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How that so and so in Maryland is going to be spending MY Lottery winnings LMAO
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Cold Pizza for breakfast sounds yummy! What is it about cold pizza?
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Amazed that I sat through a whole movie without someone pushing on my seat or finding a leg on my arm rest... :| (haven't gone to the movies in years lol) Went to see The Hunger Games... It was good... :beatnik: Now I'm going to try to get some sleep... *crossing fingers* :praying:
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I updated my CV yesterday in readiness for a new chapter in my life. Oh boi! I've done so much in my life already.....LOL!
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I'm not a huge horror/thriller/suspense film kind of gy but for some reason I'm wanting to see the movie SE7EN... I've never seen it.
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Wondering why I'm getting the cold shoulder ??? (w)
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I have a direction in life that I'm focused on in achieving my goal, even if it takes me ages to get there.....I will get there! :D
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ohhhh gooody!! I will so NOT miss this retrograde shiot...makes people nucking futz and lose their minds and senses!!! lmao Ty Mystress Myschief...and I will ALWAYS be Myster Myschief!!!
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Very BAD/GOOD things :|
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Just the things that have me smiling lately.. Its so good to smile and laugh and be carefree..
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knowing she has to leave in the next hr. I have been with her most all of the last week...except two days/nights...and I don't like "being alone" all that much...:(. BUT I do have appointments and such to keep me busy! Have things I need to get lined up...and all for getting my things out of storage in Fla. in about 3 weeks...:)>
My long weekend of just my BFF & I in about 5 weeks....we gonna toss the cells and laptops and just chill and enjoy the time....grins...will be an awesome weekend....grins...I can hardly wait!!! The scans & labs I have to get done on the long weekend my BFF is here BUT knowing she will be with me for them....it will all be okay....:)> Knowing that I am so very blessed with some incredible people in my life...I would rather have quality vs. quantity!!! Having my "quiet space" again.....:)......priceless!!!! |
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Getting ready to leave...Clay's outside checking my Barbie car...i hate this part of our time together...it's so hard to drive without my glasses cuz i'm crying...but hy always knows just the right thing to say that makes me laugh...and that Rascal, just when i think i can't possibly love hym any more than i do, hy says or does something so wonderful that i fall in love with hym all over again and even deeper than before...i am one richly blessed femme to have my Beloved SSBP in my life...i love you Baby!
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Thinking back over the last 3 years and marveling at how I have continued to be true to myself while learning what it is like to live life for myself. I learned that it really IS ok to follow my own dreams and desires and not someone elses... I have been blessed to have a selfless person to teach me that...
I used to not even be able to make my own decisions on what I wanted to eat, where I wanted to go, what movies I wanted to watch because they were made for me... It took me a long time to allow myself to believe that... I am amazed when looking at how much growth I have experienced and realizing how very much I have lived up to my own true self..a self I didnt really realize could even exist |
Live Love Laugh .......
Take everything good into ur self
hold it nurture it feed ur soul dont sweat the small stuff ( it's mostly small stuff!) fill ur life with light laugh at ur self everyday there is the fabled cosmic 2 x 4 we are never promised tomorrow all we truly have is today |
Just chatting with a young lady on the site here
and tryin to find answers to life's mysteries and one answer we came up with
A weakness is the over use of a strength ........ |
This is not something to live or die for... to negotiate between friends and lovers... It’s something to appreciate while you’re alive and not squander before you’re dead...
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Random moments of tonight....
Bouncing balls, string lights, dancing, half remembered jokes, apple pies, deep conversations, laughter, chonies, circuit breakers, 317 miles and not forgetting the whipped creme. :) |
...how awesome this father is
A Father's Reaction to His Very Young Gay Son
Over the past few months my wife, HuffPost blogger Amelia, has been asked numerous times what I think about our 7-year-old son identifying as gay. This is not something I thought I'd be writing so soon (OK, honestly, I never thought I would be writing a blog on an internationally known news website). When my wife and I were expecting our first child, we discussed what we would do if he or she were born with a disability or with a foot growing out of his or her head. Dealing with a child with a disability would be a life-changing event and something that we had to think about a lot. Possibly having a gay son or daughter wasn't like that. We didn't even have to discuss it, because it wouldn't be a problem. Although the head-foot would need to be dealt with immediately, we assumed we had 15 years or so before any of our kids said they were gay. You know what they say about assuming: it makes all the asses come out in the comment sections of blogs -- people who don't know anything about my son other than the few guarded things my wife has written, and yet they seem to think they know so much. Let me say that most of the comments have been very supportive, and it's great to see the same people come to Ameila's defense whenever the occasional jerk butts into the conversation with some homophobic ideas. And many of jerk-butts (and some of the normal people, too) want to know what I think about this whole "gay thing." The idea that I would be immediately disappointed/angry/suicidal that my son identifies as gay offends me, both as a father and simply as a human. It seems the further we all move along into the 21st century in terms of technology, the more some parts of society regress to the 1950s -- or the Victorian era, if we're being honest -- when it comes to ideas of social mores and attitudes on certain subjects: Ward Cleaver would have been angry if the Beaver had come out of the closet, so surely a father 60 years later would have the same reaction. I mean, come on, that's only common sense! Excuse me while I roll my eyes for an hour or two. I don't see how a father, or any parent, can look at their son, the one they've loved since before the child was even born, and upon hearing him say, "Dad, I'm gay," turn their back on him. The comments from men much older than me telling stories just like that break my heart. My wife always wants to adopt the teenage kids who write to her; I want to adopt the 60-year-old men who cry when they read that I tell my son how awesome he is. I don't care if they are as old as my father; they deserve love just as much as anyone else. So many of the negative comments have been funny to Amelia and me because the people writing them obviously don't know our son. "Isn't your son's father going to miss teaching him sports?" "Isn't not having your child get married going to just break your heart?" "How does his father react to the prancing flamer that your son must be?" First of all, as I write this, my shoulder is sore from throwing a football with him earlier. He loves sports (American Football is his favorite), and he can throw a really nice spiral, especially for a 7-year-old (although if he grows up to be my size, he'll either be a fine defensive end or the heaviest quarterback in the history of the NFL). And again, he's 7: as far as he's concerned, he's going to play all the positions -- at the same time. And if tomorrow he wants to start ballet classes, we will go to all his recitals and cheer him on just as loudly as if he were on the 50-yard line. Getting married is up to him; single or married, he's still my son. If he and his maybe-some-day-far-far-in-the-future boyfriend want to tie the knot, they just need to tell his mother and me where to be, and we'll be there. Hopefully by then they can get married in whichever state they want, but if not, we'll just travel to one of the cool states and have a great time. And the "flamer" comments... where to begin? Do effeminate men exist? Of course. Are all gay men effeminate? Of course not. But does it matter? Whether he grows up to be the manliest man in all mandom or the most effeminate guy to ever hit the drag-show circuit, he is my son. I want him to be loved, comfortable with himself and his friends, and happy. If that means he's the next RuPaul or Joe Montana (or just that nice guy in Accounts Receivable), he will know that being himself is important, no matter who he ends up growing into. And he will always know that his father loves him. |
My eyes are sleepy.. I am fighting it... I want to play for a little while longer... :waitinggirl:
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My new double insulated garage door with belt driven opener getting installed when i get off work in morning....YES!
its a good thought. |
One of our servers experienced a glitch last Friday. My supervisor was out. I should have noticed it but didn't. Of course it had to be the production server. I'm not going to try to do any cover-up for myself in terms of damage control or attempt to blame anyone else ... I don't operate that way. It may be an interesting morning. The fix will involve having to wire up a quick and dirty utility app to retrieve some data. I do know one of the chiefs was pretty pissed off. I chose not to call him last Friday. Instead, I decided not to be selfish and to gift my supervisor with a Monday morning treat. Allow him the fun of calling the chief. :)
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how in the picture thread, there are no words yet a constant conversation happening, i love it.
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Thinks the next up coming months are going to be pretty good :) hope the sun continues to shine.
What is on my mind also is how nice and calm things have been this year so far for the most part. (f) |
The promise of a beautiful day with loads of opportunities to "get it right".
And planning. Always planning. |
Need to get some papers written today, but SUPER excited for our day with Jeni in LaCrosse tomorrow!
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Too much, mostly "why?"
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bills to be paid
errands to run work need aspirin need sleep a certain red-head. She'll be in the mail soon. pay day can't get here fast enough Cadbury creme eggs - - the fudge one is good. |
how songs can affect us so deeply,make us do things we know we shouldnt. The power of music lol smh
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music sure can do that .. slides up and down the whole length of hys body
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So the big news is that ABC is doing a story on women who get the combination of cosmetic surgery procedures that make up what is known as the "Mommy Makeover", and Dr. Rose has chosen my oldest daughter to be his patient! Tuesday (4/3) is the day!!! ♥ So very excited for her! More news to follow on when it airs~ |
I need to get used to getting stared at more often again, purple hair!
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My baby girl ~
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Kenny Rodgers singing, "you gotta know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away, know when to run..."
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Narrowly escaping a "driving without headlights on " ticket. I went out briefly earlier to pick up a certain drill bit at Sears. I am drilling holes in numerous 10+ gallon buckets readying for my tomato plants. I crammed my visa and driver's license in my back pocket on my way out the door. This policeman wanted to see my insurance card too. I didn't have it but managed to produce FEB 2012 tag receipt and work security card with photo on it. I turned on my interior light when he stopped me and made a big production of unfastening my seatbelt - which I was not wearing. I knew he'd order me back in my truck when I stepped out ... but had to step out ... why else would I unfasten the seat belt?
He was nice, no ticket. All that chit and did not find the drill bit I needed. Well, my little heart has now finally quit flapping around in there ... so it's all good again. LOL! |
she has been on my mind pretty much all day!
also, making plans to hang out with friends this week .. |
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