A butch who cooks well and knows what's what in the kitchen.

~ a rugged , butch ~ with a deepish voice ~

Accents. I mean, accents in general, though I have a few regional favourites.

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Also, being read to, especially when employing the above turn-on. Actually, you can read me the zoning notices in the paper for all I care, but something with a bit of poetry to it (whether it formally is or not) is irresistible.
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Confidence but not rude

Someone who is real, I can spot a fake the first time I meet them

Strong Personality

Intelligent

Attentive

when we first meet, she shakes my hand solidly and looks me in the eye. no shaking hands like we both have cooties. firm, sincere.

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Being greeted at the door by a woman wearing only an apron and holding a fresh baked cherry pie. ( apple is ok too).

*Being greeted with a kiss to the back of my hand, like in Titanic
*Gorgeous eyes that aren't afraid to smirk, shine, or twinkle at me
*A chain or choker just peeking out from a crisply ironed shirt.
*Very confident, or cocky with a heaping side of kindness underneath
*Messy hair
*Nice scent
*As I get to talking with you, funny as hell.

A femme who knows/loves football as much or more than I do

Crisp button-down shirt
Calm, attentive energy; bemused at same things I am

Seeing her wearing stockings and wondering what else she has on under that dress.

Tattoos
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Just any tattoos or certain artistic ones?

Fingers stroking the back of my neck while I drive.
Someone who is not afraid to take control when the mood strikes, but has no issue also not being in control.

When he says sweet things. ..:hk2:

Fingertips stroking my palm
Looks across the room

an irreverent sense of humor
intelligence
genuine kindness
the tickle of someone whispering in your ear
expressive eyes