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Hollylane 04-09-2012 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee (Post 561523)
i am thinking of doing Weight Watchers... i have issued with the complete focus on food but i love the meetings and the tools..

i need to lose about 25 pounds and lack any sort of self control

Even only knowing a little about you, I have a hard time believing you have no self control (Unless you're referring to Scramble) :) We've all got your back Dee, you can do whatever you set your mind to!

"stinkin' thinkin'" Sylvie, I am intimately familiar with this term. My mind is always at work, and I have to curb my own stinkin' thinkin' daily.

I have already planned a new hike, on Wednesday I am hiking at Forest Park. It is a relatively easy hike, 6 miles round trip, with very little elevation gain. I'm thinking about posting on the message board, with the hiking club. I want to find a few dedicated hikers who can go out on Wednesdays. I have that day off, and I am having my last session with my trainer this Wednesday evening, so I'm going to need to replace that time with some vigorous activity.

The hike this past Saturday made it clear that I need to do something about muscle cramping. I'm relatively certain that potassium and more water are the answers. Did I mention that I hate water? Trudging up that last hill back to the trail head also made me want to develop more stamina and more muscle in my upper thighs and buttocks. I was behind my friends on the way back up, and since they are both in great shape, I didn't expect to see the way they trudged up that last hill in the same manner as I did, so I'm not going to beat myself up too much about it.

Last night, I was feeling really worn down, but I made myself get up. I loaded up my backpack with bottled water (for extra weight), and took my dog down to the park. Once I convinced Chewy that we were walking for exercise, and not for leaving pee messages on every blade of grass between my house and the park, we got a good pace going, and walked about three miles. It ended up being quite the workout.

I hope you are all having a happy and healthy start to the week!

girl_dee 04-09-2012 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollylane (Post 561551)
Even only knowing a little about you, I have a hard time believing you have no self control (Unless you're referring to Scramble) :) We've all got your back Dee, you can do whatever you set your mind to!

"stinkin' thinkin'" Sylvie, I am intimately familiar with this term. My mind is always at work, and I have to curb my own stinkin' thinkin' daily.

I have already planned a new hike, on Wednesday I am hiking at Forest Park. It is a relatively easy hike, 6 miles round trip, with very little elevation gain. I'm thinking about posting on the message board, with the hiking club. I want to find a few dedicated hikers who can go out on Wednesdays. I have that day off, and I am having my last session with my trainer this Wednesday evening, so I'm going to need to replace that time with some vigorous activity.

The hike this past Saturday made it clear that I need to do something about muscle cramping. I'm relatively certain that potassium and more water are the answers. Did I mention that I hate water? Trudging up that last hill back to the trail head also made me want to develop more stamina and more muscle in my upper thighs and buttocks. I was behind my friends on the way back up, and since they are both in great shape, I didn't expect to see the way they trudged up that last hill in the same manner as I did, so I'm not going to beat myself up too much about it.

Last night, I was feeling really worn down, but I made myself get up. I loaded up my backpack with bottled water (for extra weight), and took my dog down to the park. Once I convinced Chewy that we were walking for exercise, and not for leaving pee messages on every blade of grass between my house and the park, we got a good pace going, and walked about three miles. It ended up being quite the workout.

I hope you are all having a happy and healthy start to the week!

Thank you, i am resolved and look forward to the WW meetings, years ago i went for fun, obsessed with my food intake i got to engage in all that wonderful talk about food and now i actually weigh enough to have to pay for the meetings and be a real member. i loved the interaction with the members and having the support in person, although this thread is a great help too!

i recently read a story about a woman, self proclaimed couch potato who adopted a rescue dog, The dog required 3 nice walks a day, so she walked (not stopped to allow the dog to pee at ever blade!) and lost 30 pounds without a diet, she and the dog are in great shape now. My little dixi pup could walk for acres, and we've got 200 here so no reason i should not be out there enjoying our hiking. i used to love hiking at one time, and she loves to explore so that is my goal, to not think of the E (exercise) word but to think of the A (activity) word which is what works for me. i feel so outta shape and i can't have that!

i wonder if scramble counts and an activity ;)

starryeyes 04-09-2012 07:47 PM

I am so so so sick of yo-yoing these 10 lbs. I am trying to get the switch flipped on in my brain again so I can become fully committed to being healthy. The weight just CREEPS up out of nowhere for me. I know I am eating bad and not on track, so of course it creeps up but wow. I just need to keep myself on track for the rest of my life which is scary for me. I want to do this and get this 20 lbs off!!! I went to the gym with my roommate today an had a great workout. It felt good! I am going to commit myself again. I know the results come just as fast as when they creep on. I CAN do this. I CAN do this!! Grrrr!

Medusa 04-09-2012 07:53 PM

HOOOO-AHHHHHHH!!!

Just got back from the gym and feeling STOKED. I shredded my legs tonight and finally got that desired drippy sweat I have been wanting.

Warm up:
30 minutes on treadmill at 4 incline @ 2.8 mph
10 minutes on elliptical at 4 incline

Weights:
5 sets of 15 on squat press
5 sets of 10 on outer thigh press
4 sets of 10 on butterfly lift machine
5 sets of 15 on quad press
5 sets of 15 on calf press machine


I really felt strong tonight at the gym and ended up working out for almost 2 hours. I like to do a slow, steady pace and it seems to be working well. My legs are starting to look different.


The gym is addictive. I don't generally have any free time during the week but thanks to a new account schedule at work, I am now only pulling 50 hours a week instead of 65 - 75. That has freed up a TON of time so the fact that I am doing the gym means that I am really having to focus on "me" versus everything else.

It feels super decadent.

Like self-therapy.

I kinda love it.

I know that there will be days that I don't love it and don't want to work out but right now, I love it and that's all that matters.

Novelafemme 04-09-2012 07:53 PM

Please keep my Katy in your thoughts. She started juicing today and I am so proud of her. She needs all the encouragement she can get. I love showing her everyone's posts on here...it's very motivating! xoxoxo

Leigh 04-09-2012 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme
Please keep my Katy in your thoughts. She started juicing today and I am so proud of her. She needs all the encouragement she can get. I love showing her everyone's posts on here...it's very motivating! xoxoxo


I've been interested in juicing for awhile now, you'll have to keep us updated on how it goes so ~ Go Katy Go!

Well today I started a challenge on SparkPeople.com about learning to curb my sweet tooth. I took a quiz and of course, as I knew already, I am addicted to sugar so I am hoping that this 4-week challenge will help me to atleast curb it even if I don't completely give it up ~ baby steps right? I also began today using their food tracker and I actually felt more accountable in keeping track of what I put into my mouth. I did have some sugar today I won't lie, but I didn't go overboard either surprisingly enough. I've also been looking into finally getting back into the gym after so much time off due to being sick with first bronchitis and then a viral infection ~ now that I'm doing better, I can finally get back to working out.

My mom and dad bought me a beautiful blue colored spring jacket from Wal-Mart tonight, size 3x and it is very tight around the midsection but it does technically fit. They were gonna take it back but I told them no don't do that, since I will be going back to the gym soon to start losing more weight I have decided to keep it for motivation ~ just think, losing some weight will mean that I'll be able to fit into the jacket and that's the perfect motivational tool for me to get my ass in gear. I'm very glad to be able to share my goals, motivations and more with all of you here :)

Hollylane 04-10-2012 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee (Post 561946)
Thank you, i am resolved and look forward to the WW meetings, years ago i went for fun, obsessed with my food intake i got to engage in all that wonderful talk about food and now i actually weigh enough to have to pay for the meetings and be a real member. i loved the interaction with the members and having the support in person, although this thread is a great help too!

i recently read a story about a woman, self proclaimed couch potato who adopted a rescue dog, The dog required 3 nice walks a day, so she walked (not stopped to allow the dog to pee at ever blade!) and lost 30 pounds without a diet, she and the dog are in great shape now. My little dixi pup could walk for acres, and we've got 200 here so no reason i should not be out there enjoying our hiking. i used to love hiking at one time, and she loves to explore so that is my goal, to not think of the E (exercise) word but to think of the A (activity) word which is what works for me. i feel so outta shape and i can't have that!

i wonder if scramble counts and an activity ;)

Scramble only counts as "A" when you move your finger fast enough, also I think that seeing the possibility of losing the game may increase your heart rate ;) J/K

Yes, the "E" is the part I do not like, but it makes it possible for me to participate in the "A" and enjoy it so much more. :)

Medusa, that is awesome! I was not as successful yesterday. I came home early and did not workout.

Good luck to Katy!

Funny thing I do:

I used to think that losing 5 or 10 pounds was not that much of an accomplishment. Then I started thinking of my weight in terms of chickens and turkeys. I know, I am strange, and I like me that way. But this past two weeks I've lost the equivalent of a good size Thanksgiving turkey. :) It puts it into perspective for me. When I think of how big a turkey is, I'm pretty impressed with myself.


Novelafemme 04-10-2012 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Hollylane (Post 562206)
Scramble only counts as "A" when you move your finger fast enough, also I think that seeing the possibility of losing the game may increase your heart rate ;) J/K

Yes, the "E" is the part I do not like, but it makes it possible for me to participate in the "A" and enjoy it so much more. :)

Medusa, that is awesome! I was not as successful yesterday. I came home early and did not workout.

Good luck to Katy!

Funny thing I do:

I used to think that losing 5 or 10 pounds was not that much of an accomplishment. Then I started thinking of my weight in terms of chickens and turkeys. I know, I am strange, and I like me that way. But this past two weeks I've lost the equivalent of a good size Thanksgiving turkey. :) It puts it into perspective for me. When I think of how big a turkey is, I'm pretty impressed with myself.


You crack me up :) I love laughing first thing in the morning! :)

ruffryder 04-10-2012 07:20 AM

Good morning everybody!

Isn't it funny when we have a sweet or junk food craving and we cave into it then we don't feel so good afterward and think why did I just do that? I think that helps that next time you will make the healthy food choice instead. After awhile you just stop having those nasty cravings. lol. .

I hope everyone is having a great week! Stay positive! :)

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Originally Posted by Thinker (Post 561467)
I've been working on my addiction to sweets. It's a mental thing for me, ya know... So I've been working on getting to where I'm just not interested in the donuts, Blizzards, Oreos, etc... Last week was a real turning point for me, so I'm feeling more hopeful.

On Saturday I had a Blizzard, and it made me feel like sh*t. My stomach hurt and later, when I was in the shower, I sort of felt grossed out that I had eaten it. THAT is where I need to get with it, and I feel like I'm pretty damn close! :)

Have a good week, y'all!!


JustJo 04-10-2012 07:24 AM

Good morning healthies :rrose:

Rough last couple days and I've weakened and hit the Easter candy. I have decided that, right now, I don't care. I'm getting through this however I get through it....and am congratulating myself that I still went to Curves.

Ironically, my scale is not showing it...and instead shows me already losing the 2 lbs I gained in AZ...so maybe the "forgetting to eat" part is cancelling out the Easter candy consumption.

In either case, not healthy but the best I can do at this exact moment.

One foot in front of the other, right?

And Hollylane....I LOVE the chicken, turkey analogy! I usually think in terms of bags of flour, but I think I prefer your method. :)

Novelafemme 04-10-2012 07:29 AM

Good Morning All!

Katy woke up this morning feeling GREAT! Her tummy was smaller and she felt clear headed and "light". She is looking forward to another day of juicing and is feeling really proud of herself.

Thanks again for all the encouragement! It really helps :)

Thinker 04-10-2012 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by ruffryder (Post 562209)
Good morning everybody!

Isn't it funny when we have a sweet or junk food craving and we cave into it then we don't feel so good afterward and think why did I just do that? I think that helps that next time you will make the healthy food choice instead. After awhile you just stop having those nasty cravings. lol. .

I hope everyone is having a great week! Stay positive! :)

Couldn't agree with you more...

deedarino 04-10-2012 07:58 AM

Lost another "chicken"!!! The best part is when the second number on the scale goes down :-)

I started my class and have been doing pretty good...yesterday the room was filled with about 10 athletic type men; usually I would be so intimidated I would leave but not this time! I got right on those weight machines, right in front of those dudes, right in front of that GIGANTIC mirror...LOL. Yeah, gonna have to work on that one.


What do you guys think of coconut milk? I found one by Silk that is very good. It has less sugar content than milk but it is cane sugar. Does this matter?


3.6 Turkeys lost.....(love this!)

sylvie 04-10-2012 09:00 AM


Good Morning Healthies..
Today marks a "get it all in order" kind of day for me, and buckling down more, because i know i now need more , unless i just want to maintain..

i love organizing (that's part of my OCD) , however making lists and hanging reminders and doing research and making a "plan" helps me stay on the path to where i am aiming for.. So today, i am working on that..

~~~~~

i would like to share something though.. Today, i had an appointment and things didn't go quite how i wished they would - and i was kind of disappointed.. In the past, maybe even a couple of months ago, dealing with that disappointment always brought me negative feelings & being hard on myself, and would cause me to not believe i could do it anymore and give up..

But today, rather than doing that, i accepted the reality of it, and pushed myself a step further and thought " no sylvie, you want this, you're doing this and there are other ways which will be harder work, but you CAN do this.." And so i walked out of that appointment knowing i have a some hard work to do, but hell if i can do recovery & weight loss, i can do anything...And i'm worth that work..

It feels good, to be at that mark in my journey, that i believe in myself, and i go for it anyway...And while my appointment had nothing to do with weight loss or my recovery, it's all connected.. The self esteem and confidence i have been building on from this journey, is the reason i have such a positive attitude today..

And so i am loving that reward of self-care.. ♥

JoSchmooze 04-10-2012 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by starryeyes (Post 561974)
I am so so so sick of yo-yoing these 10 lbs. I am trying to get the switch flipped on in my brain again so I can become fully committed to being healthy. The weight just CREEPS up out of nowhere for me. I know I am eating bad and not on track, so of course it creeps up but wow. I just need to keep myself on track for the rest of my life which is scary for me. I want to do this and get this 20 lbs off!!! I went to the gym with my roommate today an had a great workout. It felt good! I am going to commit myself again. I know the results come just as fast as when they creep on. I CAN do this. I CAN do this!! Grrrr!

Many of us here talk about "healthy" weight loss...
I think (IMO) it's because all of us have struggled
for so long with "food addiction"....
Whether it's binge and purge or just plain binging..
whether it's low self esteem or "hiding" within ourselves...
Or whether it's just that we make excuses, it all comes down
to some sort of food addiction.
And any 12 step program tells us that it is
"one day at a time"....no one can stand up and say,
"I HAVE to do this for the rest of my life"
and not feel some sort of pang of guilt or shame or whatever....

This is my thought for today.....
I can do this...for this meal, for this day, for this workout....
I can do 1 more minute on the bike, I can lift this damned bar over my head just one more time...
I can walk away this minute from the junk food....I can get in that
kitchen and start tossing all the crap that I shouldn't be eating....
I don't care about tomorrow, I need to worry about right now....

Just my two cents worth....

:byebye:

Lady_Di 04-10-2012 11:10 AM

Love reading the posts here. We are not alone in this adventure.

Someone mentioned hating water, I too had that issue. I like to drink tea, or sometimes just putting a tea bag in the water makes it more palatable.. A tip from my doctor, who has a specialty in bariactrics. Importance of water can not be overstated. I am doing better with it lately, on an organic lemon kick and for me, since I do not have a sweet tooth, I just have my lemon water. Very refreshing.

One of the women in one of my Paleo groups puts a whole gallon of purified water in the fridge every morning, with her organic lemons cut up and organic cucumbers. It sounded lovely, so I bought my cucumbers yesterday. Will let you know how it works for me.

Herbal tea current fav is a lemon and rose hips blend. Again, refreshing and no caffeine. I have also been enjoying Cinch from Shaklee, these little individual sticks of wonderful mata teas, a white, red and green mix of some proprietary blend, has also been wonderful for me to increase my fluid intake. Has a nice burst of energy, which I often lack. Whatever works for you, I say.

I also take supplements and will have to the rest of my life, as I did have surgical intervention a long time ago, which I never really took advantage of. These are the best supplements I have ever tried, too. Nice discovery of how much different I feel when I started taking them in January. It was dramatic. Vit D deficiency is not a good thing, nor is low calcium when I am in the beginning stages of osteopenia. I surely want to prevent osteoporosis if possible. My ever shrinking mother is a warning of what could happen, if I am not careful. And I am short enough, darn it!

I am lucky, I prefer healthy foods to most foods out there. Though I have some notable exceptions, my salty fat tooth demands attention with something crisp. Celery does not cut it always, though I love it, too... but when you are craving a potato chip, well you know how it goes. So after my weigh in yesterday, I went ahead and splurged on a bag of chips. One good thing I learned from my ex, how to buy a small bag and just enjoy it. I will not deprive myself, I will not bring on a binge. Eating healthy has so many of its own rewards, reinforcements. Love it. Lightening up on every level. Mind, body and soul. Getting my house in order. Happiness.

Very cool to hear someone else is using Spark People, I love it there. Though I have not been very active lately, it is a good reminder to use it. His book, too... so dang inspiring. The accountability of the food tracker, exercise/activity tracker is priceless. Free too, love that. Every type of support team imaginable there, too!

My weigh in yesterday went really well. I qualified for the Dr Oz's Transformation Challenge, lost the 10%! I probably won't win. But I keep telling myself, stranger things have happened.

I worked really hard with my eye on that prize mentality. Which I was thinking yesterday that I do really well with some prize to work towards. Time to make some new prizes I can give myself for the next 10%. Coolest thing about this is I have not been this weight since I was in my 20's, a good while back. Feels awesome!

Thank you for the support I feel so very much here. More than I have had in many a year.

Keep Coming Back!

d

Lady_Di 04-10-2012 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by deedarino (Post 562236)
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What do you guys think of coconut milk? I found one by Silk that is very good. It has less sugar content than milk but it is cane sugar. Does this matter?

I believe sugar matters, but that is me. I do have some of the Silk Coconut milk, but have not been all that impressed. I think the sugar content is too high, and sugar is like shards of glass within your blood vessels. Yikes, no?

What does impress me however is organic coconut oil, bottled in glass. I highly recommend it for anyone trying to lose wt. Amazing stuff. And they are now starting to sell it in normal stores at a very decent price. Shocking, I know.

girl_dee 04-10-2012 02:59 PM

ok i did it, i almost chickened out in the parking lot but i did it, i stepped on a scale and went to a WW meeting. i have between 15-20 pounds to lose. I am fighting not getting obsessed with the scale numbers and more about feeling better and enjoying my clothes a lot more.

On a happy note the meeting was motivational and the program is easy and promising. (Fruit is 0 points now!) i can do this very easily!

Ginger 04-10-2012 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee (Post 561946)


i recently read a story about a woman, self proclaimed couch potato who adopted a rescue dog, The dog required 3 nice walks a day, so she walked (not stopped to allow the dog to pee at ever blade!) and lost 30 pounds without a diet, she and the dog are in great shape now. My little dixi pup could walk for acres, and we've got 200 here so no reason i should not be out there enjoying our hiking. i used to love hiking at one time, and she loves to explore so that is my goal, to not think of the E (exercise) word but to think of the A (activity) word which is what works for me. i feel so outta shape and i can't have that!

i wonder if scramble counts and an activity ;)


Dee, I know you live in a beautiful place, from your posts and pics, and I can totally see you out there grooving on where you are, enjoying it with the pup. That's a great plan!! Nice to see you here :)

It sounds like your goal is kind of like mine, so I feel sort of validated by that. Here's the latest update on the 15-20 pound loss I'm trying to orchestrate:

I was down five pounds Friday morning, then up three this morning, four days later! And that's after a weekend in which I resisted key lime pie, biscuits, the bread basket at restaurants, pound cake—I was totally in control of what I put in my mouth!

When I stepped on that scale it was like studying really hard and still getting an 'F'. But there have been a lot of posts here about the one-step-forward, two-steps-back nature of weight loss, here. It's the long run that matters, and it doesn't matter how long the long run lasts, IMO.




Ginger 04-10-2012 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee (Post 562471)
ok i did it, i almost chickened out in the parking lot but i did it, i stepped on a scale and went to a WW meeting. i have between 15-20 pounds to lose. I am fighting not getting obsessed with the scale numbers and more about feeling better and enjoying my clothes a lot more.

On a happy note the meeting was motivational and the program is easy and promising. (Fruit is 0 points now!) i can do this very easily!

Yeah!! My sister got her cholesterol under control and she and her husband lost a lot of weight in the process, with Weight Watchers. The meals are delicious and healthy. I spent two weeks with them this winter, enjoying them!

(Apologies to those who have heard this already)

I hope you enjoy the WW group and find support and community there.


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