than 5 countries and at least half of the womens' pics are of women who appear to be ready to do as much as cough hard and they will be prepared to breast feed the world. How can a woman feel good about herself exposing what the law allows and expects to find a person interested enough to make a date. Perhaps another woman like her I really don't know. I am feeling very let down by so many women that I thought might be a couple that were not offensive. Truly disappointed and yes disillusioned.

FireSignFemme 07-08-2022 04:47 PM

Oh wow wait, hold on a minute. If you want a woman who dresses a bit more conservatively then why not we all have our wants, our wishes. Own individual tastes. However just because a woman dresses in a way that you don't approve of doesn't mean she owes you any explanation as to why she does. Or that she wouldn't be a good match for somebody unless it was with another woman who enjoys dressing the same way herself.

Gemme 07-10-2022 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nhplowboi (Post 1288993)
Disoriented and untethered. For the first time in 45 years I do not have a job to go to. Retirement is not going well. :(

My former landscaper retired 3 times because he's not the type to do nothing. He worked for 30 years in a quarry and then started his landscaping business when he retired. Then he retired from the landscaping business decades later, sold his equipment and customer list, and tried to do the Florida retiree thing.

He failed. Between his inability to be still, his former customers were begging him to come back; that the yahoo that he sold the list to was not doing them justice. I didn't beg him to come back but it's true; the new guy was a moron. What landscaper starts work at 11am? Ridiculous. So, he came back, bought new equipment and got his list up and running again and did that for a few more years before Lyme forced him to stop. He's in his late 80s, btw.

Some people aren't meant to collect moss. I'm sure you'll find something to occupy your time that is fulfilling.

Stone-Butch 07-10-2022 06:54 PM

How Are You Feeling
 
I only meant that to openly display yourself like in a mens magazine to the point of being somewhat lewid then go to a magazine that produces that kind of display. I would like to see a woman advertise her intelligence, her way of thinking, her wants and likes, all about her that does not have to be in her exposure of body parts unnecessarily. Besides I am voicing MY opinion of what I see as proper in a room full of women who mostly are looking for love not dating because they have breasts (almost all women do). I like to see my partners in pvt not an advertisement to the world.

BullDog 07-11-2022 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch (Post 1289110)
I only meant that to openly display yourself like in a mens magazine to the point of being somewhat lewid then go to a magazine that produces that kind of display. I would like to see a woman advertise her intelligence, her way of thinking, her wants and likes, all about her that does not have to be in her exposure of body parts unnecessarily. Besides I am voicing MY opinion of what I see as proper in a room full of women who mostly are looking for love not dating because they have breasts (almost all women do). I like to see my partners in pvt not an advertisement to the world.

Did you really have to post the same judgmental post twice? It definitely wasn’t any better the second time around.

There is so much shaming of women that goes on especially about their bodies and how they dress. Do you really want to contribute to that?

Not my cup of tea either but I would just move on and not make judgmental comments.

BTW I find this a bit suspect and wonder if these are really legit pics posted by real women or if the photos have been put there to lure people in - probably men more than women. I’d be careful about any info I had on there. Then again it could be legit photos from real women. If so, more power to them. Hopefully they find what they are looking for.

JDeere 07-12-2022 12:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme (Post 1289054)
Oh wow wait, hold on a minute. If you want a woman who dresses a bit more conservatively then why not we all have our wants, our wishes. Own individual tastes. However just because a woman dresses in a way that you don't approve of doesn't mean she owes you any explanation as to why she does. Or that she wouldn't be a good match for somebody unless it was with another woman who enjoys dressing the same way herself.

^this....so much this, thank you!

I'm way tired of these old school butches.etc saying shit like they do about how a woman dresses, etc... IDK if they don't stop and think that femmes or women,think the same shit about butches,bois, non binary, transmen and transwomen! It needs to stop, stop shaming someone!

JDeere 07-12-2022 12:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BullDog (Post 1289121)
Did you really have to post the same judgmental post twice? It definitely wasn’t any better the second time around.

There is so much shaming of women that goes on especially about their bodies and how they dress. Do you really want to contribute to that?

Not my cup of tea either but I would just move on and not make judgmental comments.

BTW I find this a bit suspect and wonder if these are really legit pics posted by real women or if the photos have been put there to lure people in - probably men more than women. I’d be careful about any info I had on there. Then again it could be legit photos from real women. If so, more power to them. Hopefully they find what they are looking for.

Ty for this, as well!!! I'm glad I'm not the only one seeing what I see!

Stone-Butch 07-14-2022 12:35 AM

Feeling
 
Feeling at a loss for words. I have never seen a chatter bombarded like you have done toward me. I did not get my opinion from being an old school butch (by the way that is an attack on old school butches). I learned how respectable women showed up in public and a place of meeting is public. If someone was offended then yes by all means voice your opinion as I know that some folks like your opinion if it matches theirs. It is easy to bully people in a computer. You know who I mean. I will not bore you with anymore of my opinions. It must be nice to have a clear conscience and never offend anyone. I pointed at noone in here. Noone knows who and where I am speaking of but it does not matter. I learned to respect women in my own home where I was taught manners and respect. I hope you all who are involved take a look at yourself and then cast the first stone. Amen

BullDog 07-14-2022 01:39 AM

Well that’s a very disappointing response. You say you respect “respectable” women - so in other words they have to meet your standards. There is a long history of women being shamed based on how they dress or present themselves. That is specifically what I brought up. No one is bullying you. You are the one refusing to look at the issue. You can choose to chat and date who you want to without being so judgmental and contributing to the shaming of women - based on your own words here and not on whatever your background happens to be which to me is irrelevant. We are all responsible for what we say and write and your life story doesn’t have anything to do with that.

As a Butch I would think you would understand. We come under so much criticism for how we dress, having short hair, etc. sometimes it’s brutal. And yet we present ourselves in how it feels natural to us and not to meet society’s expectations despite often being treated with utter disdain.

homoe 07-14-2022 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1288881)
For the past month I have had a horrible salty taste in my mouth!

Dentist has ruled out any dental issue, it's not COVID, not a sinus issue either so next I'll consult a Homeopath.

Has anyone ever experienced anything like this?

I've started a regiment of Mercurius and Bio-Vegetarian.

IF anyone gets this issue, forget traditional medicine and head to a homeopath!

JDeere 07-14-2022 06:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch (Post 1289141)
Feeling at a loss for words. I have never seen a chatter bombarded like you have done toward me. I did not get my opinion from being an old school butch (by the way that is an attack on old school butches). I learned how respectable women showed up in public and a place of meeting is public. If someone was offended then yes by all means voice your opinion as I know that some folks like your opinion if it matches theirs. It is easy to bully people in a computer. You know who I mean. I will not bore you with anymore of my opinions. It must be nice to have a clear conscience and never offend anyone. I pointed at noone in here. Noone knows who and where I am speaking of but it does not matter. I learned to respect women in my own home where I was taught manners and respect. I hope you all who are involved take a look at yourself and then cast the first stone. Amen

You're not being attacked, we are pointing out how you are shaming women, even femmes. You want us to look at our behavior, you have to do the same in this community.

I don't see eye to eye much with Bulldog but this situation, I do! We get shamed by short hair, etc as Bulldog said, women including the femmes in this community, get shamed for showing too much, by folks like yourself.

I don't care who you date but check your behaviors before you tell us to check ours!

C0LLETTE 07-15-2022 10:07 AM

Surely the "tits-in-public" convo hasn't ended already!
Just as my interest was 'roused.

Cin 07-15-2022 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by C0LLETTE (Post 1289156)
Surely the "tits-in-public" convo hasn't ended already!
Just as my interest was 'roused.

You never fail to crack me up.

kittygrrl 07-16-2022 04:40 PM

Interesting comments on behavior and shaming however, we are all encouraged here to share our feelings ...i understand why Stonebutch feels the way she/hy does..i think it's perfectly ok to have preferences about what kind of woman attracts you and what does not...i don't think he meant to offend anyone....i'm an adult and i own my truth and i can live easily with hers/hys..we can still hang and talk.

homoe 07-16-2022 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 1289165)
Interesting comments on behavior and shaming however, we are all encouraged here to share our feelings ...i understand why Stonebutch feels the way she/hy does..i think it's perfectly ok to have preferences about what kind of woman attracts you and what does not...i don't think he meant to offend anyone....i'm an adult and i own my truth and i can live easily with hers/hys..we can still hang and talk.

:goodpost:

Well put kittygrrl......

Orema 07-17-2022 05:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 1289165)
Interesting comments on behavior and shaming however, we are all encouraged here to share our feelings ...i understand why Stonebutch feels the way she/hy does..i think it's perfectly ok to have preferences about what kind of woman attracts you and what does not...i don't think he meant to offend anyone....i'm an adult and i own my truth and i can live easily with hers/hys..we can still hang and talk.

Oh please.

It’s one thing to say “I would like to see a woman advertise her intelligence, her way of thinking, her wants and likes…”

It’s quite another to comment on women being lewd and belonging in men’s magazine and discussing what is and isn’t necessary.

Yes, people can voice their opinion but they need to do it without being judgemental and shaming women.

It’s an easy concept.


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