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lmao the voice of experience! |
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Do not make fun of and laugh at others behind their back and enjoy how "bad" you are being. Especially when you were with these people not five minutes ago and acted as though they were your best friend.
And don't tell me such personal details about you and your exes sex life, making fun of them and how they "performed". Because, I will know right then and there that you can never be trusted. And a good relationship is all about trust. |
don't ignore the red flags, they mean STOPRIGHTNOW!!!!!!
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I know a LOT of people will not agree with me on this one. BUT for ~ME~
What I have learned not to do in a relationship: Combine finances. Apply for joint ownership of any debt. |
what NOT to do in a relationship.............
get into one!!!
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Unless it is the ONLY electrical outlet in the house, don't put your phone on the charger in another room and then get so engrossed watching music videos on You Tube that you fail to notice that several hours have passed since you should have received a call from someone.
Don't act like it was no big deal - especially since it was NOT the first time it happened. Don't fail to apologize. |
This one I learned the hard way-
Dont agree to monogamy, when you are really wanting polyamoury. And Vice Versa!!! The resentments that built on this choice had me doing 4th step work for m o n t h s. UGH. |
don't try to hide or cover up for something.
own up to it and apologize, then work on not letting it happen again. nobody is perfect, but we can strive |
If I am totally engrossed in something that requires a lot of concentration, please do not interrupt me at 9am to ask me what I want for lunch. :|
Warning, football season starts Thursday night. Need I say more? |
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don't flippin keep lying to me then expect me to believe anything you tell me later. and don't get all bent when I remind you of the above either! if we argue, don't throw it out there that someone else would treat you better- really, if that's the case- then get your ass out and go get her. and don't expect me to sit idly while you make up your mind about the above, or while you play around with different versions of ME. if you can.... then so will I. don't take me for granted.... ever. and for cripes sake.... don't eat all but 1 of the oreo's. that's uncalled for. :fastdraq: |
Don't go knockin' my pop tarts!:annoyed:
Ok seriously, don't yack my ear off as soon as I come through the door. I need a few minutes to breathe, go to the bathroom or whatever before I am ready to engage and listen. |
Dont make me your option and everything and everyone else your priority... I will walk every time
Dont get denfensive when I try and talk to you about problems. Never ever hold affection or sex over my head as a form of punishment cause you are mad at me... When I try and be affectionate with you never ever turn me away. Dont ever get jealous of my femme friends. They were here before you got here and will always be around. I do however know how to make YOU priority as my girl. And you will never feel less than MOST important in my life. Do not physically or emotionally abuse me or attempt to make me feel less than in any way. Talk down to me or scream at me too and I will walk away in a heartbeat Dont white lie or lie. Tell me straight up. If you are my best friend and Im with you there should be no lies or white lies between us. I should trust you without reservation or question Dont cheat emotionally or physically. |
dont play me as a fool. Dont misjudge how many brain cells I have active...or rely on how much leeway your charm will buy you. The days are long gone where I abide to be with someone who will do either with me
dont tell me what to say or do or wear. I let one person in my life do that. And looking back, he wore stained clothes, smelled like manure and spouted hateful things against minorities most of the time. Again, the days are long gone where I abide to be with someone who will do this to me again. |
make her earn your trust...
for goddess sake... listen to your fukn guts... they dont lie... most times.... if you think it... it will be so... unless of course you might be a paranoiac... then... ignore this message... |
message to self.....
always remember and never forget: ~ trust your instincts. Call it womens intuition, gut feeling, the voice of experience....if you feel it, there is a good reason for it. Ignore it at your own peril. ~ never get drawn into gimmicks, personas, images and the like. Reality is a lot more satisfying than fantasy. ~ differences may attract, be exciting for a bit, invigorating for a while but it is sameness and similarity which brings peace and harmony. ~ seek that which will surround you with peace and positivity. Not difficult. Just choose the opposite of your initial impression. Sorry, private joke. ~ if it makes you think too much, rationalize at all, makes you unsettled, makes you uncomfortable, makes you question "can I live with this?" - turn and walk in the other direction. Good things seldom require that much effort. |
For pete's sake dont drink all of my dr pepper :)
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Believe everything you are told Trust too quickly Rush into something blindly ...it takes a long time to really know who someone really is....true colors do shine through if you give it time. |
Don't overanalyze or overthink.
Don't expect me to feed your insecurities. Don't say, "You know what your problem is...?" Don't tell me what to eat or how to spend my money. |
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