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be realistic! life isn't a fairy tale, If you sugar coat the hard stuff, or ignore those little things that you know are a problem for you, you'll one day choke to death on it... handle the hard stuff accordingly
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When she expresses that something is important to her, make that thing important to you too.
Be her biggest supporter and cheerleader in her goals and dreams. Do things that make her want to come home. Make your home a place where she finds peace freedom and happiness. Create an envoriment so that when anything happens good and bad to her , you're the first person she wants to run to. |
remember nobody is perfect and when things happen.. esp not intentional things...its not about what happen.. its about the measures taken to assure it doesn't happen again.
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Love is precious and sacred...keep it both!!
Actively LISTEN......be attentive....observe body language, mannerisms. Respect one another's individuality. Make a date night regularly..or a weekend getaway often..just you two...no phones..no TV..just you and her. Add spice to your time spent alone. Dance and steal a kiss in the rain. Laugh at silly things. Belly buster laughs are healthy! Never let the inner child go away...share that at times. Share a coke float or a banana split.... Forget yesterday...it is gone...enjoy today as tomorrow is a present. Lie close in one another's arms at night..and dance horizontally...whisper sweet nothings in one another's ear. Wake her in the middle of the night with that flaming hot desire that drew you to her in the first place..and make love! with wild abandon...grin Agree to diagree..no one is ever the clear winner if you don't...it is both equally. Never forget those feelings of how it was when you first fell in love..get those butterfly in your tummy feelings again...ask her for a date. Don't forget how she takes your breath away..every time she steps into your world. Validate.....resonate..rejuvenate...keep love young, vibrant, and alive! |
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apologize when you need to
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This probably has been posted before….if so, I apologise.
Don’t assume you partner is telepathic; say how you are feeling, even if you have to write your feelings down first before sharing them. |
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Write her a letter telling her all you admire, and respect about her...tell her exactly why you love to love her...put it in an envelope put a stamp on it and mail it...even if you live together...Greco (OSOF Butch)
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When your partner has had a bad day, a loving hug, even if no words are spoken, speaks volumes. It’s crucial to continue to woo each other throughout the relationship, from 3 weeks to 30 years. Be each other's cheering section /advocate and always remember to laugh together! |
be each other's hero!
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T A L K !!!!!
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Take the time to lay in eachother's arms and let time stand still.
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Discover what fills the other's empty spot and try to understand what gives them focus and makes them feel valued.
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Feed that Fire!
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respecting YOUR freedom to be YOU! (you know what I mean...grin)
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remember daily what you like and appreciate about the other person. Give them respect. show them respect. Value who they are in your life. allow them the space to breathe and just be.
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Hold on to your OWN beliefs! Don't sell out! |
maintain friendships beyond the relationship....
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Who would do that though? i mean, what grown person would do that?
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