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Blade 12-30-2010 03:23 AM

I'm getting to old to be getting up at 4 am to get ready for work.........fishing yes........work no

JakeTulane 12-30-2010 09:42 AM

I have some pretty serious boundaries. Once someone tries to cross them (when they have already been discussed).. Mr. Prickly Porcupine goes to Mr. Sock With Quarters as fast as a change in a phone booth.

Gráinne 12-30-2010 12:16 PM

That it's a waste of time to worry about 'Oh dear, what are other people going to think?" That really, you just have to be real to yourself and what you want and anyone else who doesn't like it can just jump off a pier.

(assuming you're not hurting yourself or anyone else).

lipstixgal 12-30-2010 12:53 PM

I realize that after all these years of sewing that I make mistakes; I just cut out a pattern wrong and now I need more material for the skirt oh well, its a good thing the fabric store is open tomorrow..:|:blink:

Kobi 12-30-2010 02:17 PM

The older I get, the more I realize my peace of mind is more important than anything else.

Soft*Silver 12-30-2010 04:50 PM

the older I get the harder Christmas cookies are to avoid and then to get off

Blade 12-31-2010 09:39 PM

the older I get the more I realize that New Years Eve isn't nearly as important to me as it use to be. Maybe I'm just getting to be an ole fart, but I'm thinking I'll be in bed before the fireworks start.

Kenna 01-01-2011 12:15 AM

TOIGTMIR....

what, who and which goals are more important to me....and that personal sacrifices aren't necessarily always a part of my "survival/crisis mode", that personal sacrifice(s) can be a good thing - that I shouldn't feel such a negative loss from letting go - and those sacrifices can make the important things even more important and cherished to me.

TOIGTMIR....

how important it is to live in a "proactive mode" instead of constantly in a "survival/crisis mode" or the physical or mental crash that comes after the crisis has been dealt with.

TOIGTMIR.....

how much strength I have within....and how good it feels to be comfortable with "coming into my own" after a very difficult journey.

JustLovelyJenn 01-01-2011 12:12 PM

The older I get the more I realize...

... I just cant party like I used to.

... My body wont let me abuse it anymore... I must pay the consequences.

storyofmylife 01-15-2011 04:06 AM

the older I get, the more I realize......
I need eye glasses
:seeingstars:

HoneyedChrysanthemum 01-15-2011 04:40 AM

the older i get...
 
the more i realize that patience is a necessity and a virtue. that MY timeline is not necessarily that of the Heavens.

the more i realize that there is only so much of oneself that can be given in self-sacrifice before being consumed by that quiet fire altogether. a time comes when i MUST think of myself first or else i cannot help anyone else.

the more i value the joys of solitude AND those of companionship. they must balance and complement each other in a relationship of whatever kind. both are necessary to my being.

the more i value the little happinesses: the savouring of a good cup of tea. the comfort of a loved ones arms. the journey of a fascinating book...

the more i enjoy the easy companionship this site. rare to find such varied people united by the Dance

thank you for this thread. i have appreciated reading the conclusions of others. they make me reflect upon what is important to me!


pres :moonstars:

StillettoDoll 01-15-2011 06:02 AM

the older i get i realize......
 
That fast food really taste bad .

Starbuck 01-15-2011 03:49 PM

The older I get, the more I realize that when I was little and my momma sneezed and yelled "shit!", it's not funny now!

sharonsuburbia 01-15-2011 03:53 PM

the older i get the less i give a flying fish - i can be the teenager (with money) i never had the chance to be :hangloose::blueheels:

Guy 01-15-2011 04:17 PM

Less really is more

sharonsuburbia 01-15-2011 04:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Guy (Post 266482)
Less really is more

it is quality
:moonstars:

Nightshade 01-15-2011 05:06 PM

Said in the voice of Sgt Schultz...
 
The older I get the more I realize...

I know NOTHING!!

CrankyOldGuy 02-14-2011 04:10 PM

For the easily distracted
 
....I'm listening to people in 140-character-or-less increments.

Andrew, Jr. 03-09-2011 12:48 PM

The older I get, the more I realize...
 

I am still colorblind. Ask Moonie or ADG. :D:freak::giggle::cheerleader:

scootebaby 03-09-2011 12:59 PM

the older i get the more i realize

...i'm not as agile as i used to be
...if i dont bend over just the right way,i'll be calling for assistance to straighten back up
...the 80's will never come back
...i'm sayng the same thing to my kid that i heard as a child..i.e "i hope you grow up and have 3 JUST like you"
...

Passionaria 03-09-2011 11:46 PM

The older I get the more I realize:

That people who are constantly professing to be Spiritual probably are not.

That honor, kindness, and integrity are more markers of a Spiritual being, then reciting Dogma.

That I should trust my instincts more, so I am bamboozled less.

That my children and parents are the ones I can always turn too. And some truly delicious friends!

That I should no longer engage in one way relationships, unless it involves a child. Sigh, I'm learning.

That the Universe sends some real interesting people my way, MUAGH for that! I am Grateful.

:cat:




Diva 03-09-2011 11:55 PM

The older I get, the more I realize.....

~how tired I am of pussy~footin' around.

~it's the best time of my life!

~just how blessed I am!



AtLast 03-10-2011 03:01 AM

The older I get the more I realize I need at least a 34 inch TV. And that I remain a very good catch!

Greyson 03-10-2011 08:52 AM

The older I get the more I realize time is fleeting. Physical immortality is not an option. Try to live and be the person I have always wanted to be. Forgive others and myself. Be mindful.

princessbelle 03-10-2011 09:26 AM

The older i get the more i realize that

....i am way stronger than i've ever given myself credit for.

....that i am so THANKFUL i found these sites that have opened my eyes and heart and helped me realize what a femme is and that that is who i've always been.

....that friendships are to be cherished, protected and held up high and respected.

....that life is so precious, fast and to hug every second of it and live life to the fullest.

....that loving someone is a wonderful place to be, and being loved back is just freaking amazing.

Andrew, Jr. 03-10-2011 10:46 AM

The older I get, the more I realize...
 

*I can no longer fast for Lent.

*My salt & pepper hair is here to stay.

*Calling Rosie to find the remote control to the TV is the norm now.

*Loving another human being is a gift. Friendships I have I cherish.

Jess 03-10-2011 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scootebaby (Post 298009)
the older i get the more i realize

...i'm not as agile as i used to be
...if i dont bend over just the right way,i'll be calling for assistance to straighten back up
...the 80's will never come back
...i'm sayng the same thing to my kid that i heard as a child..i.e "i hope you grow up and have 3 JUST like you"
...


damned shame about the 80's
:dance2:

Andrew, Jr. 03-11-2011 11:18 AM

The older I get, the more I realize...
 

*The more Mother Nature wins out over everything else.

*No matter what I say or do, some people are takers/givers. I need to find more givers. My energy level is gone for the takers.

*How concerned I am over my legacy I am going to leave to my nieces and nephews.

*I too love 80's music. But I do enjoy Johnny Mathis, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, and the Rat Pack.

miss entycing 03-11-2011 11:43 AM

the older i get, the more i realize...
that whatever i do, whatever i say, whatever i feel...
or however hard i try...
it always pisses somebody off.
and, being just me is never enough, or good enough, or true enough...
to please anybody anymore.


diamondrose 03-11-2011 12:36 PM

The world is absolutely unpredictable!

cane 03-12-2011 07:10 AM

The older I get the more I realize.

Blade 03-12-2011 09:29 AM

the older I get them more I realize the happiness the simple things in life bring me

The_Lady_Snow 03-12-2011 09:47 AM

Lucky I am...

RockOn 03-12-2011 09:48 AM

The older I get, the more I find I like uncomplicated people, things, etc. ... and am realizing I am enjoying being older. (54 years old right now) I was talking to a friend the other day about what a simple life I lead - on purpose! It is nice to feel content, not have to worry about trying to outdo anyone or "shine" in any way ... but to only be comfortable being my "simpleton" self. LOL! Once in a great while, when I find I am interacting with a person who seemingly is buying into their own inflated ego and perhaps trying to "one up" me or exhitbit how much smarter, etc. they are than me ... I let them ... and then quietly dismiss them from my life. Same thing for gamers ... if people are still playing games at 50+ that is fine but not someone I want to be around.
Things of this nature drain my positive energy.

Life is too good these days. I am so blessed in many ways.
:)

musicman 03-12-2011 10:11 AM

The older I get the more I realize.....
 
That I haven't changed, If you liked me in my 20's you will like me in my 40's. If you didn't like me in my 20's you sure aren't going to like me in my 40's.

I still have a zero tolerance to BS, I still say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm still...... just........me. No more and no less. I still love with a passion, still compassionate, loving, kind, considerate.

Andrew, Jr. 03-13-2011 04:42 PM

The older I get, the more I realize...
 

*Life can change on a dime

*I can laugh at myself

*Nobody can tell me how to live my life without paying my bills, mortgage, and so on

hpychick 03-13-2011 05:03 PM

That:
  • Rules are just rules.
  • Rules are meant to be broken.
  • Rules are d. u. m. b.
  • I'm becoming a big time rule-breaker.

    Throwing caution to wind! Hot Dogs for everybody!

Andrew, Jr. 03-14-2011 03:56 PM

The older I get, the more I realize...
 

*I walk slower than most;

*I love to wear an undershirt with my shorts or pants all year long;

*Technology is wayyyy past my understanding;

*I love my nieces and nephews now that they are adults.

bigbutchmistie 03-14-2011 04:39 PM

That:

I need passion romance affection honesty loyalty and so much more from a relationship. I require the same that I offer. I wont be with someone who doesnt give it.

That Ive lived the first half of my life without love acceptance and affection. Im making steps to change that to leave that in the past. I will have and be with someone who loves me and doesnt try and change me.

People arent meant to be alone. God made made Adam N Eve and animals a mate when He created them.

Learning to love me has taught me what a damn good catch I am. One really needs to be a good catch as well to even attract my attention.

Having a wonderful career and being blessed enough to have what I need is bittersweet. Having no one to share t with would just be the icing on the cake so to speak.

Sachita 03-14-2011 04:59 PM

That each moment counts and even the small shit is important.


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